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Kayouzka:
No one wins the game of life everyone gets defeated
We fight death only just to die one day
We fight for a name only for that name to be forgotten
We fight for freedom only for that freedom to be watered down by tyranny
Everything decays everything dies
Everything becomes pasttense.
Everything is indeed vanity

Life is not a contest
It is an experience of suffering
Whether you win or lose base on your perspective nor of it matters in the scheme of things

Now you have changed post from life is suffering to the failures of those who were defeated by life and they termination.

Anyone who lives aiming for those things you mentioned have only found themselves plucking air, hence life must be bitter and very empty for them

Diamond098454:
When she catch you tell her not to slap and disgrace the sidechick she should put her frustration on you.

So you are a side chick.

Ah! Forget that one oo. Imposicant. This is where my wife must commit a crime. After or before she stabs me, she and her friends will cutlass her or something,

Diamond098454:
Hmmm🤔🤔🤔🤔 without DNA you will know if a child is yours or not.....? Wow wow...

So you are genz? No wonder.
Anyway, DNA is still a recent thing and people have always been catching paternity fraud

Now i understand, threads like this https://www.nairaland.com/8600512/signs-she-wants-second-round#138341826 deceive us into thinking that our partners will forever be like this, keeping us thinking that they would enjoy sex with us till death.

Meanwhile, they will expire and leave us hungry and unsatisfied as they now hate participating

And as my guy Citroen has just pointed out https://www.nairaland.com/8610958/like-wives-cannot-keep-up

all these hype and gragra ends after years of marriage or togetherness.

The woman now will want only one round every 2 or 3 weeks and she would not want you coming near her again.

And then you would have to look for another woman to have all these things again. And the same thing will still happen to her.

And in the end, all these hype is gone forever and ever. Make e kukuma go now make we rest. If she wants extra, she go talk

essentialone:
Is there a Holy Way to Moan during Sex, as a Christian Lady?

Sex is not holy, so no holy moaning

Dazidon:
What does it really mean

And

What will it mean to die

Life and death both have many meanings some of which you would see presented in people's comments here

Kayouzka:
The meaning of life is suffering
And everything that seems good is there as a bait to put us in the perpetuation of suffering

Die; is the dissolution of what you think you are
And there are many stages

Dissolution of the body (you are not the body)
Dissolution of the ego ( you are not who you think you are)
Dissolution of desires ( there is no you that desires)

Until you are left with pure consciousness

Your very essence
That's where eternal peace lies

Consolation and hope of those defeated by Life

ebubeson:
Normally, it is not proper to request for DNA test from your wife. Your wife should be trusted and loved, and you should have trust over the paternity of your kids, that they are yours.

Trust is earned and protected.

But presumptive trusts always requires verification

So, it is either you trust your wife and you believe the kids are yours or you don't.

Meanwhile, even without DNA we used to know when kids are not yours, so no biggie about DNA

Citroen19digit:
Flowing from the lessons i am learning about marriage and sex and all the information gotten from commenters in my threads, now I have seen another thing that hits us husbands in our marriages.

Now flowing from my last thread
https://www.nairaland.com/8607331/never-marry-not-rich-small and my experience this afternoon, it has just hit me big time another reason why we husbands cheat, no, scratch that, have sex with another woman, for, for today i just experienced a very great and strong need to leave my wife alone and go out to get satisfaction from another woman.

And now I appreciate that, that same tiredness will still fall on the second woman, so reason will dictate that i should not try to have only one woman most especially as I am not even trying to sololize her, so she is free to be unavailable, hence reason immediately tells me that i am free to have women in the waiting.

And so, now I see how amd why a faithful devoted may go straight from there to a man with a string of girl/women sex friends.

Or, if my wife had a sister, cousin or friend too close who has been calling me since but I was ignoring, tomorrow, if I still feel like this i just might answer their call or may even make the call myself.

Hmmm! You are on point

This explains why I sometimes want to travel without the wife. I could sense that there is an advantage to being absent from her life

Solofresh2:
.. No need long talk or announcement. Just stop. If she appear again, greet am fine, but make you busy. Your silence go talk pass thousand words....

She go change pattern and start to dey over love blast the guy and the simi go fall.

Saytan has started using this one again..

Was it the same day?

No.

Even before the world ends, you would know what Pharoah and Egypt experienced when they became enemies of God

NOETHNICITY:
Bro, you are wasting your time in Christianity. Trust me, it has zero salvation. I was Christian growing up.

You practiced churchianity and not Christianity which is why you are not saved

Eniitankorede:
Read the verse below and tell me who is cursed:

1 Corinthians 14:34 Women should remain silent in the churches. They are not allowed to speak, but must be in submission, as the law says. 35 If they want to inquire about something, they should ask their own husbands at home; for it is disgraceful for a woman to speak in the church.

See how you Muslims show you are over wrong? The topic is about you corsd Muslims, but here you are twisting it and deflecting it to cosd women.

Natbrowny:
God has two sides. The other side of GOD runs this world.

Stop deceiving yourself. Two opposing cannot rule a ship

And God has already laid out His Plans against His enemies so you see there is no confusion.

I thought it was about the Mary who stayed clean and a virgin till God found her worthy to carry His Son even when all her mates had turned olosho.

That too cannot be taken away from her

See it sex again.

Yet, people wonder why Christians are always attacking sex

QuinQ:
We're talking of FORMER. She slept with 1000 men, not that she's sleeping with them

It is obvious that you do not know that there is nothing like FORMER. That number always increases until she has a sickness that stops her.

cr7lomo:
Then also...a woman has no right to demand for money from the husband, if he isn't willing to give her.. and if she takes money without his consent...she should be arrested for theft

Sure. An eye for an eye

jaxxy:
I'm sure ur mama has eyes to aviod the bench or she don't look where she's going?

yes I will blame ur mama for not looking.

Same as blaming the evil woman who with open eyes opened a pit for a person to fall into. And i thank God that in justice, He makes life punish and distroyy the evil thing

melechpilusof:
I don't want to teach you anything unless you are paying. Moreover, religious topics are always protracted.
If a kid asks me that question, I will seek his permission to ask him a question before answering his question and that question is; what is you current view on God?

When you talk in a forum you are teaching and therefore questions and responses naturally flow without permission from there with logic ruling the conversation.

And the topic on ground is not about religion so, if you are interested then raise a thread on it

cr7lomo:
The devil is using people like u and those woke ignorant marriage killers to kill the union of marriage that God designed to help better the world ....

If a woman knows that she isn't ready to give her body at any given time the man asks ...then she should never get married ...

But the same system will say a man that denies supporting his wife financially is committing financial abuse ... women are allowed to say " his money is my money" as long as he's my husband...but they will never accept men saying " her body is my body"....

Shebi she gave her body in the beginning? So it means something is already happening in and to the marriage that is making her withdraw from sex and marriage. Which clearly means that everything whether sex or finances or accommodation should be ready to be terminated immediately quick quick if she does not want to honour the agreement of marriage. So, no sex, just pack her things and keep outside your gate. Shikena. No crime committed

helinues:
And how about your own personal experiences?

Those examples all come out from my personal experience

jaxxy:
Yes i will blame ur mama for not having self control cos many people are setting benches for people to fall but they are not forcing anyone to fall by force or using a gun.

If ur nieces and sisters tell a man to put his hand inside fire so he will do it?

U better know how to take accountablilty of ur self and stop looking for who to blame.

The mere fact that you had to Lie that you will blame your mama for falling over a bench set by your neighbour already proves my case.

budaatum:
Maybe they might listen to you if you tell them, dt.

They have to else they'll be eating stony beans in kuje prison once women start reporting the crime to gdvst

Predictor3:
He has run away from answering the question he posed himself.

Don't mind the joker.

manuelkel:
Exactly, women are the initiators..... exactly why the wives fight the side chicks instead of their husbands because they know women play the games better.

Precisely

cr7lomo:
How can a husband possibly rape his wife... why should his wife deny him sex ?? What she signed for ...

See how you are changing and moving post.

First if a wife refuses to open up to her husband and he forces himself, it is rape. For just as she has a right to end the marriage by removing her consent at any time so also does she have a right to refuse consent to sex at any time.

Secondly, temporary denial of sex for a reasonable time does not amount to denial of sex.

And the fact that she denies you sex does not mean that you have a right to rape her. You too have the remedy of terminating the marriage.

Marriage is not by force and sex is not by force exactly like a job contract

ictplotter:
Allah can’t die, Because He created death and everything . Any god that can die is a fake idol god.

Anything called god that can't die to prove that he created death is fake and an idol like man, baal and dagon and all the other man made empty gods created by the mouths of men