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Antwan99:
That's totally a different scale.

She is just showing how much women hate men. See how she wishes him evil

Jman06:
Sharing of properties can only be enforced if the marriage was contracted in the court. Traditional and Christian marriages do not support sharing the man's properties.

Meanwhile, my marriage would definitely be successful so there won't be need for dragging properties.

See how she is wishing you evil.

Do I not keep saying that women hate men?

Also as you said, there is nothing like sharing of property in Nigeria.

Modified
She is saying all these because a judge in her country just rightfully deprived one lazy wicked husband from sharing what they call community property

Kobojunkie:
Stop spreading what is obviously false information in 2026. 🥱🥱

You only need to engage your brain cells to see how silly the claim up there about delay in pregnancy being responsible for fibroids in women. If a 15 year old girl develops fibroids, does it have to do with her not getting pregnant on time? If a 60-year-old childfree woman never developed uterine fibroids at any point in her life, do we also claim that your reasoning holds? 🥱🥱

The way you blindly rush to defend a thing is a disgraceful. Have you seen a 15yr old with fibroid?

Doctors would tell you that fibroids is a womb crying for a baby and that is why it only falls on women who have not had babies including those who had babies too early.

Are they not the ones raising attraction with their bodies and clothes and voice?

She should shut up. If they wear queen Elizabeth clothes and use their normal voice to speak let us see if there would be attraction

MrEar:
Marriage brings tribulation to a persons life. end of story.

Misery loves company. Don't advise people to marry and suffer like you.

Like you, I5million persons are already ffull of miseries and they are not maarried. https://www.nairaland.com/8606713/15-million-nigerians-drugs-ndlea.

It is those miseries they carry into marriage, it is not the marriage that caused it

AfahaAbia:
Thank you so much for this. It's the resell value I'm looking at because it's a 2 door car.

How do you think of buying a car you have not yet bought oo and you are already looking at reselling it? For what na? Are you expecting it to spoil in a few weeks?

Citroen19digit:
To wealthyonos.

I don't know why they are banning my replies

Even if i put leg, she cannot be satisfied by me. We can not feel it, she needs 2 things,

1) a different man with his different thing and spirit.

And

2) a long thing.

Now, for number 1) i now see what happens to married women and why we men really love to have meet them.

Now, i know that it is because they are very very hungry for any man. Every man that is not their husband is very sweet and exciting whether he has a small thing or not.

And so they must enjoy him and he too must enjoy her because the whole package and experience is very new and electrifying.

And that is why there is always a strong attraction for married women.

And if the guy has a long one, then number 1 and 2 is automatically fulfilled .

Then, say bye bye to your wife because she must fall in love with him for he is her true first. She cannot help it, she just must.

That is why you see girls did not really answer in the thread https://www.nairaland.com/8592186/girl-ever-truly-forget-guy whether they never forget the guy who disvirgined them on the thread

Now, i know as i have been suspecting all along, It is not about who disvirgined her but about who gbenshed her till she scattered in love for him. That is the true first boyfriend they can never forget

So, here is a bad side for marrying a virgin, for there is no rest until she goes through all these experiences.

So, brother, i have to face it, i have expired in her hand like a battery. I can no longer start her engine again.

As, i told her, now I understand why husbands cheat. I believe this is what happens to them.

If only married men had spoken, i would have preferred not to marry or at least marry with a plan

Guy, you dey observe oo, are you an astronomer?

Houseofglam7:
What are we supposed to do with this information ??

Trap for men to make the mistake of pittying lonely women to make the mistake of getting close to them and fvcking them

Everytime, we hear only one single baby mama, why is it only one single baby mama we are always reading about?

Are there not men who are swimming with 2 or more single mamas?

QuinQQ:
Is thst the only thing you saw in the long post??

It was the first weakness of your post proving my point freeing me of the need to argue

QuinQQ:
It's not only he that says it. See the underlined below

Did you see the word "it is viewed"?

As i said "you people are the beginning of your own problems".

MrEar:
rubbish talk.

get married and have tribulation in the flesh.

Tribulation is an achievement abi?

This is after marriage and not whether marriage is an achievement.

And besides, the mere fact you failed in marriage does not mean that it is not an accomplishment.

comedycartoon:
Pain and suffering refine you for the Blessings to come. They are preparation for the greater things to come.

Only if you get it right

QuinQQ:
Educate me.
Here's what he said:
[b]Cum4me:
Honestly I feel marriage is overrated. I'm 37 with a kid out of wedlock. I find it very difficult to allow a woman stay with me too long I like my own space. I don't know who invented this marriage of a thing. There's no way 2 people can live together they must get tired of themselves. Because love is a scam just as religion is a big scam.

Since you say love is a scam and that there is no way that 2 people can live together without getting tired, then no way I can explain it to you.

But the simplest explanation is simply "you are the beginning of your own problems".

Birds of the same feather flock together

QuinQQ:
What did he say there that is so wrong?

If you can't see them, then you need experience to open your eyes

Still happening today

Onegai:
Okay I'll talk about this!

Sexx is natural.

Sexx is beautiful.

Our bodies were made by the Lord to receive and give pleasure. Seriously, a woman's body is designed to please a man's eyes and a man's touch is designed to pleasure a woman's body.

Sexx was not designed to be done between multiple partners, jumping from bed to bed in empty meaningless encounters.

Seriously, do you think anyone on their deathbeds, remembers all the people they knacked fondly? Nope.

Sexx was designed to be an expression of love and intimacy in a safe covenant relationship: Marriage.

Pornography is a bastardisation of everything good about Sexx.

Have you ever seen Porn being shot? Take 1: "oya move like dis" (2 mins later) "Cut! Oya sit down and wait for 40 mins whilst we change lighting and arrange the set, then you will change position. Please when you're carrying her leg up, remember the Camera Man has to be very close for a close-up shot, so bend her leg into this uncomfortable position so we can film well".

Then the male actor is drinking tablets and touching himself, worried that his amu has to stay hard for hours, then female actress is chilling around looking bored during takes.

And it's so degrading, they have to numb themselves with alcohol and drugs to do it day in, day out (go and check, a lot of them end up as users).

So not only is destroying you, it's destroying the actors.

As for you, constant watching of Pornography desensitives you to then emotional and intimate part of Sexx. You begin to think you're not big enough as a man (not realizing camera angle and post production is why those male porn stars look like they're carrying elephant trunk). As a woman, you begin to think extreme sexx acts are what will please your man (engaging in medically hurtful activities like An.al etc).

Your soul, your pure soul, gets destroyed.

Yet you scream when your woman goes to receive the pleasure you cannot give her.

donleo92:
In Africa it's a sin.

In Europe it's a normal thing!!!

Is it that they is no demon there 😞

Those places are the very land of Satan and his league of demons. Do you not see how over evil they are? A land where a father in prisons his own daughters for years and rapes them all the way?

Merry100:
Try not to attribute every pain to failure. We don't know her story or how she met her husband...

When things that previously were going well go wrong, it always means something has failed. And so, the first place to check is what did she do?

femi4:
While ponography has its downside, it has no link with demon

Stop demonizing all your challenges

That is because you are a customed to these demons of pleasure. And to you all pleasurable things are good

Do not fornicate is an example of what people call tough instruction

Very lovely expose

Merry100:
This kind of thinking is narcissistic. It is like saying, "You can't have a headache because I don't," or "That is the same bank I use, so your experience can't be true." Different people can experience the same situation differently; and both can be valid.

Some people would rather protect a familiar narrative than listen to uncomfortable truths. As a result, a lot of pain goes unheard and unacknowledged. It is troubling how easily people dismiss others' experiences. Invalidating someone's feelings simply because they don't align with your beliefs is not logic; it is a lack of empathy. Pain does not need permission to exist.

Marriage does not guarantee affection, presence, or emotional fulfillment. Many people are married and deeply lonely. Some couples are not deeply connected; they are merely coexisting. Walk into the streets and ask married women the last time their husbands said "I love you," showed affection, or made intentional romantic effort. You would understand that many carry unspoken feelings.

There are times in relationships when a partner is physically present but emotionally unavailable. Some people stop investing once the relationship feels secure. This is why time matters, long-term relationships often reveal the true quality of connection.

If you see all the threads on relationships and marriage, you would see everything is in a defined and predictable box, having the eternal opening question of "did you not see all these things before you entered it?

Marriage and relationships ain't that complicated however, it is clear that they go twisted because some has 4ukd up the system.

grandstar:
If a man is cheating, he can forget his wife.

Some men take the wife for granted because she is his. The same can also happen to the woman.

She might put on a lot of weight. She might even have a potbelly. She dresses sloppily, tying wrapper most days. She doesn't go the extra mile to cook him something special. The spark could go out.

It is same for the man. Her loneliness may truly be real.

This one is a man eater. She has just finished digesting one man so she is now hungrily searching for another one. Loneliness is just one of the traps they use and unfortunately, you men are too naeve thinking all the wrong things.

If you were sharp you would know that she is single.

Flangelo12:
Tick Tock Goes the Clock.
⏰️

Guy, guy, guy, how many time did i call you?

Sexyrosey:
Are you sure you are not the OP? Because you seem very invested in refreshing the post 😂.

See, deflection. That means that i am right. You are the same as QueenQQ

Felimax:
I only relate it from the angle that she is married. That is my crux in what she posted.

No problem

QuinQQ:
Something is seriously wrong with you. Someone who never comments on NL was finally pushed to comment due to an issue that touched her heart, then she created a thread about same issue. And u say it's all fake. R u ok sir?

Lover boy, go, answer her call and give her your love. You will see whether it is me who shall cry in regret. And you will remember me

Hmmm! It looks like you and the op are the same person. We'll see anyway

QuinQQ:
Something is wrong with you. Check out her profile and her responses on this thread.
That's her very first post on Nairaland since registering her account in April 2024

Do you not know women Lie a lot?

She's been here since 2024 and it is now, 2yrs after that she is claiming married. And yet, any sharp person will see that she is not.

Even the name tells you.
The signs are all there.

But, if you want to go and comfort her and play knight in shining armour while she sings your praise, telling you how wonderful you are and how she would have died if you did not come along as she throws herself dangerously (seemingly) into your eager waiting happy arms and body and soul. As she makes you feel that you are the bestest man in the whole universe; in fact she would make you feel that you are better than God as she worships and adores you.

So, please go ahead and enjoy all these pleasures you can see waiting for you, Mr lover. In your great hunger to love a woman, you have become desperate that at this slightest invitation of love, you have gone skipping into a very terrible world called ', love is blind"

Whereas, Love is not blind but love uses its eyes and ears and thinks and searches to uncover secrets , secrets which have been disclosed by elders and others who have been in such situations.

However, you ou are free not to listen to my warning that it is a set up a very old one for that matter. But it always works and it is only now that men are real eyesing that it is a set up.

But, who shall stop a young man from falling into "love"?

Good judgment comes from experience, and experience comes from bad judgment," Mark Twain

So, i guess you have to experience, i pray that it is not the most horrible one you get turning to another story we would read and another young man will still not listen to, and the circle continues.
Well, i love reading what happens to people

KNOWMORE56:
It does not require parental consents for adults above 21 years.

Some years ago when I wanted to do this.... the person I met declined on account that the parents of the lady could sue them....

She said that the parents of the lady must give their consents before the court can register the marriage. So how about that?

More also who then determines ( how much to be paid) or receives the bride price?

In the registry marriage/statutory marriage/court marriage it is said that parental consent is not necessary.

However, while it is true that parental consent is discarded because the couple marrying are adults and have full rights to do so, but what the registry did not tell you is that truly, the marriage validity can be challenged on grounds of parental consent and the parents might be successful But it depends on the situation.

And that the parents also have a right to have been sought for their consent to the marriage

In all of the pluses the marriage registry throws up, they do not tell you that there is the other leg of Law which scatters their claim. Eg. They claim that the wife who is married in the registry is the only wife however, the courts have in right cases impliedly admitted another wife not married in the registry for just cause.

So, the registry does not inform people that there is clash of laws and so many of their claims can be made a nullity

Nevertheless, the registry just paying attention to the will and natural rights of the couple to marry, so they are not wrong in not making parental consent a necessity as under a part of Natural Law the consent of the parents is not necessary.

But, another Natural Law also makes them a necessity so, it depends

Fenrir:
Got banned, right

You literally insulted the son of your god "a jew" the most famous jew ever so that means insult your own religion ...

Off Point.
And no where did I insalt Jesus for Abraham, Joseph, Philip are examples of jews like Jesus yet they are not like the atheists jews i was talking about. And you knew this but because you knew that you have been checkmated having nothing reasonable to say again, you now want to cheat by resorting to commit the fallacy of overgeneralization.

And, even at that it is still off point and you lost since.

There is no move after i already gave you the checkmate and left.

QuinQQ:
You keep saying she's not married. How do you know? See below

Your screenshot has proven me right. No married woman ever says that