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It was even a bad advice in the 80's. Many wives fled because of beatings and poorverty even after 7 children. Wealth never came

Precious201010:
long and painful story sir... She finished her school, I wasn't financially buoyant enough to marry her, the pressure became very much from her, and all her friends according to her were getting married.... When the pressure became too much, I had to let her go...

🥶🥶🥶Kai. Sorry.

How lack of money strangles love. Kai. It's things like this that make me hate this world.

Double0h7:
Okay… so what was the point of creating this thread?

Congratulations 🎉

Best wishes! ✌️

Surely, this marriage is going to go belly up in under 3. Now, because I have spoken, the guy is gonna push it to 5.

Men, some people are not supposed to be married

Precious201010:
This topic is actually very sensitive, but many of u are not seeing it that way... Ok imagine u as a man renting or borrowing suit for Ur wedding... It simply means u weren't ready...

The main challenge here is money, just open up to her that u don't have the money for the new one, unless if she's going to contribute as well.....

Many at times the faults is usually from we the guys, we present ourselves to these ladies as big boys, even when we are broke we still borrow to impress them..... U too have not been very transparent with each other from the beginning, if not Ur family and her family wouldn't have known anything about it..

I once dated a lady, anytime I was to go see her, she'll be the one to send transport to me most of the time, and anytime she's coming to see me, she usually branch at the market to buy food items with her own money... And anytime I have enough, I do give her without looking back..

So still talk to her, it's not late, if not her family will start seeing u as someone that is not ready.

What happened to her?

Iamajike:
I have car issues because I cant walk, I work from home and most of my going out is hospital which is 4 times in a week.

Oh dear.🫢 Sorry.

I think you just have to accept your brother's gift like that and prepare to do your best to maintain it. In fact, see it as a challenge, you just might be surprised.

Jman06:
Thank you for your concerns even though I never told you I'm marrying her because of those

Interesting.

What other reason is there?

Jman06:
That's my preference and if you had read my posts here you would have seen me mention that I am not marrying any lady above 22yo. Believe it or not, it doesn't change anything

Ok.
But do note children grow and tight kittys, loosen

She has car issues but "can't use public transport at the moment" dis no be winch so?

How you take dey go out? You no dey go work or school? The health issue did not stop you from going out abi? And im sure the car must have ac, right?

Clearly, dis na format

What a joke of the year.

You are talking about someone who cheats on you in your presence with your neighbour, brother, father, uncle, friend, classmate, cousin and you never knew?

You are diloodin yoursef

Boy, you shouldn't marry oo, you just might keel your wife because she will shock you and you obviously cannot take ir

Marriage never start yet wedding gown don cause wahala.

Isokey

Jman06:
She's 20 years old and still within the age range I wanted.

She's 20 and you want to marry her?

You are not serious. Its clear that you are joking

budaatum:
One single person is your "women hate men"?

I guess you'd never marry a woman then.

I have pointed out several examples in the past.

DiamondsAreFore:
Sigh, tell us you don't know how the law works and we will give you guidance and understanding.

Robert Morris was sentenced to 10 years in prison which is the maximum sentence. The victim, Cindy, was 12 years old and the pastor was 21 when it happened in 1982.

She reported the crime 25 years later in 2007 when she was 37 years old and he was 46.

The most important thing in any criminal trial for the prosecution is to secure a guilty verdict against the accused suspect and given the difficulties of investigating a crime which took place 25 years ago, I'm surprised they were able to get a guilty verdict by way of plea bargain.

Should he have served the full 10 Year sentence?

YES

But given the peculiar nature of the case and given the fact that they were not only able to get him to confess his crime, but they also got him to serve some time behind bars, the prosecution should be commended for doing a good job under very difficult circumstances.

Comparing this isolated case to Afghanistan where islamic clerics now have blanket immunity to perpetrate crime, doesn't make an ounce of sense.

This is where you see that atheists are Liars. Always giving distorted truths.

Trust God and pay your tithe. Tax is just bandits stealing from you so it does not count.
But, trust God

He should fear God and obey Him, so let him make the bible and prayers as one of his textbooks, if not, he is still going to end up exactly where everyone else has ended up.

Especially, he must flee fornications

Kriely:
You’re the one sounding like an illiterate now. [b]A legal team can do a lot more than court appearances. [/b]If she had a good attorney, they’d have advised her not to post all the so called “contents”

You can try to have a constructive conversation without being dense and rude.

I was not insalting you. I was only pointing out that you have a very serious defect in knowledge.

And see your statement in bold, is it not because she was arrested and taken to court that she got her legal team? So, now you have moved post from the corruption of the court's proceedings today to her utterances.

Obviously, you are bias and in support of every action Mercy Johnson has inflicted on her, even if it is unlawful.

And this is why oneday, it would be you who will be the recipient of unlawfulness. And then you would remember this day that you once supported wickedness and unlawfulness. And on that day we shall see if your legal team can save you

Ignoring your fallacious post, heartbreak and other non physical pains already shows you that you are more than your skin and flesh.

So, wishing that you only end in decomposition is a silly delooshawn.

And for you to wish things, tells you what your true result is.

Person wey write exam well no dey wish say examiner go cancel exam

Kriely:
A good legal team tells you what and whatnot to do/say. Their lawyers either be getting paid for nothing or not getting paid well enough.

Please, don't talk like ill literate. Even without a lawyer once you are arraigned in court for a bailable offence, you must be given bail. That is what the law book says. So, a lawyer does not need to tell you anything beyond saying "not guilty". Bail is automatic.

But they have fixed the judge to withhold bail to punish her with further imprisonment

Kriely:
I wish people can understand the Nigerian constitution and laws. They are rich but don’t have good legal team. Cybercrime is not a joke. Don’t go to prison for “clout.”

What do you mean by good legal team? Is it not the law that you must be given bail immediately after arraignment? This is definitely judicial corruption

The Judge wicked oo.

Ah! Judges, hell dey wait una

Gbadugbakun:
I can be your second husband. If men are allowed to marry multiple wives, women should be accorded the same privilege.

In her country she can marry you or rather she would soon be free to marry you. But, guy, you no like yourself ooo. You see bad thing yet you won go there. Hian ok oo

Antwan99:
That's totally a different scale.

She is just showing how much women hate men. See how she wishes him evil

Jman06:
Sharing of properties can only be enforced if the marriage was contracted in the court. Traditional and Christian marriages do not support sharing the man's properties.

Meanwhile, my marriage would definitely be successful so there won't be need for dragging properties.

See how she is wishing you evil.

Do I not keep saying that women hate men?

Also as you said, there is nothing like sharing of property in Nigeria.

Modified
She is saying all these because a judge in her country just rightfully deprived one lazy wicked husband from sharing what they call community property

Kobojunkie:
Stop spreading what is obviously false information in 2026. 🥱🥱

You only need to engage your brain cells to see how silly the claim up there about delay in pregnancy being responsible for fibroids in women. If a 15 year old girl develops fibroids, does it have to do with her not getting pregnant on time? If a 60-year-old childfree woman never developed uterine fibroids at any point in her life, do we also claim that your reasoning holds? 🥱🥱

The way you blindly rush to defend a thing is a disgraceful. Have you seen a 15yr old with fibroid?

Doctors would tell you that fibroids is a womb crying for a baby and that is why it only falls on women who have not had babies including those who had babies too early.

Are they not the ones raising attraction with their bodies and clothes and voice?

She should shut up. If they wear queen Elizabeth clothes and use their normal voice to speak let us see if there would be attraction

MrEar:
Marriage brings tribulation to a persons life. end of story.

Misery loves company. Don't advise people to marry and suffer like you.

Like you, I5million persons are already ffull of miseries and they are not maarried. https://www.nairaland.com/8606713/15-million-nigerians-drugs-ndlea.

It is those miseries they carry into marriage, it is not the marriage that caused it

AfahaAbia:
Thank you so much for this. It's the resell value I'm looking at because it's a 2 door car.

How do you think of buying a car you have not yet bought oo and you are already looking at reselling it? For what na? Are you expecting it to spoil in a few weeks?

Citroen19digit:
To wealthyonos.

I don't know why they are banning my replies

Even if i put leg, she cannot be satisfied by me. We can not feel it, she needs 2 things,

1) a different man with his different thing and spirit.

And

2) a long thing.

Now, for number 1) i now see what happens to married women and why we men really love to have meet them.

Now, i know that it is because they are very very hungry for any man. Every man that is not their husband is very sweet and exciting whether he has a small thing or not.

And so they must enjoy him and he too must enjoy her because the whole package and experience is very new and electrifying.

And that is why there is always a strong attraction for married women.

And if the guy has a long one, then number 1 and 2 is automatically fulfilled .

Then, say bye bye to your wife because she must fall in love with him for he is her true first. She cannot help it, she just must.

That is why you see girls did not really answer in the thread https://www.nairaland.com/8592186/girl-ever-truly-forget-guy whether they never forget the guy who disvirgined them on the thread

Now, i know as i have been suspecting all along, It is not about who disvirgined her but about who gbenshed her till she scattered in love for him. That is the true first boyfriend they can never forget

So, here is a bad side for marrying a virgin, for there is no rest until she goes through all these experiences.

So, brother, i have to face it, i have expired in her hand like a battery. I can no longer start her engine again.

As, i told her, now I understand why husbands cheat. I believe this is what happens to them.

If only married men had spoken, i would have preferred not to marry or at least marry with a plan

Guy, you dey observe oo, are you an astronomer?

Houseofglam7:
What are we supposed to do with this information ??

Trap for men to make the mistake of pittying lonely women to make the mistake of getting close to them and fvcking them

Everytime, we hear only one single baby mama, why is it only one single baby mama we are always reading about?

Are there not men who are swimming with 2 or more single mamas?

QuinQQ:
Is thst the only thing you saw in the long post??

It was the first weakness of your post proving my point freeing me of the need to argue

QuinQQ:
It's not only he that says it. See the underlined below

Did you see the word "it is viewed"?

As i said "you people are the beginning of your own problems".