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Ogbologbo:
What is the rubbish there? When did Israel ignored Moab? Is it when they were collecting forced tribute from them?

Abi did you miss 2Kings 3:
4Now Mesha king of Moab was a sheep breeder, and he had to deliver to the king of Israel 100,000 lambs and the wool of 100,000 rams.

See their mouth like 100,000 lambs and wool of 100,000 ram. The farm produce you did not work for.

Anyway I know you people do not even know the bible you are just deceived like the lamb that is led to slaughter. And anybody that try to save you , you will attack the person. So continue to see facts as rubbish.

Who pays tributes? Is it not people who looked for Israel's trouble? Bigotry won't let you see what is right in front of your eyes.

Gotocourt:
Lucky you

I thank God oo

jaephoenix:
So why cant he forgive without any sacrifice? Is he that bloodthirsty?

Did you see Him take sacrifice when He forgave Isreal's sins in the desert or when He forgave Saul or Nineveh?

Mariangeles:
Lies from the pit of hell!

Once you have sex with someone that is not your spouse, your connection will never remain the same.
Something has been altered.

It is only a half truth because men do not care enough to understand what is going on because most times they have slept with women and even cheated and yet, no hooking as they returned to their wife seemingly unchanged. But,they don't know that their wives know that they have cheated

Oracleee:
Dey play.

I believe you no love God reach David for bible and I doubt you commit atrocity reach am. Abi your definition of serving the devil is different?

E different oo.
As at the time David start to dey do all these evil things, hin no love God again. So he's right. You can't say you love God kon dey serve dev

spiceadole:
Una go lament and cry tire.
Women are playing the same game you men play and even worse, bringing back souvenir in the name of "another man's child" .

Cheating is bad for both gender.
Nothing beats self control and faithfulness to one's partner.

Only because you choose men who cannot catch you cheating because they too are guilty of cheating. This is one of the reasons why you people hate good men for he would even see and catch you even before you do it and all your pretense at been a good wife would be permanently bursted

Ah! Thank God for this thread ooo.
After reading it day before yesterday, so yesterday when i drove, i was extremely sensitive to my brakes such that i felt it was not sharp as it is or it should be. And actually, 2 drivers who suddenly stopped where they running and go ahead like me showed that my brakes have an issue. So because of this thread i called mecho to come check it lest me sef get story to tell of which I do on this same car maybe 7yrs back). Guess what, my brake fluid had dropped low something i even checked maybe on Thursday or Friday and I even topped up last month or so. And when he loosened the brake master omo, see milk brake oil coming out on one hand and very dirty brown brake oil coming out. That is how God saved me today ooo.

Ogbologbo:
When the Israelites were oppressing the Moabites was that a form of 'love your neighbour'? When the Moabites stopped sending tribute and tried to break free why did their God tell them to attack and destroy the Moabites?
The biggest joke inside is that when the Moabites resisted with their own form of spiritual power the Israelite god could do nothing to protect them.

Why speak rubbish? Did you not see that while Isreal ignored Moab, Moab was always being hostile towards Isreal? Who can love a person who keeps trying to harm them?

If he was expecting to be shot then it means that he is not a good man

jaephoenix:
Who made that law

You know Who, so what is your point?

This thing is now looking like WWF

Because you know that you are going to hel is why you are trying to remove heaven? Behave, lest your intestine rot

Justnation:
Lack of marital intimacy and appreciation of one another's efforts

For new marriage?
It is even too much sex that causes problems

Thinking marriage is gonna be easy because you are smart and intelligent and rich!

AntiChristian:
[So of what use was the wisdom God gave Solomon in blue above?[/b][/color]

It's either God didn't give him wisdom or the wisdom didn't last![/size]

Is wisdom not personal to a person? He gained whatever he gained. And from ecclesiastics we can see that the wisdom lasted, so, nothing here for you.

AntiChristian:
You are correct. God used evil to correct another evil.

The law is an eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth. So If you give evil, The Law MUST serve you the ivu back evil for evil

MaxInDHouse:
What is the name of your church that's believing this thing you are saying?

Let's examine their fruit just as Jesus said we should do {Matthew 7:16-18} let Jesus be the judge if you agree with him!

This is off point bros my church is not in issue. What is in issue is that you should be reasonable and take correction. And should you find me out of line i do Verily stand corrected as you have even once or twice done to me in the past. For this is what God commanded

MaxInDHouse:
We know there is no problem with it but if you and your fellow worshipers have any other interpretation please go ahead with yours.
We are OK!

You know this is the full meaning of bigotry.

bigotry
/ˈbɪɡətri/ - an obstinate, unreasonable, and irrational attachment to one's own beliefs or opinions in defiance of proven facts or Truth.

There is nothing to interpret in the clear words of Revelation 20.

Omoslim26:
The Israelites complaints, rebellious mentality got the better part of Moses,and that obviously made Him loose His cool, was He supposed to strike the rock twice??

Earlier, God had explicitly told Moses to strike a rock for water (which he did once, obediently).

In Numbers 20, the command changed to speaking to the rock — symbolizing a different lesson about trust and God's word alone sufficing. Moses reverted to the previous method and did it twice which was due to His lost for cool with the constant complaining of the Israelites.

using harsh language and claiming shared credit "We" rather than attributing it to God,is enough that Moses was not in His right mental composure.

Now you have moved post from claiming the preceding verse shows the anger where it did not as i have shown and therefore this belief is unfounded here

For God Himself is the One Who Stated clearly the reason for Moses's action or do you want to say that you and all the people who have been saying this see better than God?

You can't be changing what God Himself Saw and pronounced upon.

God Said
12And the LORD spake unto Moses and Aaron, Because ye believed me not, to sanctify me in the eyes of the children of Israel, therefore ye shall not bring this congregation into the land which I have given them.

These words are very clear and bright as day and no one can darken it or substitute it

There was no "you shall not enter the promise land" in the other case or cases, so you cannot be raising them here.

vdestro:
I think it's counterproductive because that is what may just push her over the line. Person dey tire for suspicion.

Yes, it would appear that way but in my truest opinion, it should not for if the wife really does not want to cheat then she must understand that something the husband sees and feels in and from her is causing the husband's worry. And if they love themselves they should both look for it and pluck it off.

Alarm always blows long before cheating even occurs and the wife is lucky that the husband is even talking else it is an opportunity for him to cheat his own (as people fullys... do). So, his complaint means he values the wife and does not want anything bad to happen to the marriage

dettolgel:
You should pass there and see how the other halves are slugging out

By God's grace i will

MaxInDHouse:
Well it's OK that is what we believe but you are free to believe whatever you and your fellow worshipers prefer!

It's ok but with humility and respect, i do say that, the clear wordings of Revelation 20 do not support it.

dettolgel:
The truth be human being dey very complicated. D way we dey wired dey strange. Woman wey don stay with you for 20 years no be say you be dangote, na now you wan come dey complain.

dettolgel:
If you get ransome money just enter bus Lagos or wherever you are to ;DOnitsha. So once you get there, take the bus to Maiduguri one full day ride, and you will see parts of Enugu, Benue, Kogi, Nassara, Jos, Bauchi, a bit of Kaduna, Yobe till you get to Maiduguri. On your way back go through Kano. Stop in Kano spend a day there then head towards Cross Rivers. From there you get to Abia and PH. From PH cross the Niger over to Asaba and head to Edo, Ondo, Osun, may Kwara or Ogu.

There are lots of places to see in Nigeria, unfortunately insecurity is a big problem

Chai! I no won reach Maiduguri. My mama don finish dat place for me.
But funny i covered all the south from Obudu to Kaduna. But i have never used the east to go up north. I am always finding myself in Lagos where i have to use Ife up north and then i use Akoko edo back east or south.

Make person do marry wey i go go east and north viia Enugu

Oyindamolah:
This situation sounds less like a question about where someone is from and more like a question about trust and stereotypes.

Basing expectations of a spouse on their place of origin can become a self-fulfilling problem. If one partner interprets nearly every action through that lens—whether it's spending money occasionally, expressing an opinion, or making independent decisions—it can leave the other partner feeling that they are being judged for a stereotype rather than for who they actually are.

A few observations:

* People are individuals. Cultural backgrounds can influence values, but they don't determine how every person behaves.
* Twenty-plus years together is significant. A relationship of that length provides far more evidence of a person's character than assumptions about where they come from.
* Constant suspicion can be exhausting. If someone repeatedly has to prove their loyalty despite years of commitment, it's understandable that they would feel worn down.
* Financial differences are common in marriages. One partner being more inclined to save and the other wanting occasional treats is a common dynamic across many relationships. It isn't necessarily tied to ethnicity or place of origin.

At the same time, it's also worth remembering that people develop beliefs from many sources, including personal experiences. If the husband has had experiences that shaped these views, those feelings may be real to him—but applying them broadly to his wife because of her background is unlikely to help the relationship.

If this pattern has continued for years, the couple may benefit from having an open conversation focused on specific behaviors rather than generalizations. If they're struggling to move past it on their own, a qualified couples counselor could help them address the underlying trust issues.

If you're posting this to invite discussion, you might end with a neutral question such as: "Do you think a person's place of origin is a reasonable basis for judging their commitment in marriage, or should partners be judged solely by their individual actions and character over time?"

I love your analysis and it is on point just that I see that here in Nigeria most people behave in line with where they are coming from our owambe people must love parties and our Nna people must love money, forn and "i must be better than my neighbour and everybody". And sometimes this behaviour may kick off without warning especially when it was not there before. So distrust will set in and so, it is good it is under examination cos truly this thread has sent me thinking in all directions that I never examined before

dettolgel:
Most women are silent during the early stage of their marriage and the men run wild. Once their kids are old enough to care for themselves these women become more assertive in their marriage. Those men that refused to change and treat them with the respect them deserve will start spewing trash. She should ignore him, 10 years from today all his schenenigans will end.

This one too is there oo.

dettolgel:
You said the other side of the Niger and I am telling how far the expanse of the lands that lie beyond both sides are. If I am going to Benue for instance from Benin I go through river Niger. If I am going to Benin from Gboko I go still hit river Niger bridge.

Wow bros i gas follow you travel let me see your side of earth. This is what I miss most when people are no longer marrying.
So you still have to cross the Niger to go up north?

smartkester:
Ban you for what? Name it here. Are you referring to South South or South East? Where exactly? Cross River, Rivers, Akwa ibom, Delta?

There is only one area that is most popular for cheating which if you say you would get banned. And they have a lot of threads because of them

dettolgel:
The man is just gas lighting her trying to break her down mentally and when she leaves the man will say "I said so".

She should ignore his sorry ass attempt at manipulating her and focus on herself and the kids. 10 years from now that man will be 90% dependent on her and all those side chics that are giving him moral will be no where to be found.

It could be but they have been together 20yrs and I can't see the gain in burning her up. To me, the only reasonable answer is that he is picking up warning bells that may not have been ringing before but now they are

dettolgel:
There are two sides to the Niger from Onitsha all the way to the North and from Asaba all the to Lagos and its environ where exactly?

Is there a popular bridge going up north? Damn i have to try that route.
I believe it is the popular one at Asaba.

bukatyne:
Why did your good friend's husband marry a woman from across the bridge when he doesn't trust them?

With how culturally diverse Nigeria is, he married a woman from a tribe he doesn't trust.

Na wa o!

Maybe at the time of marriage he did not know that people are in-flowenced by where they come from