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PoliticsRe: "Advise Me In Writing" - Buhari To Alaafin Of Oyo, Emir Sanusi, Others by Dullahi(m): 10:55am On Aug 26, 2016
maclatunji:
The President has class. Anybody can play to the gallery and say things that unenlightened people will cheer but if you think you have great ideas put them in clear terms in writing, send them to the appropriate quarters and they can be evaluated on their merits.

People like me that are not public personalities do this so I do not see how they cannot do the same.
You couldn't have said it any better.
IslamRe: Words Of Advice For Those That Share "Ultimatum Messages'' by Dullahi(op): 10:31am On Aug 26, 2016
Contact17:
Jazakallahu Khiran

Well said!
Wa iyaki aydan. Thank you
IslamRe: Words Of Advice For Those That Share "Ultimatum Messages'' by Dullahi(op): 10:29am On Aug 26, 2016
SWORD419:
Nice write up, true but sad, may Allah grant us jannah, Amin BTW JUMA'AT mubaraka
dont forget to:cut ur nails, bath, use perfume, pray on time and read surah al khahfi in the evening, Ma'assalam
Allahumma ameen. Jumma'a Mubarak. Jazakallahu khayran for the reminder
IslamRe: Words Of Advice For Those That Share "Ultimatum Messages'' by Dullahi(op): 10:28am On Aug 26, 2016
TinyIslamic92:
Jazakah lahu khairan
Wa iyaka aydan.
AutosRe: xxxxx by Dullahi(m): 9:29am On Aug 26, 2016
Technology MarketRe: How Do I Turn Off Write Protected On My 16gig Flash Drive by Dullahi(m): 9:22am On Aug 26, 2016
How did you turn it on before?? If it is indeed what I think it is, there should be a button to switch it off on the sides
PhonesRe: Whats The Biggest Screen Resolution Of A Tablet by Dullahi(m): 9:15am On Aug 26, 2016
2160 x 1440..
CrimeRe: My Pastor Tried To Sleep With Me During Deliverance - Lady by Dullahi(m): 8:27am On Aug 26, 2016
lexiconkabir:
lol, bros naso e vex you reach?

meanwhile, i wanted to be ftc sad
Hate it when grown ass mofos misbehave.. FTC on your own post?
CrimeRe: My Pastor Tried To Sleep With Me During Deliverance - Lady by Dullahi(m): 7:50am On Aug 26, 2016
FamilyRe: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Dullahi(m): 7:27am On Aug 26, 2016
Onegai:
Rossy99, I'm going to tell you a story:

When I was in my teens, I went to visit relatives for a while. Your teen and me had different backgrounds: All the relatives had been financially supported by my family and some of them had stayed with us. When I got to their homes, I didn't do much, there didn't seem to be much to do (general house cleaning, sure I did. Washing up after myself, yep). But all their Nigerian wives expected and would make spiteful comments about me and my family and passive-aggressively b.itch about me and be rolling eyes, getting worked up behind my back and bending their husbands' ears with complaints if he dared give me $10 because they felt I was not running around according to their expectations (plus they resented the fact that I was an embodiment of "no, your hubby didn't arrive Amelica in a limo that his wife should be acting brand-new grin). Meanwhile, one of the relatives was married to an American lady. The first day i went to their house, they said "please help yourself to whatever is in the fridge, always clean up after yourself". They said it once and never repeated it. And I appreciated it and we got along swimmingly.

All the other wives were there, starting drama and using me to excite themselves in their general boredom by stirring up trouble, instead of being straight-forward and speaking authoritative words in a pleasant manner. That is the definition of a lady, of a Proverbs 31 woman: Fist in a silk glove.

Nigerian women like to behave passive-aggresively. Never speaking up about what they want, they are trying to act like some type of docile idiot and pretend to be mild-mannered than be getting wildly angry when the other person doesn't fall in line. All that hypocritical spouting of bible passages is getting to their heads. cheesy

Firstly, you have a hang-up about that boy. Yes, he's poor and his family cannot afford a place for him. But you're not living on Bourdillon, are you? So please take out that small bit of "I am better than him, he should be humble and grateful" idea out of your head. Because Humility in Nigeria is NOT a good quality, we use it to insult people. And ladies use it to deceive men (but let's not digress grin).
Lower your expectations. As in, he may be a church-rat in his family but the kind of church-rat that isn't expected to do chores. It happens (my driver doesn't know the way to Ketu market or even Otto). So stop expecting him to know and do things the way you want, without you having to tell him.

If you have to tell him every day what to do, open your mouth and tell him. Don't assume, speak plainly. Don't tell him in the casual, passive-aggressive manner ladies like to adopt when avoiding confrontation, then go to one corner and wait to see if he doesn't do it so you can catalogue your greviances internally and get worked up dramatically. Stop acting like a Nollywood wife.
Wake up and say "alright, today we need to fill up the drums in the house and we're cooking. You take the drums and fetch water, I 'll be in the kitchen so PLEASE go get me some so I can start". Look him in the eye confidently. After dinner, tell him in your husband's presence "please come and clear Uncle's plate and wash up, THANKS eh. Afterwards come back, uncle and I want to discuss finances for school with you".

Don't give him an opportunity to play you around, just be a LEADER. Stop dragging for power with an 18 year old boy, it's your home. You have much more important things to worry about. The only reason he can treat you like a subordinate is because he can see that you are doing that fake passive-aggressive behaviour that Naija ladies assume is what Submissiveness is (it's not).

Own that shiit. Fistbump smiley
God will continue to bless you for this... This is the best thing I have read this morning.
PhonesRe: Help Me On The Phone To Buy by Dullahi(m):
I advice you go for the M9. My reasons are;

Awesome audio (boom speakers) and Headphone Jack
Dreyl:
You guys are viewing without commenting, remember diaris godu o.
Great processor and ram

You'll eventually get Android 7.0 as HTC has promised.

Good software

Great build quality

Good Camera


Great developer rom support if you're into such
PhonesRe: Specifications Of The New Gionee S6s And Price by Dullahi(m): 4:06pm On Aug 25, 2016
Mediatek is a no no for me. Otherwise a nice device.

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PhonesRe: Share Your About To Expired MB Here by Dullahi(m): 2:56pm On Aug 25, 2016
sorextee:
U don see am.. smiley
I don see am... grin grin Oya do the needful
PhonesRe: My Android Phone Is Annoying - Help by Dullahi(m): 1:44pm On Aug 25, 2016
Here's another suggestion.. Check the installation preferences under settings in the PlayStore app to see if it lets you install on a memory card.
PhonesRe: Share Your About To Expired MB Here by Dullahi(m): 1:38pm On Aug 25, 2016
sorextee:
I have 25gig left..
Pix or .... grin
PhonesRe: Help, My Snapchat Wont Stop Downloading (picture) by Dullahi(m): 12:00pm On Aug 25, 2016
piperson:
thanks bros... Abeg can u send me d link to get d mobogenie app?
m.mobogenie.com Das all
PoliticsRe: Barrister Halima Buhari Visits President Buhari With Her Daughter In Aso Rock by Dullahi(m): 11:58am On Aug 25, 2016
cruzclinton1:
Eyaa....dialetor said it oo,he said that man is a paedophile,now look at how he is looking at that small girl trying to lure her with picture so he will paedophile her sharp sharp .......chai so Is true that this man is a paedophile. Chai and that woman didn't know and took her daughter to go see him. I pity the poor gal chaii
Receive sense!

Car TalkRe: Nigeria, Are You Ready? Uber Launches Self-driving Cars This Month by Dullahi(m): 7:54am On Aug 25, 2016
lordoseji:
Please, if your live in Benin City and
your father left the house today
putting on a blue shirt, white tie, black
trouser, in a black toyota prado with
Edo State plate number. Tell your
mum he cheated on her today. He gave a girl lift close to me and refused
to Epp me. Thank you .
grin cheesy grin

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PhonesRe: Samsung Wahala by Dullahi(m): 9:25pm On Aug 24, 2016
Bad network reception or signal. Most of our telcos are guilty of this.. Switch to 2G and use 3G when downloading heavy stuff. I suggest you do so or else they'll damage your battery. Also remove the back cover while in use so as to allow your phone cool down quickly and use it in the path of a standing fan.
Christianity EtcRe: Do You Believe That Ghost Do Exist? Read My Experience. by Dullahi(m): 9:06pm On Aug 24, 2016
This thread has me made my night
Christianity EtcRe: Do You Believe That Ghost Do Exist? Read My Experience. by Dullahi(m): 9:05pm On Aug 24, 2016
angry shocked
Jokes EtcRe: When U Marry An Economist by Dullahi(m): 8:35pm On Aug 24, 2016
Jokes EtcRe: Just Look At This Funny Caption.. LOL by Dullahi(m): 8:30pm On Aug 24, 2016
AutosRe: sold** sold** Fresh Toks 2015 Mercedes-benz CLA250 4matic... Asking Price: ₦9.9m by Dullahi(m): 7:42pm On Aug 24, 2016
RomanceRe: Fadeke And Tunde's Grecian Themed Pre-Wedding Photos by Dullahi(m): 7:20pm On Aug 24, 2016
Car TalkRe: N200million Lamborghini Countach Abandoned In Lagos by Dullahi(m): 3:41pm On Aug 24, 2016
CrimeRe: Throwback Photo Of A 'Dick Thief' Being Beaten By Angry Mob by Dullahi(m): 3:37pm On Aug 24, 2016
PhonesRe: In Need Of Original Beatpill by Dullahi(m): 3:27pm On Aug 24, 2016
You can find them online on Jumia, Konga etc.. 50k.
CelebritiesRe: Chioma Okoye Speaks On Her Attack By Ukazia Over Her Movie "Lagos Men" (Video) by Dullahi(m): 1:18pm On Aug 24, 2016
PhonesRe: Dont Fall For This New Cheap "Airtel" Scam by Dullahi(m): 12:56pm On Aug 24, 2016
Hard luck.. Do some research next time before spending your hard earned money.
PhonesRe: Opera Launches Its Own VPN Service by Dullahi(m): 12:44pm On Aug 24, 2016
donhils:
You could've ignored if u have nothing to say. I know very much about Google than u can ever imagine.
Oh really?? How about you tell me more. And the reason I recommended a google search is no one will explain to you properly what a VPN is used for. You claim to know more than me and don't know what a Virtual Private Network does smh.

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