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Talkisneeded:
Ghost,tell her directly…
Nothing will make it less painful to her

🥹🥹

Talkisneeded:
You finally met the one that matches everything you’ve been looking for,but attraction has found it way out of the equation…
It’s so sad,but life is always like that,she will be fine,you’d have your own little regret too somedays,but you have to move on…

Attraction is key

Is there a best way to approach it sir?

Sonnobax15:

Get out abeg

Wetin dey worry some of una self? . You see better banny wey be rare gem,even in this present generation wey sensible bannies don go into oblivion and total extinction finish,you dey talk about loving her

Btw,how old are you? .

I’m 23yrs and this is my first ever girlfriend sir.

Good day nairalanders!

I thought I loved my girlfriend, I even showed her where I live with my mom and my brother.

With her nice character I was already thinking about the future with her, this girl does not bill me she is always ready to spend on me, but something happened.

We had sex! And her love for me has increased from 50 to 100% I don’t know how it happened

But my feelings has vanished all of a sudden
But I don’t want to break her heart by telling her I don’t love her again
She once introduced me to her mom
We both work in thesame place
I don’t know how to break up without breaking her heart because she is a very good girl.

PlasmaTV:
You can't force love, my bro.
If she doesn't have affection towards you, please don't force you.

What you feel towards her isn't really love. It's just a rush of emotions and chemicals flooding your brain.

Love is tough, tested, and intentional. You are young. You don't know what love is.

Treat her as a friend. Treat her as a sister. Live a good life. Live a simple life. Trust God. Soar!

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PlasmaTV:
You can't force love, my bro.
If she doesn't have affection towards you, please don't force you.

What you feel towards her isn't really love. It's just a rush of emotions and chemicals flooding your brain.
Love is tough, tested, and intentional. You are young. You don't know what love is.

Treat her as a friend. Treat her as a sister. Live a good life. Live a simple life. Trust God. Soar!

author=dauntless15 post=136170318]Lies, a Nigerian girl would rather combust than confess her feelings to you, all my life na only one girl don tell me she likes me and na after something scandalous happen she get mind talk am, now there's a girl who's friends with my younger sister, she was so obsessed with me after hearing my voice for the first time, she literally disturbed until I gave her my Instagram and we became regular chatting buddies on insta, when I asked her what it is could you believe she said she loves me like a brother, but when she's with my sister she says something else including marrying me, then she talks about guys she wants to go on dates with and need my opinion, she does that so I'd get jealous and tell her not to go on the date, but na me dey encourage her to go on the date pass sef na reverse psychology, bottom line is they'll never confess it, it has to be you who does, they feel it is demeaning and you'll look down on them, tell her you don't see her as a sister, then ask her out, she will agree trust me.[/quote]Same thing she does to me.

Thank you sir🙏

a girl that captured me

I'm not well educated but try to read and understand me please.

good day everyone 🙏

There is this girl at my place of work, I didn't like her in the first place, I never thought I'd write about her today.

She likes coming close to me all the time, in a way people thought we were dating

My 23years on this earth aside from from my mom I have never seen The opposite gender care for me the way she does.

I called her yesterday, sat her down and ask her how is it about us.

What she said broke my heart——- she said "I see you as a friend and a brother to me😭"

This statement got me angry and I told her to stop coming close to me

I'm heart broken because I thought we were dating

But she only see me like a brother🥹

She been given me some money to save for her, I am planning on giving her back the money

But she hasn't ask of the money yet.

She will be texting me always to know how I’m doing, if I will need something.
I don’t know why she mention that bro thing to me though.


What advice can you offer me please 🙏

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DyingFetus:
No girl other than my ex has ever shown interest in me. In fact, my uni classmates once made fun out of a girl saying she liked me and she looked at me with a look of disgust implying I'm ugly af.
I'm inclined to believe I'm unattractive since I definitely fail in the face and muscle departments (I'm 6'4 and I have almost no muscle), but I have had a girlfriend before and our relationship lasted more than a year but it has been ~4 years since I broke up with her with no girl showing interest on me.
My fatalist mind has been trying to rationalize this for months now, but it just doesn't made sense. I need some external input.
Pic is me - I purposefully chose a terrible photo

Guy am 6'1 just Dash me 3inches I don't want to play point guard 😭

Omo I jam one girl like this wey fine I mean that girl over fine, but the funny thing be Say when the girl open her kpekus for me

As she tight reach so bro I no enjoy anything, no feeling like say my gbola dey inside kpekus
at all chai.

The life no just balance I swear

Lost in life

kestolove95:
no waste ur mb ..na over hype sh1t of piss

Abi na Boss 😁

Please aside from Netflix where else can stream beast of no nation as I couldn't find it on YouTube?

You are joking right?
Come to okokomaiko and see gays 😕

Kobojunkiee:
She has a right to ask for any amount she desires. It is then up to her lawyers to negotiate these things and find the right settlement. That is typically how it works. It makes no sense to start off lowballing yourself.

may your son come across this kind of situation.

FxMasterz:
This scammer is a hardened unrepentant criminal. Run!

Who are you calling scammer?

Nicepoker:
The moment you deny them that offer. They stop chatting. Very useless and entitled things.

a girl did this to me oo
I told madam that I don't have since then she lock up, wetin consene me

MALIGNANTGuest:

U need treat for Malaria especially cerebral malaria. That's how it starts

MALIGNANTGuest:
Hmmmmm
As Tall as Coconut.
Although we have Traditional masquerades that could be taller than that.
The ADANMA MASQUERADE of Udi people has suddenly grown taller too.

Anyway, u said you are not sure if what you saw is a Ghost. You are confused because such can't be tested and verified along same line of thoughts with others.

This was like when I was growing up, we felt MASQUERADES were untouchable.
But today Police arrest and lock them up.
In Fact humans go to police station to bail masquerades now.

MASQUERADES now push wheelbarrows and hustle. No one pours libations or feeds them again. They hustle

lol masquerades usually have sticks supporting their legs making them taller, but this one am talking about suddenly disappeared, i mean I couldn't see her again with no trace.

MALIGNANTGuest:
You first statement depicts confusion and I admire that. U are not clear about what you saw and I want to believe you can't describe it too

If you can, please HELP US

I saw a woman as tall as a coconut tree when I was still in primary four I don't know if that was what ghosts looks like.

Am not good In typing please!
I have seen a ghost I don't know if it was a ghost or something else.
I remember then I was still in primary 4, I was sent away from school me and my girlfriend for school fees, on our way back she told me that she's tired that she want to take some rest.

Me I wasn't having it I told her I Will be going, the road where I was going to pass was a passage so i entered through it, Jesus Christ! I saw a woman as tall as a coconut tree even taller if am not mistaken, as soon as she saw me she started running and then vanish, I ran back to My Friend telling her what I saw but you know they say seen is believing so without seeing any proof she couldn't believe me at all, nobody even believe what I saw up till today not even My mum.

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JOACHINpedro:
Corper weeee
To be honest, it's not been easy for anyone. Had to rush to hospital when I got signs of ulcer (thanks to NHIS). Thanks to my PPA that gave out Christmas rice, tomato, maggi, salt and oil.

una No Go kill person with laff for here

Absuchat:
If only you know that some domestic animals have better peace of mind than most blacks especially people like you, only then will u be wishing to die and come back as a pit bull

the devil is white !
Now I believe what hoodrat is trying to educate us about, any one who worship the White's is same as the devil, and this rottweiler is proving it.

Mrfixiit:
The guy was right. The black Africans in particular are shits. A people who delight in holding themselves down are not supposed to be in existence. You may be a small boy so you may not understand my point

your brain is not okay!
I could have enlighten you about what you just said, but calling me a small boy is an insult and a turn off for me.

Absuchat:
I will choose a GSD full breed over this thing that quoted me anytime any day

even a German shepherd dog Will reject this idiot.

Absuchat:
What's the importance of the black man on earth?
Let's tell ourselves the truth. The woman is right

just like one op Said some people Will look for something to support her,

You are just a big fool here.

I won't mind spending the rest of my life on this thread

Commendable:
this is your answer at the bolded,

it simply means, with time her true character will be revealed

Just be careful about things, u spill/tell her

hear me out please we haven't met before, we don't know each other as it is now

I need answers please!

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crood:
we have never met before but i dont think he will keep to his promise

people like this are not to be trusted, some people Will say am trying to discourage you but this is the sad truth if incase that Man bring you to Lagos then there is something you don't know.

It is better to come through somebody you know even your brother could turn into an enemy here in Lagos, but Why am I having a bad feelings about this?
Bro I'm not discouraging you I'm only letting you know the reality you can still follo your conscience.