Please how do I deactivate my nairaland account?

The fear of God is the beginning of wisdom. I bliv dis kills it all. Wen u fear God n tremble at d fact dat an act as infidelity / defiling another' marriage will make him frown, I bliv u'd suppress watever blood is gushing thru ur vains 4d other party. Wen one can't help dat den it helps to either keep urself very busy so ders no room for naughty tots/fantasies or flee frm watever situatn(s) will leave u n such person(s) in an environment conducive 4d d formidable to happen.

OP, Selfless service u' rendering, thumb up! Pls any english speakin schs for degree in guidance and counselling? And wld it b out of place 4one to ask 4ur contact; just in case?

@ inurmind and @muskeeto its y u need 2knw n experience d Spirit urself. U jst knw wat to assimilate n to discard cos He'll bear witness. Even in readin d bible, wen one jst reads,its lik any other book buh wen one asks 4revelation b4 readin trust me ders a huge diff.

1. Man is in 3 dimension: made up of Spirit, Soul and Body(1 thess 5:23)

2. The body or the house of man is also called the flesh-it is the physical part of man that we can see and touch and it consists of flesh, blood, bones, sinews, etc. The body is like a clothe the inward man wears(Job 10:11)- it is d part of man that relates with the earth thru our 5 sences

3. The Soul refers to the mental faculties of man, which consists of his intellect, his emotions and his reasoning faculties or will. It is not physical. With the soul man interracts with the mental realm. Most people that come to argue in Nairaland have only developed their mind and there4 understand the "letters" of the Bible not the Spirit. Jesus says that "the words that I speak to you are spirit and they are life" so you must be spiritualy discerned to understand it. That brings us to the spirit.

4. The Spirit is the part of man that is able to contact God and can know God. With the spirit man interacts with the spiritual world. Its here that the conscience dwell

5. In discerning between the Spirit(Conscience) and soul(mind) know that the spirit is always in agreement with God and His word while the Soul tends towards the flesh.

6. So use God's word to differentiate: Gods word has a way of seperating motives. Heb 4:12 tells us

"The word of God is quick and powerful and sharper than any two edged sword piercing even to the dividing of soul and spirit and of the joint and marrows and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart"

However it takes spiritual maturity that comes from exercising your spirit to be able to differiante at the first instance
(Heb 5:14)

In ref to d topic n in additn to @cr8v' answer....; d Holy Spirit takes up d role of our own spirit(conscience) wen we truly n fully lay down our lives. Hwever wen one is nt fully matured-in God-der's an inbal,in dat although d Spirit attempts to play His role,we struggle to functn as regular beings. Thus we re most likly gonna hear two voices. Buh as one grows in d Lord,learns to live by grace n feeds on d word,as a result of which our knowledge is developed n revelatn knowledge(wisdom/discernment) is born,he/she is den more able to subject d flesh to d thgs of God- giving absolute control of his/her being to d Spirit of God (living by grace) most of d inner voices such a person hears is dat of d Holy Spirit. He'll inspire you,teach you,remind you,correct you,n rebuke you wen u do wrong (dats wen one ffs d flesh so to speak. 4e.g a believer knwin quite well dat cursin is inappropriate may,out of deep hurt still go ahead to dish it out in a bid to gratify d desire of his feelins-flesh- prolly because he/she don't want to play d fool). Now dis is whr d confusion I sense here sets in; as a growin blivr,God knwin ur status dat u prolly ve nt fully surrendered to Him- in His gentle nature,nt wntin to impose anyth on u- "allows" you to try DIY buh whilst at it His gentle Spirit prompts u wen u re abt to take a wrong actn,speak d wrong words etc. However,wen u fully surrender,esp wen u ve d infill plus on pourin of d Spirit (dats u re anointed) d life u live is no longer us, Christ lives in u (thru His swt gentle Spirit). It is y dat popular Pastor u talked abt may perceive d H.Spirit as funky cos he himself is funky in nature. Wat happens is ur tots bcoms d tots of God,because u now knw His tots. Ur words bcom His words because u ve been fed wit it over n over....etc. So although ur conscience still exists in ur voice,its no longer u,its Christ in u. Dis means dat so long am female, d Holy Spirit is gonna ve a female tone in d ears of ma spirit, if am a male wit a deep voice....vise versa. Now d reason I said "most" earlier is cos u'll b tempted frm time to time- even Jesus was- at dos point,its d knwledge esp revelation knowledge dat'll take u thru dos phase. U re able to tell dat dis can't b God,it doesn't conform wit His words or will.

Hop dis helps.

On a very serious note,I bliv we shld by now b very careful of d stuff we utter esp on social networks. Dis is d range most pple suggestd ystday shld b demanded as ransom n gbam.....! Aftrall armed robbers,petty thieves,bombers,kidnappers n der liks re nt monsters,my mate,sibling,family member....cld b one. I did jest ystday buh it was more to d way typical Nigerians responded to need 4fund to celebrate dis festivity dan it was abt d personalities involved. Either way ma God 4giv me! Inu jin!

Hehehehehehehe u knw! Unto xmas thgs,boys mst pop champagne,unveil sm new ride n thgs. Omo eyes dey red o! NAIJA!!! Buh wen,wen at all? God save us.

[color=#006600][/color]"...oda jet pastor church give 2 d poor but dey don't anouce 2 d world like him"@ john_son. Dnt knw of d other part of ur post buh d part I quoted is true. Judge nt so u won't b judged. Cos its easy to say a lot wen u nt in d position/situatn as dey.As 4me I can't wait 4judgement day- der we get to see d whole thgy on a "video reel" ...let's work towards dat rather.