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Since you've spoken to her and there's no change, take your mind off the relationship.

Apparently you like her so be kind to her, appreciate her but again take your mind off the relationship.

Be there for her if she needs you, stay detached if she doesnt. Its important you don't inconvenience yourself for her at this stage. If the relationship dies, its probably for the best for you. Let it go and move on, focus on yourself.

She's at a particular stage and you need to let her go through it and make her own decision. This is not something you can force otherwise it most likely won't end well.

Summary: detach yourself, be there for her but don't go out of your way. If she goes, she goes. All the other guys that want to fiok can fiok. It doesnt make her a bad person, it's just the stage she's at for now.

ornicus:
please stop talking nonsense

Aww.

I am speaking from first hand experience.

You?

ornicus:
Cost of living in the abroad is far higher than cost of living in naija. Things like housemaids are a luxury only the rich can afford. Most of the stuff you buy will be on credit. There is no family safety net

You only go into debt (credit) if you want to. Basically if you cant control your spending.

marylandcakes:
How do I tell my neighbour without sounding crazy?

Keep them away from each other.
Theres nothing to tell your neighbor. It's not like she can scold her cat.

Sometimes I wonder what kind of upbringing people have.
Does she have family? Parents, siblings?

I won't ask about friends because most likely they are of a feather.
Call me old school but being a freak outside shows little class. I hope it's worth it for her.

Spanish fly isnt harmless, it can be poisonous.

Also, water is not liquor.

MelesZenawi:
I am to note that you said there is a relationship while some will deny that. Over the years the bone of contention Is all about history and the rest but that doesn't change the similarities that strikingly between. You can even mistakenly call a Benin man , Yoruba man .

While history is been sorted out the bloodline still holds.

There is even some cultural overlap.

MelesZenawi:
Was there really any difference between Edo and Yorubas?

I have closely studied these two people and can confirm they are same and relates closely with each other.

There is a relationship it's just that there's disagreement on what that relationship is.
History is very clear though and the Benin Empire extended even beyond Yoruba land into Dahomey.

This is very well documented. If the Benins had used the same model as the British Empire, we wouldn't be having this discussion as Yorubas would be speaking Benin language today.

OP, please try to format your post to make it easier to read.

To the topic; you're basically talking of aphrodisiacs right?
Nothing wrong as long as it's not harmful.

baiaon:
Just look at the way this loser is chasing.
You are pathetic

Mind your business.

Bats are not diabolical, neither are owls, cats, snakes or any other creatures.

The Benin Empire was content to collect tribute from its vassals. It wasn't interested in total subjugation otherwise Yorubas would be speaking Edo Language today.

Why the need for so much speed though?

It's pretty clear that Suleiman has been online digesting various conspiracy theories.

It's rather unfortunate because some of the things he said might actually happen, particularly the bit about a universal currency. If it does happen it will unfortunately lend him some credence not because he received any divine revelation but because it may become a necessity.

As humanity advances, so does technology and we incorporate it into our lives. That's all there is to it and it's how we have improved the quality of our lives thus far.

If your mind is sufficiently imaginative, you can find a conspiracy theory in just about everything.
Let me see if Suleiman will not accept the so called mark of the beast when it happens. Maybe he will revert to collecting yam and tomatoes as tithe/offering from his parish.

You've been on this since the beginning of your days here and not once has a single thing you've said come to pass.
Give it a rest bro.