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jaxxy:What cold drink should I ask the bar man to get you? You saved me a lot of typing. |
Ify10:So you haven't even tested this so called opportunity yet. Let everyone dealing with this individual use their head. |
A girl doesn't have to do a thing to attract attention from randy guys. All she needs to do is maintain a pulse. That's the reason you have all those types there. They know boys will always be there. If attention were scarce, then most would develop themselves to be more desirable. |
Interesting question. Both can work, both can fail. Love is assured from your end but what is the other person's disposition towards you? Tell me that and I'll tell you which is better. |
I would advise him to treat her like an egg. She's a wonderful person but very fragile. Good luck to him. |
TL-DR: Unlike what your Hollywood movies want you to believe, Governments do negotiate with terrorists depending on the situation. “We do not negotiate with terrorists” is a line that is ubiquitously regurgitated in governmental rhetoric. In and out of Nairaland, I continually hear this phrase "government doesn't negotiate with terrorists". Unfortunately this comes from watching too many movies and does not fully comply with the reality of the world. The argument against negotiating with terrorists is simple: Democracies must never give in to violence, and terrorists must never be rewarded for using it. Negotiations give legitimacy to terrorists and their methods and undermine actors who have pursued political change through peaceful means. In practice, it is not uncommon for democratic governments to negotiate with terrorist groups. In 2014, countries such as France and Spain paid millions of euros in ransom to bring home journalists and aid workers captured by the Islamic State in Syria. In response to the same dilemma, the governments of the UK and US refused to make concessions, arguably leading to a number of high-profile hostage killings. Closer to home, the amnesty agreement for militants can be called a negotiation, as well as giving them security contracts. Even more recently, the current administration has given what many have seen as concessions to Boko Haram. Why Governments Negotiate With Terrorists Terrorism itself can never be systemically eradicated. The phrase ‘war on terror’ seems like an oxymoron. Tactics cannot be defeated, even if those who make use of them can be. Bringing the enemy into the establishment is often a political and moral gamble. However, the potential dividends for peace and stability are significant. Secondly, dialogue and engagement with terrorist movement should not be seen as concessions to the enemy. They do not bestow legitimacy or show weakness, they merely acknowledge existence and exhibit a pragmatic will to end conflict, putting ideology and doctrine aside. Rarely is dialogue ruled out during inter-state conflict, so why should asymmetric conflicts be treated as an aberration to the norms of warfare? It is deleterious to disparage the importance of dialogue in dealing with terrorist threats. So why do governments continue to do so? Maybe because representative democracies encourage the adoption of clear Manichean policies and world views - us vs them? Or is it linked to a short term memory when it comes to conflict resolution? Are decision makers simply unaware of historical examples? Countless studies of successful counter-terrorism campaigns show that mixed method approaches offer the highest chances of success, especially in conflicts involving democracies. Dialogue is rarely altogether absent from this mix. Summary: Unlike what your Hollywood movies want you to believe, Governments do negotiate with terrorists depending on the situation. Sources https://www.foreignaffairs.com/articles/2007-01-01/negotiating-terrorists http://eip.org/en/news-events/negotiating-terrorists https://www.chathamhouse.org/event/negotiating-terrorists-0 |
What do you think about Trump's disastrous handling of the pandemic and his attempts to rewrite history?
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Ladylite:It's not a faceless forum. I acknowledged that people are making money here legitimately and otherwise. As long as it's possible to know people's identity here, it's not faceless. |
The answer is no! We have a habit of repeating catchphrases just because they sound clever or technical. Most dont even consider, they just repeat or put some kind of local variation on the thing. Back to topic, I cringe whenever I see someone type "this is a faceless forum" (no its not). Usually this happens when two children are hurling insults at each other ![]() A faceless forum by definition guarantees your anonymity. Why it's not a Faceless Forum On Nairaland, some of you are busy doking yourselves (or at least desperately trying to) leading to the nauseating boy vs girl threads everywhere. Some people are making money here legitimately and otherwise. Emails and phone numbers are exchanged and dropped here. People upload their pics on their profile, some even put their pictures on threads. There are nairaland parties. Think about that the next time your fingers reach to type the words faceless forum. |
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jayriginal: |
OP, what's your position among your siblings. E get why. |
babtaima:Keep up the good work. |
Following your logic, just relax and let them come to you. Let me know how that works out for you. |
MzDeeb:It's a beautiful letter. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. |
More power to you OP |
bigiyaro:You're the real MVP ![]() |
Both are immature. Assuming this is real though. |
Its funny how an arrangement of letters can mean different things depending on language and culture. I'm sure if I spell it out here, it will get filtered ![]() I saw this when I went to get groceries. I've seen other funny signs before. Pic 1 The Sign Bonus Pic 2 Wide View of the Mall Pic 3 Social distancing at LCBO where people line up outside to buy alcohol (deemed an essential requirement ). The only thing that changed about LCBO is that they now close by 6pm instead of 9pm.Pic 4 Social distancing outside a bank while people wait to go in. Theres also social distancing inside the bank but I couldn't take pictures.
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EVILFOREST:Agree with everything you said apart from the gossip part. They gossip like normal people. It just depends on their personality. At work I thought so too until my friend started telling me things they were discussing in the lunch room. I weak. |
pocohantas:Oya come. I know how to cook. We will share it |
Mydockay:Why e dey pain you na? Fact is fact, no matter how many billions believe in whatever. |
Mydockay:Use the free google to find out why the writings of Josephus concerning Jesus are discredited. And note, validity is not measured by mass appeal. Fact is fact no matter how many believe it or not. |
Seun:Simply put. ![]() |
dawnomike:Check YouTube. You can make for yourself if you want. There are several videos. Here is one. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vLuTNnTvNjg |
Omoluabi9:Fair enough. Who do you pick and based on what criteria? |
One great way to express it is to say that Messi is your favorite player's favorite player. |
Oga leave her alone. |
MelesZenawi:You are shifting the post. Is there a route through Benin or not? Nobody asked you what the person wants to do with his or her time. |
MelesZenawi:Lol. Speak of things you know about please. |
MelesZenawi:I didn't tell you that was the only route. |
@Mikehot and @MelesZenawi New Benin to Asaba can never be #200. #700 and above is more like it. If you take a commercial bus from Asaba to Warri, you will drive through Benin for close to an hour. |

but I'm going to give you a good reply to the old comment so that when you probably watch it again you'll grasp the whole story and concept + for other people that might have similar questions 

