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RomanceRe: Why Do Handsome Guys End Up With Less Attractive Women? by Dyonne: 5:43pm On Apr 15, 2020
jaxxy:
Fine guys don't hussle for babes that much they go for the ones arround their orbit. Fine gals wait for guys to hussle them sadly fine boys are preoccupied with other ladys attention to notice them. Average gals don't mind hussling for the fine guy so they are mostly in his orbit and he falls for them for more than just beauty cos he's fine and the average gals showcase more than just beauty which shes average in bt he likes.

In other words he goes for the gals that are not proud and have more than just beauty. Beauty isn't his top priority.
What cold drink should I ask the bar man to get you?

You saved me a lot of typing.
RomanceRe: How To Make 3mil In 2 Months by Dyonne: 5:35pm On Apr 15, 2020
Ify10:
I was introduced to this opportunity recently...so I decided to share it with others
So you haven't even tested this so called opportunity yet.

Let everyone dealing with this individual use their head.
RomanceRe: My Tinder Experience by Dyonne: 5:30pm On Apr 15, 2020
A girl doesn't have to do a thing to attract attention from randy guys.
All she needs to do is maintain a pulse.

That's the reason you have all those types there. They know boys will always be there.

If attention were scarce, then most would develop themselves to be more desirable.
RomanceRe: Choose: Would You Marry The One You Love Or Love The One You Marry? by Dyonne:
Interesting question.

Both can work, both can fail.

Love is assured from your end but what is the other person's disposition towards you?

Tell me that and I'll tell you which is better.
RomanceRe: Wat Advice Wud U Giv 2a Person Who Is Abt Goin In2 A Relatnshp Wit Ur Ex? by Dyonne: 5:21pm On Apr 15, 2020
I would advise him to treat her like an egg. She's a wonderful person but very fragile.

Good luck to him.
PoliticsNegotiating With Terrorists: Myth Debunked by Dyonne(op): 5:13pm On Apr 14, 2020
TL-DR: Unlike what your Hollywood movies want you to believe, Governments do negotiate with terrorists depending on the situation.


“We do not negotiate with terrorists” is a line that is ubiquitously regurgitated in governmental rhetoric.
In and out of Nairaland, I continually hear this phrase "government doesn't negotiate with terrorists".

Unfortunately this comes from watching too many movies and does not fully comply with the reality of the world.

The argument against negotiating with terrorists is simple: Democracies must never give in to violence, and terrorists must never be rewarded for using it. Negotiations give legitimacy to terrorists and their methods and undermine actors who have pursued political change through peaceful means.

In practice, it is not uncommon for democratic governments to negotiate with terrorist groups. In 2014, countries such as France and Spain paid millions of euros in ransom to bring home journalists and aid workers captured by the Islamic State in Syria. In response to the same dilemma, the governments of the UK and US refused to make concessions, arguably leading to a number of high-profile hostage killings.

Closer to home, the amnesty agreement for militants can be called a negotiation, as well as giving them security contracts. Even more recently, the current administration has given what many have seen as concessions to Boko Haram.


Why Governments Negotiate With Terrorists

Terrorism itself can never be systemically eradicated. The phrase ‘war on terror’ seems like an oxymoron. Tactics cannot be defeated, even if those who make use of them can be. Bringing the enemy into the establishment is often a political and moral gamble. However, the potential dividends for peace and stability are significant.

Secondly, dialogue and engagement with terrorist movement should not be seen as concessions to the enemy. They do not bestow legitimacy or show weakness, they merely acknowledge existence and exhibit a pragmatic will to end conflict, putting ideology and doctrine aside. Rarely is dialogue ruled out during inter-state conflict, so why should asymmetric conflicts be treated as an aberration to the norms of warfare?

It is deleterious to disparage the importance of dialogue in dealing with terrorist threats. So why do governments continue to do so? Maybe because representative democracies encourage the adoption of clear Manichean policies and world views - us vs them? Or is it linked to a short term memory when it comes to conflict resolution? Are decision makers simply unaware of historical examples? Countless studies of successful counter-terrorism campaigns show that mixed method approaches offer the highest chances of success, especially in conflicts involving democracies. Dialogue is rarely altogether absent from this mix.


Summary:

Unlike what your Hollywood movies want you to believe, Governments do negotiate with terrorists depending on the situation.


Sources
https://www.foreignaffairs.com/articles/2007-01-01/negotiating-terrorists

http://eip.org/en/news-events/negotiating-terrorists

https://www.chathamhouse.org/event/negotiating-terrorists-0
Foreign AffairsIf Trump Were In Charge Of The Titanic by Dyonne(op): 6:07am On Apr 14, 2020
What do you think about Trump's disastrous handling of the pandemic and his attempts to rewrite history?

RomanceRe: Is Nairaland Really A Faceless Forum? by Dyonne(op): 11:29am On Apr 12, 2020
Ladylite:
You are a learner... Just pray you don't meet the real guys here. I know a moniker here who actually scammed nairalanders of almost 15million naira.

We went to the bank and they said the account number of the person was a mobile account, the phone number was an international number.


It is a faceless forum... Unless you are a novice then you expose yourself.
It's not a faceless forum. I acknowledged that people are making money here legitimately and otherwise.

As long as it's possible to know people's identity here, it's not faceless.
RomanceIs Nairaland Really A Faceless Forum? by Dyonne(op): 11:07am On Apr 12, 2020
The answer is no!

We have a habit of repeating catchphrases just because they sound clever or technical. Most dont even consider, they just repeat or put some kind of local variation on the thing.

Back to topic, I cringe whenever I see someone type "this is a faceless forum" (no its not). Usually this happens when two children are hurling insults at each other grin

A faceless forum by definition guarantees your anonymity.


Why it's not a Faceless Forum

On Nairaland, some of you are busy doking yourselves (or at least desperately trying to) leading to the nauseating boy vs girl threads everywhere.
Some people are making money here legitimately and otherwise.
Emails and phone numbers are exchanged and dropped here.
People upload their pics on their profile, some even put their pictures on threads.
There are nairaland parties.

Think about that the next time your fingers reach to type the words faceless forum.
SportsRe: Messi: The Greatest Ever To Play The Beautiful Game by Dyonne(op):
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EducationRe: Thread For PHD Students by Dyonne: 12:35pm On Apr 11, 2020
jayriginal:
That's quite untrue. Your masters is sufficient.
FamilyRe: Is My Dad Trying To Have An Extramarital Affair? by Dyonne: 1:01am On Apr 11, 2020
OP, what's your position among your siblings.

E get why.
RomanceRe: [VIDEO] Check Out What I Did To A Thief That Stole From A Pretty Girl by Dyonne: 12:16am On Apr 11, 2020
babtaima:
Thanks bro.. i saw your first message but looks like you've modified it... couldn't reply early because i was eating dinner tongue but I'm going to give you a good reply to the old comment so that when you probably watch it again you'll grasp the whole story and concept + for other people that might have similar questions grin tongue
So it wasn't a phone he snatched at first.. it was her drink.. he didn't even let her drink it... believe me 2 minutes is like the shortest time i could use to really create that film-like aesthetic and suspense to the story.. anything less would've left holes and kill that vibe the viewer is supposed to get... if you noticed the first 30 secs peaks your curiosity.. you want to know what's going to happen and how we deal with the thief... even when i was doing those powermoves when i first confronted the thief without getting physical (Needed to make it PG-friendly + Say no to jungle justice) was to still peak your curiosity while adding some comic relief to it and showing my own skills of course lipsrsealed

Now you'll notice that the screen went black and it was a whole different setup in an uncompleted building.. This is where the whole composure changes.. you'll notice things got serious and i had to prove myself if I'm ever going to defeat this criminal.. grin The face off camera switch between my eyes and his was to give off that false impression that something physical/violent was going to happen... Now this is where everything gets interesting... Also i tried to make the criminal hard to give up that's why you saw him continuing his ride with only one wheel till he gave up.... I always try to be as original as possible with any body of work I'm creating... cheesy
Keep up the good work.
RomanceRe: This Is Why Women Will Always Be Asking From Men by Dyonne: 9:13pm On Apr 10, 2020
Following your logic, just relax and let them come to you.

Let me know how that works out for you.
RomanceRe: A Love Letter To My Awesome Future Husband by Dyonne: 8:49pm On Apr 10, 2020
MzDeeb:
This is my reality.
It's a beautiful letter. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
RomanceRe: [VIDEO] Check Out What I Did To A Thief That Stole From A Pretty Girl by Dyonne: 8:42pm On Apr 10, 2020
More power to you OP
RomanceRe: Lady Goes Fully Unclad With Milk On Her Butt On Live Video 18+ by Dyonne: 8:37pm On Apr 10, 2020
bigiyaro:
I've watched the video on behalf of you guys. the video is a fake one. don't bother wasting your mb. stupid blogger.
You're the real MVP grin
RomanceRe: See What Netflix Have Cause by Dyonne: 8:34pm On Apr 10, 2020
Both are immature. Assuming this is real though.
RomanceFunny Sign I Saw At The Mall Today by Dyonne(op): 8:31pm On Apr 10, 2020
Its funny how an arrangement of letters can mean different things depending on language and culture.

I'm sure if I spell it out here, it will get filtered grin

I saw this when I went to get groceries. I've seen other funny signs before.

Pic 1 The Sign

Bonus
Pic 2 Wide View of the Mall
Pic 3 Social distancing at LCBO where people line up outside to buy alcohol (deemed an essential requirement grin). The only thing that changed about LCBO is that they now close by 6pm instead of 9pm.
Pic 4 Social distancing outside a bank while people wait to go in. Theres also social distancing inside the bank but I couldn't take pictures.

RomanceRe: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Dyonne: 5:15am On Apr 10, 2020
EVILFOREST:
My GUY no Tailor dey here to patch Clothes.
CLOTHES are extremely cheap.
No ONE fixes Laptops here.
No one Panel beats cars here. DAMAGED parts are changed.
The cost of fixing those stuffs can be more expensive than purchasing newer ones.
No TRADITIONAL LEADERS here ooo.
Nobody calls for meetings here except Diaspora Meetings that's if you are interested.
PEOPLE only Work here.
Always Working.
NIGERIA needs FACTORIES and not too many churches and mosques.
PEOPLE like DANGOTE, INNOSON, ELUMELU, JIM OVIA, BUA, etc deserve GCFR.


In Fact, many BARBING CLIPPERS are cheaper than actually going to the BARBING saloon to cut your hair.
I bought a Clipper here for $25 USD, meanwhile a BARBING Salon close to me charges $20 USD for shaving, then $30 USD for Hair cutting itself.

OYIBO no get TIME for GOSSIP.
SOMETIMES, I wonder if they gossip at all.
Agree with everything you said apart from the gossip part.
They gossip like normal people. It just depends on their personality. At work I thought so too until my friend started telling me things they were discussing in the lunch room. I weak.
RomanceRe: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Dyonne: 4:44am On Apr 10, 2020
pocohantas:
Humans are not loyal and I am very cynical. I don’t expect too much from people. I just do my bit and bounce.

The idea of relocating abroad is one that never appealed to me. When I was a morning newspaper, I had many of them on my neck and I didn’t go. Me sef dey fear, make person no kill me for my papa because I say I am tired to cook after collecting citizenship. grin grin
Oya come. I know how to cook. We will share it kiss
Christianity EtcRe: Why I Accepted Christ As My Lord And Saviour by Dyonne: 12:19am On Apr 10, 2020
Mydockay:
Keep your facts to yourself... 5 billion people of the world say to you: Keep your fact to yourself... Oversabi
Why e dey pain you na?

Fact is fact, no matter how many billions believe in whatever.
Christianity EtcRe: Why I Accepted Christ As My Lord And Saviour by Dyonne: 4:53am On Apr 09, 2020
Mydockay:
Google is free oh... The writings of Josephus are free... You think 2 billion people are stupid and you're wiser
Use the free google to find out why the writings of Josephus concerning Jesus are discredited.

And note, validity is not measured by mass appeal. Fact is fact no matter how many believe it or not.
Christianity EtcRe: "His Name Is Not Jesus" - Daddy Freeze Condemns The Name 'Jesus' by Dyonne: 4:51am On Apr 09, 2020
Seun:
Daddy Freeze is absolutely right that the original name of Jesus is 'Yeshua' or 'Joshua'. The 'controversy' here is about whether or not the translated versions of this name in other languages, such as Ιησούς (Greek), Jesus (English), Jesu(Yoruba), Jizọs(Igbo), Yesu(Hausa), and Isa(Arabic) are as potent against demons, and for causing prayers to be instantly answered, as his original Jewish name, 'Yeshua' or 'Joshua'.

One could argue that there is no magic in any of the names: they've all been used against ISIS and Boko Haram and none of them worked.
Simply put. grin
CareerRe: What My Younger Brother Did With Car Tires (Photos) by Dyonne: 6:07pm On Apr 07, 2020
dawnomike:
Are these for commercial purpose...How much do they go for and how can one make a purchase?
Check YouTube.
You can make for yourself if you want. There are several videos. Here is one.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vLuTNnTvNjg
SportsRe: Messi: The Greatest Ever To Play The Beautiful Game by Dyonne(op): 11:05am On Apr 07, 2020
Omoluabi9:
Na he's not, but he's one of them wink
Fair enough. Who do you pick and based on what criteria?
SportsRe: Messi: The Greatest Ever To Play The Beautiful Game by Dyonne(op): 6:12pm On Apr 06, 2020
One great way to express it is to say that Messi is your favorite player's favorite player.
RomanceRe: .. by Dyonne: 6:01pm On Apr 06, 2020
Oga leave her alone.
PoliticsRe: Delta State Government Should Not Open Our Border With Edo State by Dyonne: 7:31am On Apr 06, 2020
MelesZenawi:
I know that more than you..

Someone traveling to warri from Asaba and going through benin means the person has nothing to do for the whole day because all transport company in the state doesn't play a Benin route going from Asaba to warri.

You guys should stop lying on internet at any available means...That's bad.
You are shifting the post.

Is there a route through Benin or not? Nobody asked you what the person wants to do with his or her time.
PoliticsRe: Delta State Government Should Not Open Our Border With Edo State by Dyonne: 7:24am On Apr 06, 2020
MelesZenawi:
Not even a route..
Lol. Speak of things you know about please.
PoliticsRe: Delta State Government Should Not Open Our Border With Edo State by Dyonne: 12:27am On Apr 06, 2020
MelesZenawi:
Asaba to warri doesn't need you to pass through Benin....never..

All cars going from Asaba to warri has no link with Benin......


Your information on your second paragraph is totally wrong.
I didn't tell you that was the only route.
PoliticsRe: Delta State Government Should Not Open Our Border With Edo State by Dyonne: 11:52pm On Apr 05, 2020
@Mikehot and @MelesZenawi

New Benin to Asaba can never be #200. #700 and above is more like it.

If you take a commercial bus from Asaba to Warri, you will drive through Benin for close to an hour.

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