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ephee:
tank you

Seriously it takes a lot of thinking thru
Pls don't make that mistake
Pls

ephee:
tanks.but wat if d child is female?

dnt u think aving different surnname may cause issues btw d kids too or new hubby's family especially if property is involved?

He married her with the kids, didn't he?
So why shouldn't he stand by her in every way.
Its when they find out the child is not his then wahala starts.
The only thing that will be diff is name
Name doesn't translate to how the child is being treated

ephee:
dyt plz can u explain how.

Do you think the child can never have anything to do with his father?
How would he feel when he grows up to find out you changed his name cos his father left?
We think differently but in my own opinion I don't buy it
No matter how bad a man is, his child is his child.

Wetin he for do na

Can you just leave these people alone
Haba
Stalkers everywhere

Anyway, it comes with the fame

Can we have it back pls

Ole nie
Olojukokoro
Ashawo kobokobo
Show and endanger the woman's life
Ashunu
Amukun meko

Nothing wey we no go read for NL
Lwkm

Hmmmmm
Why would any woman wanna purposely cause commotion to her child?
Its not abt now
There's something we call future
My thoughts

Licks lips

Yawns

Deep sigh

markpenk:
Na your own dem dey tell you o. Like it or not, this is one of the reasons why many men cheat on their wives. A few of my friends have complained severally, that they always feel like outsiders in their own homes.

They get home, see the kids flocking around their wives and when they try to join them, they somehow get "rebuffed". It's either the kids relocate to the room with their mom or everyone "scatters". I'm talking about good guys here, not men who scare and threaten their family.Why do you think men start spending more time outside with other chics?

It's because they get more attention from the girls. Dey there, dey form agidi. You think he married you just for the sake of procreation? Don't go give your husband the attention he needs. Very soon, you'll come to NL to complain that your husband is cheating on you.

I haven't condemned her
Have I?

Ewuro4:
You mean she won't listen? Okay now.
Make I continue watching my game.

Her response to a very sensible post
Read between the lines one by one

peachy7:
Thanks for the advice, I do not intend to alienate him, I just want to be emotionally stable to handle demanding and not getting emotional with it.This is my first and emotionally I'm really stressed because I'm going through this pregnancy alone.

Chai
My marriage is just so different
I can't even think of what I don't like
All I know is both of us are just too good for ourselves
We both go with the flow anywhere it comes from
And everyone is happy
Very happy

And who is he?

Chai
Osanobua
Iyelemele ooo
Chai
Chai
Chai

Ewuro4:
I wish you safe delivery and Dyt, I know you have her best interest but take a deep breath before purging your disgust (I was too but relaxed because of her present condition), regardless of how mind boggling the story is.

If I hear
She sounds stubborn
I swear I am this way too
Ti inu mi ni mase

You don't sound nice pls
They like to hear it hard

She won't still collect a dime
Mark my words
She will come back with another moniker again

Wendy80:
My Dear just ignore every insensitive and rude comments here. Going thru preg all alone isn't easy so you will need all the positive energy u can get. Take all the good advice and move on, don't let anyone make u feel bad. Stay strong. Be positive. I wish u safe delivery ahead

Give her a job Mrs Wendy

Wendy80:
SMH

Don't let it fall please

Chai
Naija

fredoooooo:
women !!!!!!

Men

Same

ireneidiva:
Nah, I'm not.

Oh my bad

Did he drop money for the meal?


Chai
Pregnancy can make ppl act insane sometimes

ireneidiva:
You are rude.

I know


But you on my side

Riodiao:
SEE YOUR BIG MOUTH LIKE MY NEIGHBOUR WIFE YANCH. BUHARI MUST DO ONE TENURE NEXT AN IGBO MAN OR MIDDLE BELT IF NOT SAME THING THAT DIVIDED PDP WILL DIVIDE APC

I won't trade words with you