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I bet sm ppl don't understand d frustration of odas
A jobless man we r sayin ere, no one knows ow frustrated lyf cld b wit him

So 2 d married women ere, ur husbands cheat n d next thing u throw him out ryt?
Smh

moremi2008: Was this post moved here from the Romance section? I can't believe the comments I have read here so far.

I am sure there are people here who will give you better advice than "communicate more", "be there for him". I think 6years is enough time for your husband to get his act together or at least be grateful to you for your steadfastness. You my lady are a tough, good woman. Even if your husband might not appreciate you, the men folk thank you for holding your family together single-handed.

There are two issues here that need to be dealt with separately: his joblessness and his infidelity. Addressing his joblessness requires a firm and delicate hand. You can't allow this man to keep lounging around! He has had no employment for 6years!!!! Chikena! At this rate, he might soon be unemployable! Have you both even discussed starting a business? You have to find a way to lovingly but firmly have him to go hustle like the rest of his mates! This situation is just unacceptable.

With regards to his infidelity, I think your husband needs a reality check. Some times, men take good things for granted because they can't imagine an alternate reality where they are held accountable for their actions. The next time he sleeps with another house-girl, gather solid, undeniable evidence and kick him out of the house! Let him promise you to never cheat on you again before you let him back in. You are already paying all the bills; he won't be missed. Please, whatever you do, don't bring up the issue of his joblessness as a reason for kicking him out! You don't want your contrite husband to finally find a job and start treating you badly because you were harsh with him when he was jobless. Make sure you make it clear that you're kicking him out for his infidelity, not his joblessness.

U said beta dan 'communicate more'
Now tell me where urs referred to?

moremi2008: Was this post moved here from the Romance section? I can't believe the comments I have read here so far.

I am sure there are people here who will give you better advice than "communicate more", "be there for him". I think 6years is enough time for your husband to get his act together or at least be grateful to you for your steadfastness. You my lady are a tough, good woman. Even if your husband might not appreciate you, the men folk thank you for holding your family together single-handed.

There are two issues here that need to be dealt with separately: his joblessness and his infidelity. Addressing his joblessness requires a firm and delicate hand. You can't allow this man to keep lounging around! He has had no employment for 6years!!!! Chikena! At this rate, he might soon be unemployable! Have you both even discussed starting a business? You have to find a way to lovingly but firmly have him to go hustle like the rest of his mates! This situation is just unacceptable.

With regards to his infidelity, I think your husband needs a reality check. Some times, men take good things for granted because they can't imagine an alternate reality where they are held accountable for their actions. The next time he sleeps with another house-girl, gather solid, undeniable evidence and kick him out of the house! Let him promise you to never cheat on you again before you let him back in. You are already paying all the bills; he won't be missed. Please, whatever you do, don't bring up the issue of his joblessness as a reason for kicking him out! You don't want your contrite husband to finally find a job and start treating you badly because you were harsh with him when he was jobless. Make sure you make it clear that you're kicking him out for his infidelity, not his joblessness.

U said beta dan 'communicate more'
Now tell me where urs referred to?

Beync: He is sitting right beside me as am typing this,he just said I should extend his regards to u.

U so wish
Hhaahahahahhahahaahaha

Wat can I say?
Not even been in d marraige world but mayb my little cent cld count

I blv right now, dis is d tym he nids u most, tho you made it sound like he's very lazy, bt I think u should communicate even more with him, tell him how u feel abt d whole issue, I blv he ll change

D mail kips bouncin back
Mailer smth smth

Drop anoda mail jor

Ur bro is a selfish negro

Poster
It means a lot
1. She ll dump u
2. She ll poison u
3. She ll mk sure u die

My advice, run 4 ur dear lyf cos she's a witch

Blinkin
I know sm1, 2yrs countin n dey v nt seen, she said d love is still burnin
Smtyms I jst wish I can slap her

Beync: . Pls stay off this guy, we are talking.

So?
If I say nottin 4 u, I mean nottin 4 u
Inshort, u r excluded ryt away

I am so ashamed of u men who don't c us as very strong
Its rili a pity

lyk seriously, ow many tyms ll dis sh1t b discussed n each tym, it mks d feont page
rabbish

bt men r supposed 2 cheat ryt?

lyk seriously wats so wrong in it?
damn
sm ppl r nt jst worth lovin

kay9: Ehn.

now i know u so lonely

she ll write in on a card board n wear it arnd her neck everyday of her lyf

u want d ring, tell him n if he obliges get ursef one

chelseabmw: cant sleep

yh, i know dat feelin bro
bt u v nt paid me upfront

honeric01: Me? how? BTW, who's Henry.

dis man
leaf me, u r almost spoilin my runs
i go brk person head ooooo

kay9: Totally unnecessary. What is it, u get your high from hurting people's feeling?

sounds lyk u bn followin me a long tym now
i ll lyk 2 sting u a bit more

U v bn dere, so tell us

Slaps him

Henry
Leaf me alone
U v spoilt my runs
Frowns

Looks up
Murmurin
Who shld b blamed (x12)

Tell her 2 cm ova ere, badosky ll tear dat place in2 pieces, ha ha ha ha, I trust my gal

So no tall, handsm, sexy dude has contacted u?
U must b far frm beautiful I guess

spikes C: i told you am beginning to gain interest in your presense on NL

Winks

Dere r thousands of men ere lookin 4 a woman, y nt use d search box

Ofcus
Its choices

Explain 2 him as u v jst explained ere