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Palmercole:
First of all ,I'm an introvert, good looking face 8/10 and tall as well with a nice skin color.
I don't know how but something in me feels broken because I'm always cold to everyone that comes close to me although sometimes I tend to losen up and be lively fun

My male friends ,Family understands and respect my persona ,they all know I love to keep to myself and all that but the problem is me dealing with my female friends

All my life I've been approached multiple times by girls and ladies who always throw themselves on me because of my good looks and low-key lifestyle. please be noted that all these still don't make me to play around with them or use the opportunity to trick them into my bed because I'm a very principled guy and many things don't bother me anymore including sex(maybe I'm depressed).

I love my space and hate to share it with anyone (except some few of my circle),so when these girls come around me,instead of playing with their hearts .I'll be honest with them and let them know that I'm not easily impressed ,don't like being in relationships and don't believe in love because I believe Nigerian got the wrong perspective on relationships and most of them just date for fun

I don't hate ladies but I'm always careful when dealing with them because I'm someone that hates drama and female shenanigans.
I know I sound cocky but trust me when I say your assumptions about me are wrong ,I'm a really humble guy and not stingy when it comes to helping out friends in need.

But my problem is with women because most are deceptive (forget the fine face) and have nothing upstairs except looking for a man to manipulate into relationship just to feel among or fulfill society pressure. But no that's not what I'm looking for . I just need to be with a lady who understands me for who I am and not easily swayed by Genz trendy shitss

Yes it's true I have trust issues (who doesn't?) And love myself to a fault but when it comes to women ,I can't stand to do all these romantic moves or funny stuffs that gets them going because I feel it'll make her look down on me .

I'm always serious and cold when dealing with them and that makes them look at me like someone with no feelings or redpill king
I'm old school and believe that man should always maintain his respect and carry himself with high regard.

I've tried dating here and there but it lasted for some few weeks (barely one month),because I get fed up easily, can't really bring myself down to do some relationship stuffs that women likes .

Even during sex .Of course I do pre-intimacy and all that but after the deal has been signed ,I tend to recoil to my shell and wish there's a way to get her going instead of passing the night with me .
I love sex but don't see it as something of great importance or worthwhile(it doesn't move me like that anymore)

Now after some many years of being single and hitting it off with call girls because that's the only way I can cool off without getting attached to one .I met a new girl ,she's so matured and a little older than me (don't worry,I love my women mature with good sense of reasoning)
The talking stage with this new girl was going fully well even though I'm still feeling skeptical about her and us .. multiple times I've told her to apply small break to our new friendship that she is taking things too fast and me I love taking me time to avoid jumping into something we'll both regret in the future.

I guess my good looks got her intoxicated and she was really pushing it for us .I couldn't take it anymore so I had to ghost her for some few days .After that we got back again but I don't know what happened because she all of a sudden starts talking about not being happy with the way I just decided to ghost on her and now threatening to break up with me(a matter we've talked about before and settled, now she's bringing it up again ,gosh)

I know her game and knows she's just trying to make me bend my rules and act romantic to her ,but I can't do all that because it's not in my nature. I can't even pet a girl or endure female childish display .
So I told her I'm cool with her and also respect her decision (of breaking up with me) of which she wasn't expecting to hear that from me .

She was expecting me to be shocked and begging her but deep down I know my heart is cold like a pack of ice.since my childhood I've been finding it difficult showing emotions. I don't even feel anything at all
Now we're playing the waiting game of who's going to first reach out and apologize. I can't do that and won't even think of it because of my hard man nature and code of honor rules .so it's either she hits me up again or nothing for us again (redpill and self love no easy)

So peeps with this little point of mine ,am I normal or weird and do you have anything to say that can help me improve when dealing with women ..Please don't forget I'm a street nigger with cold heart but not a wicked one ,tnx

..Good looking my ass.You wey resemble ET..You wey be like mixture of chihuahua and orangutan.

Na away 2UP

USAIDS no donate money again ooo.You still carry mouth out for todays Toto,chai you better check yourself before you break yourself..

Mehn see enjoyment ooo..In Nigeria you fit Dey chop beans for prison make them add broken bottle to the food..

Una get time…

Psoul:
You are a slave to your poverty mentality.
Your life is stagnant.
Your brain is stuck to your wretchedness.
You may die wretched unless you learn and implement what I'm teaching you here.

If you like keep arguing with your life saver.
Poor boy.

.Life saver indeed..You can’t even save yourself bro..When you wake up in the morning,look in the mirror and congratulate yourself cause you have exceeded the limit for stupidness..Elevate yourself from your mental slavery..I leave you with a quote by Martin Luther king Jnr.He said“Nothing in all the world is more dangerous than sincere ignorance and conscientious stupidity”..Practically you’re poor but theoretically you’re rich..Living large in your dreams will get you nowhere bro..Verabshiedung..

Seems he’s dad was asking him a question at birth..The papa no believe say John Will flourish.

Psoul:
the more you talk, the more I diagnose you and your poverty mind.

Can you see that the $5m talk is never for ppl like you. You should've jumped and pass instead of chuking your poverty mouth.

The talk is for very rich ppl. That money is not for ppl looking for money to upgrade their businesses. It's for ppl that can conveniently afford it to buy themselves US citizenship. It did not end their. When you buy the citizenship, you now start up a very big business that will be able to employ and pay qualified US citizens.

Stop using your poverty brain to advise a rich man of that level how to invest his money. It's so ridiculous.

..I don’t think you perceive the miasma coming out of your mouth..You’re undoubtedly a compound fool cause your purpose in life is not beyond your keyboard…You don’t see men like Dangote and Otedola rushing into this but people like you without a history,believe it’s your chance at wining in life…You better wake up from your slumber before you drown in poverty..

I-Robot level..

If you disappear just come use me for your next ritual..

Ikonse:
Oya try am. You think it's easy to disappear? Only 1/50 native doctors have such Powers. The rest can make themselves invisible and you would think they have disappeared, meanwhile, they are still there.

..Na still Africa Magic you Dey talk..

Psoul:
Poor man.
The worst you can do to yourself is bn poor and also allowed your sorry poor brain to be trapped in poverty mentality.

I may not have the $5m now, but I've achieved a lot and also not bn limited by the clutches of poverty mentality.

Thinking that a rich man that spends money on expensive thing is bn extravagant, is poverty mentality, cos you're assessing the rich man with you poverty point of view.

Thinking this way will make you remain in your wretched position.
Even if you eventually get rich by mistake, you'll be extremely conservative to the detriment of your life and those around you.
Mingle to learn poor boy.

…I laugh at your refusal to accept you’re poor in mind and spirit..Do not blame me for your inability to strive in life..I speak for myself when I say $5m in my account I’ll only go to Yankee for vacation just as I went to other countries to have fun..My business in Nigeria is going good despite the hard economy..$5m will upgrade my business to a better standard than you without Shishi looking for a way to break into American market…You’re not worth your ambition so calm down..

Psoul:
You're still commenting from your picture ridden corner.

You're a poor man and criticizing a rich man that wants to invest $5m for more revenue and your as a poor man is calling it expenses.
The rich man calls it investment.

You can only understand it when you start making money.
A poor man says that a rich man taking flight instead of land is wasting money.
That rich man has value for his time. Every seconds in his life matters unlike someone that has all the whole years to waste.
The rich man prefers spending money to gain time to wasting time to get money.

You can't understand it till you start making real money.
It is not bragging or boasting.

…You don’t have $5m and yet you talk this much..Since you have a brain filled with”The rich man ideology” how far have. You gone in life?…You talk of the “rich man” but can’t talk about yourself in the making..You can’t pinpoint where you are on this matter but talking for the rich man..Are you rich?Can you afford it?..Talk about yourself and stop acting like a damn child..I spoke for myself and you talking for the rich man..Talk the talk but can’t walk the walk..Opening your stupid mouth like you have $1b in your account,Ikorodu Dangote..

Killerofpigs:
Beerfraud...what are Yoruba doing in jos. ??

Dzzzz ....wait for an answer from beerfraud

..If your brain had WIFI people who live around you won’t have network cause you’re a compound fool and your network can’t exceed your room..Your neighbors will think Uncle Killerofpigs has sense but don’t know you the reason stupidity is a currency in your world..

Killerofpigs:
Beerfraud...what are Yoruba doing in jos. ??

Dzzzz ....wait for an answer from beerfraud

..If you use this brain cross road eh,molue go jam you bro…When you have no point that’s when you turn tribalistic..I do some shopping but I can’t buy your bullshit bro..

Killerofpigs:
so as LAGOS is in the SW, it means it's Yoruba criminals abi?

The answer to that question is in your trash talk..You said it ain’t Jos but SE!..So the plate number says Lagos or you didn’t see that before ba😂

Amsickindahead:
The life of a gambler is bout taking risk.Rule number one of a gambler never cash out.

..Dey play you hear!!..You go tell me who talk that talk..

Sonnobax15:

GooD one....

Our society must be sanitized,and cleansed so that these wayward bannies of our generation will not transmit their stupidity to our unborn kids...

…Do not take this personal but you’re a fool…If trailer jam your papa now,he won’t know it was he’s stupid son that caused it on Nairaland..

Killerofpigs:
Beerfraud...

It's not Jos..

It's SE..come and drop quote.

Ode you didn’t see Lagos plate nunber??

Psoul:
Once you get it, you'll understand why you'll need to go to America.

As a poor man, you'll not understand a rich man way of thinking.

A poor man said that he can never spend 200k for flight when he can down 20k to get the the same destination.
That kind of reasoning is only limited to poverty level.
When you get rich, you'll understand the importance of time, comfort, class, psychological satisfaction, connection etc.
Then you'll know why u can spend 200k instead of 20k.

..And besides what you said here is very lame..So because you spent 200k on a flight means your car better than one who used bus?..You need to re-evaluate the way you think…Just because you take flight 200k doesn’t mean you have sense than someone who takes bus..Warren Buffet’s house is not even up to Jeff Besoz but that don’t mean he’s not a billionaire..Poor people like you only brag on private places like here but not in public..

ABBANETSOLUTION:
Not for Naija politicians. When they become American citizen, they will have escape route when they retire from their position. Once you step down, you will fly to your second country America

Normally how many people can afford it💁 So it’s for the high table Nigerians and not Relegation zoned Nigerians 😂

tctrills:
Must

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[quote author=Psoul post=134309876]Once you get it, you'll understand why you'll need to go to America.

As a poor man, you'll not understand a rich man way of thinking.

A poor man said that he can never spend 200k for flight when he can down 20k to get the the same destination.
That kind of reasoning is only limited to poverty level.
When you get rich, you'll understand the importance of time, comfort, class, psychological satisfaction, connection etc.
Then you'll know why u can spend 200k instead of 20k.[/quote…People like you always brag about yourself in private and not in public..You come on here with the trash talk but can’t walk the walk only talk the talk..You’re rich when you sit on your phone typing rubbish here..Don’t drive down that road cause you have nothing but your phone and charger..It’s always the broke people that act rich..Stay humble..

Aldebaran:
Trump needs money

If Lagos take similar steps, 90 percent of Nigerians (especially........) won't mind to pay any amount to become Lagos Indigene

..You are very dumb..Did the news say”New York or USA” will be giving a gold card for $5m?!..The tribalism in you has made you a default retard..You can’t even distinguish between a state and country,ODE..

Fuckyoumod:
why would you want to go to America for $5 million dolls If you have it as a Nigerian?

Bro even if the person no get business idea,with $5m in your account anything you start just do it well and you will reap the benefit..

MichaelSokoto:
where u wan go b4?

Belarus?

Anywhere but Yankee..I go use $5m just to pay for citizenship?

tctrills:
Ahh oga, why the question.

.You must answer the question!

ABBANETSOLUTION:
I am not a politician. Go back and read my comment again. May be you will stop insulting me

I no insult you..Bro,if someone has $5m in Nigeria,I see no reason why he should run to Yankee..Many other countries are there with good economy.

tctrills:
Not at the moment. Why?

Where are you?

tctrills:
That's why you don't have it. You are asking why you will want to do business in the biggest economy, biggest market, biggest banks and investors, most advanced tech support for R and D?

..Are you in Nigeria?