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iyke484real:
Thank you very much for this comment. Honestly, this is one of the perspectives I needed to hear because I have been judging myself harshly since the incident happened.

You acted very mature by avoiding fights. You do not have to throw punches or get stabbed to prove you are a man. Either of you could die fighting . I have seen someone trying to defend his friend and was stabbed to death on the scene. Anybody caught physically fighting is a fool. I avoid physical fights a lot. Now get more in touch with the law (police, lawyers and other paramilitary). Make more friends out of these people inorder to help you handle whoever wants to take advantage of you. Getting that bully arrested was the next line of action you failed to take. Moreso, avoid trouble and let God fight for you.

NB: my elder brother would have still been serving life sentence now if God was not lenient to my family. No thanks to his poor anger management and wanting to be "confrontational "

Fiscus105:
You sent your daughter to the street and expected her to remain the same.

From explanation of father, I can see a father who is entitled and became violence when entitlements are not forthcoming.

Yes, is good for child to remember his or her parents, but if she refuses leave her to God to judge.

That show seems to destroy the female winners because the male winners are all responsible.

gigabyte13:
You see Gambling and Womanising
Once e enter you
Devil go leave you alone
Because wertin go kukuma kill you don already set
Why waste efforts and energy on you again
People full ground to deal with

you did not mention drunkenness and drug addiction.

Freshtruth:
I am 37yrs old man I work offshore just going for my time off the hotel my company lodge me I just woke up and I was feeling the need to defecate ( shit) as I was defecating I began to urinate I felt sharp pain in my penis after am done I was about to flush I discovered blood stains I taught maybe is a stain in the wbc untll I look at my penis I discovered I just reuniate blood . Omo I put . My 2 hands in my head thinking na so life take end for me . I have not be able to sleep all night. Not married no child now this . Has anyone experience this before? Blood also in my siliva for months now but I didn't take it serious but this one I just saw now fear done grip me like this

If you have the habit of not drinking water well or fluids generally, it is possibly kidney stones, rush to a clinic now!

helinues:
I deliberately not waste my time to watch the fight

The way some sport games are been staged lately is not just worth wasting time to watch.

Those betting companies would have approached both and negotiate who to win, who to lose, whatever you are watching is staged as the boxers involved must have been paid handsomely

Who fought with Kiss Daniel's bouncer and defeated him the other day self, the guy came out himself to say it was staged

best comment so far. Even watching this will tell you it was purely staged! This is child's play.

Angelfrost:
Who watches or even posts such videos online?!!...

I never still recover from the Aluu 4 video wey I watch many years ago.

aluu 4 is the scariest execution I have ever watched.

Sensiblerealist:
He should just round out his shape a lil. Need to work on the abs as well. The tummy be looking like thawed carcass.
Nice job of diligence

you are heartless for saying this about your fellow guy @bolded.

Dreal1247:
God I can't stop thinking for saving the life of my elder sister last September after the doctor forgot towel in her belly. God please console this family. It's indeed a devastating situation.

God really showed your family mercy oo.

Discountsempai:
Because as a medic, when you have to examine a woman's Kini, sex is the last thing on your mind.

Instead you are looking for any potential disease there ...that's the gyane half or you want to ensure madam has safe delivery, that's the obstetrics half. And honestly what is on one's mind is that you won't find anything funny there that means operation , which can be hard because reproductive system is heavily blood supplied. One bleedcan cause wayo

I remember one case of a teenager with obstructive labor. I can say with all cofnidence that what was in my mind was why th cervix was not widening fast enough and I hope the fluid comming out of the womb is not too coloured brown..
which means fetal distress which means you got to get that foetus out as fast as possible or else

And when it is retained placenta, the only thought is simple. Make the thing comot fast or we may have to do surgery, even to the point of removing the womb

you sound Very professional. These women has to be educated using these cogent reasons for them to understand what goes on in these doctors' minds after all.

Enigma263:
That is a very valid question when doctors are clerking for an infertility case..because they want to first make sure you are even having adequate sexually intercourse according to WHO.Because your chances of not getting pregnant is reduced if you are not having adequate sexual intercourse and so a person that has undergone female genital mutilation like her case .may not even be having adequate sex

Ok interesting. You sound like a health professional.

Starz825:
That could have happened anywhere in Nigeria..


Na money we dey talk about bro.

can money cause you to sell out your blood?

GanagiBitrus:
RIP.

Death remains a mystery. No mortal truly knows what lies beyond in afterlife.

according to the word of God, judgement follows death. A man dying without Christ will fail the judgement and be sent off to hell. A man that has the Spirit of God will enter heaven.

We betray ourselves and that is why we are called the dot nation by our proud oppressors. Imagine those vigilante! Thank God no live was lost. Let's keep learning and noting down channel from which water enters our boat.

ufotunang:
..so food is your problem 🙄

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very sad! The same food Ravens eat free of charge without working!

Dcaliphate:
It's not easy nau, u have to face the crowd most times and some of us are a bit too shy to do that

Spirit of boldness has been exchanged with that of fear and timidity in every true Christian.

Legitbeauru:
I think Nigerians need education on weapon management and use. The reason the current bandit wave is getting worse is because the Nigerian government is complicit and the bandits are not meeting with equal force from their victims. If I hold a Berreta pistol with extended magazines that houses 70 rounds semi automatic reloading, then let’s see how bandits won’t collect before they kill me , I will have killed a good significant number out of them as well…

you are right but if the government allows weapon carrying like America, bro I bet you, we will leave bandits and finish ourselves.

Diamond098454:
It was just a mistake which can be fixed between the husband and wife

you do not know the gravity of a woman's infidelity. A married woman is similar to a shrine. Maybe you don't know.

obalola007:
So, gun sef no cost

That should be a black market sale.

Legitbeauru:
If caught up in the cross fire of bandits , can that shotgun be enough to protect him ? Experts over to you. I don’t know if that gun would have the capacity to shoot more than 3 rounds with the way I’m seeing it.

watch the video again. It has a magazine that can go for at least 30 rounds.

Raw hunger!! Are these ladies orphans? I'm asking for a colleague.

CorrectionFLuid:
Na this mentality keep Nigeria like this.

Abroad, disturb your neighbor with ordinary noise and see police on your door.

I seriously hate people like you because it's people like you that make society to rot.

he is obviously one of them or benefiting from them. How can you be disturbing your neighbour and be minding your business at the same time?

Diamond098454:
Oohhh no ooo ............ she should go home and keep pleading he may forgive her

Na another man she knack
She no kill person

she killed that guy. She stabbed him to death forgetting the axe on his back. Imagine how light evil now seem to us.

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spiceadole:
In my opinion, there is nothing like sexual incompatibility for adults who have no medical /health issues. Fornication does not confirm sexual compatibility,it's a mindset thing.
Men will say they are testing sexual compatibility by sampling different ladies ,then turn around to shame ladies for having high body count.Lol

Secondly, I wasn't a virgin. Despite, maintaining sexual purity all through my teenage years till early adulthood,I lost my virginity in my final year in university in a painful and heartbreaking manner. It took a great toll on me and I had to see a psychologist.

Thankfully,I was able to overcome the bitter experience and graduated.

I met a lot of guys who didn't agree to "No sex, No spending" and after few weeks of talking / hanging out (which I always paid my bills to avoid them feeling entitled to sleep with me),the friendship will die a natural death...and I will move on quickly...No tears,you no waste my time,you no chop me.

was it a case of rape in your final year?

The genz are a fearless and mannerless generation. If you get any true disciple of Christ from among them, they are very bold and useful in the kingdom business.

AllBlack:
when you wake up see all your body complete and you don't need anyone to do matchmaking for you with terms and conditions, you don't know how FORTUNATE you are.

spitting facts💯. I always tell people that we underate two major things in this our brief life on earth namely: sound health and freedom! Visit prisons, visit hospitals and you will confirm these. Lord I am forever grateful🙏

CYBERWEAVER:
I am currently planning to get married. I’ve been with my babe for about a year now.

After several consultations, we agreed on a wedding budget of about 3 million Naira.

But I keep asking myself one very honest question: how do I commit that kind of money to someone who hasn’t really shown the same level of effort back, even in something as small as 5k, despite earning a little?


Asin, I never smell her 5k since we started dating.


At this point, it’s not even about the money anymore. It’s about intention, balance, and simple acts of kindness.

Even on my birthday, I didn’t receive a gift from her, and that stayed with me more than I expected.

I’ve never had to deliberately test her money, because genuine care and small acts of giving usually show themselves naturally over time.

To be clear, I’ve been carrying most of the financial weight in this relationship, and there’s hardly anything tangible she has ever done for herself without at least my 50% contribution since we met.

I don’t complain, but I also don’t want to ignore what I’m seeing.

As a responsible man, I’m trying to be honest with myself before I take a step I can’t easily undo.

So I want to ask people who are married or have real experience: if I go ahead and marry in a relationship where this is the current dynamic, what should I realistically expect in marriage?

I’m not trying to assume the worst, but I also believe experience speaks louder than hope.

does she have a reasonable source of steady income? If yes, she is very stingy and selfish and that is a bright red flag.

See top world men speaking about Jesus! We are winning. Illuminati will collapse! No Jesus no Life!

All I see is a man in an enviable position. Righteous people like this should be envied because of the spiritual position they occupy and not young CEO's or Yahoo boys driving mustang. God bless you brother for answering the highest call and taking hold of the greatest honour available to mankind.

NB: Man that is in honour and does not understand is like the beasts that perish. Psalm 49:20

Meanwhile on a lighter mood, Jaden Ivey is another Jordan Ivy??

A very important thread. The day my eyes were opened to see pride in an entirely different dimension, I marveled. That day, I received a revelation as i was in a fellowship with a brother. He said that when you are proud, God sees Satan in you, hence the automatic resistance. Satan was cast down from heaven by the sin of pride. That day I saw a very demonic aspect of pride. May God continue to teach and assist us.

SmartPolician:
I just hope they won't start charging them to use the pedestrian bridge because there's a similar bridge at Okota where pedestrians pay #50 each time they use it. If you use it 10 times in a day, you pay 10 x #50 = #500. There's no form of toll that doesn't exist in Lagos.

where is the Okota toll bridge located?

brain54:
Technology has really changed over the years...


Now at the push of a button... even remotely you can put on a generator. Sometimes from a distance.


My dad had 2 of these in the 90s/20s... I became a pro in whining and starting them.



They are still somewhere rotting away right now as I speak.


The one I used personally in school (off campus) was that small I better pass my neighbor that can smoke.

I bought for 7k... the last thing I prized that heirloom I was 16k. Now I'm sure it would be pushing 100 or close!

why not sell off as scrap?