ScamHunter:
We Igbo do not support bad things....A bad thing is a bad thing whether Orji Uzor Kalu or Tinubu. Say no to evil. The right president in 2023 should be an Igbo but definitely not this man. Peter Obi, Pius Anyim, Moghalu, Ogbonnaya Onu or even Umahi are better deals than these crooked people that have sold their souls to mammon.

if you understand anything about Nigerian politics, you will know that an Igbo man that resonates with the northerners is who they will support anytime or day

Tinubuadvocate:
You and me know Tinubu is more than qualified for the seat. This thing you see up there is a certified criminal watch how Aboki will collect his money and vote Tinubu.

your Tinubu that can't step on American soil abi?

philip0906:

Before you type anyhow, there's something called INFLATION that is currently hitting the country. Prices of goods and commodities are skyrocketing at an abysmal rate. In just under 6 months, prices of literally everything has gone up astronomically owing to the insecurity & the rising dollar costs (since we're an import dependent country). This will mean that it's impacting our income negatively.

No be everytime una go dey yarn wetin una no sabi.

you don't have manners. Is he the only one who lives in the country? Am I typing this from India? Who doesn't know the country is upside down?? It's possible you're not even married and here replying me the way you like as your mate. Saying you spent 100K in 2 days without accounting for it still remains irresponsible. Don't come crying for pity here. Swallow truth and be healed.

wunmi590:


Shut up and stop quoting me, I wasn't talking to you...

If the country is not bad, would you be advertising a 2016 accura MDX for almost 10million...

Think before you talk, rubbish

see person wey I dey pity him live. Ok sorry oo spend more and be crying for pity.

You have no knowledge of cars so don't go there at all because if you had, you will know that 2016 MDX with button gear is worth 14m on a good day. Go to copart before your reply

wunmi590:


You are very right with this your assertion...

When my 200k salary entered on friday, I didnt know how I spent 100k from it between that Friday and sunday...

This country nah God go help us

stop blaming the country and track your spendings. Save more and grow. Saying the bolded is highly irresponsible of you

I want to throw up

joshawesome:
Good morning happy people of nairaland.

I will try to be brief as possible. During the lock down my elder brother was seriously ill, we all thought it normal malaria and typhoid but getting to the hospital he was diagnosed of kidney diseases at it last stage (CKD). We all brace up and gave him all the support needed during the stage from one dialysis section to another something thrice a week.

It became worse and no improvement at sight, I literally do all thing for him, from bathing to feeding and carry him around the hospital but he faith he will come out of it. During the process he used all of his life saving to the extend of collecting and seeking financial assistance from people because the doctor advice to undergo kidney transplants.

On 2 April 2021 we went from dialysis, nurses were complaining that I allow him to drink a lot of water because at that stage he have a daily water intake and also needed blood. He did the blood transfusion and the dialysis but he had a breathing issue, the nurse place him on breathing machine the oxygen got exhausted and he was normal.

We went home by 12am, on getting home we ask for water, I told him to wait because I can even hear noise of water around his thoracic cavity. He was having difficult I had to call one of his friend so that we can take him back to the hospital but he gave up the ghost and we bury him that the same day because that was his wish. Due to his name, I was confused and angry at myself and everyone that we lost him due to 5 million needed for the transplant.

Months later I was able to get over his death a bit and went back to school, wrote the exam and graduated with first class even though the examination I didn't prepared much due to what happened. It was just God hand at work ( It only a fool that say there is no God).

Now the problem is that I can't sleep and remember my brother death that I should have done more. His death is like 5 months from now but it still fresh in my memory recently. My brother play a vital role in my education from paying my fee and monthly allowance and advice. I was thinking of using drugs so that I can sleep at time but talk me out of it. Pls how can I re again myself and also am an introvert I don't have people to talk to and I hardly go out.

sorry for your loss, may his soul find repose in the Lord's bossom. Forgive yourself and understand that it's not entirely your fault. Start eating fruits regularly and eating heavy foods in the evening and you will start sleeping again. Meanwhile the grammatical errors are too much for a first class graduate na

Kissmyassbiach:
If you’re both not ready then abort it. The problem will be finding the money and a qualified doctor who’s willing (because it’s illegal)

But I’m pretty sure you’d be able to find some NGO’s on Twitter who do it(for free I think). If it’s not far gone, there are abortion medications available.

Don’t allow illiterates make you feel like a child is a punishment for having premarital sex. Children need love and care and a stable environment. If you’re not ready to offer that, don’t add to the millions of struggling kids. Sentiments aside.

Next time make sure you’re well protected to avoid it.

Ps: if anyone tries to guilt trip you and make you keep the child, y’all should have the baby and give it to them to adopt since they’re pro life.

abortion outside a risk situation where the life of the mom is at stake is pure wickedness and punishable, shelve such advice and don't flaunt it in my face again

Easylion3569:
My girlfriend last saw her menstration last month, its been 30 days and 4 day since she last saw it.. So i was wondering why, and i had to visit a chemist who gave me a pregnancy test tools called 'accuracy'..
he told me how to use it, and what the various line display means.
so i called my girl and told her to urinate small on a small cup, followed the instructions and two thick red line showed..
and the chemist said two line is positive..
i'm still schooling i don't kno what to do now.

everything i have worked for, how i have planned my future is now trying to fade away.
i cant even hold my tears

don't even think of aborting the baby and when the baby arrives, do a paternity test to be sure it's yours. If it's yours, prepare to be a father

Mercychen:


I am saved by Grace. Not by my works or words.

By the way, Calling a spade a spade is not bad mouth. So be guided.

faith without work is dead. Work out your salvation with fear and trembling...

A toddler has to grow in other words

tonak:
Most of the boys that steal phones around ikeja and computer village can be found at no 3, Shanu street ikeja. If you can get security operatives there I'm sure you'll find your phone. I stayed around that environment a while ago so I know.

but I got operatives that escorted me to ikpodo and I couldn't still locate my attackers in 2017

Warrior14:
I will be getting married in 3 weeks time but I'm not happy
I'm getting married to a man who has beaten me two different times. I'm getting married to a man who is heartless and doesn't know how to love and treat a woman right. I'm getting married to a man who does not have a mind of his own.

I'm getting married but I'm already thinking of divorce.

I'm overwhelmed! I'm physically strong but I'm weak.
Just don't want to wake up from my sleep so I won't have to continue with this marriage plans as I can't stand the shame of calling off the marriage at this time.

you no just get sense. You shower wear cloth dey Waka go jump enter lagoon . Inferiority complex will kill you soon. Call off that marriage you zombie. You want to be sad all your live. Tufiakwa

oldienavie:

In all these examples there is not 1 single African there talkless of Nigerian.
Even abroad, younger men marrying older women is the exception not the norm.


@oP na small child still dey do you... when you grow up small your eye will open.
Age is not just a number, especially if you are an African. Oyinbo people have already normalised homosexuality while it carries 14 year jail term in Nigeria.
The summary of my talk is that we are Africans/Nigerians and as such reason like one.

African bawo? Osun state governor is way younger than the wife. He's just a prominent example among many.

Toks2008:


No worries I go employ you to dey proofread for me.

I can't come and kill myself. Thanks

you can't employ me bro but I can give you my service...cheers

The storm that hit the SE will surely die down. After the rain comes the shine though it breaks the hearts of the sons of the soil observing it's present condition.

Toks2008:


Thanks

I kuku see am Tey Tey but I chose to ignore.

Sometimes it is not worth taking this English thing too seriously. After all it is a borrowed language that is only a means of expression and not a measure of intelligence.

Written English in Nigeria today gives me teary eyes even from so called bloggers. I'm really concerned.@the bolded, you don't know who's reading so don't ignore next time

10mobile:

So, how do I receive Holy Ghost baptism?

Just keep your desire for God high, it will come naturally under any circumstance that God chooses. Remain expectant

Jflex07:
Enough of this igbo presidency talk.. To me I don't actually care though but the north must not be allowed another term in office after the mannequin.

when it comes to securing power you say you don't care, when another aboki ascends the throne you open another book of Lamentations for another 8 yrs. Are you not deceiving yourself?

Toks2008:
Creating this thread has been on my mind for a long time but for some reasons I kept shelving it but after coming across a thread on front page about a 41 year old single lady asking for advise I think it is about time I drop this.

Now what you are about to read is for ladies who are still single in their late 30s and I will make it as simple and as real as possible...

You will never come across the advise I'm about to give you from pastors or many relationship experts but as many people already know me, I keep it as real as possible.

1. Understand that not everybody will get married:

Marriage is not a do or die thing... Marriage does not define who you are and you must never be bothered by what people say cos most of them are Clueless about the institution of marriage. Those who truly understand will never look down on you because you are single. Your happiness is more important than marriage.

2. Be financially independent: Any single lady in her late 30s should never make it a priority to get married cos the more you worry about it the more pressure you put on yourself and this is bad for your psych.

At this stage of your life, self actualization is what you need and trust me, by the time you make it a priority to get the best out of life, this will inadvertently gravitate men to you.

Before I give this third advise let me share this very touching story...

I remember a certain lady who contacted me about 6years ago and she said she has made up her mind to be a single mum if she turns 36 and she is still unmarried and asking me to be ready to donate sperm for her cos she sees me as a responsible guy... Furthermore, she will not put any pressure on me to be financially responsible for the child as she is well to do but she just want to have a child to avoid a situation where she will reach menopause and still childless.

Unfortunately she left this world before she could make this happen... So What is the point?

3. GET A SPERM DONOR TO BEAT EARLY MENOPAUSE.

The paramount purpose of a lady is not necessarily marriage but to multiply, bring forth new generations and replenish the earth. The good thing is that with the modern medical advancement, any lady can achieve this without getting married.

Believe it or not, it is better to get a sperm donor and be a single mum than getting married under pressure to a jerk who will make life hell for you.

If you are a lady still single in your late 30s please get a man to donate sperm for you. You don't have to sleep with him and he needs not be financially responsible for the child but just for you to point to somebody in future as the child's father. This will let you relax to get a better choice of a husband.

4. A man who will love you will love you.

Some may say once they are single mums, guys will run from them and YES I agree but this will also attract real men who understand that single motherhood is not a taboo but Infact a proof that a lady is fertile, a proof that she is responsible enough to keep a baby even when they had the choice to abort.. No genuine man will reject a lady cos she is a single mum especially if the child(ren) is her first.

5. And lastly as suggested by Pocohantas in the comment below... If you are open to polygamy, give it a shot.

According to her, as a lady gets older in Nigeria, it gets harder to see a never-been-married man with noble intentions. So if you don’t mind polygamy, if you just want to have your kids by one man, find one polygamous man and have all your kids with him.

All I wrote, this is an opinionated advise but any lady in this position could still decide to wait until she finds a husband but she must understand that whilst she is waiting, her time is ticking and menopause will definitely come regardless.

I hope this makes sense.

"advice" not "advise"
Former is a noun while later is a verb

10mobile:

You seem to have an answer that I seek...

How can I be TRULY, TOTALLY, and THOROUGHLY be led by the Holy Spirit of the Living God in Christ Jesus?

You will have to desire God so much. At the point of getting born again, the spirit of Jesus invades a man's spirit and start changing that man but at at the point of Holyghost baptism, the Holy Spirit comes as a person and dwells fully, that's the point where you can blast away in tongues and start displaying other gifts. At this point you will start hearing a very soft voice that speaks peace to your heart. If you obey whatever it tells you no matter how unreasonable it seems, he will speak more and more until it becomes part of your everyday live and thus you're led totally and thoroughly. This is how I live everyday for 11 years and counting.

Shalom

How can you run when you don't know the way of the spirit?

How can you walk when you don't know the way of the wind?

Any human led by God's Spirit is like the wind. You can see the wind blowing but can't tell where it's coming from or going...

The Christian's journey becomes easier when the Holy Spirit is fully incharge

Shalom and happy Sunday

abouzaid:
If a herdsman was killed in the community, soldiers and policemen would arrest anybody found in the community and burn their houses with the state governor's support. But since it's Fulani that did the killing now. Nothing must happen to them. The south are gradually been overrun by these vampires from Futa djallon highlands due to the willing complicity of our political class who're only out to satisfy their selfish aims while using our name. Look at governor Makinde that started his tenure so well is now a shadow of his very self by even lying to exonerate the Fulani from the murder of a German doctor returnee turned large scale farmer.

ugwuanyi is a vampire drinking the blood of his own people in exchange of power

Strongdickfresh:
Dear esteem Nairalanders,

I use the Eco bank mobile app to mistakenly transfer N10,000 to a wrong person I don't know nor seen before. I went to a POS provider agent/stand to withdraw N10,000. However, I mistakenly transfer the money to Ideyi Okoro Joseph of Access bank with account number 0064999199. The time of the transfer is 06:50 PM, on Sunday 10 of October, 2021. I don't know the person and I had never set my eye on him before. It was a wrong transfer. See the details of the transaction below:

AMOUNT: NGN 10,000.00
BENEFICIARY NAME: IDEYI OKORO JOSEPH
DATE: Sunday, 10 October 2021, 06:50 PM
TRANSACTION TYPE: other-local-banks
SENDER NAME:
BENEFICIARY ACCOUNT: 0064999199
DESTINATION BANK: Access Bank

I wanted to transfer the N10,000 to SARAH AVWEROTE of Access bank with account number 0064999198. She is a POS service provider agent. I went to her stand to withdraw money. I made a wrong transfer due to typographical error. I mistakenly type account number 0064999199 instead of 006499198 and 10,000 was transferred to Ideyi Okoro Joseph.

Please what can I do to retrieve the N10,000.00 ? It Is possible for the to retrieve the money.

Please bankers and accountants in this esteem forum should guide me on what to do.

Thanks

next time confirm name of receiver first before initiating the transfer. For now you will have to beg the access bank officers to assist out of their own kindness

PrinceOfLagos:

Someone is languishing in Benin republic prison and this is all you've got to say?

All this Tinubu people sef

I pity Sunday Igboho, the people he fought for have long since abandoned and forgotten him

Yoruba sef, dey leave dia wahala carry Biafra matter for head calling us Afghanistan

Faller:
Use it to play 3 odds

That's 3 Million.....

You'll get alot of people advertising their odds on this forum ...so you don't have to worry about where to get sure 3 odds ...

Or u can Set Up a little HK for bombing....

this generation and gambling sef

yanabasee2:
Anything can make you a good wife.... Even those qualities listed there can make you a good wife ...

Because those qualities is what men look for... And when they see it and you have good habits and good brain.... You become a wife automatically...


No the give those flat yansh girls hope...

E sure for me say marriage no dey your mind

phorget:
Make me self follow write story maybe I go fit catch out 1m.

deadline has been reached

When registration deadline has reached is when you're bringing this to FrontPage. Which kain mods be this sef? Throwing rubbish to the front page and keeping relevant stuff like this back until it's late

mjblinks:
Mark Zuckerberg is 33yrs old and has only one business; Facebook- launched in Feb 2004.
Aliko Dangote is 60yrs old, has a business empire, been in business for over 40years

In 2012, Dangote was named the 43rd richest man in the world (Forbes) while Mark was 66th; but in 2017, Mark became the 5th richest person while Dangote dropped to 105th position.

Mark Zuckerberg achieved more globally in 6yrs than Dangote has done in 40yrs.

The Reason?
Dangote started his business in the Industrial age which requires physical strength to succeed while Mark started his business in the Information Age which requires information and Knowledge.

You need new keys to open new doors old keys won't work.
Don't get stuck.

Strategy is better than energy. If you lack strategy, tragedy is Inevitable.
Go for Strategy this Year.


Embrace change....Embrace Cryptocurrency

Its all about PEACEFUL WEALTH.
https://www.nairaland.com/6467965/yazga-cryptocurrency-plays


You can join C.R.Y.P.T.O.N.G on telegram

hope you're not a scammer

kayuseful:

Says who?
"monitor" is different from "read"

says their policy

ivolt:





WhatsApp has the ability to read your messages if it wants to.
The government can also read all messages with the right tools.

they have the ability but won't do it because oyibo hardly violate policies except in security threatening conditions/special cases

Elsueno:


That's what they want u to believe, the owners of WhatsApp can easily do that & can maybe even provide dis junta with what they need for the right price. of course it won't be public, na back door.
Every time as i go online am aware dat Google & Facebook dey mine data from me

oyibo respects policies, terms and conditions