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ruggedtimi:
Wake up dead.
Help me fill in the 45 characters.

and Christ will shine on you.

Sonnobax15:

Gone are the days when God used to send down needles to close up the mouths of lions (kidnappers) just to rescue Daniel from their den

in your quest to always comment here, you are beginning to sound dangerously careless and foolish.

Grace can be speaking for the beneficiary. A lot of money bags are online looking for who to bless.

Do you not sense a spirit flying around the world making people kill themselves over nothing? A man who has no control over his anger and emotions is like a city without a wall and like a house without a fence. Na Bible talk am oo.

saphiere:
see how men till take over this thread.

I am still in my 20s but I will advise.

1. Do not marry a man because he is ready. Marry a man you love. Better to laugh in a keke than cry in a Lambo.
2. Marry go into marriage if you are not financially independent. Love if sweet but money maintain a home/marriage. If your husband is the only one providing up to salt and maggi, my dear, that home can never be sweet.
3. Do know discuss your relationship with your friends. There are so many things your friends shouldn't know about your boyfriend/husband.
4. Respect your man.
5. Put your self development first before him. If you do not develop he will dump you for another woman.
6. Take care of your body.
7. By all means try and stay independent of your parents before 25.
8. never open your legs for any man. \most man lose interest the moment they nag you.
9. Be a listener than a talker.
10. Always carry money with you whenever you go to visit any man or going for a date.
11. Don't make your love for a man be more than your love for yourself.
12. Try and have at least a skill or a business even if you have a certificate.
13. By all means try and go to school and graduate.
14. Never take back a cheat.
15. Make your health a priority.
16. Do not bend your rules for any man.
17. By all means have at least a Love Machine. You can get the cheaper one from Jumia. I have vendors too.
18. Always have your money. Whatever he gives you should be a bonus.
19. Do not date a man you are older than unless he is from a wealthy home.
20. By all means never give birth if you don't have any source of income.

Keep growing kiddie, only elders give advice.

Start now. Early starts are the key. Learn those skills, get those certifications. Live responsibly and don't joke about putting God first. He is the only one who can give you a meaningful life afterall.

HgAkpobomeEr:
Nigeria is the best country in Africa.

travel and see.

math2001:
When Nigeria was a united nation without tribalism

United in the midst of a bloody civil war?

Chijeep:
😢😢😢
Why I want to forgive is because of my cousin, as she's in the village and knows how parols are been runned there

everything about your statement screams of immaturity. Can you please chill for a while and forget about marriage. Learn to be a man inorder to be able to face this journey called life. Involve God Almighty in this learning process and let him also help you to select a life partner. That mother in-law will skin you if you ask me from her reactions when the journey has not even started. I say this because I can sense that you are too emotional, chai. A man do not harbour emotions but go the way of logic. Women ditch logic and go emotional and that is why a woman left to herself brings about destruction in most cases. Don't give a hoot about your cousin because when the chips are down in the marriage, you alone will face it. Either your cousin gets you another lady or you do that yourself prayerfully.

Chijeep:
My cousin sister said I should forgive her.
And besides, she made it clear 2 the person that she don't want s3x

you don't sound mature yet you want mature advice.

Damilola0147:
Some people Dey try O. Imagine this Doris without manna . I remember separating a fight between this same lady and late Muna.

Late Muna Obiekwe?

GeneralPula:
Not all Puna stinks tho..

If you’re used to dating virgin girls, you’ll understand..

make sure you don't disvirgin who you will not marry. Make your life journey easier oo.

We4all:
My concern is that, he is not growing physically, and he is always looking like a teenager.

very wonderful gene.

Exercise, cut out junks entirely if possible, eat a lot of veggies and fruits, sleep very very well, cut down on beer and spirits, cut out smoke entirely if possible, then check your numbers regularly. Slump and die is on the rise now. May it not be our portion in Jesus name.

I really love this. I want to also venture into tech. He is a real prodigy going by the fact that we are in tech era. More grace to him.

JuanDeDios:
What if you're a mechanic or returning from farm? Just saying.

you never see where mechanic wan collect slap because him too dirty and people think say Na madman? Check other countries and see how neat their mechanic is with their designated overall.

Dpsychologist:
Let’s strip relationships down to their core. No filters. No fluff.

Imagine this:
Remove sex from a relationship and suddenly, many men discover that the emotional, intellectual, and spiritual value they hoped for… isn’t there.

Remove money from a relationship and many women begin to question the purpose of staying.

This isn’t a jab. It’s a wake-up call.

We’ve built a culture where transactional intimacy has replaced transformational connection. Where physical access and financial support are mistaken for love, loyalty, and legacy.

But here’s the truth:
✅ If sex is the glue, the bond will break.
✅ If money is the magnet, the attraction will fade.
✅ If purpose, growth, and shared values aren’t present then what’s left?

Relationships must evolve beyond survival economics and sensual convenience.
They must become partnerships of purpose, alliances of ambition, and safe spaces for soul-level growth.

The future belongs to couples who:
- Build empires, not just memories
- Exchange wisdom, not just pleasure
- Invest in each other’s evolution, not just each other’s comfort

This is the era of conscious coupling.
Where love is not a transaction but a transformation.

Let’s stop asking “What do you bring to the table?” and start asking:
“Can we build a new table together?”

If this post made you pause, reflect, or rethink drop a comment. Let’s elevate the conversation.

RelationshipIntelligence #EmotionalMaturity

correct but there are core things both gender are expected by nature and biblically to bring to the table of wedlock.

Carazon:
This write up did not provide any reason to believe that they were robbers. They may be friends coming back from somewhere but due to the previous cases of robbery within the area, they were termed robbers and were extrajudicially killed

watch video first.

Carazon:
This write up did not provide any reason to believe that they were robbers. They may be friends coming back from somewhere but due to the previous cases of robbery within the area, they were termed robbers and were extrajudicially killed

Go and watch video before commenting. Ebuka himself confessed to the crime before he died. I do not support his extra judicial killing but the gang came before and wrecked the warehouse owner carting away 100 bags of rice and 100 cartons of beer. They came a second time but met their waterloo.

eepeepook:
Doesn’t she claim to be a virgin? What does she know about dating? She sounds like a boring person. It’s easy to tell from interviews.

it is better to sound boring and be a virgin than to sound woke and be a left over.

FreeStuffsNG:
Israeli Army Radio correspondent Doron Kadosh reported on Tuesday that in the past 24 hours, senior Israeli security officials discussed the possible implications of the chants. According to Kadosh, Israel is expected to take diplomatic steps, including sending "stern messages to the Syrian regime and demanding that it condemn the chants."

Yinmu.

Even Trump knows the truth that he has been exposed as the one backing and supplying the weapons used for committing the Gaza genocide.

Las las, the Arabs will eventually send back the Europeans calling themselves Isreali and supplanted as proxy for US and the west in the middle to their homeland in Europe.

Palestine will be free like South Africa.

let Syria go and get back Golan Heights if they truly have balls.

VOsimhen144:
3m capital oo.

Baba was suppose to win 800k

Gambling is dangerous. It will slowly wreck you. Stay away for your mental health.

BAILMONEY:
KOBOJUNKIE OYA RUN SMOKE THING MAKE YOU COME YARN DUST HERE ABEG

lol Na real junkie oo sleeping on NL.

JW is a cult and not even a religion. Life is deeper than we see on the surface level. While we do not pray for misfortune on anyone, we want to strictly say that most times, people get a dose of their medicine. Those people are insensitive and someone here said this person in question has been insensitive to other people's plight. Be that as it may, going by their belief system, they should just stay home and quietly die if their god cannot save them when terminal diseases hit them, since they don't believe in medical sciences. Someone else was talking about eternal life for who? See, eternal life is only for a man who has confessed and accepted the Lord Jesus Christ as personal Lord and Saviour. Jehos will never do that hence, are at risk of hellfire when they die. And funny thing is they do not believe in God sending any man to hellfire.

4 is nearest to the restroom and committed the murder with his knife and left it there. The blood also stained his neck and his shirt looks ruffled. 2 and the waiter are seriously staring at him in suspicion.

owobokiri:
Meanwhile, Bishop Kukah is somewhere trying to prove that Christians are not specifically targeted..

I am so disappointed in Kukah. Has his palm been greased?

Nteogwuija:
DSTv should just focus on broadcasting live sports. People interested in movies should use their Showmax.

Watching live football on DSTv is still better than streaming anyday and anytime. You don't bother about buffers, no time lag, no constant disconnection, etc.

I've tried normal streaming, like Yacine and 808. I've tried IPTV. I've tried Nashare2. I ended up frustrated eventually. I just had to switch back to DSTv for peace of mind.

You work hard to earn money so that you can afford some level of comfort and not add more misery to your life.

If you live in a compound and your neighbor uses DSTv for live football, while u stream, na then you go hate streaming. You go just dey watch highlights when your neighbor don shout goal like 2 to 3 minutes earlier.

DStv get level sha, that discovery channel go pain me die oo

9jaBloke:
The average person farts between 14 and 23 times per day.

No matter how babe fine, by 12 noon she go don fart at least 7 times.

if you fart like this, I guess you are not big on fruits then. You probably big on protein only.

Hi

realmindz:
Please everyone should respect each other…
It’s lack of etiquette to be farting at each other faces…

Farting at people is not love, it’s nothing other than lack of etiquette….


Some things don’t just make sense…
Why don’t you shitt and tell your partner to go sniff the poop inside toilet before flushing..

Or how many people here can tolerate belching loudly while eating….
Some things don’t just go Abeg

Though it signifies openness but should not be a recurrent decimal. If you feed well and eat fruits regularly, you should not make the atmosphere dense with malodour for a partner.

Ironfaceman:
Sometimes I can't help but to think why isreali's kill Arab Muslims in large numbers.

But a look at the mind of these Muslims, the only thing you see is darkness.

How can a father and his son kill their own flesh and blood. Because she has a white boyfriend.

Arabs flee from persecutions by Muslims in their own country. Only to start persecution in another country.

Muslim honor killings. Islam is messed up.

ISLAMABAD is the name of a city. E get why.

pansophist:
They probably treated him wrong.

Most families are dysfunctional. Most families have not been to a therapist, and make effort to purge out unhealthy patterns.

It’s very difficult for a person to cut off with their biological families, and men typically do that when they create their own family.

Lots of dysfunction in families are revealed during adulthood, since the parents will take the backseat and the children will continue from there.

How the siblings will relate with each other especially with the differences in financial status, educational level, life challenges and past resentment will depend on the love they have for each other.


Since the siblings are adults with agency, they will iron out their past resentment which might lead to a permanent breakdown of the relationship.

In many cases, it is parents that are the glue to sibling relationships. Without a present parent, most siblings ain’t fan of each other.

And the more successful a sibling is, the more likely he would be the target of the others who ain’t successful, hence, a pressing need for the successful one to just cut off.

This is probably what’s going on here.

some siblings are just cats and rats waiting for the right time in adulthood to strike a fatal blow on themselves.

Answers we get here will give you an insight into the fact that most people who profess love for themselves never actually loved themselves but are just lusting after their partners characteristics (physical, mental, psychological). To love is to give. Christ loved to the extent of laying down his own life. I have seen a couple whom the wife is HIV positive. If your partner betrayed you and cheated to become HIV positive, you have every moral ground to quit the relationship though but if the situation that brought it was not their making, to stay and hope for the best is the way if truly what you guys share is LOVE. We pray for the best in life but prepare for the worst. May our ways be rosy but let us really understand the word love before misusing/abusing it.