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You earlier put up a similar story with a different subject here: https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-429365.0.html
Are you trying to make people believe you're a scammer?

Rita4NL:
You better take her back.The devil you know is better than  . . . . .
If you fall in love with anoda girl,do you know what she will do?

@ Rita
I know her very well, thats why i even told her blood brother that i know her much more than he knows her.
Its not the first time she's kneeling down begging me, she just wants to have me for keeps while she continues with her escapades__ you know some girls now when they gather to chat, some will be bragging on strategies in deceiving guys, including crocodile tears,etc but it failed her this time around.
If it was just cheating on me and she was honest about it then i wouldnt be that hurt, i could have forgiven and accepted her back because i know sometimes Poo happens and some GIRLS can be vulnerable to words of men but for her to have the effrontery to reward me so wickedly after all my good to her by making up her mind in the first place to carry out her dastard act is what i cant stomach, that means she never truly loved me all those while but was only camouflaging. She saw a big opportunity and decided to do away with me which means if i got married to her as i planned to she could as well wake up one day and sell off my house and go her way!
The shocking part is that this is someone who wouldnt wanna hurt a fly because of me because she has acted as if she'll die if she doesnt hear from me or see me in a day but i only got to know recently that she's been sleeping with her EX while we were dating untill he travelled out.
Another shocking part was that it was barely a week after after forgiving her and accepting her back for  cheating on me earlier with a different guy aside her EX that i discovered the mails she exchanged with her EX.
I forgave her then because i thought she was really remorseful as begged me for months, even her brother and sister also appealed to me on her behalf, but now that the worst had happened there's nothing more to say to guarantee anything again! So this one is not about the devil you know again oh!!

justwise:
Tell her to use part of that your money she went away with and get herself rampant rabbit.

Abi? but i just dont wanna talk to her again.

blackmann:
Well said bro. Such girls are desperate and can use any method to get guys like this back, even their bodies.

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wavemasta:
@OP, remember I told you in your original post that you weren't a fool for loving her, and that you did what any guy should do for someone he loves.
And the fact that it backfired didn't matter, because love was always the right thing. Now see how God has repaid the woman. She came back and is kneeling down asking for your forgiveness. This happened because your own side and conscience was clear. That woman will never forget you and its gonna be hard before she finds someone like you.
Abeg forgive her o, and then move on with your life.

I think this goes without saying, but make I just yarn am just in case, DO NOT TAKE HER BACK, SLEEP WITH HER (No matter how tempting), or anything else.

Just free her, and move on.

Cheers bro!

Thanks bro, we dont even talk on phone, let alone see, not to talk of even coming to my place or worst still SLEEP WITH HER. IMPOSSIBLE! I have since moved on. She did call several times, send txts how she's missing me so much bla,bla, that she hasnt made luv since, etc. ALL THOSE DECIEPT DONT MOVE ME ANYMORE.

if its Nija used, why remove the plate number? CAVEAT EMPTOR!!!!!

petebor02:
HI guy i can feel the joy in u. is better u dont accept her back ok. if she had left u 4 a different reason, thats a bit considerable but that she left u 4 someone esle no no no. she cant eat her cake and have it back never''

Thanks bro, she hasnt seen anything yet, its just the beginning. i've tolerated too much rubbish in the past all in the name of love, infact many guys here would crucify me if im to go into some details of what i tolerated as a man in the past, me I'm not a spare tire oh, i cant be a fool forever!

o.austin:
I'm interested! it looks good but, do you have the carfax report?
Suprisingly 2004 car still have less than 30000 milleage, was this car not used at all?

Dont you  know that mileage resetting and tampering is the norm now? Dont fall MUGU oh! After being used abroad and then registered and used in NIGERIA, hmmm,

Wonders will never end!  After doing her worst to me and then writing me a letter on valz day that  she's quitting our 2-yr relationship, the full story here: https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-399786.0.html
She came begging last week, I was at the hospital for some injection because i was down with malaria when her brother called me that he seriously wants to see me, since he couldnt talk on phone i told him to meet me at the hospital, but i was surprised he came with his sister (My EX gf) and when i asked him his mission he told me his sister has been disturbing him to come beg on her behalf, i was angry and told him that i'm ok now and its over a month already that she should go ahead and marry her EX since she sold off my investment of about N700k obviously to garner enough money to travel out to meet her EX as seen in the emails she was exchanging with him, that means she didnt love me as she has always said, as she wanted to eat her cake and have it, maybe the trip abroad backfired and she wants to come back to me the "DUSTBIN" who would accept any rubbish just because i so much loved her.
I told him i have learnt my lessons now and i'm much wiser now, so as i was about entering my car which was packed by the roadside, she came and knelt down by the roadside there, i was so angry so i got out of the car and left her there, the brother came saying i should tell her to stand up because she is deeply sorry now, but i said all those pretence dont move me anymore as i'm wiser now because i know her sister more than he does, i told him i can also kneel down here by the roadside if he feels kneeling down here is a big deal, infact i knelt down briefly in front of him just to prove to him there's no big deal there as those pretence dont work on me anymore. Thereafter i left.
I think she has began seeing the effect of the law of KARMA already, its funny how SOME GIRLS could act, they will wanna eat their cake and still have it. I've moved on already and i'm much wiser now, i'm focused on my job and myself for now.
Just wanna thank everyone including those who strongly criticized me and those who stood by me in my most horrible moments, God bless ya'll. I'm much better now. I know God will provide the right person at the right time.

@ Poster, its strange for someone who has cheated on you to come out and tell you the truth, i feel this girl has some conscience which some girls dont have as they could do some terrible things before you and yet will pretend as if nutin took place, but its saddening to hear what she did as a man, so you'll just have to keep away from her for sometime and watch her activities, if she still continues with her ways then move on for good, but if she has learnt her lessons and truly loves you then should woudnt cheat on you again.  But the fact that you are far from her makes her more vulnerable, i know how gurls could be so susceptible to their ex or guys in general.
Yours is even less than a year relationship so it wouldnt be so painful, i know how painful it was for me to find out that my girlfriend whom i loved so much  for  two solid years with the plan of marrying her was seeing her ex behind my back and she has always acted as if she would die without me, because she always so crazy about me, caring,  calling me often and telling me how special i am to her,  bla, bla,etc.
But i was shocked when i went to work one morning and just decided to check her email since i had the password, then i found out that my girlfriend was seeing her ex behind my back untill he travelled out of the country, and she was also planning to travel out to go meet him.
Infact she left my house that morning to the cafe where she sent the last mail to him before i found out while i was in the office.
But when i came back and asked her, she denied and the following week on valz day she wrote me a letter that she is working out of the relationship, that is after she sold off an investment of about N700k which i opened for her as my wife-to-be. Probably she did that to get garner enough money for her flight ticket, etc.
You can read more of that here and also learn from that because i was encouraged by some replies i got there:
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-399786.96.html
But KARMA still works so take her my brother because people have seen much more than yours.

@Poster, please correct the subject of your post, its quite confusing reading it.

madlady:
@Poster I just used those ladies as an example.

   Lots of peeps help each other, male to female, female to male.

@ JENI, please dont bother convincing anyone to give as many wont buy your idea, especially ladies who feel its written that men should always be giving to them and not vice-versa, you obviously have a kind and generous heart and i want you to keep that up, just give when your conscience prompts you to do so.

The moderators wont allow me post the mails they exchanged tho their email addresses werent shown but the bottom line is never TRUST SO BLINDLY TO REVEAL SUCH SENSITIVE INFO AS YOUR PASSWORDS AND ATM PIN UNLESS YOU ARE DOUBLE SURE YOU WONT BE DISSAPOINTED BY THE PERSON YOU ARE REVEALING IT TO.

queeneve:
Hello Sizzler,

He is my fiance and we discussed this.  We have trust for each other.  I use my old email address for my girlfriends and he use his old emails for friends.  We both have an email account for both of our use.  

If you dont have trust, you dont have much of a relationship.

He told me he TRUST ME COMPLETELY, and so do I.  He even left his email account open one time and I did not look into it because we have trust.

@ poster  and SIZZLER, i've done that before( gave her my atm pin) and opened an email addy for her which i still had the password, i later changed my atm pin, but i hardly checked the email box i opened for her out of the TRUST i had thinking she wouldnt do anything silly as someone i wanted to marry, but one day when i returned from a field job offshore, i just checked her email but i was shocked to see that my own GIRLFRIEND of two years was  seeing her EX, exchanging romantic emails and also planning to travel out to meet him, when i confronted her bout it she denied, i was so angry and the following week she brought a letter on valz day that she's walking out of the relationship and that she has sold off an investment of bout 700k which i opened for her, i think i may have to post some of the mails she exchanged with HER EX on this forum as a learning point while also taking privacy into consideration by not showing their email addresses, you can read more on that here: https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-399786.0.html
So please i dont advise anyone to TRUST blindly as  you can never tell what could be happening behind your back, despite the fact that  relationship needs TRUST for it to thrive but you should always keep some level of suspicion. Some GIRLS could really be very UNPREDICTABLE.

maybe you have to experience one first to know how it feels like.

@Doejohn, dis is another pathetic story of how some GIRLS could be so UNPREDICTABLE, probably she has gotten a new catch as u suspected and wants to do away with you, but just like HONERIC01 suggested, you should let her know dat if she is returning those things then she should return everything, then after you move on. For her to bring those stuffs to your office is so degrading.
Im still picking up my peices too from a rather pathetic situation too which occured on a valz day; www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-399786.0.html
you can learn from it too, SOME GIRLS CAN REALLY BE UNPREDICTABLE.

i cant fathom why dis thread is here,

HARDDON:
women!!!!! , wiv head bowed, he walks out!,

God Knows best.

kodewrita:
@Eazyman, I have come to the conclusion that humans are not perfect and love is a form of perfection and hence cannot exist. I prefer to define what I am searching for differently.

I will settle for the kind of woman whose peace of mind seems to be directly linked to my happiness. Someone who wants to be with me more than anyone else. The sum total of all the actions of that person must add up to a deep desire to love and cherish me.

I say sum total because I dont want to expect them to love me all the time.

[size=16pt]In essence, life will not give the ideal to you, you must create it yourself[/size]

@Kodewrita, thanks man, there is certainly some wisdom in your write-up, [b]but what if you came across that one who appears in all aspect to make you feel you are all that matters to her and that her peace of mind is directly linked to you happiness as you pointed out, only for you to find out that terrible things you couldnt ever dream of are happening behind you back? [/b]how will you feel? you can also reach me on phone please, i think you may have some experiences to share as i have seen some sense in your write-up

Dimty:
im sori abt wat hapnd @ poster.its realy sad dat most girl dont appreciate good guys, wel do not give up on love n im sure it wudnt give up on u.u just havent meant d good ones and honestly they are out there but i think they are few, dont worri,wen u are ready u ll find her

Thanks Dimty, i'll try not to give-up but its rather an uphill task seeing that few you talked about but GOD has a way of doing things tho.