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I look around and see couples who earn less than 50k and still living happily. I pray for a good and industrious wife. One who is not money conscious like so many nairaland ladies i see here. They are not even ready to sacrifice with the man. tofia~

Bwon:
wow... Is she capable of this.

Just remember this thread when it comes to pass

Bwon:
WHAT?? Afterall, It hurts more

Let me give u an insight.

The reason she is begging to be friends with you is because every girl likes a generous guy, and you are one.

If you agree to her request as a friend now, then i would advice you dont send her anything since you are on her friend zone list. but if you two want to continue with the relationship then be prepared for part 2.

Here is part 2: She will drop the bomb shell that she doesn't want to hurt you all those times and that you are a very nice guy, but she didn't fall in love with you. And bam! that ends your ''how many years relationship''.

Part 3: After you've moved on for years she will pop out from no where to say ''hey whats up''?

..............To be continued

DaZion:
Really...What is Love?

God is Love.

What is lust?

Bwon:
*sigh*

You dont need a crystal ball to know how it will end. Or do you want to know? Can your heart take it? Cos i can tell you now.

Bwon:
She is a medical student in igbenedon... But i don't think school is the major reason.

Yes school is a major reason oga. Why do i say so? The parents should be responsible for her tuition and wardrobe. You only come in in area of recharge cards and up-keeping. But the most important thing is communication, but in your own case communication only happens when she needs something. i guess she talks about it more when you guys talk.

I know females who are contented with what their guys sends to them. Hence i would term your girl as materialistic who doesn't love or give a shit about you.

andromida:
The character is the person. So who or what do you love?

yeah...you are on point there.

You started wrongly by saying yes to her request all in the name of love. Now she is used to that idea of asking and receiving. I would advice you stick to your policy of knowing when to give or not, mind you its not a guarantee that she will marry you. I can say confidently that you are not the only one in her life because it is clear that she is materialistic and would dump your sorry ass when someone who is more buoyant comes her way (if he hasn't already).

Meanwhile how can you be so serious with such a girl who resides in abuja? you try o!!!!

My advice is cut down your expenses on her. Does she school? Or what does she do actually? Is she from a rich home?

Do you know whether the bed he sleeps in the village is constructed in a way as to allow him stay in this position when sleeping? Thats my thought sha

It sure got me. I'm sure it would be the same for you too.

It sure got me. I'm sure it would be the same for you too.

Ta! how did it make front page sef nonsense!!!

Midehi:
ok...here i go

oya na

Midehi:
yea lets see who is bold & appreciate his handsomeness

no whine us jare

Midehi:
Fine babes lets keep it rolling, the old thread of viewing all nairaland pics is too long, so lets seperate ours from the guys.

oya here we go..

let the most beautiful babe open the thread for us...remember,everybody is beautiful

why not cast the first stone

[quote author=Godfullsam post=31644788][/quote]dont mind the fanatic. Doesnt know where to campaign

Dyt:
Hmmmm
Some get the opposite

I almost lost my life
Was sick even till I was pushing

But thank God for grace

Whichever way, I so want another badly

Thank God for safe delivery

1. THE TERRIFYING BUT OH-SO-COOL FEELING OF NOT KNOWING WHAT'S NEXT.
Consider it preparation for motherhood. Once you think you've finally got the whole thing figured out, it changes on you overnight. That bout of nausea that hasn't gone away for three weeks straight? It could be gone tomorrow. The curves you never thought you'd have? Ta-da, your prayers have been answered.

2. PEOPLE ARE NICER TO YOU.
Once you're visibly pregnant, expect the smiles from strangers and offers of seats on the bus or subway to start rolling it. Sure, it's a little unnerving at first, but roll with it, and when your time has passed, remember to pay it forward to other moms-to-be.

3. YOU GET THE UPPER HAND IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP.
No matter how equitable your relationship is, as a pregnant woman, you bear the brunt of the tougher parts of baby making. It's biology. Your significant other is probably feeling a little bit helpless at this juncture - and you should totally take advantage of it (in the nicest way possible, of course).

4. YOU'RE NEVER REALLY ALONE.
It's a feeling that's hard to explain until you've been there, but even when your baby's just a few centimeters long, you'll have the incredible feeling of your baby's presence being a part of you. Magical!

5. USE IT AS AN OPPORTUNITY TO SWITCH UP YOUR STYLE.
There's a lot of time and attention devoted to how bad maternity clothes are and how awful it is to spend money on a temporary wardrobe. Ignore that negativity, and embrace your changing bod by making it look as good as it possibly can. Whether this means treating yourself to a few new special pieces designed especially for moms-to-be or experimenting with the way you style what's already in your closet, have fun with it. Your bump's not going anywhere (at least for a little while), so make the most of it.

6. YOUR HAIR, NAILS, AND SKIN HAVE NEVER LOOKED BETTER.
Increased estrogen levels are working in your favor, and for many moms-to-be, that means shinier, more lustrous hair and harder nails. While it doesn't apply to everyone, many will end up with "that glow," too!

7. 9+ MONTHS OF ANTICIPATION
I remember having the same feeling while I was engaged - waking up every morning with this great sense of enthusiasm that something wonderful was on the horizon. You're a little nervous, a little unsure, but most of all, incredibly excited about the road ahead.

8. THIS JUST MAY BE THE HEALTHIEST TIME OF YOUR LIFE.
Regardless of what your attitude toward nutrition and exercise was prepregnancy, the knowledge that every decision you make will impact the both of you can have tremendous (and great) consequences. Nine months without drinking, ensuring a well-balanced diet (even if it does include an extra Haagen-Dazs binge now and again), and getting enough sleep can do your body a world of good.

9. YOU HAVE A BUILT-IN EXCUSE . . .
. . . For anything and everything! Not up for venturing out in the snow? Call and cancel your plans. Craving a midday nap? If you have the capacity to do so, go for it. This is your time to put yourself and your baby first, so to whatever extent you're able to do so, be selfish.

10. YOU'RE GOING TO GAIN THE WEIGHT ANYWAY, SO . . .
OK, I'm not advocating a total nine-month binge fest, but there's something sort of wonderful about knowing that increasing your caloric intake is (for once!) what the doctor ordered. Go ahead and order dessert next time you're out to dinner. Succumb to cravings, within reason. Listen to what your body's telling you, and go with it.

you forget garri + Opka

With all sincerity, please answer the question

kristonium:
this is no punishment to a typical Nigerian child

Shey? Even gorimapa no be new style. Abi na papa ajasco.

kristonium:
this is no punishment to a typical Nigerian child

Shey? Even gorimapa no be new style. Abi na papa ajasco

Are ‘Old Man Haircuts’ The New Way To Discipline Young Boys?

“So you wanna act grown? Well now you look grown, too.”

So who’s to blame for this whole trend? Well, a barber/father of course!

Atlanta barber and owner of A-1 Kutz, Russell “Rusty Fred” Frederick, was sick of his son Rushawn acting a pure fool, so he took his clippers to the 12-year-old’s hair to teach him a lesson, while also uploading the photo to instagram.

“So u wanna act grown…well now u look grown too [old man emoji] The grown-up kids special.
Bring more bad kids to @a1__kutz for this!”
Instead of a clean shape up, Russell gave his boy a receding hairline to match his “grown” and mischievous ways. Yikes! The jacked-up cut worked so well that the ATL barber decided to help other parents discipline their kids by offering the “Grown Man Haircut,” three times a week for free!

After Rusty’s idea went viral, it became the go-to punishment for fathers and mothers alike. One mom even took it a step further by taking both her sons in for the “Benjamin Button Special” while also making them walk around the neighborhood afterwards. In the video, you can even even hear one man shout:

WHAT DO YOU GUYS MAKE OF THIS ? DO YOU THINK ITS EMOTIONAL ABUSE OR THE WAY TO GO FOR PARENTS WHO WANT TO AVOID PHYSICALLY HURTING THEIR KIDS FOR PUNISHMENT ?

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safarigirl:
This one wey dem dey bring 2014 topics come FP...and I saw this last year

sAME observation. I think the Mod'S dont keep record of topics they post her on front page

Motherhood is a choice you make everyday to put someone else's happiness and well being ahead of your own. To teach the hard lessons. To do the right thing, even when you are not sure what the right thing is....and to forgive yourself over and over again for doing everything wrong.

God bless our Mothers

julietchic:
u can't love both, choose one na
man u need to take u drug.

what drug would u recommend

naijaboiy:
Movie Title : The Return of The Exes.

nice topic title, let me revert ASAP

falconey:
Who do you love the most? Stay with her the future is uncertain whoever will be your woman will be.

Truly speaking, i loved the one i proposed to. I love my present one also. But i dont trust that word again.

naijaboiy:
Op please kindly expantiate further. Your questions are clogged together and I can't seem to find the main point.

I have tried. It wasnt possible

Orijin101:
just tell us the main question you want us to answer coz i can see up to 6 questions in this post of urz.

Yes, i will call it a pile of questions