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There are lots of questions here, not just one. So if you think you don't have the patience to read through, please take the time to.

I'm in a relationship with a girl who happens to be in the university. She will be in her Finals by September this year hopefully. Few weeks ago i bumped into my last ex and we got talking, even hanged out at an eatery, but nothing intimate. From her talk she wants to come back, though i didn't tell her i was seeing anybody, i guess she assumed i don't since i hanged out with her on Val day, and this was because i had no one to visit.

Just last week we hanged out again and i told her she shouldn't expect any seriousness from me, my reason being that i am still not ready not after what happened including my past relationships. She didn't take it lightly, but i felt i did the right thing. She in turn told me she will see me henceforth as a casual friend too.

Coincidentally i got a reply from another ex (before this one) all because i wished her a happy birthday. She replied saying she didn't know i was the one, and since then she has been in contact, though she is in her finals in school. This was a girl i proposed to last two years; she agreed but after two weeks called and told me she aint ready. That ended my relationship with her. Now presently she pleaded that i should help her cos she is wants to get all her luggage home but she is broke. i told her i'll see what i can do. Should i help? She knows i give freely but when i remember what i did for her and what she made me go through i'm having a second thought.

Now here is another dilemma. I plan to relocate to my own apartment in the coming months. There is this school of thought about not putting all your eggs in one basket. When i do move, should i reveal my addresses to these exes? From past experience i have come to believe anyone can disappoint you, sorry to say, even my present girl friend. I feel i need options in case someone decides to mess up again.

Is it possible to move in and hide my address from these people? Is it healthy to let my present girl friend know she has competitions? Because we had issues one time and she told me campus dating should not be seen as serious etc and that a girl knows who her heart belongs to. With that ideology i want to also let her know i too know where my heart is even though i have my exes around me.

I need advice: Should they know where my new apartment is? Should i open myself to them for another chance? (I loved and still care for the one asking for my help), or should i keep them out?

No One is good. No matter how you want to define it, we all have flaws. All what the OP listed are found in everyone. Its just a question of choice and decision to be that way.

This guy no wise at all. if na me i go go back and demand to see the manager of the eatery. I will threaten to sue them to and the rest go be story...........................after wey we enter back door

Its called ''killing the flesh'' maybe its a way of fasting for them

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Can't he come without his security aids?

antontech:
This Agbaje is like peter Obi when he was campaigning for votes back then. He may win Lagos

I hope he does

"They ridiculed our ideas around government-enabled free wifi hotspots across the city - an idea targeted at widening the reach of a world of knowledge that the Internet offers to our young and aspiring populace - especially in areas of low penetration. They called it bold ignorance and out of touch with reality yet they went on to implement wifi Internet-enabled buses a couple of weeks afterwards. We're glad that our BOLD IDEAS are already inspiring the current administration." Jimi Agbaje

Hmm.........Well it is good that Fashola atleast bought into his ideas, now Lagosians will have value for their money when they use the BRT buses. well i hope say service go dey sha. Because me i no trust dem at all ! Dem go even put password to show say no be free when time reach.

hmm....Let me share my own story, because i know if i were to share it as a post, Seun will not place it on front page.

When i was nine year old, we had a maid who was probably 17 or 18 years as at that time. My siblings the girls share the same room with her while i sleep with the boys in another room.

I cannot really recall what prompted my mum asking me to join them in their room that night. Probably because we had a guest or something. Anyway that night i shared the bed with the housemaid. In the middle of the night, i felt my joy stick being held and rubbed. i had my eyes shut and pretended not to notice. Then the next thing she was putting her nipples in my mouth. Still i pretended to be asleep. She pulled off and inserted my joystick into her. Ol boi ! it was like swimming in the ocean. Well she did the pumping and all that, and i didnt tell my mum the next morning. Guess i was spoilt at that tender age.

Fast forward. We went to the village for christmas, i think i was an under graduate then. We decided to pay a visit to my maternal home and that was where i saw her.

When we looked at each other, i gave her a look that said : ''i remember what you did o''. I was much more taller than her and i didnt feel any anger or resentment towards her.

PRAY! PRAY!! PRAY !!! Or better still talk this through with your mother. And if you think you are too scared to seek her advice then i suggest you seek your spiritual director's advise. You should have a pastor or priest who you can pour your heart to than coming to Nairaland where you have both the good, the bad and the ugly.

The most imprtant thing one should have is PASSION. You missed that one

madridguy:
Too long

Hmm, I have tried to edit it o, e no gree. Or else na to delete some of dem comot patapata!

CONTINUATION:

The contract for the installation of CCTVs on the street of Lagos was awarded to one of Fashola’s relatives. The relative claimed to be acting for CISCO. The contract was awarded for $62 million dollars, while the rejected quotation for the contract was $30 million. It is important to note that this was only a pilot scheme.
No newspaper reported this.

Prince Dipo Eludoyin is a personal friend and proxy for ex-Gov Tinubu and Gov. Fashola. They had arrangements with him (Eludoyin) for some prime lands in Lagos to be sold to him. These lands were eventually sold to him at ridiculously low prices. Some of the lands include: : The 3.8-hectare of land of Lagos State Fisheries office in VI (beside the Institute of Oceanography), the fishery landing jetty at Badore (where the Ilubirin fishermen were to be relocated); the entire Ogudu foreshore scheme initially earmarked for a low-cost housing scheme; the Ilubinrin housing estate (which used to house Lagos state civil servants and judges up till 2007); the former Julius Berger yard at Oko Orisan, Epe.
No newspaper would report this.

The entire maintenance contract and management of hospital equipment at the LASUTH was solely concessioned to Olowolafe’s company by the Tinubu administration at an annual payment of N850m paid upfront. The Fashola’s government retains this arrangement
No newspaper would report this.

Billions of naira have been paid not once, not twice for the development of Oyingbo market for which no appreciable level of work has been done? Oyingbo market is still in the same state that it has always been. The evidence is there for the public to see.
No newspaper would report this.

Fashola lambasts the federal government, consistently, for its failure to provide steady power supply.
No newspaper editorial has ever been written to ask him why he has failed, in 8 years, to provide Lagosians with pipe-borne water.

In a State where children are sitting on the floor in classrooms, where unemployment is rampant and poverty pervasive, Fashola paid the wife of a controversial pastor over N600 million, in two years, for Xmas Decorations for about six streets in Lagos.
No newspaper reported this.

A 250-hectare of land valued at about N35billion and strategically located adjacent to the Ajah-Badore junction on Lekki-Epe road. It was original earmarked to build a general hospital to serve the people of Eti-Osa. However, it was stolen by Tinubu and handed over to Trojan Estate Ltd – a company owned by Deji and Wale Tinubu. Today, that property has been developed to become what is today known as the Royal Garden Housing Estate. All these at the expense of the taxpayers of Lagos.
No news media ever reported this.

Bola Tinubu appropriated to himself a choice public property situated along the Lekki-Epe expressway. It was on this land that he built and part-owns the multi-billion Naira “Oriental Hotels” at the “Admiralty Circle” Maroko.
Media houses conveniently turned a blind eye to this news item.

In 2005-2006, the Cook County Hospital in Chicago, Illinois, USA donated a set of medical equipment to the Lagos State government free-of-charge. This was when Bola Tinubu was still the governor of Lagos State. Yet, records showed that a company belonging to Tunji Olowolafe was paid for it by way of Letters of Credit for the same equipment. The payment was made during Fashola’s administration.
No newspaper editorial was written about this.

Mrs. Animashahun heads the Lagos State Building Control Agency. She is a relative of the governor. Also, one Dr. Mrs. Adesina who calls the shots as the Special Adviser to the Governor is equally a relative of the Governor. One Ms. Azeez, a sister to the closest friend of the Governor, Demola Azeez, heads the EKO Project and directly reports to him. There is hardly any Agency in the State today that the Fashola family or Animashaun Family does not prominently feature. This is aside from the in-laws and many relatives of the Governor who returned from the United Kingdom to populate most Lagos State agencies.
No newspaper would report this.

In 2009, Fashola claimed to have bought two helicopters for an unbelievable N5Billion. It was purchased without a transparent bidding process. They also claimed that the helicopter was built for emergency evacuation, rescue or to even combat urban fire. This was a blatant lie. The helicopters were of generic design. Before public attention was brought to this grand heist by the Fashola administration, the seal of Lagos State was not on it. It wasn’t even in Lagos, but in the Niger-Delta making money for some private people in government. The fraudulent purported acquisition of 2 Bell 412 EP Series Helicopters from a Canadian firm constitute a flagrant violation of Section 123(1) and (2) and Section 120(4) of the 1999 Constitution.

Only ThisDay Newspaper reported this (See ThisDay December 19, 2009). However, the consequence of daring to report this, is the reason why the beautiful and imposing “ThisDay Dome”, an exquisite event place, situated along the Lekki Epe Expressway, Lekki, is no more there. Emperor Fashola literarily harassed them out of the state.

The Mayegun Scheme was sold to Olowolafe and other friends and cronies of Fashola against public interest without any independent valuation by relevant agency of government? Why is the size of the scheme shielded in secrecy? Why was N5.2 billion for which the land was sold untraceable? Where is the over N2 billion loan borrowed to sand-fill the place? What is the fate of the Tourism and Art-craft sellers chased away from the place?
No newspaper reported this.

Former Gov Tinubu gave away Hectares of land belonging to several communities-Sirinwon, Igbekodo, Apakin etc in Ibeju Lekki local government to his crony, one Ibukun Fakeye to develop a golf course and housing estate with no regard for the right of the community? In addition, why did the Lagos State Government pay a whopping sum of N5billion for the take-off of the project which today is being singularly handled by Ibukun Fakeye as a private project at the exclusion of any Lagos State Government official? Was this project ever approved by the Lagos State House of Assembly or the amount appropriated in the 2006 or 2007 budgets?
No newspaper would report this.

Ms. Yinka Fashola is the immediate elder sister of the Gov. Fashola. She is the one superintending over the on-going Lagos State Residents Registration exercise. Nothing less than 7 Billion Naira has been expended on the exercise thus far. Unfortunately, more than a year since the commencement of the programme, they have only succeeded in registering 164,000 people. Mathematically, it translates to N42,682, 926.82 to register one person. Pure waste of tax payers funds.
No newspaper would report this.

The entire Ogudu Foreshore scheme initially earmarked for low cost housing scheme sold to a company belonging to Prince Dipo Eludoyin – a crony of Bola Tinubu? How much was this piece of real estate sold? And where did the money end up in?
No newspaper would report this.

Bola Tinubu’s wife, Remi Tinubu, built the massive New Era Foundation youth camp at the junction of Eleko, off the Lekki-Epe express road, with Lagos State funds. Today, the project is now her personal property.
No newspaper would report this.

Fashola during his electioneering campaign of 2011, in no uncertain terms, promised that he would build the 4th Mainland Bridge. Today, there are no signs of the project kicking off.
No newspaper editorial reminded him of this campaign promise.

The 1,000 hectares of land valued at about N75billion located at Lakowe near Abijo at Ibeju-Lekki Local Government and given to Lekki Concession Company (LCC). It is partly- owned by Tinubu and Fashola. It has been been developed into a golf course and housing estate by Assets and Resource Management Ltd (ARM) as ADIVA project.
We are still waiting for a newspaper to do an editorial on this.

Fashola built a bridge to connect Lekki to Ikoyi. The bridge, the Lekki-Ikoyi bridge, is described as a “suspended bridge”. The bridge is by no means a suspended bridge. Most Lagosians are clueless of what a suspended bridge is. However, they accept it as that. The bridge costs the State a staggering N38 Billion ( they creatively skimmed off N2b from N40B, to make it N38Billion, in order to give the project amount some decency). The House of Assembly’s verification exercise rated the bridge as being not worth more than N7 billion. Whatever happened to N31Billion is best left to the imagination of the tax payers.
No newspaper has reported this.

Still on the Lekki-Ikoyi bridge. The Lekki-Ikoyi “suspended” bridge is a 1.8km bridge. It is built on low-tide (shallow) waters. It was built at an incredible cost of N38Billion. That is over $250m dollar for a 1.8km bridge! Mathematically, that translates to about N18million per meter length (over $120k per length). In other words, N420, 200 per inch ($40, 0000 per inch). Perhaps, the bridge was built with gold-plated gravel and steel.
However, this leaves one wondering how much it would then take Fashola to build the fabled 4TH Mainland bridge, a bridge that is expected to span 15km.

BY MALIK SHABBAZZ

Fashola claims he spent the sum of N1.5Billion of un-appropriated funds, without approval in demolishing and planting grass at Oshodi.
No newspaper reported this.

Between January and June 2009, Fashola’s Chief of Staff and PAs spent N290 million in sending TEXT Messages and making phone CALLS on their lines.
Of course, no newspaper reported this.

P.S: Please, someone, kindly remind me – what did Stella Oduah do again? SMH.

Now, permit me to introduce Dr. Tunji Olowolafe. He is the owner of DEUX PROJECT LIMITED. He is Bola Tinubu and Babatunde Fashola’s crony. He is also their biggest proxy. Most contracts that Fashola awards to himself are done using DEUX PROJECT LIMITED. For instance, between January and August 2009, 11 out of 19 contracts in the Lagos State Ministry of health were awarded to this company. Out of N5.6Billion contract in the Ministry of Health, Olowolafe alone collected N5.1Billion worth and was paid 70 percent upfront in cash.
No newspaper or other news media reported this.

For a State that earns averagely N360Billion, annually, from taxes, isn’t it befuddling that its state-own University, LASU, cannot boast of a hostel facility? Yet, Fashola had the temerity to increase school fees from N25k to N250K.

No newspaper has ever written a report or editorial about this.

Remember the Bank of Industry (BOI) building at Lagos Island that partially collapsed in March, 2006?

On the 21st of September, 2008 the building was eventually demolished. Now guess how much Fashola spent to demolish it? A whooping N1.5Billion! Please, be reminded that this amount is just to demolish a building. Not to build one. Anyway, that isn’t the end of the story. The government of Lagos, a.k.a Fashola administration, later acquired the land (Layeni’s compound) adjacent to the demolished building in the “public interest”. He later resold it to his proxy Tunji Olowolafe.
No newspaper has ever reported this.

During the Bola Tinubu administration, he awarded the construction of City Hall for N2.3Billion. When Fashola later came on board, he increased the contract sum to N5.2Billion. This project was increased by 126%. The only input he eventually made to City Hall was to change the floor tiles to marble tiles.
The news media conveniently missed this news item.

The SSA (Media) to Fashola spends approximately N200million quarterly on press coverage and on news media editors. In other words, it is from this money that news media editors are paid to gag them from reporting anything unsavoury about Fashola or his administration. Note that this fund is outside the approved budget, but funded directly from the Governor’s Office. Now, you know why no news media outlets broadcast or publish anything negative about Fashola and his administration. Also, propaganda against their political adversaries is fuelled by this largesse to the media authorities.
Of course, this is not the sort of news that Sahara Reporters report about.

The Critical Care unit at the Lagos State University Teaching Hospital (LASUTH) in Ikeja, built and equipped with state funds, is now owned personally by Fashola’s god-father, BolaTinubu. He put one Dr. Sikiru Tinubu, (a supposed cousin of his) to run the outfit. It is run as a private unit and the proceeds are pocketed by the duo. The unit charges its users exorbitantly and most Lagosians can hardly afford to pay its high charges. Most of the revenue is derived from fees paid by the State Government for patients referred there by its General Hospitals.
Oddly, this news item evaded all news media.

Fashola’s god-father, Bola Tinubu, converted all the plots of land where Lagos Polytechnic was located at Ikosi, near the old toll gate. He chased away the Polytechnic in 2006 and went ahead to allocate the choice plots to himself. The headquarters of Television Continental (TVC) and Radio Continental, which is owned by him, is currently located there. He deprived the youths of Lagos of decent education because of his primitive desire to acquire every real estate that he can lay his hands on in Lagos.
As to be expected,Television Continental (TVC) and Radio Continental did not report this.

Lagos State generates an Internally Generated Revenue (IGR) of an average of N25Billion to N30Billion Monthly (At least, that is what they declare. It could be more). The company that is contracted to collect IGR is Alpha Beta Consultants (ABC). The company is owned by Bola Ahmed Tinubu. The company collects 10% commission of taxes collected in Lagos. This amounts to between N2.5Billion to N3Billion monthly. On what basis is this 10% commission when the same work can be done by the Lagos State Board of Internal Revenue?
No newspaper has ever written a report or editorial about this.

Fashola administration once spent N1Billion Naira on “bangers” and fireworks during the New Year Crossover Night. This is a state that its university – Lagos State University (LASU) – cannot boast of a hostel facility.
No newspaper reported this.

Between January and June 2009, now guess how much Fashola claimed to have used to fuel the fleet of vehicles attached to his office alone?
Please, brace up for the figure.

N135 million!

This amounts to about N800, 000 per day. Interestingly, this was at a time that petrol was sold for N65 per litre, and we all know that government always gets it cheaper. But Fashola claimed to have bought it at N85 per litre.

This particular revelation surfaced at a time when members of the Lagos State House of Assembly were looking for a reason to impeach him in 2010. These “Honourables”, led by the Speaker of the house – Adeyemi Ikuforiji, are loyal to Bola Tinubu. They were angry with Fashola for daring to suggest a downward review of the 10% that their god-father, Tinubu, earns from all collected taxes in Lagos. Thus, this revelation came to light. However, when the rift between Tinubu and his prodigal god-son, Fashola, was settled, the case was magically swept under the rug.
Of course, this news never made the press.

During the Bola Tinubu administration, the LASU IBA road was awarded for N6.2Billion. In less than two weeks when Fashola came on board, the amount was jerked up to N10 Billion. The reason for this reckless increase was never stated.
No newspaper reported this.

Fashola awarded the contract for the reconstruction of part of Western Avenue (Funsho Williams Road). The road is a two kilometers road (between Abalti Barracks and Costain). The project was carried out by Julius Berger. This 2 KM road costs a staggering N7.7 Billion. Mind you, the contract didn’t include the construction of any bridge.
No newspaper reported this.

The prime land of 157 hectares with 2.5km of Atlantic beachfront valued at about N10billion and stolen by Tinubu from the communities of Siriwon, Igbekodo, Apakin, etc in Ibeju-Lekki Local Government and given to Mr. Ibukun Fakeye (his crony) to build a golf course and luxury villa with little or no compensation to the villagers. In addition, Tinubu paid $20million (N4billion) out of public treasury to Ibukun Fakeye to commence the project in late 2006. Fashola has since released additional funding for this project, which is not owned by the state government.
TVC and Radio Continental will never report this.

Fashola’s wife travels abroad at least once in two months. Whenever she travels, she takes N30million per trip from the State coffers, apart from her monthly running cost.
No newspaper would report this.

What is the status of the Bus Assembly Company-a joint venture between the Lagos State Government and Marcopolo Bus Company of Brazil of which about N2Billion was paid to a foreign consultant and a Nigerian friend of Bola Tinubu in 2006? The objective of the project was to build a bus maintenance facility at the old LMTS yard at Cappa, Oshodi of which nothing has been done till date? Gov Fashola should update the public on this.
No newspaper has reported this.

Fashola awarded a contract to construct a road and drainage inside Gbagada General Hospital. Of course, the contract was awarded to his usual proxy, Dr. Tunji Olowolafe’s company (DEUX Projects Limited). Now, guess the contract amount? Over N1.8 billion!
No newspaper editorial was ever written about this.

The Fashola administration boasts of restoring safety and security to Lagos State. However, what is their justification for the Fashola administration, within 6 months (January to June 2009) spending N420million on hiring private security to guard him despite his heavy investment in the Police Force through the State Security Trust Fund.
No newspaper would report this.

Over 70% of Lagos State Government contracts are concentrated in the hands of his proxy – Dr. Tunji Olowolafe. However, this is the clearest indication of the betrayal of trust by Governor Fashola. This is against the Oath of Office he swore to. It is a violation of Sections 14(4), 15(5) and 17(2a) of the 1999 Constitution on which social objective of a just, free and equitable social order is founded.
No newspaper would report this.

Obafemi Awolowo Way, Ikeja, is a road of about 1KM. The contract for the supply of dissel for the generators that power the street lights was awarded to a Bale (community ruler). The Bale is a very close ally of Fashola and Bola Tinubu. The Bale is paid N16m monthly.
No newspaper reported this.

In a State where pipe-borne water is almost non-existent, Fashola spent over N13Billion on planting grass and flowers in just a few places that constitute less than 1% of Lagos land mass. According to them, most of the money was spent in importing palm trees from Niger Republic, a sahel region belt, when Lagos is in the rain forest. This explains why most of the trees have dried up.
The news media conveniently didn’t get a hint of this news item.

The INDICATOR magazine, a magazine that focuses on the activities of the Lagos State government, is falsely passed off to the public as a private magazine. It is not. It is actually co-ordinated and published by Tunji Olowolafe and Hakeem Bello, SSA (Media) to BRF with government money.

Of course, no newspaper would report this.

Fashola’s god-father, Bola Tinubu, while he was the governor, allocated to himself the former Strabag yard that is located beside the Lagos State Secretariat at Alausa, Ikeja. The land has now been developed to bear one of his investments – The Ikeja Shopping Mall (Ikeja Shoprite).
No newspaper would report this.

In six months (between January and June 2009) Fashola spent money on several faceless organizations in the form of subventions, grants and donations, A total of N2 billion was given out in the process.
No newspaper would report this.

The 14-hectare Parkview Ikoyi Estate foreshore land reclaimed by Lagos State Government is now owned by Bola Tinubu.
No newspaper has reported this.

Very nice thread. I happen to be one who really feel for my female friends who are in the higher institution. When they call me and tell me they need some help financially, i try to help. Even to those i am not really close to, not to talk of my girl friend.

In essence, i know if i am their last hope and i dont help, they might be force to get it in the other way round. And in so doing i will not forgive myself if i had the means of helping but didnt.

kpolli:
You're close but that's when we were grown.... You go to the church that draws you closer to God.... A church is not a social gathering, if you do not feel the presence in God in one place, my advice; change your church... Why will we quarrel because of interpretation? Your church does not interpret your Bible for you, you do.... Plus we are adults and if we can not bring out valid points that back up our perspective then we are merely deceiving ourselves....

I do not know how you look at it oo, but when it comes to God; my advice, praise Him in the best way you can.... Because you will be judged by your actions not what your father's pastor told you.

Well you said when you are grown. The father doesn't think so, okay? So maybe she has to get her independent before thinking of changing church. Peace

kpolli:
I checked her picture and she looks old enough to be in a University so yes she is old enough to decide her church.... I know how and where I was raised... Once I we entered Uni, we were allowed to make our decisions...

But as per name of her new church, sounds funny though but I won't judge a church by it's name....



O boy, wetin you dey talk? Me wey grow up for Lagos!!!!!!!!! Omo no dey use english judge person for here ooo....

I dunno how you were brought up but as for me and my siblings.... We were left to make our own decisions after secondary school (and mandatory 1 year University admission wait thanks to Jamb)

Okay if I get the picture, the scenario in your family is like thus : dad catholic, mum anglican, you christ embassy, brother, redeem, sister1 MFM, sister2 jehova witness, sister3 deeper life.

Every sunday morning all of una go seperate churches, and come back at different times. I bet you guys don't study the bible together, cos if you do, its gonna be war when it comes to interpretation of the passage.

Hmm sorry o! A united family , or would I say a man who wants to have a united family would take religious very serious because this is what causes disunity in the home.

So tell me, did I paint a good scenario or would you like to tell me how it goes in your family. I'm waiting to hear from you.

Update: he has passed out of nysc and has gone back to akure. He doesn't pick her calls and always hung up when he notice she is the one calling,

I asked her if she knew his place? Response is No, but she has his brother and sister's phone number, plus his room-mate while he was doing his nysc. Meanwhile the room-mate has warned her never to call him again.

What about his siblings? Yes she has called and told them but its his word against hers.

Why not talk woman to woman to his sister? I suggested.

Response: she understands my plight but advises I give birth to thr baby then carry out test to prove if her brother is the father.

I suggested she find way to locate his family house so she can meet his parents and tell them she is carrying their grand child.

That's the latest. She is still very confused. I plan to direct her to this post so she can listen to what you guys are advising.

kpolli:
Oh my guess is that you're one of those guys who believe once they take care of someone, they own them.... Well if you feel the father has the right to tell her how and where to worship God then I won't even stress myself arguing with you.....

Confirmed non-african. Its not ya fault. Seems your culture is a foreign one anyway

kpolli:
Is he God?? Tell him never to say that again, that's blasphemy of the highest order

Lame advice. If you are a father, you would like your daughter to talk to you that way abi? He is right to tell her as long as she is under his care he makes some decision for her. Until she leaves his home then she can decide on her religion.

The Bible says obey your parents. Hence since you are still under your parents home, you have to obey them. When you get married you can decide to change, or betterstill when you leave your parents house. Till then stick to where you are.

LieDetector:
unfortunately I'm none. It's obvious you got yourself a new phone and you felt like creating a topic on nairaland but you couldn't think out of the box and compose something unique so you resorted to digging up a 2013 joke. Tantamount to a jobless fool. Innit?

Whether a joke has been told even if its just last month should still have the same effect on those having good sense of humor. Its quite unfortunately you have zero sense of humour. So buzz off!

LieDetector:
Stale joke. Didn't laugh.


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Then you must either be a broke ass or looking for a job

Tallesty1:
The same trap women dey set for guys on Facebook don catch one of them.



I don't believe the story sha.

I can give you her facebook name if you want, but of course I can't disclose her identity as she doesn't know her story is even here on nairaland

Only a courageous woman can fry a bunch of plantain without tasting any - Albert Macauley (1872)

He who says nothing lasts forever has never tried Hausa perfume - Nelson Mandela (1973)

He who completely unwraps moimoi and gala before eating cannot keep a secret - Abraham Lincoln (1864)

Any man that uses his teeth to cut shaki from pepper soup, with his eyes wide open, is not afraid of anything - Williams Shakespeare (1900)

Anyone who graduates without experiencing a strike, has never been to Nigeria - Lord Lugard (1904)

He who refuses to mix agege bread and akara as a type of sandwich is a racist - Martin Luther King jnr (1788)

Any man who drinks Alomo bitters without squeezing his face, is capable of murder - Michael Faraday (1899)

Drinking Garri doesn't mean u're poor, but allowing the Garri to swell b4 drinking is poverty - Queen Elizabeth (1893)

He who runs around looking 4 scissors to cut indomine seasoning sachet is not hungry - Dr Nnamdi Azikiwe (1947)

No matter how hot your temper is, it cannot cook yam - Goodluck Jonathan (2013)

Anyone who reads this without laughing is either looking 4 job or needs money Badly - Barack Obama (2014).

I got buzzed up by a face book friend. This happened not quite long. We haven't chatted for quite some time now, and she told me she needed my advise on an issue. Here is her story.

She was browsing on face book one day and came across a post where a guy was lamenting how his eight year old relationship ended. With comments up to two hundred, she decided to add hers. Such was her consolation message that the guy noticed and sent her a message.

They went private where he told her the full gist and how he was looking for true love. She responded and they exchanged numbers. The calls started coming in and sometimes it was whatsapp.

This was in October last year. And he was a youth corper; hails from Ondo state, but was serving in Osun state. Whereas she was in Ibadan. The next month he asked her out and she agreed.

She paid him a visit the next month being November where they finally met in person. He professed his feelings to this girl and she in turn liked him too. These are her word : ''I love him so much, and ready to do anything to please him. I even beg to be loved by him. I showed him love and respect''

These continued until this month February when she discovered she was pregnant. When she told him, these were his response: ''I never loved or need you. Go and abort the baby and forget we ever met'' And as far as i am concerned, i am not interested in you and the baby''.

She wants my advise.

I told her to give me time to think it through. So my fellow Nairalanders, please advise this lady. She should be in her late twenties i think.

if you mean attracting, i will say no. What attracts men are boobs and cleavages

In the time we live in; we must learn to deal with it by GOD's Grace.

1. Number tag of a real policeman must be six digits, lessthan six, is fake.

2. Only female police officers have their numbers begin with "0", any policeman with number beginning with "0" is fake.

3. Every policeman's name tag is woven to the shirt, no more removable name tags.

4. A distinction between the normal policeman and the SPY (supernumerary) police personnel, is that a SPY number must be either three or four digits with the word "SPY" boldly inscribed on their uniform shoulder.

Please, at night be vigilant, always roll-up your windows in traffic,central lock your doors, be double sure they are true policemen, if they are not, be strong and speed off. Never get frightened.

Be watchful, they are everywhere; educate your family members,neighbors, and friends. GOD Almighty will continue to protect us.


SENT BY THE NIGERIAN POLICE. Remember elections is coming. Beware of fake police.

gambudu:
looks for coin,place it on the canter,gets a stone,hit the coin on the canter,removes a button from my school uniform,tear the middle page of my note book makes a paper post.finally looks for a well cemented ground,turns it to a field,then the game starts

what of stolen chalk from your school or a white stone to draw the field?