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But if woman wear trouser,she no dey seduce una,una no dey get raunchy thought for una head?
Whether you like it or not trousers is a sin
Girls suppose wear skirts,trouser Na for male
As the tin divide woman legs like man e no good
Make Una use una common sense think
The devil can be so trickish...

This is something that really baffles me,why having such grudge against your Creator?

What has He done to you that makes you to have such grudge against Him.
I my self I'm so much inlove with Him,am so eager to see Him.
So why do you hate Him?

GENUINE SALVATION(HOW TO GET IT)



The starting point for a relationship with God is to forsake sin." Let the wicked forsake his way,and the unrighteous man his thoughts:and let him return unto the Lord,and He will abundantly pardon"( Isaiah 55:7). What separate man from God is sin,and you can never please God without being save.Also, your self -righteousness can never take you to heaven.(whether you are a philanthropist,without being save,your works are all in vain,your generosity can never take you to heaven.), "For they being ignorant of God's righteousness,and going about to establish their own righteousness,have not submitted themselves unto the righteousness of God."(Romans 10:3)," An hypocrite shall not come before Him"(Job 13:16). Your self righteousness separate you from God.

We must turn away from sin and completely surrender our life to Christ.God is ever ready to forgive."There is no sin that is too great for God to forgive if we turn from it to him". It is very easy to have genuine salvation.The first step you need to take in getting it is to;

(1) Acknowledge that you are a sinner: "All men are sinners,for all have sinned and come short of the glory of God"(Romans 3:23). you need to be in a serene vicinity inorder to commune with God effectively or right now you can commune with God,acknowledge that you are a sinner.

(2) Confess:" ...covereth his sin shall not prosper..." Confess all your sins to God with a contrite heart,plead for His mercy,ask for His forgiveness,cry out to Him with sincerity.(There is no point going through your pastor,bishop to confess and ask God for forgiveness,that was before,but now we have direct access to God, as soon as Jesus died for us,the way was opened into the Holy of Holies,talk to God by your self,confess to Him not through your bishop,revered father,pastor etc).

(3) At this point you need to make a covenant with God by promising Him not to go back to the sins you have left behind, forsake your sin wholeheartedly.

(4) Believe on Jesus that you have been pardon and forgiven:" If thou shalt... believe in thine heart...thou shalt be saved"(Romans 10:19),"Whosoever believeth Jesus is the christ is born of God"(1John 5:1).

The evidence of SALVATION is an unprecedented joy in your heart.The joy of SALVATION is wonderful.(like when you remember that there is no enmity between God and you,oh! the happiness that will spring up from your stomach can be so overwhelming).

But you need to go further,though you have been forgiven,but that Adamic nature,that inbred sin is still in You. SALVATION is the first Christian experience, SANCTIFICATION(Holiness) is the second experience.What is SANCTIFICATION(Holiness)?.We are told in Hebrews 12:14,"follow peace with all men,and holiness,without which no man shall see the Lord." We read in 1peter 1:16,... Be ye holy; for I am holy". The word holy is mentioned in the Bible 596times,holiness,43times. SANCTIFICATION means spiritually pure,godly.When you are sanctified,that inbred sin in you will be uprooted,spirit of fornication will be uprooted,spirit of masturbation will be uprooted,spirit of lying,stealing,envy etc will all be uprooted. The urge to do them will not be there if you are sanctified.SANCTIFICATION is real(I have experienced It,that was why I easily gave up on plaiting my hair with any attachment.). The benefit of SANCTIFICATION is so wonderful,those urges will be eradicated.If you don't believe me,try it.Go down on your kneels,pray to God with a contrite heart,plead with God to sanctify your heart.This need deeper consecration.(don't be distracted),plead with God wholeheartedly,ask for such heart,(a sanctified heart). Name all the spirit you want Him to uproot from your heart,cry to Him.Tell Him You want to serve Him in Holiness,tell Him you don't want to go back to your sins." Father have determine to make heaven,please father,sanctify my heart,come into my heart, I need you father,uproot those spirit that is tormenting me,that makes me to offend you always,Jesus please,help me, I cannot stop them myself please Help me...�����..." Pray that way,with deeper consecration,with a sincere heart.Believe that you will receive it.Evidence; receiving SANCTIFICATION can change your life automatically,no more urges for your sweetest sin,even though you might be tempted,you will have the power to overcome it.

Well thats not all,you need to pray further,for the third Christian experience,which is baptism of the Holy Ghost,gbam! Very important.(many people don't believe we can receive it,it is real,i have received it). The work of the Holy spirit;

(1) The Holy spirit anoints us with power to witness(Acts1:8,Lk4:18,Acts 4:29,32)

(2) The spirit brings forth virtues in our lives(The fruit of the spirit us love,Joy,peace etc,Gal.5:22-23,Rom.5:5,Rom14:17).

(3) The Holy spirit comfort us (John 14:16-26,John16:7,Acta9:31,Rom.8:1).

(4) The Holy spirit is the spirit of Truth( John 16:13,1John 5:66).

(5) The Holy spirit helps us to pray( From.8: 26-27,Jude20).

(6) The Holy spirit give us wisdom and guidance(Mk13:11,Lk12:11,12) and many more ...

The evidence of receiving it is by speaking in another language entirely,the spirit will overwhelm you, you won't be able to control your tongue.It need deeper consecration. Sometimes it takes a long time to receive it(mine took a long time to come,days before coming,if you are patient you will receive it), sometimes you need to make restitution,before receiving it,holding grudges with your fellow brother can hinder the Holy spirit,make sure you make things right before praying for the Holy spirit.

After receiving the three Christian experience,dont just relax,you have a lot to do(so that you won't loose them). There are things you need to do to maintain your three Christian experience;

(1)Read your Bible and study the word of God: check the importance(Deu. 32:46,47,psalm 138:2).

(2) Pray always,be in a constant attitude of prayer:Read your Bible pray everyday... Pray everyday... Pray everyday...., read your Bible pray everyday...if.. you.. want..to.. grow..(I love that song�)(1chr16:11,Pro.3:6,"Watch ye therefore and pray always "LK21:36).

(3) Attend weekly activities in church,it helps a lot in maintaining your experiences, you will be expose to teachings that will help you grow spiritually.( Do you know that absenting your self from weekly activities can take you to hell,as serious as that.GOD NEEDS 100%COMMITMENT).

Attend a church that preaches salvation every Sunday.if your current church is always preaching about prosperity every day,i will advise you to leave that Church. The main reason church was instituted by God was to prepare everyone for HEAVEN. Look for a church that will prepare you for HEAVEN..."Seek ye first the kingdom of God and all other things shall be added unto you".

GOD BLESS YOU,AMEN.

GENUINE SALVATION(HOW TO GET IT)

Please don't scroll down,at least just glance through it.

The starting point for a relationship with God is to forsake sin." Let the wicked forsake his way,and the unrighteous man his thoughts:and let him return unto the Lord,and He will abundantly pardon"( Isaiah 55:7). What separate man from God is sin,and you can never please God without being save.Also, your self -righteousness can never take you to heaven.(whether you are a philanthropist,without being save,your works are all in vain,your generosity can never take you to heaven.), "For they being ignorant of God's righteousness,and going about to establish their own righteousness,have not submitted themselves unto the righteousness of God."(Romans 10:3)," An hypocrite shall not come before Him"(Job 13:16). Your self righteousness separate you from God.

We must turn away from sin and completely surrender our life to Christ.God is ever ready to forgive."There is no sin that is too great for God to forgive if we turn from it to him". It is very easy to have genuine salvation.The first step you need to take in getting it is to;

(1) Acknowledge that you are a sinner: "All men are sinners,for all have sinned and come short of the glory of God"(Romans 3:23). you need to be in a serene vicinity inorder to commune with God effectively or right now you can commune with God,acknowledge that you are a sinner.

(2) Confess:" ...covereth his sin shall not prosper..." Confess all your sins to God with a contrite heart,plead for His mercy,ask for His forgiveness,cry out to Him with sincerity.(There is no point going through your pastor,bishop to confess and ask God for forgiveness,that was before,but now we have direct access to God, as soon as Jesus died for us,the way was opened into the Holy of Holies,talk to God by your self,confess to Him not through your bishop,revered father,pastor etc).

(3) At this point you need to make a covenant with God by promising Him not to go back to the sins you have left behind, forsake your sin wholeheartedly.

(4) Believe on Jesus that you have been pardon and forgiven:" If thou shalt... believe in thine heart...thou shalt be saved"(Romans 10:19),"Whosoever believeth Jesus is the christ is born of God"(1John 5:1).

The evidence of SALVATION is an unprecedented joy in your heart.The joy of SALVATION is wonderful.(like when you remember that there is no enmity between God and you,oh! the happiness that will spring up from your stomach can be so overwhelming).

But you need to go further,though you have been forgiven,but that Adamic nature,that inbred sin is still in You. SALVATION is the first Christian experience, SANCTIFICATION(Holiness) is the second experience.What is SANCTIFICATION(Holiness)?.We are told in Hebrews 12:14,"follow peace with all men,and holiness,without which no man shall see the Lord." We read in 1peter 1:16,... Be ye holy; for I am holy". The word holy is mentioned in the Bible 596times,holiness,43times. SANCTIFICATION means spiritually pure,godly.When you are sanctified,that inbred sin in you will be uprooted,spirit of fornication will be uprooted,spirit of masturbation will be uprooted,spirit of lying,stealing,envy etc will all be uprooted. The urge to do them will not be there if you are sanctified.SANCTIFICATION is real(I have experienced It,that was why I easily gave up on plaiting my hair with any attachment.). The benefit of SANCTIFICATION is so wonderful,those urges will be eradicated.If you don't believe me,try it.Go down on your kneels,pray to God with a contrite heart,plead with God to sanctify your heart.This need deeper consecration.(don't be distracted),plead with God wholeheartedly,ask for such heart,(a sanctified heart). Name all the spirit you want Him to uproot from your heart,cry to Him.Tell Him You want to serve Him in Holiness,tell Him you don't want to go back to your sins." Father have determine to make heaven,please father,sanctify my heart,come into my heart, I need you father,uproot those spirit that is tormenting me,that makes me to offend you always,Jesus please,help me, I cannot stop them myself please Help me...�����..." Pray that way,with deeper consecration,with a sincere heart.Believe that you will receive it.Evidence; receiving SANCTIFICATION can change your life automatically,no more urges for your sweetest sin,even though you might be tempted,you will have the power to overcome it.

Well thats not all,you need to pray further,for the third Christian experience,which is baptism of the Holy Ghost,gbam! Very important.(many people don't believe we can receive it,it is real,i have received it). The work of the Holy spirit;

(1) The Holy spirit anoints us with power to witness(Acts1:8,Lk4:18,Acts 4:29,32)

(2) The spirit brings forth virtues in our lives(The fruit of the spirit us love,Joy,peace etc,Gal.5:22-23,Rom.5:5,Rom14:17).

(3) The Holy spirit comfort us (John 14:16-26,John16:7,Acta9:31,Rom.8:1).

(4) The Holy spirit is the spirit of Truth( John 16:13,1John 5:66).

(5) The Holy spirit helps us to pray( From.8: 26-27,Jude20).

(6) The Holy spirit give us wisdom and guidance(Mk13:11,Lk12:11,12) and many more ...

The evidence of receiving it is by speaking in another language entirely,the spirit will overwhelm you, you won't be able to control your tongue.It need deeper consecration. Sometimes it takes a long time to receive it(mine took a long time to come,days before coming,if you are patient you will receive it), sometimes you need to make restitution,before receiving it,holding grudges with your fellow brother can hinder the Holy spirit,make sure you make things right before praying for the Holy spirit.

After receiving the three Christian experience,dont just relax,you have a lot to do(so that you won't loose them). There are things you need to do to maintain your three Christian experience;

(1)Read your Bible and study the word of God: check the importance(Deu. 32:46,47,psalm 138:2).

(2) Pray always,be in a constant attitude of prayer:Read your Bible pray everyday... Pray everyday... Pray everyday...., read your Bible pray everyday...if.. you.. want..to.. grow..(I love that song�)(1chr16:11,Pro.3:6,"Watch ye therefore and pray always "LK21:36).

(3) Attend weekly activities in church,it helps a lot in maintaining your experiences, you will be expose to teachings that will help you grow spiritually.( Do you know that absenting your self from weekly activities can take you to hell,as serious as that.GOD NEEDS 100%COMMITMENT).

Attend a church that preaches salvation every Sunday.if your current church is always preaching about prosperity every day,i will advise you to leave that Church. The main reason church was instituted by God was to prepare everyone for HEAVEN. Look for a church that will prepare you for HEAVEN..."Seek ye first the kingdom of God and all other things shall be added unto you".

GOD BLESS YOU,AMEN.

THE IDEA THAT EVERYONE CAN DO HIS OR HER “THING” AND GET AWAY WITH IT BECAUSE WE ARE UNDER GRACE IS A GROSS MISCONCEPTION.

Many are embracing the mistaken belief that less is required of God’s people in the new than in the Old Testament. Here is one example of the opposite being true,
Whosoever therefore shall break of these least commandments, and shall teach men so, he shall be called the least in the kingdom of heaven, For I say unto you, that except your righteousness shall exceed the righteousness of the scribes and the Pharisees, ye shall in no case enter into the kingdom of heaven. Matthew 5:19, 20. Does it sound to you that Jesus is calling for less devotion? Let’s go on.

Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time (old testament) Thou shalt not kill;and whosoever shall kill be in danger of the judgement: But I say unto you, that whosoever is angry with his brother without a cause shall be in danger of the judgement: and whosoever shall say to his brother Raca, shall be in danger of the council: but whosoever shall say Thou fool, shall be in danger of hell fire Matthew 5:21,22.Does this indicate that Christ is easing up on the old law? Lets go a little further.

Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time (Old Testament), thou shalt not commit adultery. But I
Say unto you, that whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart. Mathew 5:27, 28.

We begin to get the picture, Grace carries a higher standard of holiness than the law. The average modern day Christian resents these higher demands because he does not want to meet them, therefore he will accuse the individual who reminds him of Gods requirements of trying to put him under condemnation. To try to slip out from under the condemnation from which he is suffering, he will half quote Romans 8:1 as do so many, including radio and TV preachers. There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus...They stop there but the scripture doesn’t. It goes on to say … who walk not after flesh, but after the spirit, Romans 8:1.The fallacy that is less is expected of Gods children under grace are destroyed by reading Gods Holy word.

I listen to a well known bible teacher on the radio as he thought he expounded from the scripture. after quoting, all things are lawful unto me, but all things are not expedient all things are lawful for me but I will not be brought under the power of any,1corinthians 6:12, he went on to proclaim eloquently that if he wanted to drink alcoholic beverages, run around with wicked women, and generally commit sin, he could do so and still go to heaven. Years of foolish teaching such as he was giving over hundreds of radio stations have brought the church into the misunderstanding that anything goes, we will make it to heaven, we won’t be as pleasing to God………GOD HAS NEVER DONE AWAY WITH AND WILL NEVER DO AWAY WITH HIS MORAL.THAT HE HAS IS ONLY WISHFUL THINKING ON THE PART OF MANY LUKEWARM CHRISTIAN AND BACKSLIDDEN COMPROMISING PREACHERS.

AN EXCERPT FROM “WHAT IS HOLINESS?” BY WILLIAM F. HILL

WEARING OF TROUSER AS A WOMAN IS UNACCEPTABLE BY GOD.(HOLINESS AND OUTWARD APPEARANCE).

… For man looketh on the outward appearance, but the lord looketh on the heart.(1 Samuel 16:7).

you have just read one of the most misunderstood and misapplied scriptures in the entire bible. I cannot tell you how many times this scripture has been quoted (or misquoted) to me to prove that God does not care the snap of His finger for the externals of holiness.
This verse has been lifted completely out of is context to imply that God does not care how a man and a woman looks in regard to hair, clothes, etc., when in reality it is an instruction to Samuel not to anoint a man to be king because he is tall or good looking. The children of Israel were no doubt impressed with their first king, Saul, because he was a big man physically (1 Samuel 9:2).God was conveying the message to Samuel in (1 Samuel 16:7) that he was not impressed with men because of their physical stature, he was looking at the heart, or spiritual stature of a man. God does care how his people look on the outside.

One of the devils tactics today is to cause people to look hideous. For proof of that, go to your local records sales counter and view the pictures of the rock music stars. They make themselves look hideous why? man was created in the image of God. The devil does not want people to look good. Demons have no body and they hate the body we have. When they look at us, they are reminded that Jesus Christ came in the form of a man(Romans 8:3,Phillipians 2:5,,hence, they want to cause us to look as far removed from what God wants us to appear as possible.
“Too many people major on minors”. Have you ever heard a statement like that?, is God interested in even the smallest way in how people look?, isn’t it true that to preach and teach that God requires certain standards of dress is to keep believers under the law?. Let us now take a few moments to find out what the New Testament teaches about externals of holiness. “Having therefore these promises, dearly beloved, let us cleanse ourselves from all filthiness of the flesh and spirit, perfecting holiness in the fear of god (2 Corinthians 7;1.). We notice here that to perfect holiness as God requires means there must be a conscious cleansing effort made by us as individuals, without as well as within. We can also readily see that Gods word mentions flesh before the spirit. There is a good reason for this. If we cannot cleanse that which we and others can see, then it will be even harder to cleanse that which no one can see. The word flesh here is taken from Greek word which means in this case, the body as opposed to the soul, or spirit, or as the symbol of what is external as opposed internal. Keep this in mind :if people are willing to compromise what you see then it is probably they are compromising even more that which you cannot see.” Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God. Be not deceived, neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulteress, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God” (1 Corinthians 6:9-10).

I want to zero in on the word, “effeminate.” The dictionary definition of the effeminate means having unsuitable feminine qualities: unmanly. The Greek word that is translated effeminate means of uncertain affinity, soft. God hates anything that destroys the distinction between sexes.” The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man…”(Deu. 22:5), (Revelation 21:27).the fifth verse of Deuteronomy 22 is part of the moral law that is carried over into the New Testament. why is it immoral for a woman to dress like a man or woman? Because it breaks down the distinction between sexes and fosters homosexuality and lesbianism. The modern day homosexual revolution did not just appear on the scene suddenly. Much of it started during the second world war when women donned men’s clothing and went to work in the factories. The next step was to cut their hair like a man. The great argument today is that slacks have been made famine by putting the buttons or zippers on the sides or the rear of the garments. That is ridiculous as saying a dress could be a man’s dress because it buttons or zippers around the waist instead of the front ,back, or side. This perversion of clothing started with idol worshippers. Men wore the dress of women when they presented themselves before the star of Venus. Women wore men’s clothing when they presented themselves before the star of mars. Idols were frequently represented with the features of one sex, but the dress of another. The worshippers of these idols wanted to appear as their gods did. Notice the description of monsters given in the bible … and their faces were as the faces of men. And they had hair as the hair of women…(Revelation 9;7-is it any wonder why God hates that which destroys the distinction of the sexes?. It is easy then to see the importance of the following instructions “doth not even nature itself teach you that if a man have long hair it is a shame unto him?, but if a woman have long hair, it is a glory to her for her hair is given her for a covering(1 Corinthians 11:14-15.) I knew...

AN EXCERPT FROM “WHAT IS HOLINESS” BY WILLIAM F. HILL.

Hello nairalanders,please I need your help..

i actually need a lawyer(especially a corporate lawyer or anyone one who has an idea concerning this issue) to tackle this questions for me.
I actually have the interest to study law, I love to be a corporate lawyer,so I have some questions that normally bug me.
Please i need you guys to please ventilate your opinion,thank you

(1) What are the right subject or course combination for studying corporate law(starting from Waec, jamb,university,and law school)

(2) Please at what level should I go for internship and should I go to a particular law firm that deals with business transaction?

(3) What kind of part time job can I do as a Law student?

(4) Is there any calculation involve in corporate law transaction?(I hate calculation)

(5) Am an introvert,is it advisable for me to study corporate law?

Is it advisable to read law as an introvert?

That's wonderful!

Wadewaltz:
Shut up ur smellin mouth

No point of exchanging words with you..

Definitely you are not ashame of portraying such a childish behavior...

Wadewaltz:
Mumu O.P,u dey try seduce ur dad,fool

Who is this sef!....

Nawaooo there is no need for such abrasive words Shu....

Those are the things I ruminate in my mind...

To be inlove with someone is stressful...

I just decided to share my love story,"my secret thoughts" (one sided love) to my fellow nairalander...

Be patient to read to the end...

#Copied from my Diary...

The first time I met him I fell in love with him; love at first sight.He is handsome,tall,dark and had that deep voice I always admire in men.what actually prompted me to fall more deeply in love with him was is constant involvement in God's work.�,that literally made me to be more in love with him.

I met him during my school days in Abia state polytechnic,the first time I come across him physically was perhaps during combine service(church service) or the first time I attended his sight reading class.(music class).

I noticed he likes looking at me whenever am nearer to him,that prompted me to be more interested in him,because of him,i was unable to attend service to be blessed for passing my instrument test��,I regretted my actions(actually I was very shy). I was scared to see him.....

I actually Started having crush on him in the year 2014,up till now(2018) am still in love with him that makes me sad�..

I added him on Facebook at Lagos,during the camp meeting(2016).(just to get closer to him)

I tried all my possible best to get rid of the feelings I had for him,but all to no avail,mehn am stress up.

I always think about him each day,dream about him,wondering what exactly he is doing in a particular time,wondering wether he himself is in love with me .

we normally chat together on Facebook virtually everyday,he always reply my messages,maybe because of me he likes coming online.

And also,he is a VIRGIN(he revealed it to me),just like me.

I remembered one time in camp meeting at Lagos I prayed to God to reveal to me whether he himself is in love with me,God answered that prayer.it was actually a sign. But after the revelation,i was contemplating whether truly God did answer that prayer or Devil trying to cause havoc In my life(maybe just to distract me by confusing my head).

I don't want to miss heaven,i want this feeling to stop,but I don't want it to stop,i love him,yes,i admit it,i always try to deny the fact that I do love him,my actions towards him shows that am in love.

I love him but it is a secret,i don't want him to know,i don't want to annoy God,besides am not ready to handle any relationship,i don't need a boyfriend,i don't want to commit fornication,i Don't want to date him,want I request for is just to hold his hands,hug him,feel
his love for me too��it seems am asking too much,ok no hugging,it might be a sin,i just want to be looking at him from a distance,just observing him from a distance,noticing his love for me,i want us to be best friends.

I just want us to be alive and be studying each other,pursuing our goals and succeeding,i don't want to fornicates,i just want us to be talking together every time,but that won't stop us from planning our future,building a good future,serving God,just best friend's I wish for.

if perhaps he is in love with me,i don't want him to stop loving me.i think there is a reason why am schooling in uniport,(actually I changed my school)Gods doing,to be closer to him,always meeting him during youth camp,december camping,august camp meeting(at our church headquarters,ph) probably.

I want to occupy his heart.it seems I have never loved someone before like I do love him.l love him so much.but I will continue praying,that's what our elders in the church advice we young people seeking for our Love.we should pray asking God to show us our right partner.

I love him because he is my church member,i love him because he always involve himself in God's work,i love him because he is different from other Guys I have come across.

He is so sweet...but I don't want to date him(not now,school first.)

If truly we are met for each other,i want God to help me talk to him I don't want to do the talking,let me handover it to God.



....Am so excited because I will meet him tomorrow,observe him from a distance,looking at his sweet face,wow��...my crush.He is God Fearing,he is different,that's why I love him.He always look at me,he looks at me in the canteen at Lagos,during choir practice at night,when going for evangelism in the morning,he was just looking at me,also while singing on platform,he always look at me,am suspecting him too,it seems he himself has feelings for me.both of us are restraining our self from doing something that will offend God,we are both Godfearing,i was excited when he told me I should take a picture with him wow,that was one of my happiest day,and also when he told me he saved my pics without my consent,chai! Mehn . ..I love him,he has a nice deep voice,tall,dark,handsome,sexy.


BUT I don't think I will fit him��am too short for him,am too fat,probably he doesn't like fat short girl,am not smart ,I will be boring to him, I can't speak,am introvert, am not that intelligent,am not too fine,short mehn, how am I even sure that he loves me as I do love him.i just want to be close to him,i just want him to ask for help if he needs help.i don't just want to be an ordinary friend,a special friend from other girls.


I want him to treat me specially,he shouldn't talk to me like he talks to other girls.But I won't fit him.i want this feeling to go before he gets married to his love,i don't want to feel miserable if he didn't marry me.


l want him to succeed in all his endeavors,so that he can quickly come and ask my hand in marriage if truly is the Will of God.I don't want to date him,just let us be best of friends. Let's care for each other...... let's be talking to each other from
time to time.we should have feelings for each other but pretend as if we don't,till God say wether we are actually meant for each other.


But I won't fit him,�������,am so scared that he doesn't like me because am short and fat..... well let me handover this matter to God's hands,He is my mentor,my advocate,adviser,director,He knows how to solve my problems.maybe He is not the right guy......I love him...so much..... yeah yeah I love him,i can't wait to see him tomorrow lol.....�����.

Eventually I met him,though I saw him afar ,i wasn't close to him,i wasn't opportune to be close to him.the suite he wore during the concert made him so handsome,one thing I observed in him was his constant pulling up of his trouser,i think the trouser or belt was too big for him.��I wonder who actually bought it for him lol....

Also is constant gaze at me makes me weak , shock,every few minute he must turn to my side and take a peep.while singing he will love to look at my face.but one thing that makes me feel bad is through out the December camp meeting he never once look for me to say hi.i wonder why he decided to do so,not even coming online,since the beginning of the convention he never came online,ok maybe because of me,i will be a distraction to him.but is unfair ��.

I miss him,i wasn't close to him,only sight him from a distance...on Sunday also,he looks at me each time,while singing,etc.to the extent our eyes met and we stare at each other for a long time,he refused to turn his eyes,i then volunteer to do so.

while also singing on Wednesday Bible study,he was looking at me to the extent he smiled,i wonder what exactly made him smiled.

Also while he was looking at me I was a little bit uncomfortable ,(during congregational song),I smiled and raised my songbook to cover my face, am sure he noticed it,because later on he was shy to look at me while playing his double bass.but he didn't stop,he continued looking at me when he sat down,when I peep at him,his eyes met mine,i was embarrassed,but he didn't say hi nor came online��.I miss him.��.

This is a day after the closure of the camp meeting,he hasn't come online yet, for Goodness sake,what exactly is he doing that prevented him from coming online,am just pondering,why is he punishing my heart,have been thinking about him all day,i just want to chat with him,i have the urge to do so,my days look so boring without me chatting with him .am not that stout to ask him for his number,�����oooooh he is so cruel...He doesn't love me the the way I love him.


Two weeks plus,he didn't care to interact with me on Facebook,is he busy��,or trying to avoid me...,or is he tired of chatting with me,or is he restraining himself from committing sin by stopping himself from chatting with me?,or he doesn't need any thing to interfere with his school,something that will distract his mind from focusing in his studies..let me exercise patience by giving him three days to appear online I.e Sunday,monday,tuesday,if he doesn't come online,i will then come to the conclusion that he doesn't like me,he is not ready to love someone,he is not ready to marry...


Then as for me,I will quit loving him,stop monitoring him wether is online,restrain my self from falling too deeply in love with him.. that's what I have purposed In my heart.thats what I determine to do.God help me...




I Thank God so much for preserving my life and also my crush life to the year 2018,may His name be Praise.so I remembered giving my crush three days to appear online,if the three days elapses without him saying hi to me,i will quit my love for him,but on the third day which was the deadline,probably it was on Tuesday,he came online,he came during the afternoon,probably around eleven,twelve or .....But he didn't say hi to me.he left without saying hi to me.Prior to the Christmas celebration,he consistently comes online,without saying hi to me.After the Christmas celebration,he didn't care to wish me merry Christmas, I think he didn't even come online that day,i wasn't literally offended,because my love for him was diminishing,since he decided not to say hi to me,so I came to the conclusion that he is not profoundly in love with me like I do love him,so I didn't love him that much again,even so, my heart was still hurting me.i virtually forgot about him,i was trying to forget about him when he suddenly,
unexpectedly send a new year message to me,wow I was startled,He called me Nneoma,that wasn't the first time he called me that,that was the second time.Nneoma means Good mother,i am just pondering,why did he decide to address me like that���,Does he sees me as his future wife?,mmmm Nneoma....so I decided to reply back,he replied again by sending stickers,featuring a dog with a fast heart beat,the first was a like thump...why did he send a dog with a fast heart beat?������,is he trying to tell me that his heart is beating fast because of me or because of the message I sent to him? just contemplating.


I decided not to reply back,i just wanna try him whether he truly misses me,whether he truly have a crush on me... oops I forgot to tell you is age,he is 23, while am 19,any problem with the age difference?���������
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oops I failed,i later replied is message,i really miss him... Nneoma is used to address someone who is dear to you, he later ask me why I didn't meet him in camp I told him that I was thinking whether he was hiding or busy,am actually waiting for his reply... anticipating�������������but am scared,what if he is in love with me,���, what am I going to do?...oh my oh my oh my..am madly in love with him.. gosh...he is always making me wet..... He asked me why I didn't look for him,he said he looked for me.he also ask why I didn't look for his number and call him,i just told him that it didn't cross my mind...lol,later I said sorry...., but he is making me wet... even now that am writing am wet already...


He told me he had kisses for me then,but has he didn't get to meet me he was unable to deliver it,i told him friends doesn't kiss,he said he was just joking.

Another thing he did that melt my heart was when I complained about is putting is hands in is pocket consistently while talking picture,he replied by telling me he will changed it if it bothers me,i told him he shouldn't because of me,guess what he did,actually it was on Sunday I told him,immediately,he snap himself featuring different styles... It might be because of what I said....is he in love with me? He said he prefers calling me Nneoma... that's strange...,Mehn he is sexy,i love his shape.. very dark... oh my gosh..




Long time I haven't written...so am anticipating for Easter concert.. probably my crush might come.. well not so sure...I haven't talk to him for some time now...he told me he is preparing for exams... am sad also because he curse me,in public(on Facebook), openly,i was so embarrassed,but the stupid thing is that am still in love with him...I stop chatting with him for one month....for him to curse me in public that shows that he doesn't love me.and I don't want someone who would be hurting my feelings...I want someone who will love me,despite my flaws,not always remaining me consistently�����,he cursed me,he made a mockery of me...I don't want love to blind me....is action shows the kind of person he would be....gosh...am so mad at him...


I don't feel like seeing him during Easter...I don't want him to see me ever again,i look so insecure,hatred towards my self...I don't want to see him.if it happen he comes,i will hid from him,try to avoid him...I don't want someone to hurt me ...am tired of this feelings already...l just want it to stop,i want to be my self....oh no I just like him that's all..oh God dammit..� why is it that am still in love with him eh,how can I get rid of this stupid feelings God help me Na,i don tire.choi...



I saw Him during the concert,buh I didn't get to meet him,buh I was close to him buh I was scared to talk to him Bleep! I saw him in the prayer room, immediately I sight him I turned my face away from him and did as if I didn't see him..buh I think he saw me... probably that's why he no longer chat with me long on Facebook,just...






I knew it that definitely,right from the initial stage of this friendship on Facebook won't last..can you imagine that up till now he hasn't ask for my number,unlike other guys, even his brother immediately ask for my number when I happen to chat with him.... virtually all the guys in my friend list has ask for my number,buh he himself ...oh my God...he only ask for my brother's number not mine.. please someone should tell me what does it mean for a guy very close to you on Facebook doesn't care to ask for your number... okay..it simply means that HE IS NOT INTERESTED IN YOU..�������, have it at your back of your mind,he is not your future husband,he is not chatting with me frequently any longer.. he doesn't come online any longer frequently,maybe cus of what I did,he saw me that day,buh why didn't he run after me .. what should I do now..

we are gonna have MIZPEH,definetly he will come,should I tell him I would love to meet him during the MIZPEH or I should leave it still i enter choir..
I want to do the right thing... how I wish this stupid feelings would stop... what should I do...




The battle still continue... Damm am still in love with him...

Is it compulsory that you must go half naked bfore you can succeed in entertainment industry?

Do they pay her for showcasing her fat breast!

Cus me am not understanding...

Men beware! dis is the trick of the devil...

The devil uses dis woman to lure men to hell...

Mere looking at her and admiring her breast can lead you to hell..

Avoid raunchy pictures....

You say wetin

Oreofepeters:
So her dad cannot stare at what he made in peace again?

As in how?

Biko that is sexual harassment.

Showcasing the buttocks is not necessary..(just trying to avoid triggering a raunchy thought in men's mind)

Just ventilate your opinion mbok! Forget about the buttock..man shall not live by buttocks alone.. just mere looking at a woman buttocks and using your Vaseline can lead you to hell...

A lady of 19yrs who hails from akwa ibom state has made a complaint about her dad's frequent glances at her buttocks.
According to her statement" I always caught my Dad staring at my buttocks virtually every day..I noticed it since right when I was little(during my secondary school days), sometimes I feel tempted to report it to my mom buh am always shy and feel so irritated, I also tried to confront him about his constant stares at my buttocks, buh I feel so ashamed and trying to ask him makes me have a nausea...sometimes he glances at my boobs..so am kinda confuse on what to do"

Actually her Dad is a graduate,a civil servant,also a proprietor who owns both secondary and nursery/primary school,an influential personality.

Such a man with such an attitude is distasteful..

So my fellow nairalander,i really need your opinion concerning this embarrassing issue, could you please suggest a positive action for her to take before it gets out of hand,please the constant stares is too much(she is closer to me..)

tegafej:
What an irony....

Karma is indeed a bitch

Meaning?

PerfectlyPerfect:
unfortunately, old age isn't wisdom

Meaning?

Houseofglam7:
'Judgina', calm down

Definitely I'm not judging her...buh I detest her dress
The devil has deceive her by encouraging her to put on such dresses which invariably displeases our Creator, I rest my case...

sunnymix:
let pick date bae..

For?

Safe journey Mr President

It is an insult to rain causes on a man who is old enough to be your grandfather@nairalander

you will give account of all the vain words to your creator, just have it at the back of your mind..

Oh this is odious and disheartening..

Sex Na food

Afang soup sweet pass am sef...

Everything sex sex sex..

As if the world is revolving around sex..

Congratulations,wishing you happy married life in advance..

Make sure you cherish her
Don't stop loving her no matter the situation..for better and for worse keep loving Her

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