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Do you know if a wicked guy wants to damage the mood of people on the social media space, he may just coin a lie story or statement, saying "Please help I am dying, I slept with the wife of my branch Pastor on Friday, while He was in the hospital". Now imagine guys seeing this. Many of them may get so bitter for what does not exist.
Now, it could be a lady. Just imagine a lady telling this lie "Please am in great tears, my wedding is coming up this weekend and I slept with my EX yesterday ".
Now, if a guy says this as a lie "Pls advice me: I dated her for 7 years, she was loyal to me, she helped my business, aborted for me, but I abandoned her to marry her friend". A lot of ladies may be bitter over something like this, but the story or statement does not exist in real life.

Be cautious with what you read on social media, some people may intentionally tell lies to drain your emotions.

AfeezShomorin:
What purpose is this nonsense meant to serve?

Write your own.

drstranged:
The point is craft stories to make them believable. That's what makes the reader interested in reading it in the first place! Writing is not for everyone, it's a skill which must be mastered. I can't even read up to one quarter of a story that lacks sensible creativity. The moment I got to that point where he talked about pregnancy being detected in less than a week, I stopped reading.

Write your own now. Didnt you see it is fiction? I have corrected it.

Its fiction

After Mirabel broke up with her boyfriend Akindele, it was another journey. She dated Akindele for eight years, had several abortions for him with multiple sex. She was very faithful to him but had over seven hundred sexual intercourse with Akindele in the the eight years of relationship, which she started at 22 years.

At 30, Mirabel became single again, while Akindele married a younger lady who was a virgin from a Christian home.

Mirabel waited for another five years without a suitor or partner. She went to different prayer houses and national programs of several churches, all in a bid to get a husband. She was also a very active worker in her church and was the leader of Sexual Purity unit. She indeed served well that a brother named Anthony, who was single and rich, proposed to her quickly.

Anthony was 39 years. He had three cars and a duplex. He went with the marriage processes quickly including full dowry payments etc. He was in a haste to settle with Mirabel as He really loved her so much.

Things went so well and smooth, and a wedding day was fixed. It was fixed in October. Everyone supported the wedding without exception.

Three weeks to the wedding day, a strange call came to Mirabel's phone. It was Akindele. He talked about how he saw her wedding invite on the social media, and how he would love to see her as its been a while. Mirabel laughed and said "shebi you think you are the best". It was all a time of jokes and bashing. But Akindele insisted that he needed to see her. She laughed again and said she will try coming.

Just two weeks to wedding, Mirabel summoned courage to meet Akindele. He was actually staying in a guest house and was on official assignment. So when she came to the guest house, they gisted, laughed, joked, while she also complained bitterly of how Akindele treated her very badly. Akindele knelt down, begged her, held her and apologized deeply. She felt calm. They both looked into each others eyes and in few minutes they were having unprotected sex. They did it four times. While the sex was going on Anthony was calling Mirabel repeatedly. She didnt pick but was having sex.

When she was done, her eyes were clear and she called Anthony back, lying that "she left her phone in her bag and was in a very busy place. Anthony never felt bad because he trusted her so much. Even when he was calling, he was even worried so that nothing hurts her.

Mirabel stopped keeping in touch with Akindele, but was now focused on Anthony, waiting for the wedding day.

On the wedding day, the church requested a pregnancy test be carried out. Anthony was not bothered as Mirabel insisted "No sex before Marriage". The test was done and Mirabel was confirmed pregnant. She denied and swore with her life that it is a lie, but later confessed of her cheating. On hearing this, Anthony's cried for hours, feeling devastated. He really cried.

The traditional and white wedding was to be done same day, but was cancelled because of the pregnancy issue.

Luckily for Anthony, in few months he met a very good lady that was a POS operator and they got married.

Mirabel was abandoned and became a baby mama. She also had her successful business.

#Fiction.

It is well.

S

Nowadays, if you see a so-called born again Christian, you may not be able to differentiate them from a sinner. In this case, not just in dressing, but in character, integrity, sexual purity etc.
A so-called born again today may be engrossed in worldliness, worldly music, exam malpractice, bribery, inflating prices to get unjust gain, dressing seductively, doing make-up like a prostitute, fornicating or committing adultery, dancing worldly dances etc. Though we still have several genuine born again Christians.
In the past, a genuine born again Christian may not need to explain his or herself as born again. The attitude, character, integrity etc. shows.
Two issues that makes born again of the today to look "different" from the past is worldliness and compromise. There may be other issues too.

You join the wrong thing. Jesus Christ is the only way.

It is good to settle down with the right partner. 2025 is a going to be a good year by God's grace. But are you getting married next year?

What are the habits you truly wish to stop in 2025?

Before I continue.

Ephesians 5:25 "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it"

Ephesians 5:22 "Wives submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord"

Your wife is to be treated with much love, respect, care, attention etc. You are not to be like a boss over, but a good leader to her. She can give you Godly counsel and guide you on matters she knows God's will on. You are not to be domineering, but flexible even as you lead.

On the part of the wife, respect your husband and submit to him. See yourself as a Deputy or Vice President of the home. Submit to him on things that are good and Godly. Anything that God hates and does not conform to God's will, do not submit to anyone on that.

A wife is to be good, humble, not toxic and not rude. A husband too should be good, humble, not to toxic and not rude. Do not give place to the devil in your marriage.

Husbands love your wives. Wives submit to your husbands.

Note: From the insight I got from someone, marry who you can respect.

Happy Sunday.

If you cannot speak loud when people are killed in Benue, then don't speak loud on the East.

All these killings in the Nigeria should stop.

Is it Tinubu or Fashola or Ambode or Sanwolu?

Those condemning the South East security issue(s) should know human lives in Benue are also important

Take a pause and think of eternity. Some or many people that died possible saw death as something odd that cannot come to them. But you will not die, you will live to fulfill your days in Jesus name. Amen.

It won't take you up to 5 minutes to say this: "Lord Jesus, forgive all my sins and come into my heart now in Jesus name. Amen"

Many people want to know God's will in marriage, but it is not easy for some. Some married people may have discovered that the signs that led them in choosing their partner was not correct, as their partners are an issue or a torn in their flesh.
Now, how can someone truly know that a person is God's will for him or her. Look for these

(1) Spiritual alignment: As a Christian, you cannot marry an unbeliever. So if a so-called Christian is having the urge to marry a yahoo boy or an unbeliever, then the person is either not a Christian or something is wrong with such a person.

(2) Verification and Time: Whatever or whoever your suitor is, you should carefully check and verify who they are, and have some patience to see things clearly. You should also pray for God's grace in discerning and seeing who they truly are. If all works well by God's help, you can proceed.

(3) Peace: After everything is done, please never take any further step until you have very deep and true peace. Do not comply with any hasty "peace", but wait until the peace is sure and real. If you have true peace and approval from God on it, you can proceed with marrying such persons.

This is a combination of my insight and other person(s)

Right decision. But it is better to do it from the scratch before emotions probably get so strong.

While they have been various complaints on cheating, one reason woman cheat more now may be "SECRET WATCHING OF PORNOGRAPHY"..

While crime is bad, judgement should not be one-sided. We have issues in the North too.

The South-East should get healed of from all its issues and crimes.

You can give your opinion

While it is good to protect ones territory and Nigeria at large, it is wise to do it without damages.
Now what should "Biafra" be? Whatever the will of God is for a place, it is good it happens. But "Biafra" should be massive development in the East, Igbo men contributing their wealth to build estates, houses, good city trees, fine landscapes, good pipe borne water, more markets and businesses, good refuse deposal systems, good roads, organized and good security system, hotels and reservations, recreational centers, better educational system, uniformed task force system, good power supply etc. If this had started intentionally about 10 years ago in the East, you can call it "Biafra".
Imagine a large crowd agitating and implementing development in the East, even people in Europe etc. may want to return to the East.

God bless Igbo people.
God bless Nigeria.

Pls let her just pass WAEC and NECO. She should learn the one to pass Tests and Exams, especially if what she wants to study does not need mathematics.

Shebi you have married before. Go back to your wife.

matthew080:
They are supposed to kill them.
I aswear

Kill who? Did you create them? So what will dey do to fornicators, lesbians, masturbators, adulterers, prostitutes, cheats etc.

The boys can go for rehab by repenting and accepting Jesus Christ, then a good follow-up by one or more strong Christians until they are strong in Christ.

Homosexuality is a sin.

H

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Marry right. You can marry wrong in the right church.

If a man cheats on his wife, he may not bring a child into the family. If a lady cheats, she may bring a child into the family.
As a lady, if you bring a child into the family, agree to train the child or inform the man who probably enjoyed the sex with you to get the child.
So if one or more ladies like the balthazar stuff, they should also like to train any child that comes after having their fantasies fulfilled from cheating. They can also tell the person they cheated with to do so.

It is not easy. But he should forgive.

Forgive the woman.