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RomanceRe: 16 Things You Should Be Ready To Face If You're A Virgin by ebubey(op): 8:28pm On Aug 28, 2015
ChappyChase:
You be virgin, I no go near you oo. I fear virgins die!
shocked and y is that
RomanceRe: 16 Things You Should Be Ready To Face If You're A Virgin by ebubey(op): 8:24pm On Aug 28, 2015
victor2fresh:
lmao..i tink say na only LadyF and Introvert dey struggle 4 space..Op even 4 your own post u wan be FTC
yes na, soo... what do you think about the topic
RomanceRe: 16 Things You Should Be Ready To Face If You're A Virgin by ebubey(op): 8:17pm On Aug 28, 2015
victor2fresh:
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lol seriously? i wanted dat space sad
RomanceRe: 16 Things You Should Be Ready To Face If You're A Virgin by ebubey(op): 8:16pm On Aug 28, 2015
smiley
Romance16 Things You Should Be Ready To Face If You're A Virgin by ebubey(op): 8:15pm On Aug 28, 2015
1. No one will believe you if you tell them that it isn’t for religious reasons. (Even though it’s fine if it is for religious reasons.) This generation is not capable of understanding, despite what they say, that “just not wanting to have sex until marriage” is an option for otherwise not-particularly-religious people.


2. Often, it’s the people who talk the most about how they are “sex positive” who will give you the most crap for choosing to be a virgin, because they think it means there’s something wrong and non-modern about you. They think that you should be “liberated,” even if you already are.

3. Dating is not as hard as you would expect, but you have to be up-front about it from the beginning. Sometimes you meet someone you really like, and you’re so worried about scaring them off that you try to put off saying something, but you have to just get it out of the way. The sooner you find out if they’re compatible, the better.

4. Yes, everyone will try to “convert” you.

5. A lot of people have a hard time understanding that you don’t necessarily need someone who is also a virgin, as long as they’ve been tested. People like to assume that personal journeys need to involve someone else.

6. People will ask you if you’re asexual, or if you don’t like being physical with someone else, because they think that a woman who isn’t religious must be repulsed by sex to not want it before marriage.

7. No one believes that you watch porn.

8. Everyone will ask you really invasive questions about the other things you do that basically sound like you’re trying to trick God that you didn’t have “real” sex when you actually did.


9. A lot of guys will ask you if the butt counts.

10. (Yes, the butt counts.)

11. When you talk to people about the reasons you’re actually doing it — for your health and protection, because you want to connect to your partner in other ways, because you want to save it for one person, because you think the world is sex-obsessed enough as it is — none of your answers will be sufficient.

12. A lot of people you date won’t consider it a “real” relationship until you have sex, and even if they pretend to be okay with at first, they’ll eventually start pressuring you into “going all the way” because they don’t know how to accept a relationship that doesn’t have it.

13. Even if you are 100 percent cool about other people having sex, they will always think that you’re judging them.

14. A lot of self-defined feminists will get really in your face about this decision, because on some level they feel like you’re setting women back, or not using the gifts that the women’s movement won for us to have sex when and where we feel like it. They feel like you’re choosing to bow to the patriarchy because you don’t want to do one specific thing with your body.

15. They don’t see this as ironic or backwards.

16. Sometimes, in this world where everything is turned into something sexual and casual hookups have replaced a lot of real relationships, the most shocking thing you can do is not have sex. People are desensitized by nudity, and sex, and violence, and any combination of the three, but abstinence is something we don’t know how to deal with anymore.
http://thoughtcatalog.com/anonymous/2014/02/16-things-i-learned-from-choosing-to-stay-a-virgin/
RomanceRe: Is It Morally Right For A Mother To Bath With Her 5yrs Old Son? by ebubey(f): 6:34pm On Aug 28, 2015
ewoo! shocked
PoliticsTop ISIS Leader Was Invited To Nigeria by ebubey(op): 6:31pm On Aug 28, 2015
The indications emerge that Ahmad Al-Assir, the Lebanese Sunni Muslim extremist, came to Nigeria on the invitation of a foreign company operating in the country, Daily Trust reports.
The news broke recently when a fugitive terrorist, Ahmad al-Assir, who had been in hiding for two years, was arrested in Lebanon while attempting to leave the country. An official of Ministry of Foreign Affairs supposed that Al-Assir got entry permission because Nigeria’s embassies do not take applicants’ biometric data. However, insiders in Nigeria’s security circles said the visa was issued by a Foreign Service official (name withheld) in Beirut based on that invitation.
Without a letter of invitation the ISIS leader’s visa application would not have been accepted. Discussions within the security circles in Nigeria focused on a popular middle-eastern company (name withheld) functioning in Nigeria as the initiator of the invitation letter for the issuance of the visa. A source said allegations that a bribe of about $8, 000 was paid by Al-Assir to obtain the visa has not been confirmed. But the other sources said even if a bribe that big was presented it was highly unlikely that the official who issued the visa received such money alone. It was said that the intelligence report of the plans of Al-Assir to visit Nigeria was provided to the Lebanese authorities by Hezbollah. He pointed out that the lack of an active Foreign Service link with security and intelligence organization at the Nigeria embassy in Beirut made it problematic to share such intelligence operations with Nigeria directly.
It is alleged in security circles that Al-Assir is coming to Nigeria to link up with Boko Haram leaders to lend support. Sources stressed that Nigeria needs to expand its foreign service liaison in Beirut and other embassies abroad so as to get vital intelligence of security concerns, because apparently non-existed. “Foreign Service officials are supposed to communicate with intelligence and security organizations of host countries and share intelligence information in the tradition of “give and take ,” the sources added.
RomanceAnnoying Questions African Guys Ask Girls by ebubey(op): 10:54pm On Aug 27, 2015
African guys can be very bold and direct in
the beginning of the courting process. They
tend to ‘get to the point’ a bit too quickly and
come-off abrasive at times.

This can be a complete turnoff! The manner in
which they ask ladies questions can come off
in an interrogative style and immediately kills
the potential of a relationship before it even
officially started!
Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but
some of the questions that African guys ask
can be very intrusive, annoying and seem
offensive during the initial stages of meeting
someone. I’m not saying that Blacks behave
in this manner, but quite a number of them
have such attitudes. I’ve had my fair share of
experiences with African guys and have heard
a number of stories about other people’s
experiences.
Down below are the Top 5 Annoying
Questions African Guys Ask Girls.

1. Do you know how to cook?
When will an African man get tired of asking
this question? I understand that a ‘true’ old
school African man wants to marry a woman
who’s an exceptional cook, but that isn’t the
reason to bring this topic up 5 minutes after
meeting someone. They don’t understand that
there is a time and place to ask a lady such a
question and doing it too soon can be a real
mood killer.

2. What does your father do?
When African guys ask this question, I
strongly believe that they should be stared at
as if they’re off their rockers. Seriously! Such
a question shouldn’t even be a topic of
discussion right off the bat.
At times, I wonder if guys are trying to date
people’s fathers, how it’s their business and if
they “actually” know it’s an inappropriate
question to ask before properly getting to
know someone. They sound as if the income
of the lady’s father they’re courting
determines whether or not they will date her.

3. Why are you still single?
This is honestly one of the most ridiculous
questions a guy can ask after meeting
someone. Who knows what the magic answer
is that they want to hear? “I haven’t found the
right one yet” “I’ve been waiting on you” or “I
don’t know oh”? Comot jare!
It’s a very strange question to ask because it
puts ladies in an awkward position. Single
ladies are single for different reasons and
some people don’t always feel comfortable
sharing such information so suddenly.
Honestly, some of us don’t even have a direct
answer for that question.

4. Are you a virgin?
This is such a random and ill-mannered
question to ask someone. Such a question is
extremely personal and a lot of ladies don’t
like discussing their virginity with guys & even
fellow girls. It puts them on the spot.
Some ladies who have already engaged in
sexual intercourse might be fine with chatting
about such matters, while some virgins are
already insecure enough about their sexuality.
In today’s day and age, a lot people are
having sex like mad animals and guys don’t
understand that the subject of sex might still
be sensitive for some girls.

5. Are we going to have sex?
African guys need to stop following question 4
with this question. It’s so off-putting and truly
shines a negative light on them. I find this
question truly degrading on the lady’s behalf
and as a sign of desperation on the guy’s.
When women are ready to engage in sexual
intercourse, my brothers, they will let you
know!
I don’t believe any proper lady with dignity is
going to give you a timeline of when to have
sex with her. Having sex too early is the
reason why a lot of relationships don’t last. It
puts pressure on the lady to do something she
might not be ready for and relationships are
NOT mainly based on sex alone!

Cc: lalasticlala
RomanceRe: Man Disrupts Girlfriend's Class In UNIJOS To Propose To Her (photos) by ebubey(f): 10:38pm On Aug 26, 2015
unijos....d place where things happens smiley
RomanceRe: At What Age Did You Have Your First Kiss by ebubey(f): 9:54pm On Aug 25, 2015
LaurelP:
I neva said so.
can i d1? wink
RomanceRe: At What Age Did You Have Your First Kiss by ebubey(f): 9:51pm On Aug 25, 2015
TheHeGoat:
6 minutes old. Immediately I was born, my mom kissed me
The he goat?
RomanceRe: At What Age Did You Have Your First Kiss by ebubey(f): 8:42pm On Aug 25, 2015
LaurelP:
oh that? I don't have one.
and don't want one? what's the excuse?
RomanceRe: At What Age Did You Have Your First Kiss by ebubey(f): 8:04pm On Aug 25, 2015
starlingslimnet:
Not yet....don't dream of having one
hmm "don't dream of having one"...dats weird huh
PoliticsRe: Osinbajo At The 55th Anniversary Of NBA (Pics) by ebubey(f): 10:31am On Aug 24, 2015
pls define dapper
RomanceLove Advices You Should Stop Listening To by ebubey(op): 9:31pm On Aug 23, 2015
Everybody has one thing or another to share
when it comes to love and relationship but
not all advice are meant to be followed.
People give advice according to their
experience but it will not necessarily work for
you the way it worked for them.
Let us take a look at seven love advice that
you should think twice about:

1. Forgive and forget:
Yes, forgiveness is a
very important aspect of every relationship,
but this is usually easier said than done,
especially the part about forgetting. When you
have been hurt, letting-go takes time and you
never forget..
If you try to rush this process, you will end up
finding that all you did was sweep everything
under the carpet and soon after, things will
only blow up in your face. Take your time, talk
it out with your partner and do not rush so
that when you do forgive, you forgive for real.

2. Love conquers all:
Love conquers a lot of
things, no doubt, but it does not conquer
every single thing you will face in your
relationship. With some issues, only patience,
time and maturity or even a breakup will help
you solve it.
A lot of people are in relationships that are
not working out simply because they
stubbornly believe that just because they are
in love, everything should be okay. You need
to recognize the things that love is incapable
of dealing with and work on them with what is
needed.

3. Never go to bed angry:
This advice is
basically saying you must solve all problems
and deal with every argument all within the
day. Frankly, this is just impossible.
Sometimes, some problems need time to be
solved.
Sometimes, all you need is a break, to sleep
on your argument and get some much needed
space for things to get better. If you have a
time limit on all your fights, a lot of things will
not be tackled and at the end of the day, you
will say good night when you know you are
not really at peace with yourself and your
relationship.


4. Love hurts:
Betrayal hurts, pain hurts,
heartbreak hurts, but love is the one thing
that should make you feel good. A lot of
people repeat the “love hurts” mantra to
themselves to justify being in a hurtful
relationship. True love should never bring
about pain and despair. Yes, there will be
stormy waters, but true love should be the
only light during this time.


5. Love is blind:
Finding someone you love
should never be a decision to be made blindly.
You cannot go through the true challenges of
any relationship if you entered into it blindly.

6. Money does not matter:
Money is never
everything, but it sure matters. You cannot
have a strong relationship without having
some sort of financial stability. You might not
have it all, but in a relationship, you have to
both be content with where you are with the
belief that things can and will get better.
Pretending money is not an issue will only
lead to each of you feeling discontent and not
being able to discuss it or find a solution.

7. True love is forever:
There will be times in
your relationship when you are not even sure
you love your partner. There will be times you
feel numb or unhappy with them but this does
not mean what you have is not true love.
Love ebbs and flows. Sometimes you love
them so much you cannot imagine life without
them, and sometimes, you just want to run
away, but underneath it all, you both share a
bond that will never be broken. That is love.

8. Follow your heart:
Your heart is important
in determining what you feel for someone but
you should not make all your love decisions
based on how you feel. It is important that
you use your brains and intuition to also
determine whether or not someone will make
the best fit for you.
RomanceRe: Things You Must Do Before Turning 30 by ebubey(op): 10:46am On Aug 16, 2015
Bacteriocin:
K
wow...k?
RomanceThings You Must Do Before Turning 30 by ebubey(op): 10:44am On Aug 16, 2015
It is a known fact that turning 30 is a big
milestone and this is usually due to the fact
that maturity sets in and you begin to make
safer, more grown-up decisions. You are
probably starting (or thinking about starting)
a family at this time and this will certainly
change your priorities.

So, before you get to that big milestone age,
here are things you should make sure you do
in your 20’s, while you still have the time and
youthful energy on your side. These list also
helps you prepare for life after 30.

Get a degree:
Yes, this might be expensive,
but it is certainly necessary. Getting the
required education and degree is best done in
your 20’s before big responsibilities set in and
could distract you.

Volunteer:
You will spend years and years of
your life chasing paper and trying to make
more money to fit your lifestyle. But your 20’s
is the best time to do something you really
want without thinking about monetary
compensation. You can help the needy, feed
the hungry or just volunteer with organisations
that are lending a helping hand. Trust us, it
would leave you feeling good.

Work at your dream job:
No one knows what
the future holds, you might end up stuck in a
job you do not like simply because you have
no choice. But before this happens, give
yourself a chance to find your dream job, even
though this might be an unpaid position.

Have an epic love:
You hear about that crazy,
dysfunctional, passionate and heated love that
some couples have and a lot of people do not
understand. Give yourself a chance to find
this kind of love at least once in your lifetime.
It might not last, and might not even make
sense to others, but the 20’s is the only time
in your life that you can afford to do this.

Make Love:
Have you been saving yourself for
the right one, then your 20’s is the best time
to enjoy what sex has to offer. Have great
sex, crappy sex, intense sex, boring sex,
whichever. You are only young once.

Have a baby:
If you are looking to have a big
family, then the best time to begin is in your
20’s. This way, you are young , imaginative
and energetic enough to keep up with the kids
and you have a lot of time to have more
babies.

Eat Healthier:
There are a lot of health issues
that is connected to terrible eating habits. So,
before you turn 30, make sure you begin plans
to eat healthier and have an all-round healthy
lifestyle

Buy Something Expensive:
Splurge on one
expensive thing that you really love. Be it a
car, handbag, shoes, etc. It should be
something that you are utterly in love with
and would leave you feeling a sense of
achievement for years to come.

Forgive Someone:
Sometimes, we hold on to
some animosity towards people that did us
wrong, but your 20’s is the time to let go of
this negative feeling so you will be freer to
move on. Pick at least one person in your life
who hurt you, and forgive completely.

Throw a big party:
Another thing you just have
to do in your 20’s. Throw a huge party and
invite your dearest and closest.

Read/Watch a classic:
Before you move into
the sophisticated life of your 30’s, do
something sophisticated like reading or
watching a classic. There are a lot of books/
movies (think The Great Gatsby, Wuthering
Heights, Roots) that experiencing them would
give you something smart to add to any
conversation.

Find a true friend:
Friends come and go, but
true friends last a lifetime. Instead of
surrounding yourself with the wrong kind of
people, pick one or two that you consider and
believe to be your true friends.

Visit a foreign country:
Visit a country foreign
to what you are used to. Taste their cuisine,
see their sights and enjoy the people, it really
is a beautiful experience.

Move out of your parents house:
You cannot
truly experience life if you are stuck living
under the rules and laws of your parents.
Move out, get some freedom and be make a
few decisions on your own.

Learn useful skills:
Your 20’s is the time to
learn little skills that will come in useful in
life. Learn to change a tire, fix a light-bulb,
cook, bake, etc.

Stay up all night:
It does not matter what you
choose to do, just pull an all-nighter while
doing something you truly love. By the time
you are in your 30’s you will be way too tired
to do this.

Have a one-night stand:
It is exciting,
exhilarating with just enough risk keep you
going for weeks. There is something freeing
and sexy about having sex with someone you
know you will never see, or be with that way
again.

Fall in love:
Not the insane kind of love, but
true, mature love. Get into and maintain a true
relationship with someone who cares about
you and respects you.

Get married:
Big wedding, small wedding, no
wedding at all, whatever you are into, your
20’s is the best time to take the plunge. This
time should be filled with making great
memories and having new beginnings, what
better beginning is there than finding
someone to spend the rest of your life with
and proclaiming your love to the world.

Have a friends-with-benefits:
Having someone
you hang out with and also enjoy sexy time
with without the both of you being in a
relationship could be a really fun experience.
You get the perks of good sex without the
complications a lot of relationship come with.
It can be very liberating...

So, how many of these have you done?
EducationRe: When To Use "Will" Or "Would" In A Sentence. by ebubey(f): 12:47pm On Jul 17, 2015
ok nw
Nairaland GeneralRe: Man Sitting On Nothing Seen In Ikeja (Shocking Photo) by ebubey(f): 12:43pm On Jul 17, 2015
wow
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Thank God! I Have Just Been Offered An Appointment by ebubey(f): 8:45am On Jun 19, 2015
adeowo84:
you know me somewhere ni? smiley
nop jus asking
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Thank God! I Have Just Been Offered An Appointment by ebubey(f): 2:44am On Jun 19, 2015
op, wat did u study smiley
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Thank God! I Have Just Been Offered An Appointment by ebubey(f): 2:44am On Jun 19, 2015
op, wat did u study
HealthA Man Discovered 179 Years In India: "Death Has Forgotten Me" by ebubey(op): 8:23pm On May 24, 2015
"My grandchildren are dead there for years.
Somehow forgot me death "
Mahashta Mûrasi is an Indian who claims to
be born in 1835. It is not only the oldest
man in the world but also the man who
lived the longest since the history of
mankind (according to the Guinness World
Records.

According to the information transmitted,
the man was born in Bangalore on January 6
1835.De 1903, he lived in Varanasi, where
he worked until 1957, until his retirement in
122 years.
According WorldNewsDailyReport.com all
official documents to identify this man
support his version

My grandchildren have died there a few
years, "said Mûrasi." In a way, death has
forgotten me. And now I have lost all hope
to die!
Cc: lalasticlala

PoliticsRe: Delta State Governor's Lodge In Lagos Commissioned By Uduaghan (photos) by ebubey(f): 5:55pm On May 24, 2015
ok
PhonesRe: Seven Things You Should Know Before Buying A Power Bank #fullpost by ebubey(f): 5:49pm On May 24, 2015
ok
CelebritiesRe: Fans Insult P'Square Over What He Wrote On Fuel Scarcity (Snapshots) by ebubey(f): 4:17pm On May 24, 2015
is dat so?? unto d next one... undecided
CelebritiesRe: Pregnant Mary Remmy Njoku Shares Vacation Photos by ebubey(f): 4:16pm On May 24, 2015
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Culture10 Comical Nigerian Superstitious Beliefs by ebubey(op): 9:05am On May 21, 2015
Superstition is the belief in supernatural
causality that one event causes another
without any natural process linking the two
events.

Here is a list of 10 superstitions chosen based
on how ridiculous, widespread and comical
they are:

1. Hitting your left leg on a stone is seen as
an evil omen or warning to turn back from
where ever the person might be going. This
omen is taken seriously and the journey is
usually forfeited for the future. Failure to
heed the warning could lead to possibly loss
of life.

2. Don’t drink the water from a coconut else
you automatically become an olodo.

3. It is not a good idea to whistle at night.
There is this belief that such whistling
attracts snakes to the whistler.

4. Don’t allow people to crossover your hand
or leg,else you will give birth to a child with
one hand or leg.

5. Owls hooting on a rooftop or on a nearby
tree is a bad omen as it is believed that
someone in that house will soon die.

6. If your hands are itching without reason, it
is believed that some kind of fortune is about
to come your way.

7.Eating in the dark is forbidden. It is believed
that such act could give room to the dead to
eat with you and this could lead to your death
or grave ailments.

8. If you spit on the floor and someone
steps on it you will have sore throat.

9. Don’t bend over and look through your legs
in public, you may see witches.

10. Hitting a man with a broom would make
him impotent. It is believed that if a man is
hit with a broom he becomes impotent until
he retaliates by hitting the person back with a
broom seven times.
CrimeRe: Driver, Conductor Pelt Policemen With Faeces by ebubey(f): 3:42pm On May 06, 2015
ok
CelebritiesRe: Davido Sad Over "Mama Davido Restaurant & Bar" (photo) by ebubey(f): 9:37pm On May 04, 2015
lol
Jokes EtcRe: Is This True? by ebubey(f): 10:52pm On May 03, 2015
buhahahahahha....coughing cheesy
RomanceRe: Reasons Why Women Hate Each Other by ebubey(op): 1:55pm On Apr 28, 2015
Fynpatra:
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*all dos sayin Ebubey is Lying hav not hated or av nat been hated....for me av been hated for no just cause....
I remember wen i took my Jamb some tym ago,,,,,,,a gal was just eyeing me,,,,,,anytym my eyes and hers meet she will just be adjustin ha clothes, hairs,,,,,readjusting d way she was sitting etc....dis is a gal dat we r just seeing for d first tym ooo.....Ebube i believe u die....thumbs up....
my dear thank you o, atleast you understand cool

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