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1. No one will believe you if you tell them that it isn’t for religious reasons. (Even though it’s fine if it is for religious reasons.) This generation is not capable of understanding, despite what they say, that “just not wanting to have sex until marriage” is an option for otherwise not-particularly-religious people.http://thoughtcatalog.com/anonymous/2014/02/16-things-i-learned-from-choosing-to-stay-a-virgin/ |
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The indications emerge that Ahmad Al-Assir, the
Lebanese Sunni Muslim extremist, came to
Nigeria on the invitation of a foreign company
operating in the country, Daily Trust reports. The news broke recently when a fugitive terrorist, Ahmad al-Assir, who had been in hiding for two years, was arrested in Lebanon while attempting to leave the country. An official of Ministry of Foreign Affairs supposed that Al-Assir got entry permission because Nigeria’s embassies do not take applicants’ biometric data. However, insiders in Nigeria’s security circles said the visa was issued by a Foreign Service official (name withheld) in Beirut based on that invitation. Without a letter of invitation the ISIS leader’s visa application would not have been accepted. Discussions within the security circles in Nigeria focused on a popular middle-eastern company (name withheld) functioning in Nigeria as the initiator of the invitation letter for the issuance of the visa. A source said allegations that a bribe of about $8, 000 was paid by Al-Assir to obtain the visa has not been confirmed. But the other sources said even if a bribe that big was presented it was highly unlikely that the official who issued the visa received such money alone. It was said that the intelligence report of the plans of Al-Assir to visit Nigeria was provided to the Lebanese authorities by Hezbollah. He pointed out that the lack of an active Foreign Service link with security and intelligence organization at the Nigeria embassy in Beirut made it problematic to share such intelligence operations with Nigeria directly. It is alleged in security circles that Al-Assir is coming to Nigeria to link up with Boko Haram leaders to lend support. Sources stressed that Nigeria needs to expand its foreign service liaison in Beirut and other embassies abroad so as to get vital intelligence of security concerns, because apparently non-existed. “Foreign Service officials are supposed to communicate with intelligence and security organizations of host countries and share intelligence information in the tradition of “give and take ,” the sources added. |
African guys can be very bold and direct in the beginning of the courting process. They tend to ‘get to the point’ a bit too quickly and come-off abrasive at times. This can be a complete turnoff! The manner in which they ask ladies questions can come off in an interrogative style and immediately kills the potential of a relationship before it even officially started! Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but some of the questions that African guys ask can be very intrusive, annoying and seem offensive during the initial stages of meeting someone. I’m not saying that Blacks behave in this manner, but quite a number of them have such attitudes. I’ve had my fair share of experiences with African guys and have heard a number of stories about other people’s experiences. Down below are the Top 5 Annoying Questions African Guys Ask Girls. 1. Do you know how to cook? When will an African man get tired of asking this question? I understand that a ‘true’ old school African man wants to marry a woman who’s an exceptional cook, but that isn’t the reason to bring this topic up 5 minutes after meeting someone. They don’t understand that there is a time and place to ask a lady such a question and doing it too soon can be a real mood killer. 2. What does your father do? When African guys ask this question, I strongly believe that they should be stared at as if they’re off their rockers. Seriously! Such a question shouldn’t even be a topic of discussion right off the bat. At times, I wonder if guys are trying to date people’s fathers, how it’s their business and if they “actually” know it’s an inappropriate question to ask before properly getting to know someone. They sound as if the income of the lady’s father they’re courting determines whether or not they will date her. 3. Why are you still single? This is honestly one of the most ridiculous questions a guy can ask after meeting someone. Who knows what the magic answer is that they want to hear? “I haven’t found the right one yet” “I’ve been waiting on you” or “I don’t know oh”? Comot jare! It’s a very strange question to ask because it puts ladies in an awkward position. Single ladies are single for different reasons and some people don’t always feel comfortable sharing such information so suddenly. Honestly, some of us don’t even have a direct answer for that question. 4. Are you a virgin? This is such a random and ill-mannered question to ask someone. Such a question is extremely personal and a lot of ladies don’t like discussing their virginity with guys & even fellow girls. It puts them on the spot. Some ladies who have already engaged in sexual intercourse might be fine with chatting about such matters, while some virgins are already insecure enough about their sexuality. In today’s day and age, a lot people are having sex like mad animals and guys don’t understand that the subject of sex might still be sensitive for some girls. 5. Are we going to have sex? African guys need to stop following question 4 with this question. It’s so off-putting and truly shines a negative light on them. I find this question truly degrading on the lady’s behalf and as a sign of desperation on the guy’s. When women are ready to engage in sexual intercourse, my brothers, they will let you know! I don’t believe any proper lady with dignity is going to give you a timeline of when to have sex with her. Having sex too early is the reason why a lot of relationships don’t last. It puts pressure on the lady to do something she might not be ready for and relationships are NOT mainly based on sex alone! Cc: lalasticlala |
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LaurelP:and don't want one? what's the excuse? |
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Everybody has one thing or another to share when it comes to love and relationship but not all advice are meant to be followed. People give advice according to their experience but it will not necessarily work for you the way it worked for them. Let us take a look at seven love advice that you should think twice about: 1. Forgive and forget: Yes, forgiveness is a very important aspect of every relationship, but this is usually easier said than done, especially the part about forgetting. When you have been hurt, letting-go takes time and you never forget.. If you try to rush this process, you will end up finding that all you did was sweep everything under the carpet and soon after, things will only blow up in your face. Take your time, talk it out with your partner and do not rush so that when you do forgive, you forgive for real. 2. Love conquers all: Love conquers a lot of things, no doubt, but it does not conquer every single thing you will face in your relationship. With some issues, only patience, time and maturity or even a breakup will help you solve it. A lot of people are in relationships that are not working out simply because they stubbornly believe that just because they are in love, everything should be okay. You need to recognize the things that love is incapable of dealing with and work on them with what is needed. 3. Never go to bed angry: This advice is basically saying you must solve all problems and deal with every argument all within the day. Frankly, this is just impossible. Sometimes, some problems need time to be solved. Sometimes, all you need is a break, to sleep on your argument and get some much needed space for things to get better. If you have a time limit on all your fights, a lot of things will not be tackled and at the end of the day, you will say good night when you know you are not really at peace with yourself and your relationship. 4. Love hurts: Betrayal hurts, pain hurts, heartbreak hurts, but love is the one thing that should make you feel good. A lot of people repeat the “love hurts” mantra to themselves to justify being in a hurtful relationship. True love should never bring about pain and despair. Yes, there will be stormy waters, but true love should be the only light during this time. 5. Love is blind: Finding someone you love should never be a decision to be made blindly. You cannot go through the true challenges of any relationship if you entered into it blindly. 6. Money does not matter: Money is never everything, but it sure matters. You cannot have a strong relationship without having some sort of financial stability. You might not have it all, but in a relationship, you have to both be content with where you are with the belief that things can and will get better. Pretending money is not an issue will only lead to each of you feeling discontent and not being able to discuss it or find a solution. 7. True love is forever: There will be times in your relationship when you are not even sure you love your partner. There will be times you feel numb or unhappy with them but this does not mean what you have is not true love. Love ebbs and flows. Sometimes you love them so much you cannot imagine life without them, and sometimes, you just want to run away, but underneath it all, you both share a bond that will never be broken. That is love. 8. Follow your heart: Your heart is important in determining what you feel for someone but you should not make all your love decisions based on how you feel. It is important that you use your brains and intuition to also determine whether or not someone will make the best fit for you. |
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It is a known fact that turning 30 is a big milestone and this is usually due to the fact that maturity sets in and you begin to make safer, more grown-up decisions. You are probably starting (or thinking about starting) a family at this time and this will certainly change your priorities. So, before you get to that big milestone age, here are things you should make sure you do in your 20’s, while you still have the time and youthful energy on your side. These list also helps you prepare for life after 30. Get a degree: Yes, this might be expensive, but it is certainly necessary. Getting the required education and degree is best done in your 20’s before big responsibilities set in and could distract you. Volunteer: You will spend years and years of your life chasing paper and trying to make more money to fit your lifestyle. But your 20’s is the best time to do something you really want without thinking about monetary compensation. You can help the needy, feed the hungry or just volunteer with organisations that are lending a helping hand. Trust us, it would leave you feeling good. Work at your dream job: No one knows what the future holds, you might end up stuck in a job you do not like simply because you have no choice. But before this happens, give yourself a chance to find your dream job, even though this might be an unpaid position. Have an epic love: You hear about that crazy, dysfunctional, passionate and heated love that some couples have and a lot of people do not understand. Give yourself a chance to find this kind of love at least once in your lifetime. It might not last, and might not even make sense to others, but the 20’s is the only time in your life that you can afford to do this. Make Love: Have you been saving yourself for the right one, then your 20’s is the best time to enjoy what sex has to offer. Have great sex, crappy sex, intense sex, boring sex, whichever. You are only young once. Have a baby: If you are looking to have a big family, then the best time to begin is in your 20’s. This way, you are young , imaginative and energetic enough to keep up with the kids and you have a lot of time to have more babies. Eat Healthier: There are a lot of health issues that is connected to terrible eating habits. So, before you turn 30, make sure you begin plans to eat healthier and have an all-round healthy lifestyle Buy Something Expensive: Splurge on one expensive thing that you really love. Be it a car, handbag, shoes, etc. It should be something that you are utterly in love with and would leave you feeling a sense of achievement for years to come. Forgive Someone: Sometimes, we hold on to some animosity towards people that did us wrong, but your 20’s is the time to let go of this negative feeling so you will be freer to move on. Pick at least one person in your life who hurt you, and forgive completely. Throw a big party: Another thing you just have to do in your 20’s. Throw a huge party and invite your dearest and closest. Read/Watch a classic: Before you move into the sophisticated life of your 30’s, do something sophisticated like reading or watching a classic. There are a lot of books/ movies (think The Great Gatsby, Wuthering Heights, Roots) that experiencing them would give you something smart to add to any conversation. Find a true friend: Friends come and go, but true friends last a lifetime. Instead of surrounding yourself with the wrong kind of people, pick one or two that you consider and believe to be your true friends. Visit a foreign country: Visit a country foreign to what you are used to. Taste their cuisine, see their sights and enjoy the people, it really is a beautiful experience. Move out of your parents house: You cannot truly experience life if you are stuck living under the rules and laws of your parents. Move out, get some freedom and be make a few decisions on your own. Learn useful skills: Your 20’s is the time to learn little skills that will come in useful in life. Learn to change a tire, fix a light-bulb, cook, bake, etc. Stay up all night: It does not matter what you choose to do, just pull an all-nighter while doing something you truly love. By the time you are in your 30’s you will be way too tired to do this. Have a one-night stand: It is exciting, exhilarating with just enough risk keep you going for weeks. There is something freeing and sexy about having sex with someone you know you will never see, or be with that way again. Fall in love: Not the insane kind of love, but true, mature love. Get into and maintain a true relationship with someone who cares about you and respects you. Get married: Big wedding, small wedding, no wedding at all, whatever you are into, your 20’s is the best time to take the plunge. This time should be filled with making great memories and having new beginnings, what better beginning is there than finding someone to spend the rest of your life with and proclaiming your love to the world. Have a friends-with-benefits: Having someone you hang out with and also enjoy sexy time with without the both of you being in a relationship could be a really fun experience. You get the perks of good sex without the complications a lot of relationship come with. It can be very liberating... So, how many of these have you done? |
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"My grandchildren are dead there for years. Somehow forgot me death " Mahashta Mûrasi is an Indian who claims to be born in 1835. It is not only the oldest man in the world but also the man who lived the longest since the history of mankind (according to the Guinness World Records. According to the information transmitted, the man was born in Bangalore on January 6 1835.De 1903, he lived in Varanasi, where he worked until 1957, until his retirement in 122 years. According WorldNewsDailyReport.com all official documents to identify this man support his version My grandchildren have died there a few years, "said Mûrasi." In a way, death has forgotten me. And now I have lost all hope to die! Cc: lalasticlala
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Superstition is the belief in supernatural causality that one event causes another without any natural process linking the two events. Here is a list of 10 superstitions chosen based on how ridiculous, widespread and comical they are: 1. Hitting your left leg on a stone is seen as an evil omen or warning to turn back from where ever the person might be going. This omen is taken seriously and the journey is usually forfeited for the future. Failure to heed the warning could lead to possibly loss of life. 2. Don’t drink the water from a coconut else you automatically become an olodo. 3. It is not a good idea to whistle at night. There is this belief that such whistling attracts snakes to the whistler. 4. Don’t allow people to crossover your hand or leg,else you will give birth to a child with one hand or leg. 5. Owls hooting on a rooftop or on a nearby tree is a bad omen as it is believed that someone in that house will soon die. 6. If your hands are itching without reason, it is believed that some kind of fortune is about to come your way. 7.Eating in the dark is forbidden. It is believed that such act could give room to the dead to eat with you and this could lead to your death or grave ailments. 8. If you spit on the floor and someone steps on it you will have sore throat. 9. Don’t bend over and look through your legs in public, you may see witches. 10. Hitting a man with a broom would make him impotent. It is believed that if a man is hit with a broom he becomes impotent until he retaliates by hitting the person back with a broom seven times. |
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