₦airaland Forum

Ebubu:
Forefeit my house and keep paying for mortgage where as I won’t live in it?

Good story lines. Aunty we die here in Nigeria if that’s the case or prenuptials before we travel otherwise we die here oo

People quickly forget that the women who grew old with their partners in USA are our old generation mothers who even back here in Nigeria can’t be compared to modern Nigerian women whose eyes have shayo’d and looking for the earliest opportunity to wreck a man.


Even you, can’t compare our mothers and grand mothers to this generation of women.


And also, when a man is even in his kindest disposition towards a woman, a fraudulent woman will look for various means to trigger him to overreact or make the home toxic for him all for an opportunity for her to file for divorce and acquire properties she didn’t labor for.


You’ll directly claim that no sane woman will treat her husband in such manner and that if she ever does, he must have deserved it or was shit back in Nigeria. And then you forget there are INSANE WOMEN who are greedy and your wealth is their desire.

“””I mean why share it with him, when you can make the environment ripe for divorce, get it, and enjoy his property for yourself, while never bothering to work much for a long time to come; if not for the rest of your life ?? “””


These are the category of women which are in this generation; that many reasonable men are afraid of. E no dey tell for face!

seunmsg:
She took us out of recession.

Golan007:
The only thing I like about Tonto is that she knows her calling.

Mynd44:
Amaechi is out of the race.

Next!

JovialJune:
See, only the guilty are scared of divorce and what it entails when you haven't even gotten married, you cannot give what you don't have, you men will leave Nigeria, a patriarchal country, to an equality induced country, then you go and display your domineering spirit over there and feel all will be fine? It doesn't work that way, you treat you wife badly over there, then expect her not to react? Even neighbors will report you to the police if they notice it

And you make it seem like Nigerians over there are all divorced, when I went to L.A to give birth, the Redeem church over there is like an Nigerian extended family, see old Nigerian husbands and wives celebrating 40, 50 years wedding anniversary, how were they able to live peacefully with each other in that kind of environment? Don't they have two heads? I think I've mentioned it here before, my uncle schooled there, brought his wife from Nigeria, trained her through nursing school, he is in his 60s now and he's not doing anything, the wife is the one taking care of all the bills at home, and they are doing fine, how were they able to do it all these years? Because they worked together to make it work, they recognized that no one is above the other, and they respect each other and lean on each other against all odds

Even the prenuptials you guys scream about everytime, it most times doesn't change anything because it all boils down to the judge and his/her decision, how many Nigerians do you know over there that have something of worth to cry over during divorce? Most have nothing, so they only lament because of child support and wives getting the home, abi shouldn't husbands pay for their children's upkeep? Prenuptials most times work for millionaires because of their worth and assets, still the wife always gets close to half of his worth, and she most definitely will get the house, he will still pay spousal support to maintain the lifestyle she is used to, and pay child support if they have kids, so I see nothing wrong with it

The point is, do your part and be a good husband, so you won't have to run helterskelter when divorce sets in.

eldoradoxx:
I hate the concept of Igbo presidency. I see it as a tool used to blackmail the Igbos. Tinubu, Osinbanjo, etc all Yorubas are running, nobody is talking about Yoruba presidency. Saraki, Tambuwal, Atiku, Bala Mohammed etc from the Fulani stock are all running but you hardly hear it being classified as Fulani Presidency. Obi runs, all you hear is Igbo this, Igbo that. Why do we have double standards as a people?

LeoDeKing:
We igbos stand on athifku's mandate gidigba, we no dey remove.

JovialJune:


Leave me alone

JovialJune:
You guys can rant and cry online till oblivion, facts still remains that men will keep on taking their wives abroad and living happily ever after, in fact a friend of mine will be joining her husband in USA in two weeks time, your wailing ends here, simple.

JovialJune:
You have a job, what is stopping you from leaving him? This life is not hard, we humans just make it difficult for ourselves,

Get an apartment for you and your child, go to court for joint custody, then make an arrangement for him to pay child support, you are in a society where the system works, take advantage of it.

JovialJune:
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1) Men are more than women in the world, research or make Google your best friend

2) Every woman will not get suitors before age 30

3) Women in their 30s are getting married every weekend and will continue to get married

And finally, whatever a woman chose to do with her life is not your business, it doesn't affect your life's existence, you Nigerian men should focus on developing and restructuring the country that you keep destroying on per second basis.

dobnina:
Don't lose a good woman because of a trivial issue that is not her fault.
If you have a good woman, pls hold her tight because there is nothing outside anymore. Good women are scarce this days.
You might feel you will get someone better but my dear, you might get someone worse and you will end up regretting.

Let me ask you a question
Do you drive?
If yes, have you stopped driving cos cars are prone to accidents?
Have you stopped flying cos airplanes crash?
Have you stopped living in your house cos armed robbers might come to your house and attack you at night?

If the answers are No, then you shouldn't get scared of travelling.
Just try to be safe by travelling during the day.
Pray to God for protection and remove the fear from your mind.

Truth is, anything that will happen will surely happen.
Just seek protection from God when travelling.
Overcome your fear and don't lose a good woman cos of that.

oldienavie:
So I have been dating my girlfriend for 3 months and she is perfect, actually she is a virgin, well behaved and very respectful. The relationship is going very fine but I am starting to really think deeply and I may just break up.
Why ? I have lived abroad for a while and do have a very serious phobia for travelling on Nigerian roads, her parents are a journey of 4 hours from where I am and I understand the area is rife with kidnapping and robbery of all sorts.
I find myself obsessing over having to make that trip to her parents place and also have my family embark on that journey and I always shudder at the thought of it.

I am seriously considering breaking up with her and looking for a lady whoose parents are here in the same city I reside, cos one of the things that gives me serious head ache is travelling on Nigerian roads.
Since I got back to Nigeria I have not travelled outside of the city that I am and it is because of how serious that phobia is.

But how do I tell her I am breaking up with her for this reason, it sounds very trivial but its a serious issue for me.

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Tzar:
Just thank God her wh*re side came out in good time. If you had married the b*tch like you planned ehn, your eye for see pepper!
Just dust yourself up, look your best all day everyday, guard your heart steadfastly and dont give more than the next girl is willing to give you.
Men give too much these days. Be an Odogwu, be a Yul Edochie!

Rugaria:
No Igbo president, no elections in Igboland going forward..
We don't exist to be voting for your sons to win the presidency and mismanage Nigeria. It's either an igbotic president or to your tents oh Israel..

Jashub:
Futureisfemale, come and see your species o. Later you will say men are the only rapists in the world , but meanwhile your womenfolk are already have an undisclosed chunk of the cake

etrange:
Surprised, right?

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etrange:
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