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PoliticsRe: IPOB Publishes Names Of Militants, Commanders Behind Killings In South-East by Ebubu: 6:54pm On Apr 19, 2022
alsudan:
APC should stop terrorizing the SE and labeling it on IPOB just to have something to hang on Kanu.

Uzodinma as hopeless as he is has made it clear that IPOB are not responsible for the killings in the SE.

Check all the most terrorized states in Nigeria and see the Political party at the helm in those states, then you will understand how terrorists criped into the SE region along with the jihadist party.
so anambra is APC ?
EducationRe: Learn How To Create Amazing Designs Without Knowing Jack About Photoshop by Ebubu: 6:40pm On Apr 19, 2022
studentpreneur:
Not my specialty.
ok thanks
FamilyRe: Preparing 4 Marriage by Ebubu: 6:30pm On Apr 19, 2022
Champione:
Dear elders in the house, please i present this sensitive mata ,am 30yrs about to get married. please how do One prepare my mindset or approach towards this. this is a lifetime issue and i never desire a divorce. over to u the elders/couples
you have a mail boss
WebmastersRe: I Created A Video Website (like Youtube) With Wordpress. See Demo by Ebubu: 6:26pm On Apr 19, 2022
Dapo92:
70% Elementor, 10% Extra PHP, 20% CSS.

PHP for the job vacancy custom post type. Targeted it with ACF.

It's going to be used for a website that has 90% of it's contents as videos.

What do you think?

Anything is possible with WordPress.

WATCH THE DEMO HERE: https://youtu.be/Q55VGe_vJdg


And ehm.....I'm now a certified WordPress Developer.

Becoming a full stack developer is my goal.
How will you get traffic
FamilyRe: Preparing 4 Marriage by Ebubu: 6:23pm On Apr 19, 2022
Champione:
Dear elders in the house, please i present this sensitive mata ,am 30yrs about to get married. please how do One prepare my mindset or approach towards this. this is a lifetime issue and i never desire a divorce. over to u the elders/couples
Bro please check your mail I’ve replied you
RomanceRe: Men, Can You Consider Divorcing An Emotional And Verbally Abusive Wife? by Ebubu(op): 6:22pm On Apr 19, 2022
Demigod22:
I can't tolerate a woman who doesn't have control over her mouth. I will divorce any woman or wife that threatens my mental health. I can't even manage such wife. Life is stressful already, I don't need someone's daughter to add another burden to my life.

Anything that cost you your peace of mind is too expensive.
Your last paragraph says it all

Men need to be enlightened more that nothing is too expensive to let go to have their peace of mind.

If you tolerate it and one day hit her, wahala for you. If you don’t hit her, low self esteem fit take over you.
CareerRe: 4 Ways To Land $500-$1000 Clients Without Having Prior Reviews As A Freelancer by Ebubu: 5:45pm On Apr 19, 2022
Sharonnyl:
Find yourself giving up on freelancing? You have a good profile, you've followed all required 'packaging' only to end up making so many endless bids with no gigs?

Frequently, freelancers who have no guide on how their used platforms (Upwork, Fiverr etc) operate get spammed by 'bug clients' who receive projects, use them after condemning them and still refuse to pay.

If any of this sounds familiar, then this is for you.

These are no 'monstrous' tips or 'killer secrets' and fortunately so because it means implementing them is easy, as they can swing your finances sky high.


Way 1: Get visible!

We've heard 'use a good profile' one too many times but the truth is, no one will hire you on the basis of a good profile only. To your profile, add visibility. What jobs have you done? Why are they not on your social media handles? Fiverr clients don't live on fiverr. They "chill" on social media. Emeka, where is the work you did before? Why is it not on any fb group? Twitter, here? Be visible!


Way 2: Set your portfolio!

You have a disorganized or empty portfolio. How can you not have projects you've handled before and you want to be a freelancer? Just looking for a 'scape goat' to give you his/her work. Motivating your clients will not give you a project. Past projects will. You're new, no projects yet? Make your own project! If you're a copywriter, write an original copy on your niche. Write it like it was a project you were given by a client. Be original. That works. Add it to your portfolio.


Way 3: Give value. As a freelancer, how many times have you shared helpful tips with other freelancers in your field? You design but you've never held a free class, given a free report, shared a free tip or tips about graphic designing? Wrong. Giving HELPFUL tips occasionally shows your prospects that you are very knowledgeable in your field and can be trusted. So, they give you the job because you look like an 'authority'.


Way 4: Don't bid the lowest.

I know you're just starting. You're trying to be humble. But, if the range is $15-$30 for example, don't bid between $15-19. Quick truth? Nobody wants the lowest price, they want the best offer. How many times have you seen the cheapest thing amongst a particular range and refused buying it. See? If you know why people patronize others, you'll know self esteem is one of the reasons and you'll never bid so low. You know your worth? Charge it. Don't be cheap, don't be pricy yet.

These are things you can begin today. They work! So, begin! smiley
Thank you very much
Investment AdsRe: How I Made Over 450$ Daily On Cotp ( Video) by Ebubu: 5:29pm On Apr 19, 2022
slimanyd:
I want to share with us all a wonderful crypto trading platform changing a lot of lives across the world
does it require any amount of capital to invest, or referees lipsrsealed
FamilyRe: Preparing 4 Marriage by Ebubu: 5:11pm On Apr 19, 2022
Champione:
Dear elders in the house, please i present this sensitive mata ,am 30yrs about to get married. please how do One prepare my mindset or approach towards this. this is a lifetime issue and i never desire a divorce. over to u the elders/couples
Bro, please can you guide me on that super Payne with VPN which you mentioned pays you $3 daily.

I’m highly interested and wanna know how it works
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Confuses Electricity And Phone Infrastructure (Video) by Ebubu: 4:46pm On Apr 19, 2022
eteebanky1:
Gazette na fast food blog, very stupid operators
but you were hauling sahara reporters in 2015 when they were doing to goodluck, what gazette does to tinubu now. undecided
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Confuses Electricity And Phone Infrastructure (Video) by Ebubu: 4:45pm On Apr 19, 2022
Maxymilliano:
Lol ... Tinubu should be pushing to head an old people's home where his current condition of partial dementia will be celebrated as signs of early recovery
jesus Christ you get mouth o
InvestmentRe: I Will Create US Fiverr Account Or Whatsapp For You by Ebubu: 4:43pm On Apr 19, 2022
JOEGENIUS:
I will help you create US or any country Fiverr, Upwork, Twitter, WhatsApp or any app or website account fully verified
would have loved that upwork own but don’t have money cry
CelebritiesRe: BREAKING: Tight Security As Rita Dominic Holds Her Traditional Marriage Today by Ebubu: 2:15pm On Apr 19, 2022
Imo is hot zone oo

Unknown gun men

Make nothing happen to them
PoliticsRe: Nigerians like ‘Tweeting on WhatsApp’: Tinubu by Ebubu: 2:08pm On Apr 19, 2022
DSS do your job, if you’re not the one funding these terrorists to be calling Ndi Igbo
BusinessRe: N124,800 Monthly by Ebubu: 2:06pm On Apr 19, 2022
Zulu2022:
bro u nv hear about Fiverr or upwork,can bring u 5dols or 10 average daily
upwork and fiverr usually need mentors to guide you till you make your first cash out.

But even if you are to do it by yourself, writing proposals for jobs require a document you’ve once written before.

How do you provide that document if you’ve never written for anybody before?
BusinessRe: N124,800 Monthly by Ebubu: 2:05pm On Apr 19, 2022
Champione:
Please this is an Appeal. if any one has a legit app,website that is able to cash out $10 or N4160 consistently, should please share, why?
$1/N416
$10 times 30 is $300/N124,800, thanks in advance
gokanagba@gmail.com
you mean $10 daily?
AgricultureRe: See The Animal I Killed On A Camping Trip by Ebubu: 1:30pm On Apr 19, 2022
HandsomeHITLER:
Mararaba far off into the bush ohh. No go there oh. Snakes go bite you finish grin
grin
AgricultureRe: See The Animal I Killed On A Camping Trip by Ebubu: 1:24pm On Apr 19, 2022
It didn’t run because it did not perceive you as threat. No history of human threats to it.
AgricultureRe: See The Animal I Killed On A Camping Trip by Ebubu: 1:23pm On Apr 19, 2022
HandsomeHITLER:
It came close enough to and was staring at us then started mating with it's guy. Funnily enough, I shot twice and it didn't really run far off so... Here we go. It happened yesterday at our Easter hangout.

Not too far from where I killed a snake crawling into my car (python) [1st two frames about three months ago] and the gazelle? Yesterday.
which state get these bush animals
FamilyRe: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by Ebubu: 1:14pm On Apr 19, 2022
Prettygirl200:
okay fine let me just agree with what u just said but u know very well that verbal abuse does not kill like physical abuse. Physically Abuse can damage a human or better still kill but verbal abuse does not that is what the op what trying to say. Knowing fully well that when it comes to physical abuse men are stronger and can hurt or even kill their partner. Is it not just better to walk away?
Please start advocating for men to divorce a verbally abusive wife if the same divorce is to be meted on a physically abusive husband.

That’s the only way this can be equal
FamilyRe: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by Ebubu: 1:07pm On Apr 19, 2022
JovialJune:
You this -0 intellect,

The cruise of this thread is domestic violence, if you cannot walk away, you keep insulting each other until one of you gets tired and stop, do you get it?

Or do you want to say all your fellow men that has insulted the bejesus out of you, your reaction is to beat them? Abi it is only on women you can use your fist on? What of your boss wey dey insult you everyday? Do you beat him or her? Or you swallow the insults like a good little boy or you resign?

Answer these questions if you have brain to think.
Stop justifying your abusive nature by comparing men’s reaction to home abuse with their reaction to office or societal abuse.


Focus on the matter which is verbal abuse at home or do you have a comprehension/attention deficit problem? Do you have a problem maintaining one lane? That’s how you women leave an argument and derail into insults.


You called your husband a very heartless human being but get angry he’s called a simp.


Please which is more glorifying between the two if not the one I called him. undecided
FamilyRe: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by Ebubu: 12:58pm On Apr 19, 2022
olaarie:
And insults is your best form of communication?
exactly. Instead of advising men to walk away. Women should be discouraged from initiating verbal abuses and running their mouth to the detriment of the man’s self confidence, esteem and morale.

How do you think he goes to work, feeling ?
FamilyRe: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by Ebubu: 12:57pm On Apr 19, 2022
JovialJune:
You called my husband a simp, you started it first, and you expect me not give it to you right back? You are a clown, that is exactly what this thread is about, you men will verbally abuse your wife first just like what you did to me, but when she verbally abuse you back you start to hyperventilate and throw fists about like fools, which is exactly my point in this thread, will a woman verbally abuse her husband unprovoked? You just proved me right that you men are the cause of Domestic violence, you provoke and insult your wife, she insults you right back, what stops you from keeping up with the same insults you started? You want to use your fists because you know that one will pain pass, keep beating and meet your doom when you kill her, you will rot in jail or be killed right back

FYI yes, I collected my jewelry back, my priced possession that is worth millions in naira today, go and hug transformer if it hurts your soul.
Have you seen how you’re unable to take your own medicine you advice men to take?

You ask men to walk away when verbally abused, did you walk away when i verbally abused you?


You see walking away when verbally abused is hard to do and men should even be complimented for the many times that they do that.

Next time, stop propagating for men to walk away from verbal abuse but instead, avoid initiating the verbal abuses against men, since it’s proven that you couldn’t walk away from the one I initiated.

Intelligent by half !
CelebritiesRe: Portable Surprises His Pregnant Wife On Her Birthday by Ebubu: 12:43pm On Apr 19, 2022
grin
FamilyRe: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by Ebubu: 12:37pm On Apr 19, 2022
JovialJune:
You see that you just verbally abused me without being provoked, you, a man, yet you accuse only women as if you men don't do it, you see my point? How vile you had to go on someone you've never met or seen before for you to degrade parts of my body, me, a woman, you see that verbal abuse is not specific to any gender right? So did I threaten to track you down to deal with you by hiring boys to beat you up? No I didn't, instead I'm pointing out your vile self who lacks proper upbringing that men verbally abuse too, and me, a woman, will walk away from your negativity, just as is expected of you men to do.
Please shüt your fücking mouth.

You insulted my father, and when I gave it back to you. You label me a verbal abuser? You think you can blackmail me?

You verbally abusive and emotional blackmailers are the worst and God help me, pretty soon men will become awakened and start divorcing your dirty asses in order to have peace in their households.

Look at this necklace thief and blackmailer oo

Hope you finally stole that necklace from your mother-in-law angry
RomanceRe: Men, Can You Consider Divorcing An Emotional And Verbally Abusive Wife? by Ebubu(op): 12:30pm On Apr 19, 2022
NewSoul:
The best thing is to walk away. The damage verbal abuse does to a man is always life-threatening. When you allow bad energy constantly into your life, it begins to rub off on you physically, emotionally, health-wise, mentally and financially.

Most men abused by their wives and continue to stay there observe them closely they look older than their age, they battle with one illness or the other, they are never financially stable, happiness is far from them, they become weak men, they lose the zeal to push for a better life. You can't be hearing "you are a useless man", "it will not be well with you", "you are not worth anything", "you can never make it in life", "you will die before me" from the bone of your bone and flesh of your flesh of your flesh and still expect to be sane angry

They do not only stop at the husband, they also transfer that aggression on their sons. If you know the pain verbal abuse can inflict on one you'll refrain from it. My mother abused me verbally for years and I'm still feeling the impact and one useless woman or lady will come and continue from where she stopped, I go use beating and punches pursue you go your papa house undecided . My father that one anytime I look at him I feel pity and anger at the same time. Pity because of what has become of him after years of verbal abuse and what it has done to him psychologically and I feel anger because he made a wrong choice without God being involved angry and allowing it to continue and not having the balls to walk away. My elder sister won dey do that shit to me too, I cut off communication ASAP angry I hate nonsense. My mother sef communication has been reduced to the barest minimum.

Guys if a lady talks to you anyhow or shows that she doesn't respect you. Dump her immediately don't be blinded by useless sex. If she broke shames you, dump her. A woman that respects you because of money will disrespect you and kill you verbally if God forbid you lose your wealth. If she make fun or complain of your appearance like "you are too short" "you are too black" or "you are too skinny" please I beg dump her. If she compares your brother to you, dump her. If a woman can not respect you unconditionally just dump her please. angry

Finally I have made a decision not to get married and I'm keeping to it. My peace of mind is better than one useless wife that will cause me heartache for the rest of my long life. lipsrsealed
Thank you very much

You’ve said it all


Guys listen and listen very carefully
FamilyRe: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by Ebubu: 12:22pm On Apr 19, 2022
MNDY:
Continue...
What are you saying? People fight their bosses and also fight on the streets. And who told you that walking away to return will solve the problem. Walking away from the marriage (Divorce) solves the problem permanently but it's not very easy to divorce. Keep defending your gender, you hear? Let the nagging continue and don't hold meetings to iron out issues, you hear? The more your mouth run, the more beating to correct una, as divorce no easy. You want him to be walking away until he walks into the arms of another woman...right? GIVE YOUR MAN PEACE OF MIND & QUIETNESS FOR HIM TO BE ABLE TO THINK.
No mind am. They should keep defending their gender and their body go keep telling them cheesy
FamilyRe: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by Ebubu: 12:20pm On Apr 19, 2022
JovialJune:
I asked simple questions you're yapping spittle everywhere

Do men verbally abuse people or not? Do men verbally abuse their fellow men or not? How do you react to it? By going physical or walking away? When verbally abused by your boss at work, do you physical abuse him/or walk away? What triggers the verbal abuse?

Think deeply on these questions, apply logic, then answer, and stopping equating your father to all men.
Your body for tell you if you been face me dey wag your mouth wey dey smell like your fishy vagina

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