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RomanceRe: VERBAL ABUSE ; The Domestic Violence Nobody Talks About by Ebubu: 12:05pm On Apr 19, 2022
I share in your opinion


We have similar ideas that’s why I created this thread with the link below

https://www.nairaland.com/7085686/men-consider-divorcing-emotional-verbally
RomanceRe: Young Man Weds His American Lover In Akwa Ibom by Ebubu:
Green card toh sure


Congrats bro on escaping Nigerian women


They started having sex at 10 years while the married ones only know how to verbally abuse their husband and as well, cheat on him with their exes. angry
RomanceRe: Men, Can You Consider Divorcing An Emotional And Verbally Abusive Wife? by Ebubu(op): 12:03pm On Apr 19, 2022
rickpat:
in this part of the world,the men hardly file for divorce based on emotionally abuse...most of them see it as an opportunity to go get a side chick or even marry more women...some feel that's where their happiness lie.


BUT IT'S WISE YOU DIVORCE THE WOMAN..

BUT DIVORCE IS NOT AN EASY PROCESS THOUGH ESPECIALLY WHEN THERE ARE KIDS INVOLVED PLUS THE WHOLE ALIMONY ISSUE... MAY BE THATS WHY THE MEN JUST GO AND GET OTHER WOMEN INTO THEIR LIVES...


ALL FORM OF ABUSE IS BAD...ABUSE IT'S A SILENT KILLER...SAY NO TO ABUSE
if you get another woman into your life, you complicate the whole matters as you may end up having child outside your marriage, wife can even sue for divorce due to extra-marital affairs, win you and you bear the brunt of the shame.

You choose to marry the other woman, does Christianity permit that? Unless you are a Muslim, fine. But what is the solution for our Christian brothers who can’t take their verbal abusive wives.


Or are they writing off the consequences of verbal abuses in their lives? The kids could be watching and losing respect for their father, if at all they are not already corrupted by the deeds of the mother and trained to repeat same to their future husbands/wives.
RomanceRe: Men, Can You Consider Divorcing An Emotional And Verbally Abusive Wife? by Ebubu(op): 11:47am On Apr 19, 2022
kriss2I6:
Straight divorce,no Time to waste.
Thank you for your opinion.

I think men should start filing for divorce with an emotionally and verbally abusive partner. That is the only way the younger generation of women about to get married will learn how to live peacefully with their husband.

Moreover if you file for divorce after learning the nature of person she is, it reduces your chances of one day overreacting and hitting her then landing in jail for beating a woman. So the earlier you divorce that verbal abuser who will put you in jail, and claim your properties as damages, the better for you.

Don’t throw your life away keeping a verbally abusive wife in your OWN HOUSE you paid for and own/built.

Let us not downplay the effects of verbal abuse and how it affects the man’s sexual and societal productivity.
FamilyRe: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by Ebubu: 11:43am On Apr 19, 2022
JovialJune:
Verbal abuse is the cause of physical abuse, good and fine, what triggers the verbal abuse? Are you saying men don't verbally abuse their wives? How do the wives react?

Are you saying that, all your life, all those who verbally abused you, we're beaten by you as a reaction? If no, how did you react to their verbal abuse?
stop talking about how men should react to verbal abuse by walking away, instead advise your fellow uncouth women to nip the verbal abuse in the bud and not initiate it at all and stop telling us to walk away from verbal abuse.


I pity your simp of a husband
FamilyRe: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by Ebubu: 11:41am On Apr 19, 2022
JovialJune:
Answer these questions? What triggers the verbal abuse from the women? Are you saying men don't verbally abuse their wives? If yes, how do the wives react? Is it only men that have high blood pressure or dread coming home because of what they will meet at home? Women don't face same?
Usually the verbal abuses from women are offshoots from a heated argument; which often times if they can’t win, they resort to abusing the man, blackmailing him or belittling him; causing him him a deep in his confidence and self esteem as a man. Even comparing him with his mates who are more successful than him by measure of car or property as if the woman doesn’t have her own mates who are more successful than her.

A man hardly throws the first insult cos it’s hardly their forte and I mean their mouths. Women are the ones who pride themselves in being mouthful.

I’ll advise women to walk away from arguments when it gets too heated or intensive and find other means to settle the issues instead of resorting to insults in the midst of an unhealthy argument.
RomanceMen, Can You Consider Divorcing An Emotional And Verbally Abusive Wife? by Ebubu(op): 11:36am On Apr 19, 2022
There has been widespread reports of physical abuse in the internet in recent weeks. And many family advisors and psychologists have advised women to walk away from a marriage with a physically abusive husband.

Many men in defense or perhaps due to recent awareness, have started to open up on what they suffer in the hands of women in the name of verbal and emotional abuses. Some recount instances whereby the woman stands in their way through the door and dares them to pass through if they are man enough, rains abuses them, belittle them among others.

I understand these has led to many men choosing the company of their friends and/or sleeping in offices.


While men portray emotional and verbal abuses to be equivalent to physical abuse considering the trauma and sleeplessness it creates on the victim, as well as a dip in his confidence and general unhappiness. Since women are advised to walk away from a physically abusive marriage


Can you as a man or current husband, walk away from that your verbally abusive wife if it’s in her trait to be abusive, causing you trauma, unproductiveness at work, sadness, sleeplessness and lack of confidence?


How far can you go with a wife who verbally abuses you ?
FamilyRe: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by Ebubu: 11:29am On Apr 19, 2022
JovialJune:
Show statistical links and facts on how verbal abuse is more deadlier than physical abuse? Show statistical links on how verbal abuse from women and not from men is more deadlier than physical abuse and stop the baseless assumption.
Madam, many men tend to sleep over at offices instead of coming home to an abusive woman. Do you know the kind of trauma it creates in his mind? Some can barely sleep at night when memories of hurtful words flash through his mind at the end of the day just while he tries to close his eyes to sleep, unfailingly the sleep does not come.

The ones who end up with high BP nko

Denying the effects of verbal and emotional abuse from you women is why you will never stop with it.

Thank God men’s eyes are gradually opening and only a matter of few months from now, divorces filed by men on account of verbal and traumatic abuses will start flooding the internet.

We will live to witness it
FamilyRe: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by Ebubu: 11:26am On Apr 19, 2022
Prettygirl200:
okay fine let me just agree with what u just said but u know very well that verbal abuse does not kill like physical abuse. Physically Abuse can damage a human or better still kill but verbal abuse does not that is what the op what trying to say. Knowing fully well that when it comes to physical abuse men are stronger and can hurt or even kill their partner. Is it not just better to walk away?
Do you women walk away ? No, you verbally abuse your partner and think it doesn’t hurt him

Do you know what it does to his self esteem, confidence and personality? It tears him up from inside.

You people are here thinking it is all about physical hurt never consider the consequences o your emotional and verbal abuse
FamilyRe: Domestic Violence. Who Do We Blame? by Ebubu: 11:23am On Apr 19, 2022
Prettygirl200:
And that is y u will rot in jail.
and the woman who verbally abuses her husband nko? Some will stand in his way and dare him, “come and pass through if you’re a man”.

Thunder faya all of una toto

Tey am with me if u no go collect woto woto

Say no to verbal abuse you woman.
SportsRe: Man City To Trigger Erling Haaland's £63 Million Release Clause by Ebubu: 10:04am On Apr 19, 2022
CSTRR:
Or you would get a wonderful flop.

Mbappe and Haaland have proven their worth.
What has Nunez done?

Or is united not tired of buying flops like Sancho?
Sancho is a flop no doubt.
CelebritiesRe: Portable Collapses While Performing At AY Live, Looks 'Crazy' by Ebubu: 8:46am On Apr 19, 2022
8stargeneral:
Too much of drugs
obviously be collapsed due to the drugs
CelebritiesRe: Portable Collapses While Performing At AY Live, Looks 'Crazy' by Ebubu: 8:46am On Apr 19, 2022
DMerciful:
Peperimpe peperimpepe....nor go dey do pass yourself grin
grin
CelebritiesRe: Portable Collapses While Performing At AY Live, Looks 'Crazy' by Ebubu: 8:46am On Apr 19, 2022
Gkemz:
Over highness. His constant ugly look wont allow us distinguish when he's sick from when he's normal.
grin
EducationRe: Chrisland Breaks Silence On Sex Scandal, 5 Pupils Misbehaved In Dubai by Ebubu: 7:30am On Apr 19, 2022
NoToPile:
Sadly you are right ooo.


Even if you go to parties in schools if you see the kind of music they play and children whining and dancing ehn, all these their Yeye end of the year party. the annoying part is nobody sees anything wrong with it. The children who just jump up and down in the form of dancing are sort of looked down own. The day a school in my area had their party, the kind of music blaring from the speakers was terrible.

We don't even allow kids to be kids any more oo.

We expose them to terrible content and those who are not exposed to it are seen as not woke.


Parents protect your children oo.

My bike customer was telling me one day he won't be available that his children were going for interhouse sport (they attend chosen church group of schools so they had a combine interhouse sport, all the Lagos schools met at a particular location for the event).

He said he would have to go with them that he can't leave two of his children to go like that, he said there were busses and all the teachers were going but since his wife won't be available she will stay with the youngest baby and he will follow the other two and watch out for them they should be aged 7 and 5 around that range.

I smiled when he said so, not that he didn't trust the school system, he wanted to take extra steps for his children.
What a wise bike man. Bike man ooooo. Come and see our educated lecturers leaving their kids to go that inter-house sports by themselves if they are to be in that case.
EducationRe: Chrisland Breaks Silence On Sex Scandal, 5 Pupils Misbehaved In Dubai by Ebubu: 7:28am On Apr 19, 2022
AutoRedux:
I don't even believe the hoax about referring to kids as people who do not know what they are doing. That is a complete lie to me. When I was about 4 years, I knew everything I was doing. When I say everything, I mean every damn thing. If not, why do I hide when I want to steal meat from the pot at night. If I did not know it was wrong, then why was I hiding each time I did it. It was because I didn't want to get caught.
true submission
SportsRe: Man City To Trigger Erling Haaland's £63 Million Release Clause by Ebubu: 7:14am On Apr 19, 2022
CSTRR:
This Darwin Nunez has not proven enough to warrant this hype.

A decent season does not make him world class.

And United will buy him for big money and then wonder why he is struggling.
same was said of Mbappe after his sterling first season that he’s a one season wonder.

Same was said of haaland in his sterling first season at molde.

If you leave nunez to mature, you’ll face stiffer competition and higher wage but you’ll likely get a more experienced player.
Foreign AffairsRe: US Convening Urgent Meeting With World Leader by Ebubu: 6:58am On Apr 19, 2022
joyandfaith:
The agenda is how to stop Nazi Russia in Ukraine.
Is there still nazi? I thought they were all defeated and surrendered in the Second World War?
LiteratureRe: Experience Travel Writer Needed. by Ebubu: 6:57am On Apr 19, 2022
Deyemmy:
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EducationRe: Chrisland Breaks Silence On Sex Scandal, 5 Pupils Misbehaved In Dubai by Ebubu: 6:55am On Apr 19, 2022
AutoRedux:
No ofcourse not.

We should train them but what I am trying to point out here is the fact that that girl and the boys involved in the act should all be held responsible for everything that happened.

What drives me mad is that some idiots(trust Nigerians to be idiots) are saying she was gangraped. If for anything, she was the one doing the f ucking. How can you rape someone who is atop a dick? Tell me how can you do that? She was even smiling in the video. Like Wtf is wrong with Nigerians and hypocrisy.

They even sanctioned the school.

Expel the f ucking kids.

Damn!!
well fine submission by you. I’m no longer of the opinion that kids should not be held responsible because a parent and teacher can teach, but the decision is in the hands of the child. And in a case whereby he/she is taught the right thing but decides the wrong decision, why shouldn’t he/she be held responsible for his/her decision? The earlier we start holding kids accountable the earlier they’ll mature into good decision making adults.
SportsRe: Man City To Trigger Erling Haaland's £63 Million Release Clause by Ebubu: 6:52am On Apr 19, 2022
ceeceeco:
See how much Man City wants to buy this guy, before you know it they'll get him. But if it is Man Utd they will buy @ more than 100 million pounds. I don't know what's wrong with that club, they don't know how to scout & price players. Man utd can chase a player for more than 2 decades. Man utd no get weight for transfer market, let me see if they can be able to get Darwin Nunez from Benfica.
he plays left wing. Sancho, rashford, martial already play that wing. People call him striker but all his highlights show he is more comfortable and often more plays left wing from which he cuts in to score goal just like ribery
SportsRe: Man City To Trigger Erling Haaland's £63 Million Release Clause by Ebubu: 6:50am On Apr 19, 2022
Throwback:
I will rather have Darwin at a cheaper price and wage.
have you watched darwin goals? That guy plays as a left winger(11), and uses his right foot to cut in and score goals.

How is a player who plays left wing, a striker?
EducationRe: Chrisland Breaks Silence On Sex Scandal, 5 Pupils Misbehaved In Dubai by Ebubu: 6:41am On Apr 19, 2022
AutoRedux:
No bro. That is a total misconception. Have you not seen a family where the kids grew up having no parents but at the end of the day, they turned out to lead exemplary lives.

Where what you are saying mostly works is when you are blessed by fortune and fate. In such cases, you need not do the most because everything will just fall perfectly in place. Have you not heard of children who are old souls. Right from childhood, they already have things figured out like knowing what's best to do in almost any situation. Such kids are not impressionable. They are never moved by peer pressure. They exude wisdom right from birth. They are simply, the very blessing of fortune and fate.
should be now stop training kids?
EducationRe: Chrisland Breaks Silence On Sex Scandal, 5 Pupils Misbehaved In Dubai by Ebubu: 6:24am On Apr 19, 2022
AutoRedux:
Respectfully speaking, I really don't want to call you a f ool.

Girl that was very happy riding dick that's who hypocritical and sentimental Nigerians are saying was raped.

The only person who has failed herself is the girl and nobody else. Not the parents, not the school and not the society.

No matter how strict you are with a bad child, the very instant he/she gets the slightest taste of freedom, she will let out her true behavior. If you want to know a child's true behavior, give them freedom.
The same can be said for poor people. Forget about their good behavior when they're poor. Wait till they make money and see the beasts in them rear it ugly head up from the depths of their wicked souls. Money and freedom do not change people, it only brings out who they really are. Know this and know peace.
true. But when you train a child well and give them that freedom, they’ll make good decisions.
EducationRe: Chrisland Breaks Silence On Sex Scandal, 5 Pupils Misbehaved In Dubai by Ebubu: 6:23am On Apr 19, 2022
BRATISLAVA:
These thoughts never cross their minds. They simply use their local ideas on what happened to judge. All they know is that a little girl had sex, so she must be punished and her mother should be ashamed of her. They can't reason how she came to be in that position.

To illiterate Nigerians, all sex is desired, even when they know there are times it is forced. But they don't want to accept that fact, because it will make them all rapists. Because almost all of them have forcefully had sex with someone else, and believe it is okay to. So they pretend and fight against reality.

Instead of looking for justice, they are looking for how to blame the female party as usual.
you dey talk rubbish. Why not mention the boy child? I guess he’s useless to you.
EducationRe: Chrisland Breaks Silence On Sex Scandal, 5 Pupils Misbehaved In Dubai by Ebubu: 6:20am On Apr 19, 2022
Dreamhighnow:
Nigeria has failed that girl child
you be mumu. Why not say the kids? Na only girl child worth saving?
EducationRe: Truth Or Dare: Mother Of Julian, 10-Year-Old Chrisland Gang-Raped Student Speaks by Ebubu: 9:11pm On Apr 18, 2022
mercyland93:
I neva see the video, May God save Nigeria from this illicit news.
Pls, who get the link or video make I come make analysis on it as well.
Add me on WhatsApp let me share it to you



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EducationRe: Truth Or Dare: Mother Of Julian, 10-Year-Old Chrisland Gang-Raped Student Speaks by Ebubu: 9:09pm On Apr 18, 2022
HajiaNotu:
Crazy things are happening in Tems voice....

I bet when I was 10 yrs old,my breast was flat till I got to SS2, I was using Top bra".

Are we sure this girl is a 10 year old??

I m speechless!
forget the breast.

How she take sabi ride d1.ck at 10 years old without painshocked

Meaning say she don dis virgin tey tey and has also rode a d1.ck before that day prior to age 10 for her not to feel pains sitting on top.


Before 16 i prophesy she’ll have 5 abortions minimum
PoliticsRe: 2023: Tinubu Mocks Amaechi’s Show Of Fitness. by Ebubu: 9:02pm On Apr 18, 2022
He speaks of brain capacity

But his comparison is brain dead

He would have said, “ Those who think they will see me run around the stadium, I didn’t apply for the job of athlete or sprinter”
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FamilyRe: Which City In Nigeria Now Can One Raise Decent Kids? by Ebubu:
Abakaliki, Ebonyi state

Tho is getting some diversity and exposure with calabar people trooping into the state recently but it’s still largely filled with decent people


Lagos is rotten to the core, no even try Owerri.

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