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FamilyRe: How Old Were Your Parents When They Got Married by ebuka1511(m): 3:57pm On Oct 30, 2025
25 and 21 for my parents
FamilyRe: Men Actually Do Have A Biological Clock: The Silent Ticker by ebuka1511(m): 7:48am On Oct 22, 2025
Kobojunkie:
https://www.msn.com/en-us/health/other/the-silent-ticker-men-actually-do-have-a-biological-clock/ar-AA1OwSgL
This study is riddled with numerous inconsistencies and, forgive me, untruths. When did we start noticing autism, schizophrenia, and congenital conditions in new borns? This was fairly recent, in the 70s, if you research well. While I agree that the quantity of sperm decreases with age in men, i am yet to believe that it affects the quality. Casually, I have seen men in their eighties fathering healthy kids; come to the North, you will see lots of these examples. where under age marriage of the female child is practiced.

What this study has done is placing the burden of birth defects and congenital conditions on newborns on the men. Is this true? While I do not have the study research to back up my claims. We have seen real-life scenarios around us where older men, married to younger ladies birth healthy kids, and I have also seen scenarios where older men , with matured ladies, birth healthy kids in some cases and kids with congenital defects like Down syndrome, kids in various spectrum of autism. in other cases (older ladies and older males).

Looking closely, while I will not completely state that all older men with younger women marriages always birth healthy kids, the percentage of healthy kids in these relationships are always high, most cases 80% and above for healthy kids birth. But the union between older men and older ladies also birth healthy kids as against kids with congenital defects in the ration 60:40, i.e 60%, so looking at it, the probability of birthing kids with birth defects and congenital conditions among mature and older ladies rises as their age increases.

This study is just trying to flip the result we already know, we know who is funding this research............. same people sponsoring GMO seeds, LGBT .......... you know the rest.
BusinessRe: Zenith Bank Announces ₦53.3 Billion Interim Dividend by ebuka1511(m): 8:30am On Oct 15, 2025
Rilwayne001:
That means if you bought 100k shares at about 7million, you’ll be earning #125,000 as dividend, this is still very small.
That is not how you look at it, check the capital appreciation, how much per share did you get it, what is the value now, the difference is your capital. The dividend is added bonus. Look at capital appreciation chief.
BusinessRe: Zenith Bank Announces ₦53.3 Billion Interim Dividend by ebuka1511(m): 8:27am On Oct 15, 2025
hontimmy:
i got 16k for me.

I want to sell it off also.
Chief hold on to it, if you can get more, after the new recapitalization, that bank is heading to N200 post recapitalization. Looking at getting more, buy UCAP, also looking at banking stocks, look at Fidelity bank, Access and Jaiz bank and UBA, UBA is seriously undervalued, buy as much as you can of it now.

Looking at Insurance stocks, AIICO is a good one, pack as much as you can.
PoliticsRe: Onanuga Confirms Wale Edun’s Illness, Says Cardoso Will Take His Place... by ebuka1511(m): 9:15am On Oct 13, 2025
Omooba77:
Tinubu Presidency Confirms Wale Edun’s Illness, Says CBN Governor Cardoso Will Take His Place At World Bank, IMF Meetings



https://saharareporters.com/2025/10/12/tinubu-presidency-confirms-wale-eduns-illness-says-cbn-governor-cardoso-will-take-his
May God heal him and grant him quick recovery. To be honest, he has been good with the Ministry, proof of his work can be seen at the exchange rate with the USD.
Christianity EtcRe: Nigeria Anglican Church Creates 15 New Dioceses, Elects New Bishops (FULL LIST) by ebuka1511(m): 10:14am On Sep 19, 2025
Odewaleadesoye:
Nigeria Anglican Church Creates 15 New Dioceses, Elects New Bishops



PUNCH NG | CoN Communication Officer
Ok oh, this is just not right and feasible. The Anglican Communion is trying to compete with the Pentecostal churches on expansion, forgetting the time we live in. Let us face it, among the existing Dioceses currently running, how many amongst them are self-sustaining, outside the mother Dioceses?

Come to Rivers State, using Oyigbo LGA as a case study. We have up to four different Dioceses there, listed as follows: Evo Diocese, Ukwa Diocese, Etche Diocese, and a part of the Niger-Delta Diocese (Iriebe areas, with boundaries that include Umuebule IV). A surprising trend is that all these Dioceses are outcompeting themselves at Church Planting. Some churches are in rented homes / shops! My own Anglican Church, in a rented hall!!.

Now what you will notice is that there are lots of fundraising, and fund appeals by these small churches to their members and then, these churches are being given unrealistic "Quota" amounts to be paid to their head Dioceses. The result is that you will see real Anglicans leaving the church for other Pentecostal Churches due to the incessant fundraising and fund appeals in the church.

It is a pity that the Anglican Church I grew up in has now changed drastically. Quantity has been prioritised over quality, and it is so sad. In my town, with 12 villages in Anambra state, it is just 4 years ago that another Anglican church was planted in my town making it just 2 Anglican churches in a town of almost 200,000 inhabitants, (before this, we just have 1 Anglican church), which has a functioning and running School, which is cool, but where I currently live, We have the presence of 4 Dioceses with more than 10 different Anglican churches across 4 Dioceses, and population is less than my town of origin.

Now what do we see? Reverends whose salaries are not paid on time and poorly renumerated, uninhabitable buildings for churches and scanty membership across all the churches.

Growing up, Churches were grand edifices with stained colored window glasses, huge expanse of land with an attached space for cemetery. I guess it is the time we find ourselves now, I might just be old school, but the more Dioceses been created especially in areas already saturated will not help the growth of the Anglican church, many of these churches cannot sustain theirselves, (Recall my village church has a full fledge school from Nursery to Secondary school with full population) many members are leaving the church to churches where they are not been tasked always to raise funds for the church.

I wish the Primate Head of the Anglican Communion will look into this.
GamingRe: This Video Game Made Life Fun For 80s And 90s Kids (Throwback Photos) by ebuka1511(m): 8:48am On Sep 06, 2025
Rapmoney:
I just stumbled on the Super Mario Bros game that was first released in 1985. Fond memories. I used my saved pocket money to buy the Terminator Game Console that we used in playing Super Mario and other games like Contra, Duck Hunt and Mortal Kombat.

I literally trekked to school for a long time just to save N850 which I used to purchase the game. This was in 1996. My house became a theatre, always filled with friends until Popsy seized the game and asked me to concentrate on my books. If you get this game console that year, you be sabi pikin.

How many of you saw the princess at the end in Super Mario?
Me that went out and smuggled in a tout into our home to help me finish the game , following all stage from 1 to 8. Thank God I was able to finish it with the guys help. Old days, recently got a handheld for my son , where I downloaded the game into it
EducationRe: 17-year-Old Nafisa Defeats 69 Countries To Win Global English Contest by ebuka1511(m): 9:53am On Aug 05, 2025
Congratulations to her, so proud of her. This goes to show that we have brains across the length and breadth of this country. Exposure matters. She has really made the family, Yobe state and Nigeria in general
Infoguy666:
https://news360ng.com/17-year-old-yobe-student-defeats-69-countries-to-win-global-english-championship-in-london/
EducationRe: Oluwabusayo Ifonlaja Graduates With 5.0gp Results In Law by ebuka1511(m): 5:13pm On Jul 15, 2025
Congratulations to Ifonlaja, wishing further success in his career, for now in the legal cycle in Nigeria, in terms of academic performance, he is the GOAT!!!! Congrats once again to Ifonlaja
FamilyRe: Before You Japa, Think Well About Your Marriage by ebuka1511(m): 10:46am On Jun 29, 2025
Kobojunkie:
This one na arse bloody lie of mythical levels. Women are not naturally more comfortable with childcare than men are. Society raises and brainwashes them to be in many cases, but the truth is no human is born with that comfort. It is learned. 🙄🙄🙄
Can you show us proof? Atleast, looking at animals,parenting is the responsibility of the female gender, where it occurs or not at all.

So let's hear your proof
CareerRe: I Just Collected The First Salary Of My Career by ebuka1511(m): 10:46am On Feb 28, 2025
Rhymesy:
After defending my Bsc Geography and Natural Resources Management from the department of Geography, University of Uyo in August, 2024, I waited in Uyo hoping to see a part time job. Unfortunately, I didn't locate any good one. Things began to be tougher because my parents didn't send me money again.

I decided to move to Port Harcourt this year. On getting to Port Harcourt, I applied as a Geography Teacher in one of the prestigious schools. Fortunately, I got the job after series of interviews and started teaching.

Yesterday my account was credited and I went and withdraw half of the salary.



To God be the Glory.
Congratulations brother. this is just the beginning and better things are in the offing. I also remember taking up teaching in PH immediately after my service years, I remember those days with Joy. However, I am not where I started; I have made subtle progress, and things are always looking better.

It takes courage and resilience to start small, some of your former coursemates might smirk at you for taking the meagre offer, but know that you are on the right track. To the Glory of God, I met my wife in the same school I started teaching, she was also fellow teacher in the school, while there she was there for me spiritually in prayers and when I got my break, it was her I chose.

Final advice, keep up the grind, do not relent and rest on your oars. Keep bombing your CV, keep the application process, subscribe to hotnigerian job search and myjob mag job search. I pray and wish you nothing but the best, but remain focused. I can help you with some soft copies of aptitude job tests if you are interested.

God bless you.
CareerRe: Meet Capt. Ahmed Buhari Bature; Exceptional NDA Graduate Still Doing Exploits by ebuka1511(m): 6:22pm On Jan 11, 2025
Brains unadulterated!! Prays he gets to the peak of his career.
Racoon:
https://www.facebook.com/share/18UG2Dmtbo/
Jokes EtcRe: Top 5 Most Popular Meme Characters On Nairaland by ebuka1511(m): 2:26pm On Dec 11, 2024
funny memes
Car TalkRe: This Car Consumes A Lot Of Fuel by ebuka1511(m): 10:49am On Nov 08, 2024
Your 20k fuel is about 20 litres, so check it out. With this 20 litres, you can do a range of 250km, using 8Lt/100 or, worst-case scenario, a combination of the two.

If you are doing an average of 31km per Trip and do 8 trips, that is what your 20 litres can give.

In summary, the car is doing its rated consumption. The culprit here is inflation. Last year, that same N20,000 would have bought you 100 Liters (@ 200 per liter). The Economy is not smiling; our money has lost all value.
PoliticsRe: First Lady Of Nigeria Remi Tinubu Visits Lagbaja’s Widow (Pictures) by ebuka1511(m): 8:18am On Nov 07, 2024
My heartfelt condolence to the family, only God understands the pain and deep sense of loss the family is passing through. My people, what is that goal you aim to achieve that seems elusive to you, just might be God trying to keep you alive. Imagine getting to the summit of his career and losing his life there, wouldn't it be better if he was still in service but not at the top?

Now you see the reasons why most officers appointed to the summit of their careers in the armed forces go on a purging spree, retiring all seniors above them and coursemates from service so they remain the most senior. Lagbaja, with a warm and big heart, did not tow that path. He preferred working with his coursemates and kept them in service. Now, how did it play out? I am not insinuating any foul play but know that envy amongst coursemates is bound to be present within his team, more especially from coursemates who feel entitled to have the coveted seat. The 48 Laws of power were not followed here.

The family would have preferred to have their dad, husband, uncle and cousin alive, even if he did not make the top than making the top and bowing out this way. Lagbaja was a fine officer, full of health and I must confess, the most fit service chief in a long while. May God give the family the grace to bear the loss.
BusinessRe: KPMG Announces Appointment Of Six Nigerians Among Nine New Partners In W.Africa by ebuka1511(m): 8:46am On Oct 03, 2024
idealogical:
Nigerian are partners, not owners.

KPMG is a British company.
Give it to my Western brothers. They are the gurus of the finance community, and I am not surprised. Congratulations to the new partners.

It is a well-deserved appointment.
EducationRe: Why Is There No Uniform Cut Of Marks For Unity Schools In Nigeria? by ebuka1511(m): 5:03pm On Apr 27, 2024
StOla:
Straight answer is quota.

Every state has a quota, so whatever it takes to fill that quota versus the scores of the students from that state, is what you see as cut off mark.

If you say by quota, then there should be no cut off mark, just imagine all candidates of Rivers state indigenes could not make their cut off marks, will they still be granted admission, having failed to meet the required cut off mark?

No state has cheated another state. All have only fulfilled their respective quotas to benefit from the subsidised education that the federal government is providing to aid their unity objective of those Unity Schools.

It is not by force to attend a unity school which does not even constitute 5% of all the secondary schools in Nigeria.

Unity School system is a post civil war programme of the federal government to engender harmony and unity in Nigerian children.

I did not attend a unity secondary school and I made it in life.

That I did not enjoy the subsidised secondary education provided by Unity Schools, does not mean I did not enjoy the heavily subsidised public tertiary education that Nigeria provided that landed me a job in a multinational firm.

For that, I am grateful and free of student loans my foreign counterparts are paying.
FoodRe: The Breakfast My 8 Years Old Daughter Prepared. by ebuka1511(m): 7:49pm On Apr 19, 2024
Caaz:
Food is ready


Cc: nlfpmod
This is good to see, you are really doing a great job of parenting. At this rate, she will be completely confident making soups before she turns 12.

Keep it up, I also have an 8 years old daughter who is also enthusiastic about cooking, but we are yet to let her go at it, with this , I will be giving her her first chance at this.

May God bless your family
TravelRe: Dubai International Airport Diverts Arriving Flights Due To Storm, flooding by ebuka1511(m): 7:03am On Apr 17, 2024
Exousiang01:
The UAE really bleeped with nature.
You dont Bleep with nature.
From the Palm Island to BurjArab.
They have been fucking nature in the ass
You are right bro, cloud seeding gone wrong.
TV/MoviesRe: Movie Review: Áfáméfúná - An Nwa-boi Story. by ebuka1511(m): 8:37pm On Apr 02, 2024
CaveAdullam:
"If you marry a monkey because of money, the money will one day finish, but the monkey remains".

Kanayo. O. Kanayo

I love the fact that the movie didn't portray human ritual as a means of making money. Because it is superstitious and inhumane. This is not to say people aren't involved in it. But that human ritual is just a term to cover up money laundering, fraud, and other form of illegality.

The movie from start to finish was intriguing and exciting. Though, the producer and writer were trying to sell a narrative that I found disturbing, however, their point was understandable. We'll get there later.

Afamefuna was a man like his father and master. Men who will toil the soil, with long streams of sweat and sometimes blood breaking on their backs and legs. Rather than steal or beg.

Afamefuna was a man who understood what integrity entails. He was so passionate about his apprenticeship that he rose to a rank even his master was mirthful about.

He was attentive to his job. Always on point. Making friends and avoiding enemies. Mapping his terrain to know where his territory borders and how to make good harvests from it.

He would have ended up being a doormat man even though he was honest. That's where Paulo comes in. Paulo was a senior colleague at first, then a friend, later a brother, and unfortunately in the end, an enemy.

Paulo is like men who aren't able to sustain themselves to the end. May not be exactly their fault; some seeds don't reach the farm.

Paulo was a friend who thought Afamefuna the way of the street, the modus operandi of doing business among sheep, goats, and tigers. Integrity was not enough. Honesty was not enough. Kindness was not enough. The good man must pose as a warrior to defend himself and attack enemies. That's who Paulo was to Afamefuna; his shield and sword.

Afamefuna's father raised his son using his experience, never leaving his son in the dark, feeding him daily with the wisdom of sages. Giving men a highlight on raising quality sons. Which by pure serendipity, the young man quickly leveraged in his time of need - when his boss was almost going bankrupt and helpless.

The movie portrays hard work and integrity as the key to success. Having a keen eye to spot a good location to start a business and becoming the mayor of that town.

Afamefuna had a crush on his boss's daughter, however, his timidity, and also, the engagement of Paulo to the beautiful damsel he admired stopped him from making any amorous move.

This damsel, Amaka indeliberately turned Paulo into Afamefuna's worst and bitter enemy. Afamefuna has to take much blame here, however.

Paulo got jealous that Afamefuna got the blessings of his boss and has now gained his freedom. That act unfurled the dirty nature of Paulo, eroding his little integrity and efficiency. Paulo became wild and angry and sort for other means aside from legality to make money, riches, and wealth. Of course, he made a lot of money but at the cost of his dear life.

Afamefuna getting married to their boss's daughter, Amaka, was another fuel that aggravated the fire of hate between the duo who were once friends but now enemies.

Afamefuna broke the bro code: Bros shouldn't lust after their bros sisters, girlfriends, and wives. Paulo too broke one of the bro codes: Bros shouldn't eat where they shit; he was dating his boss's daughter.

Amaka also portrays the fact that women don't mind jumping high fences, crossing seas, and values to prove their love for a man they have a genuine desire for. She stole from her father to feed the fraudulence of Paulo, her boyfriend who promised her marriage but later jilted her. Funny enough, after many years of separation, she was still entangled with Paulo despite his ill-treatment of her. Genuine desire has a taste of Stockholm syndrome.

Afamefuna capitalized on the abusive relationship of Paulo et Amaka. He was able to lure his long-time crush into a housewife. Surprisingly, unfortunately, and unknowingly for him, he paid a dear price by raising Paulo's biological son. He was a victim of paternity fraud.

Paternity fraud is where I have an issue with the writer and producer of the movie. Amaka wasn't scolded for her actions. Probably, she didn't know because she was playing a home-and-away sex match. Rather she was condoled for her fraud.

Instead of letting Lotanna go meet his biological father, Paulo, Afamefuna didn't, and that was used as manipulative bait by Paulo to blackmail him. All Afamefuna wanted was peace to reign in his life and family, however, he was paying a high price that was detrimental to his total well-being.

Children of paternity fraud shouldn't suffer maltreatment due to the negligence and atrocities of their mothers. However, letting the truth known from the onset is better than covering it in an attempt not to hurt the kids. It doesn't help the kids in the long run.

Paternity fraud is a great crime against fathers and humanity. Fathers and kids involved can only survive this storm by making the truth known and administering justice.

Apprenticeship is a good way of raising soft hands who will later become moving economic forces. The Igbo Apprenticeship System is still in vogue, but it needs better regulations for the efficiency and raising of strong economic leaders. This can scale to every part of the nation.

The picture quality of the movie was top-notch. Good actors. Good play. Good movie.

Thanks.
Good video quality, nice presentation and carriage however I find the plot of the movie to be a joke.
In the Igbo Apprentice System, it is rare or unheard of to have a junior Apprenticeship been settled before a senior one. The rule has always been FIFO first in first out , so I really do not understand the plot the movie was trying to show.

In most cases where the FIFO is not followed, it is either the senior apprentice is sent parking, either through a misdemeanours like theft, grave offense like impregnating a female while still in the system.

In Summary, just like the military, the system has steps, from the rookie to the manager. The manager position is the final class of the Apprenticeship system, here the apprentice has unlimited power and only 2nd to the boss or business owner. So that part is still what I'm yet to come to terms with. However a good movie if you will forgive that plot.

Next is the issue of paternity fraud, this movie to a high extent shows that graduates of that school of business are basically 99% Simps! Easily easily blackmailed or deceived by the females. The reason is not far fetched as all students of this business model gives less than 3% of their time to socialising, you know meeting the opposite sex.

The only time they get to do these are on Sunday, when they arr allowed to go to church services and when carrying out domestics chores on Sunday, otherwise, it is all about the business, aloy depends on them successfully completing the internship.

Sadly, i lost my only brother to this system. Elder bros refused finishing up his term on his final year, a seven year business internship, decided going solo in the business, lagos island, isale eko in lagos, in the electrical wirings sessions.
Bros stated with Oso ahia and was making it in the line till words came around that his ex boss wants him out of the line. In summary , bro died , vomiting blood after attending a party.... the year was 2005. Keep resting in Peace Uchenna.
BusinessRe: My Experience After Serving My Oga For 7years Including My Gain And Loss by ebuka1511(m): 12:58pm On Feb 19, 2024
weblord1900:
So 7+years ago I made this post seeking advice on a journey I was to embark on.
.
First of all pardon my English,
I'm here again to share my experience over the years of my apprenticeship and also the process. I know it's not all part of this country practice this system. It's more prevellent in the east.
For me there has been up and down and mostly down. This is something you can never understand until you personally experience it.. It will reshape your entire life especially your mind whether you like it or not.

I left my village by June to meet my Oga in the city. I spent 6months as testing. Like the first 6months were not counted as part of the agreement. I was even lucky because some spend 1year as testing. So I started in 2017 after agreement. This type of agreement just involve your oga coming to meet your parents with few eyewitnesses.. No lawyer or paper to sign. Just verbal agreement ,No fixed price .. They'll only discuss on how long you will work for him or her( the oga or madam).

When I started my Oga is still single so I was doing most of the works in the house including cooking .. We were living very happy .. I was eating very well .if you look at me then the evidence is there 😀 Sometimes my oga will come back with full fried chicken oh oh.. Only me and him .. Things where just smooth ..
Fast forward to 2019 my oga decided to my settle down.. I think I use like 4years senior my oga wife. At the first few months his wife was very angelic,calm and gentle. She serve us tea every morning..
Omo how she take change I don't know 🙆🏾‍♂️ I no offend anybody .. I'm very calm in nature .. My oga follow change too. Nobody day send me again ..

During 2020 covid 19 my eyes saw my ears .. I know things was hard then but mine was hard pro max. From 2018 I started suffering from chronic tonsillitis. I was taking drugs up and down including self medication .. I started noticing change from the way I speak because I don't know if it's the drug or the sickness that's affecting me .. I had no one to tell. By 2021 I gathered courage and told my oga 😪.. He carry me go meet aboki people make he carry scissors chop the two damaged tonsils in my throat .. Them just day price am 3k 5k I day one side day shed tears 😭 . I called someone and told him about everything. He told my oga to take me to a good hospital. The story long sha but at the end I went under tonsillectomy surgery .. I'm now fine

By 2023 which is supposed to be my last year my oga carry another problem come.. The way he was treating me caused problems between some of his brother and sister including some of his friends because they don't like the way he was treating me. They were all encouraging and giving me advice to persevere because I'm almost through its just a temptation.
I was settled this February with wetin my mouth not fit talk after serving for 7year chai😭 🤦. You can't even rent a shop with here with the amount I received. I haven't talked about buying the goods in this period every price has sky rocketed. I thank my family and friends it's all good.

Life is a journey ..I still have more opportunities ahead of me. I have seen more than 20 other people that have come to serve but didn't finish. Most of them doesn't last for 2years but I persist because I'm determined for success. With this energy nothing can stop me.

Let me tell you some key points in this system.
1. They don't tell you how much you'll receive at the end. Just be ready to take what you see.
2. It will greatly affect your mental health positively or negatively depending on how you are being treated.
3. There will be alot of temptations and peer pressure if you're not careful you'll be dismissed.
4. If at the end your oga decides not to settle you ,that's all for you. He cannot be procecuted by any law since there is no signed agreement.
5. You'll be blamed for some wrong things you didn't do.
6. There are some common thing you won't be allowed to do.. Like voting during election or going to the football field to play with your friends. You can only be at home or shop.
7. For example if you agreed to work for 5years you might see yourself still working for him after 7years with no settlement. I have seen lot of them.

I'm going to be 28 next month. I have seen and experience more, this is all I can say for now. I can't say i am at loss or profit here because I cherish the experience I gained over the year although I didn't get the finance which made to start the journey at the beginning. If I had money I would have just learn the business for less than a year and start my own but such is life. Some of my classmates are doing well while others never see food chop. Some of the females are married with 2 to 3 children. Mine isn't the worst tho. This life no balance.
I just hope this government make things easy for everybody. E come reach my turn to hustle everywhere come red 🔴😂 ..

I thank Se.un for Nairaland o.. Na here I day come read everything including the cruise, bash, and banter. SE.UN abeg check if my story na front page material 😁
God bless you, brother, the system is never perfect, it is a learning school for a reason. However My prayer for you today is that you will excel in your line of business, and become even greater than your boss. It is good you persevere and complete the time.

Now here is my advice, kindly take the whole capital you have been settled with to your local church and have your pastor pray with you.
Still, maintain a very respective cordial relationship with your boss and his wife
- Start small, you know the terrain better, lookup options of sharing a shop with anyone offering or even a "canter" in your line of business in the market.
- If you can now, avoid billings from home, you are just starting up and I trust your mum understands this too, however, know when to come in.
- This is the season where you will have to work off your ass, at this stage now, almost 80% of the revenue you will generate will be from referral sales "Oso Ahia", and having built that great relationship with your boss, his shop and that of his friends in the line will be open to you.
- Make sure you are honest in your dealings, if this is found, many big chaps in the lines will open up credit sales to you (Big importers in the lines giving you discounted goods on credit....... these credit goods levels will be increased as turn over increases and with time, you can start by "group pages" Hope I get it right.
- By all accounts, avoid women for now, they are never a priority, and for accommodation, you can share accommodation for now.
- By all means, please avoid sports bettings!!!! it has ended so many starts up.
- Leverage ICT, WhatsApp, and your social media pages to advertise your business.
- Get to Know God now and rely on him
- Finally, put into practice all the lessons you have learned from your boss, even those suggestions you gave he never tried, as the saying goes, it is starting a draft work that is difficult, but once the draft has been done, the rest of the work is easy, you already have your draft work, now improve on it.

Finally, share your line of business, this is a big community, and you never can tell where the big break will come from .

The system is not perfect, I lost my only brother to it in 2004, Uche may your soul continue to rest in Peace still kept thinking why the business route? when you had the option of furthering your education, even when you made fantastic results in your O'level, but it was not to be, as the allure of the big boys in business during the Christmas Village holiday overcame you.
Foreign AffairsRe: Gaza In Ruin, Flattened (Photos) by ebuka1511(m): 10:15am On Oct 12, 2023
Validated:
Israel should bulldoze all those standing structures. Let the place revert to desert that it was. Nonesense killers of infants do not deserve to live. They should join their cousins in Lebanon and Syria.
Please let us be careful with how we consume information on the social media space. IDF has denied the allegation of the killing of infants in Israel. I do not support any side and only support peace for both sides.
RomanceRe: Share Your Funny Experience Visiting Your Lover Who Lives Under Someone by ebuka1511(m): 5:14pm On Sep 13, 2023
Na so bros, na 2005 I join nairaland, that time na cybercafe stuff. We thank God for the journey so far. I write my SSCE for 2002. The embarrassment alone no let me search for her, I just lock up that area for good.

AgentGoat:
You dey SS 2 for 2002?


Na agba you be o. una no later reconnect for Facebook?
RomanceRe: Share Your Funny Experience Visiting Your Lover Who Lives Under Someone by ebuka1511(m): 1:55pm On Sep 13, 2023
This is way too funny, the year was 2001, I was in SS2 while she was also in SS2, living with my Aunt in the village, attending the local community secondary, while she was a boarder in Anglican Girls Nnewi. Our communication then was through NIPOST. We exchanged lots of letters via the post office till when we decided to take a step further.

On a very good day, she wrote and informed me she would be visiting me, local man began to sweat, then I was also a virgin, I never spoil and was among the best students in my class then. I confided in my best friend Chibuzor on whatsup, that my babe wants to visit, he was aware of her . Chibuzor after thorough thinking advised me to let her come between 10am to 1PM on a particular date, as my Aunt been a teacher in one of the government primary schools in my town would be in school.

I communicated back, sharing my home address with her, and told her she fit show on our cleared date. Na so my babe come oh, meanwhile, I came back early from school, when all, including my aunt, has left for work. My lucky day, I went with my guy, Chibuzor to our main road to receive her, see butterflies doing acrobats in my tummy, Wow, only seen her once on a crusade ground in her village, Awka Etiti. when St. Barth. Anglican Church came for a crusade, there we met and exchanged school postal addresses.

With my little savings, I bought some biscuits, short cake biscuit by Nasco, not short bread oh as I could not afford it, then I bought a bottle of fanta and coke, so she gets to make her choice and I take the left over.

On arrival, Innocent me, I did not take her to my room, rather I took her to the living room, less I forget, I don discharge Chibuzor after we reach house. We were in the living room and I offered her my little refreshment, she took fanta, while i sipped my coke . We were discussing about Physics, Chemistry, how many topics she has covered, most difficult topics, and the like when our main entrance gate made a noise, the gate usually makes noise when someone is using it,

Swallowing hard, I went and peeped over the window!! low and behold, it was my Aunt, you suppose understand those Aunts that teaches primary six in government primary school, she was a no-nonsense lady, very strict. I evaluated my situation, we were not in any compromising position, me stuttering, informed my girl that my Aunt was back, she had nothing to fear, I would introduce her, she was scared, but so was I. However I tried calming her down.

Local man was in a fixed , however, I await my fate. Meanwhile, my aunt arrived before their normal closing hours, as she normally closes from school around 1:30 pm, but it was just after 11 am, I know someone must have snitched on me, but then, we were not doing anything bad, that was my thought, so it was going to be easy.

She quietly came in and entered the living room, I came out and greeted her, she asked why I was not in school, I stuttered to answer that I had a guest, she now asked me who was the guest?

I answered my friend.

She asked again, what type of friend? while walking into the parlor. When she entered, I blurted out... she is my Girlfriend, told her her name, her surname, her village and her school, her class, her last position in class, and many more things I cannot recall now.
Next I saw was broom landing on my girlfriend and me, men!!!! local man is finished!!!!

I never knew how she made it out of our compound. That was the end!!!! I could not write back to apologize and soon we wrote our SSCE exams, contacts were lost. In retrospect, I smile now and have played out many scenarios I would use that would have saved me that embarrassment, but then it happened.
FamilyRe: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by ebuka1511(m): 11:52am On Jul 19, 2023
Celepope:
I have a friend who lives abroad and did similar thing and his wife dragged him all over the place for it. Because the guy is well to do, he sold the land and gave her the money. Guess what? Few weeks later this same Lady bought another land in Abuja without the husband’s name and the husband not even being aware. From this my friend’s experience, I have come to learn that women always want to look out for themselves, their children and their family and don’t even consider their husband that work hard to get this money. This same lady have been living in their big house in Abuja without my friend’s two kid sisters or parents knowing where their elder brother and son’s home is located because she can’t stand seeing them. Madam your husband must have seen something that made him take the decision to exclude you from the land purchase.
My brother, there mustn't be a reason to make a man take that decision, let face it, prior to the feminization movement, that has always been the default thinking settings of all men. Some old school like me still have that mindset.

See to me, all my properties will be in my name, and my kid's name will never be on my will, because my wife name will be the one there, to over see it. This is taking the general assumption that I will go first. I trust her with all my heart to equitably share our properties well among the kids. To start it now, the kids, they all know that they are entitled to nothing from us, except quality education and training. So while my wife's name is not on any of the properties I buy, she has all the original title documents and knows all locations of these properties. That her name is not on any of the titles do not show I don't trust her, it is just the way I believe it should be.
FamilyRe: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by ebuka1511(m): 9:19am On Jul 19, 2023
negaiyke:
From experience, I know that whenever a woman wants to report an issue, she will only tell the part that would draw peoples sympathy...

Look you're an Igbo lady (I guess from your profile name caption).. Any Igbo man knows that you must always add your wife's name to properties, if not, when you gone, in-laws would flex muscles and leave your wife and kids nothing.

Common, say what you know!!! I do not agree with this your comment. Daughters in the law now can inherit their parents properties, a case has been decided at the Supreme court, so your contribution up there holds little or no water

Since your case is different, I believe that maybe:
1. You have taught him a lesson from a previous case of joint ownership of properties (maybe you guys bought a car or any items together before that he now regrets doing).
2. You have done same to him before now (you bought something without carrying him along)... you may deny here but in your heart you should know.
3. You may be warming up to people that scares him (say maybe a troublesome in-laws or friends) as such Oga wants to play safe

My recommendation:
1. Land or properties title can be changed or updated any time, just work to build back your husband's trust.
2. Stop or keep away from whatever gave him that scare of including you to his common wealth.
FamilyRe: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by ebuka1511(m): 8:15am On Jul 19, 2023
Dear Madam,

Put your heart at rest, and from what someone here has mentioned, you have been advised from the wrong perspective. Some men are still old school. They do things the old way, sadly, I belong to this class of men. That he did not include your name in the document does not change anything, his loyalty remains to you and his kids, in summary, his family. You are his legal wife with three sons for him for God's sake!!

When I also bought my first property, it was just my name on it, wify started giving attitude and the likes, I ignore her, then later I cleared her that all I have are hers and in the event of my demise (whenever God calls) she remains the sole next of kin and stands to gain every property we have and not even the kids, to be honest, I trust her to equally distribute what we have gained equitably among the kids and to be honest, all my document and official document carries her name as my next of kin.

And to be open to her, there is no property of ours that she does not know about. All our property documents and certificates are in her custody, she knows all the locations of our assets and has all the deeds and documentation, so why bother over the document title? Come to think of it, we are married, both at the registry.

Madam, calm down, never make your man start having doubts over your trust, for once you sow this seed, it is like that stubborn weed that is difficult to eradicate........... symptoms of this seed is when he starts hiding his winnings and accomplishment from you. be wise.
Foreign AffairsRe: 'He's On His Own': King Charles Ousts Prince Andrew From Buckingham Palace by ebuka1511(m): 10:23am On Dec 26, 2022
AlphaAlex:
very correct Anyone that needs a copy of Epstein’s black book of celebrities hit me up you’ll be shocked to see your favorite celebs there
Chief please can you share with me
FamilyRe: Wall Gecko Wipes Out Family Of Six In Ogun State by ebuka1511(m): 2:40pm On Dec 04, 2022
Lukuluku69:
I never said they are poisonous. I never did. What I said was that I have read where it was alleged that they do secrete some poisonous substances as a defence mechanism when they are about to die.

And I have also read where it is said that many a family died by eating from Food or drank from water that has a dead Gecko.

My Grandma tales is just a Local myth like all other local myths.

Besides, I raised chickens and I have seen Chickens run after them and do eat then on a number of occasion. So, I don't really believe they are poisonous as people alleged.
Good because growing up in the village, I had had occasions I drew up dead wall geckos from our well which we drink and use in cooking. What I do is just discard the water and dead geckos, lower my bucket and continue fetching my water from same source
FamilyRe: Wall Gecko Wipes Out Family Of Six In Ogun State by ebuka1511(m): 10:04am On Dec 04, 2022
Lukuluku69:
I read sometimes that while on the throes of death, they do discharge poisonous substance as a means of defence.

So, a Gecko in a pot of soup or one that fell inside a bucket of drinking water could be lethal if such food or water is ingested.

I remember growing up, anywhere my Grandma sees it, she must kill it. When we ask her why, she said they do scratch people with their claws while sleeping and leaving dark long marks on people's body.
......... but they are not poisonous, If I get you right, so with all the works from researchers , you still believe they are poisonous?
PoliticsRe: Unknown Gunmen Attack Army Unit In Anambra (Graphic Pictures) by ebuka1511(m): 5:29am On Sep 29, 2022
drmuchin:
Bikonu
What is a soldier doing inside Sienna?
Exactly, it is not every vehicle that is donated to the security Arms of government that must be accepted. Take a look at this, soldiers in a Toyota Siena are just seating ducks waiting to be picked , the vehicle has no space for maximum maneuverability of the soldiers when under fire when compared with pickups.

Trucks like the pickup should be standard issues when it comes to operational vehicles for soldiers. May the souls of the deceaed soldiers rest in peace. These guys are someone's dad, brother, husbands and kids.

Peace to Anambra state

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