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Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by maasoap(m): 7:58am On Jul 19, 2023 |
Kooldon:Relevant and good question that earlier commenters should have asked. 3 Likes |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by maasoap(m): 8:05am On Jul 19, 2023 |
Ijelenwanyioma:Laughing. Put your mind at ease. I bought three different plots of land, all in my name alone. The house I'm building at the moment, I already told my wife that "this is your house, it belongs to you". Even if I marry another wife today, it is still hers alone as I said. Men do what they do for different reasons, allow your husband to be. Don't drive him away with your lack of patience and over thinking. 1 Like |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by ebuka1511(m): 8:15am On Jul 19, 2023 |
Dear Madam, Put your heart at rest, and from what someone here has mentioned, you have been advised from the wrong perspective. Some men are still old school. They do things the old way, sadly, I belong to this class of men. That he did not include your name in the document does not change anything, his loyalty remains to you and his kids, in summary, his family. You are his legal wife with three sons for him for God's sake!! When I also bought my first property, it was just my name on it, wify started giving attitude and the likes, I ignore her, then later I cleared her that all I have are hers and in the event of my demise (whenever God calls) she remains the sole next of kin and stands to gain every property we have and not even the kids, to be honest, I trust her to equally distribute what we have gained equitably among the kids and to be honest, all my document and official document carries her name as my next of kin. And to be open to her, there is no property of ours that she does not know about. All our property documents and certificates are in her custody, she knows all the locations of our assets and has all the deeds and documentation, so why bother over the document title? Come to think of it, we are married, both at the registry. Madam, calm down, never make your man start having doubts over your trust, for once you sow this seed, it is like that stubborn weed that is difficult to eradicate........... symptoms of this seed is when he starts hiding his winnings and accomplishment from you. be wise. 2 Likes |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Judybash93(m): 8:29am On Jul 19, 2023 |
Buy your own land and don't include his name too |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Suspect33(m): 9:07am On Jul 19, 2023 |
Ijelenwanyioma:You want to scatter your marriage and Nairaland will help you do just that. See talk |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by emmyN(m): 9:18am On Jul 19, 2023 |
Ijelenwanyioma: Take a break from social media for at least a month, it would help you detoxify. That's what is fueling your insecurities. Trust me on this one. |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by ebuka1511(m): 9:19am On Jul 19, 2023 |
negaiyke: |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by marsup: 9:47am On Jul 19, 2023 |
If it hurts you that much, make money and buy properties in your name or your kids name. |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Highhhio(m): 9:51am On Jul 19, 2023 |
Ijelenwanyioma: |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Highhhio(m): 10:02am On Jul 19, 2023 |
Ijelenwanyioma: |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by lagabush(m): 10:03am On Jul 19, 2023 |
Ijelenwanyioma: This actually shows you have ulterior motive. You knew your mind is not straight with ur husband. With these two statement u can decided to kill that man. Your husband should fear you. You are so bothered that you brought such matter to this platform. It seems you care only Abt materials things. You need to be God fearing. If u can so bothered then ur motive is not safe for the family. I pray ur husband won't fall victim. |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by WantsandMore: 10:32am On Jul 19, 2023 |
Diligent1:exactly, & you both can still decide to have joint ownership if you wish...my own & our own kinda vibe... |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by upuphim(m): 10:33am On Jul 19, 2023 |
Legally, any land owned by husband wife should read Mr. Abc and Mrs. Xyz. Where it is not so, then a Will should back the joint ownership. We don't pray for the unexpected but when it happens, would you want your land take by your relations, especially the idle relatives? If you are truly committed to your wife in marriage and she can take care of the children in case of unexpected, include her name on the land documents, to help court resolve false claims with ease. Gone are the days where it said women don't own land. @poster adopt appeal to enable a document name change. For accusing those accusing the woman of not contributing money, marriage that God has joined, let no land put asunder. My humble submission. |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Majesty7: 11:18am On Jul 19, 2023 |
slimjohn2k5: Thank you. She is not even worthy. What is special in putting only Mr.? They are one and that shouldn't be a problem. |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by ebuka1511(m): 11:52am On Jul 19, 2023 |
Celepope: My brother, there mustn't be a reason to make a man take that decision, let face it, prior to the feminization movement, that has always been the default thinking settings of all men. Some old school like me still have that mindset. See to me, all my properties will be in my name, and my kid's name will never be on my will, because my wife name will be the one there, to over see it. This is taking the general assumption that I will go first. I trust her with all my heart to equitably share our properties well among the kids. To start it now, the kids, they all know that they are entitled to nothing from us, except quality education and training. So while my wife's name is not on any of the properties I buy, she has all the original title documents and knows all locations of these properties. That her name is not on any of the titles do not show I don't trust her, it is just the way I believe it should be. |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Kyngfarabale1(m): 12:22pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
All the landed documents my parents had was bought and named only by my dad and my mom never for once complained about it because she knows she has children for my dad.... My mom don't even have time to have such thoughts in her.... Women always create irrelevant problems for themselves for nothing.... If he no put ur name wetin happen.... Abeg face front and don't allow ur bad friends to put u into negative thoughts about ur husband.... Ur husband will be seeing you like a potential killer to him |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Kyngfarabale1(m): 12:23pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
All the landed documents my parents had was bought and named only by my dad and my mom never for once complained about it because she knows she has children for my dad.... My mom don't even have time to have such thoughts in her.... Women always create irrelevant problems for themselves for nothing.... If he no put ur name wetin happen.... Abeg face front and don't allow ur bad friends to put u into negative thoughts about ur husband.... Ur husband will be seeing you like a potential killer to him👌 |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Coolgent(m): 12:34pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
That's why I like Islamic law of inheritance... Wife must be given 1/8 of the total asset of her late husband, nobody can deny her that right It's Allah's command in the holy Qur'an |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Brighfuture(f): 12:51pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
Ijelenwanyioma: Make your own money and buy your own land... When buying write your name on the deed... Case closed |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by mtngloetiartel: 1:01pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
I may be wrong o! Since I don't have all the facts and I don't think you will be proud to reveal it on this space. It seem to me there is a breakdown of good communication between both of you. Something else has cracked in your marriage that made him to decide to not include your name. In other words, there is a crack in ur marriage. Your reaction is well founded. He suppose to title the property in both of your names. Am a Land Surveyor and Realtor. I know the implications of what he did. If we look at the negative side of the implication, he alone can sell the land if still alive. There is no question of whether you should be signatory or party to the sale. On the other hand, you can't single handedly sell the property since it doesn't bear your name. Buyer would question if your husband is late or not and you must prove he is late if that is the case. This is the main negative implication. Every other one is similar to it. Now, the positive side of his decision suppose to be mutual agreement. That is, he suppose to have openly discuss with you about the title of the property. He can put only his name since he has legitimate heirs (children with you) just as you said your marriage is legitimate. If he does this without ur consultation, it is more likely he don't trust you and that is why I said there is a crack in ur marriage. The reason he gave you is just a decoy. The way you address eachother also seem to show sign of wat I mean by crack in ur marriage. Ijelenwanyioma: |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Osanoghodua1: 1:21pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
The land I bought has my wife's name with her father as her surname. We didn't change name for her, I am not Interested in changing her name. If a woman is a good wife, her husband will buy anything in her name. 1 Like |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Christistruth03: 2:50pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
Ijelenwanyioma: Ask him to add your name to it Or at least the names of the Children so that If anything happens to him his Children will not be thrown out of their fathers house as often happens with greedy relatives involved |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Pupanchy(m): 3:42pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
That's the best way to acknowledge this issue for future purposes |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by ofexpryz(m): 4:09pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
Ijelenwanyioma:I think u should save some more money and when u think its close enough, ask him to help out with some funds. If he is a reasonable man, he will give some money. |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by ofexpryz(m): 4:14pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
Ijelenwanyioma:If u go about it like that u may be wrong. What if? Now act as though u don't really care what he did and then, be straight with him. Do not act as if u are pained by it. You can even say he did the right thing and when u are ready to Acquire yours, ask him to contribute. If he is a reasonable man, he will. |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Fantazy(m): 4:40pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
Ijelenwanyioma: Haa! So 1 million no fit buy land! And I'm here planning to buy 2 plots in banana island with 500k (250k each) Anyway,no be compulsory to buy land, make I go use my money chop pepper soup |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by dickt(m): 5:42pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
Ijelenwanyioma: Yes, you are overreacting, and I'm beginning to suspect you |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Monicaville: 5:45pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
slimjohn2k5: Exactly what I noticed first |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by austin55: 7:13pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
most times women are the cause of this, when you make your husband starts suspecting you and when you start dragging shoulder with him, he closes his mind against you. Styluss: |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by Styluss: 7:21pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
Not for a couple who married almost 30 years ago austin55: |
Re: My Name Is Not Included On The Document Of Land Bought By My Husband by litaninja(m): 10:15am On Jul 20, 2023 |
Was your money included in buying said land?? |
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