Hey i understand ur pains,happens to the best of us.
It just confirms the saying that no one is perfect, u, me, ur siblings, ur friends, no one.
But does that mean we should shut out our heart to our world?
No, not all.
We wrong people, people wrong us, if we all choose electraa's way, the world might have fallen apart today.
Open ur heart and mind to ur world, wen someone hurts u and feels sorry about it, forgive them, try and move on regardless of how deep u've been hurt.
Remember there's nothing worth dying for, time has a way of healing the soul even from hurts wrought by death itself.
Cheers

Neither will i say u r on d right track nor the wrong, i'll just say ur on a track and whether its right or wrong is all on u.
Based on ur few replies here, u already know ur answer before creating this thread.
Taking a year break is not a bad idea (What tha hell, we've seen unmarried ladies) as long as u can bounce back properly after ur break.
The thing about such breaks is sometimes while at it, u might unconsciously build shells around ur heart and the 1st guy u go out with would become the physical therapy in ur shells breaking.
So watch out for such shells hun, some of ur sneery comments are kinda suggesting u r building them already.
Nywayz happy romance breaks.

Happy birthday Mitch, cosmo estas, may u live forever

A widow in zerephat was asked by the prophet Elisha to prepare the last meal in her house for him.
If u stopped there, u would call the prophet wicked, callous even inhumane, demanding a widow's last meal instead of even giving her?

well She refusted, but prophet persisted,
Why?
Because the prophet knew that God would never let his word fail, i mean it was the Lord who said believe in your prophet and you'll prosper.
And When the widow believed and acted on the word of the prophet, what happened?
She never ran dry.

Emphasis : the prophet kept DEMANDING for the widow's ONLY meal.

Sometimes giving is not easy, people might just not decide to give.
And when they dont give, they cant receive, that's God's principle.
So to help break them out of the cycle (of not recieving because u dont give, and not giving because u dont receive) the pastor goes through the scriptures and instructs his people on the benefits of giving, so they can give and hence be blessed for giving.

No one is forced to give, its a choice.
In the days gone, there was no technology, the gospel was only for the jews, and so large amounts of money were not required to propagate the gospel. But even at that,the people gave their money and even more than money, they gave their blood.

Study the death of jesus 12 apostles and u'd find out that if money is all that's required from the 21st century christian to move the gospel, then happy are we.

The gospel we're drinking coke and meat pie over today, came to us through the death of Jesus and his closest 12, if we cant see the irony in not being able to give our moneys and substance (which the Lord himself requested for) towards that same gospel, then we are a fallen nations as the modern age christians.

One little question, how do we expect pastor chris to run a satelite company, raphsody of realities free distribution campaign across the globe, free healing school sessions and free healing school magazines, televisions programmes across the world, to cut it short, how do you expect a single man to manage a world wide ministry without financial aids from members?

He teaches the members to give for the gospel and be blessed, they do in faith, they get blessed, they then come back and bless their man of God willingly for exposing to them the benefits of giving.

Even Jesus did that, He taught so much on giving, he gave the popular quote, "give and it shall come back to u, good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running shall MEN bring unto your bossom"

That's a sweet line, maybe Jesus was a fraudster?

what about the early desciples who sold their properties and laid their monetary values at the apostles' feet?
I'm guessing nobody told them to do so, they just woke up one morning and decided to be selling their lands and giving the apostles the monies?
They werent forced just like nobody is forced at C.E.C, buy they werent uninstructed either.

Jesus was from a humble home but he wore clothes so cool that soldiers broke ranks fighting for them clothes till it came down to lots casting,
in todays world he wore designers yet was a carpenter's son.

Peter gave Jesus his boat to preach, that's like giving your business for the gospel.
Giving started with Abraham, study the scriptures and it was God himself that worked with him.
Giving is God's way, he gave the priceless gift, his only son to save us. So why cant we give the money He blessed us with, to save others?
David said, all these things are from you (God)and from what you gave us we give back.
Why so much hatred on giving to church? Thats hating on the prosperity of God's word, remember God's biggest dream is that the knowledge of His glory fill the earth as the waters covers the sea.
Dont be the one standing in the way of that,
giving is the means.
Dont fight the thing that's to save you.
May God be with you all.

Mama gee
looks are deceitful.
U cant define what lurks within by mere outward appearance.
Just dont get stranded coz if u do, rational actions might just be a little too far from home, believe mua

Hmm mito again.
Confusing men are men who are not really sure what they want.
And if u r asking, that is so not a playaz world

,

Hey Andy, its me again.
If i'm 2 study business at zenith, what would my 0'level look like?
I mean with eng, maths, phy, econ, bio, lit, agric could i get admitted?
What's the tuition fees like?
Are there good jobs available for undergrads?
Thanks.

Hey mito, i think u r mature enough 2 handle dis situation. Unlike some girls here, u chose to ignore all de abusive and senseless posts, dat's a given.
Sending him dat mail is really admirably brave coz most girls dont come forward dat way.
I think u should take it easy wit him now, occupy ur mind wit other stuffs so u could think less of him.
Ur clearly obsessing over dis guy and its not rit coz u might suffer some serious emotional crisis if he decides to use it against u.
He now knows how u feel, let him make d choice, a couple of green lights at here and there would do but dont appear desperate.
If he decides to kick it off wit u, happy are u. If he decides otherwise, well u could try other guys, DOAweb seems available

Poster ur topic should be more like i messed up, or i committed sacrilege.
I mean u should feel some remorse, but u kinda sounded proud or should i say fulfilled.
Well like everyone already pointed out, u were wrong and ur uncle is crazy, taking advantage of ur misguided crush.
What i think is u should end that relationship immediately, seek spiritual help (as in prayers) and as for the baby, dont even think of abortion.
Have the baby, keep his identity hidden for now cos i cant imagine how i'd feel growing up knowing my birth is kinda sacrilegious.
But if this is a big joke, just send me ur phone no,

Had something like dat, 2 girls actually, same bro.
D 1st girl kinda put d move on me and i fell 4 her, she was damn hot.
2nd girl, she flashed d green light, i understood d language and hit on her.
At the end, they liked me better.
But i didnt know they were in relationship wif ma bro till later, though they knew i'm his kid bro anyways.
Its wrong, wouldnt had done it if i knew they were ma bro's.

hmm, we all know that every good song definitely ends but that never stopped us from collecting the next albums in the store.

The eagle is attracted to the sunrise even though it knows the sun will still set.

Life is like a song, love makes it beautiful, and the places where love is found (in the heart of family, the smile of a friend, in the laughters of children and sometimes, in the eyes of a partner) the heart of every human, evil or good, great or small, is drawn towards.

And that's why, no matter how dramatic and sour the last relationship turned out, no matter how hard we decide to shut out love, we find ourselves swept off our feet by it every once in a while.
So u ask if we really need relationships? Yep, we do otherwise meet people who's tried life without.
Human beings are never meant to be alone, ask God why He gave Adam an Eve.
Every relationship counts, even its just for the experience.

Beating ur wife till she sustains some injuries is totally wrong, wont take that from anyone. But just before u resolve to any act, remember violence doesnt solve any problem, rather its creates more.
Talk to ur sis, talk to her spouse, find out what went wrong. If ur sis was, advice her.
U might not want to get caught up in the middle of married folks. Marriage is a little too complex for the unmarried mind.
I've seen couples fight really bad but makes up soon with a few rounds of intimacy. maybe a nice meal by the wife.
And the only one who's left out of the make up is the fool who was also left out of the make out.
U dont wanna be that fool.
U could beat up this guy and find urself in ur sister's black list, afterall they've been living together for years and like it or not, he's her husband and the father of her kids.
Now, i'm not implying he should keep beating her up, what u should do to stop that is;
If ur sister still wants to continue with the marriage, then u, ur parents, uncles or aunts whoever ur close with, should meet the guy and a few of his family too and warn him (not threathen) to desist from laying his hands on his wife coz she is someone's mother, sister and daughter.
But if he tries it next time, lock him up and get ur sister out of the marriage legally, he is not worth it.
Dont resolve to violence, atleast for the sake of UR sister,UR niece and UR nephews.
May God be with u.

Yeah?
Ok, u cant believe d content of d prayer already welling up in my heart.
Damn i'm selfish, lol

,

I didnt say anything oooo, but if he wont accept ur sincere-straight-from-the-heart-repentance, u could always try me na,

Me too, is admission still at progress in ur school now, any info on university of cape coast?

U mean sticking wit him or hooking u wit me?
Just kidding, lol

Well lying was wrong but we all do that, right advice is: dont get caught.
But since u r a lover, let's talk like lovers.
This guy left coz he's lost his trust in u, and now he feels insecure in the relationship.
If he loved u like u wrote, chance is he still does.
Though he's walked out of the relationship, u r still in his mind and hence, he'd still be keeping tabs at u, unconsciously.
So what u got to deal with now is earning his trust again.
So show him u realize your mistakes,U just need another chance to make it right, and your gonna be here till he's ready to give u that chance, your not going anywhere.
U never wanted to wrong him, but u did and that's only coz u didnt wanna loose him,couldnt imagine life without him.
If u can assure him u'd be real this time, he'll b back.
your love will always win if its real. Truth is, its not everyday a guy meets true love, so when he does, he cherishes it.
Show him u r that true love.
Dont appear desparate, some of us could use that against u.
Anyways, i'm always here if he's shut the door finally. Wink.

If she was just my on call booty service gal, i'd sneak out so they dont see me.
Get together a couple of friends, invite her over, then take turns to drill the day lights outta her, send her away.
But if i loved her, i'd take a few pics, sneak out, show her extreme love for a month to the extent she becomes totally given to me, then take her out on a romantic evening, smile a lot, stare deep into her eyes and ask her to make love wit me, and just before i dig in i'll shake my head and tell her simply "babe, i'm so crazy about u 2nit that i cant think properly, i just want to take u now like i've never done before but i cant, ur tainted" Then i'll show her the pics, and walk out of the relationship. U can imagine what happens to her heart.

Nice one Akina girl, and Dude nice reply to mama gee, na so she dey. I cant understand why she gets on people's neck at times.
Anyways do u really trust her, your girl?
cos u dont get suspicious of people u trust. And to always voice out when u get suspicious is another way of saying ur always complaining, that will bore ur girl out of the relationship.
So keep ur suspicions to urself.
Dont always squeal, be a man.

Self centered right? Well that turns me on Amaka, u see each time i try to subdue my crazy crush over u (not once) u say something dat rekindles the flames again. What am i gonna do my self centered lady?

Na, Chaloo why u wan fall mi hand na?
No end this thread like dis oh, abeg.
Ladybird whatever went wrong, u guys should work it out.

Well Amaka that u dont have a crush on anyone doesnt mean nobody should have a crush on u huh? So what saith thee to me?

Dude i'm a guy so i'm for the guys though i like girls betta

I think u r one mature lady, ladybird.
Interesting thread, i really u two keep it real n good k?

I hav one, Amaka

America's constitution no even allow Sherry Palmer pull such stunts as Turai. But Sherry, if she wan do anything, she go do am in a pro way with class, precaution and high secrecy no be all this yeye stuffs Turai dey do, she only go far because Naija no dey that organized. So Sherry worse, Turai na novice

Girls do that, ladies dont.
And bear in mind, there are girls of 28 yrs and ladies of 18.
It all boils down to what a person is made of, not neccesarily class, coz i've seen not-too-posh ladies who wouldn't demand anything from a guy for any reason, and i've also seen extremely hot and all poshed up girls who are parasites. So its not reall about upgrading.

See teleporters chei.
But why comment if u no click na?
The thread na for people wey click

Nothing is wrong wif ur comment na? Or are u refering to its simplicity?

Which grammar na? Krissykriss