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FamilyRe: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by echomanji(op): 12:35pm On Apr 19, 2022
Thanks so much for the advice sir. Amongst all, i like yours the most
FamilyRe: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by echomanji(op): 7:50am On Apr 19, 2022
Oyiboman69:
I thought you guys can marry up to 4 women up north?....
just cos i live in the north doesn't make me a Muslim. I'm a christian
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Looking For A Job Around Abuja That Covers Accomodation by echomanji(op): 7:39am On Apr 19, 2022
Optimistic4life:
What do you mean by a secondarian?
secondary school Graduate
FamilyRe: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by echomanji(op): 10:14pm On Apr 18, 2022
placeofallure:
Give me her number.
for?
FamilyRe: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by echomanji(op): 9:16pm On Apr 18, 2022
Mystery9:
This reasons are not enough to lead to divorce.
but enough to make me nuts right? its affectin me mentally
FamilyRe: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by echomanji(op): 5:19pm On Apr 18, 2022
Margy:
you dey mind the gooat!.. keeping female friends....as if we don't know what he does with them..OP needs sense..he is the problem
i haven't Slept with any other woman Asides my wife since we got married and she knows
FamilyRe: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by echomanji(op): 2:35pm On Apr 18, 2022
emmanuelbrown26:
I'm just folding my hands here, when u tell people that no woman worth that kind of sacrifice.
Imagine in my own house that a woman would be putting up face but whenever she needs money, she collects it. If a woman want peace she should come with d peace, I just hate all simps including op and all simps deserves heartache
i only give her because i don't want my daughter to go Hungry
FamilyRe: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by echomanji(op): 2:34pm On Apr 18, 2022
emmanuelbrown26:
I'm just folding my hands here, when u tell people that no woman worth that kind of sacrifice.
Imagine in my own house that a woman would be putting up face but whenever she needs money, she collects it. If a woman want peace she should come with d peace, I just hate all simps including op and all simps deserves heartache
FamilyRe: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by echomanji(op): 2:30pm On Apr 18, 2022
emmanuelbrown26:
I'm just folding my hands here, when u tell people that no woman worth that kind of sacrifice.
Imagine in my own house that a woman would be putting up face but whenever she needs money, she collects it. If a woman want peace she should come with d peace, I just hate all simps including op and all simps deserves heartache
i give her the money because of my daughter. My baby has to Eat na
FamilyRe: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by echomanji(op): 12:35pm On Apr 18, 2022
jesmond3945:
lol. She is using the classic manipulation and narcissism used by women to exert control in the home.
1. She doesn't have any low sex drive. She wants to have sex in her own terms.
2. Is she ready to fill the attention gap? If you check she also has men she chats with who give her attention but for you no go area. Don't let her alienate those people from you because they might be your lifesaver tommorow.
3. Don't beg her again and you would not die. Be a man. Fight her silent treatment with harsher silent treatment. If she doesn't talk to you, leave the house and go meet people who will talk to you or rather channel your attention to your daughter.
Don't quit your marriage. Don't show physical strength or emotions rather use your brain to win the battle. Show stoicism.
thanks bro
FamilyRe: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by echomanji(op): 10:09am On Apr 18, 2022
DavSagacity:
Pls look for an elderly person she respects alot like her Parents or Pastor or mentor and explain things to them . Tell them how you love her and u want your marriage to work out find and her disposition to all your effort. Don't let it look like you came to report her, but rather to help you talk to her to forgive u if there's anything you have done that is still hurtful to her. I believe she'll listen to them .
As long as there's not form of any physical assault, I believe things can be amended and your home will be peaceful and joyous again.
thank you. I was thinking in that angle too there's no physical Assault at all. I've never raised my game to Touch her. And about
FamilyRe: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by echomanji(op): 10:06am On Apr 18, 2022
gasparpisciotta:
Echomanji, create romantic times between you and your wife, no be only when you won gbensh you go dey do lovey lovey!

The issue is anger can be handled by you, giving up is not an option, except you wan make another man raise your daughter.

Her jealousy could be as a result of the way you dey relate with her when you wan go hangout.
Tell her where you dey go and who you dey with, e no dey hurt.

But no be everything about your dealings you go tell your wife to avoid see finish.

Lastly, if she no get job, find her one.

Peace
thank you so much.
FamilyRe: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by echomanji(op): 10:04am On Apr 18, 2022
Cutehector:
Fake ass story... Mchew.
Yeah. Always seems Fake when it has not happened to you yet. This is something happenin to me presently and you are saying Fake.
FamilyRe: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by echomanji(op): 10:01am On Apr 18, 2022
DispatcherLagos:
To think I had wanted to put the engagement ring on my girlfriend's finger this Easter before I started seeing various threads against marriage......Omo Na postpone till further notice. I can't come and kill my happiness
make sure you're ready to Stomach any Bullshit that appears from them
FamilyRe: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by echomanji(op): 9:51am On Apr 18, 2022
Acidosis:
#3 is your main problem. That aspect of begging her all the time, pleading with her to talk to you or even love you, is your problem. Fix it.

Take the mantle of leadership in your home and put her in her rightful place -- a wife.
how do i go about that?
FamilyRe: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by echomanji(op): 9:46am On Apr 18, 2022
Pascopele:
Leave! Them tie your placenta there.
its hard. I love her.
FamilyI'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by echomanji(op): 9:42am On Apr 18, 2022
I have a wife and a 3Yr old baby. My wife is my issue tho.

1) she has low sex drive of which i've learnt to live wit without cheating on her.

2) she is overjealous to the extent of calling any of my friends that demands too much of my attention to backoff, most especially the female friends.

3) gets angry so easily and when she does, she doesnt even talk to me for days, nt even greeting. Even when she is at fault. I'll be the one begging. She only asks me for money to cook and that is all.

I'm tired of this to be honest and i'm considering calling it quits. I love her with all my heart bt this marriage is torment 4 me. I'm getting fed up wit the whole thing. I've tried severally to talk sense into her all to no avail.

Need advice pls.....
Nairaland GeneralRe: The Various Crews Of Nairaland by echomanji: 12:10am On Apr 15, 2022
vastolord4:
You did well.. how about the weed and skay smokers that grab the lighter after commenting on a post and yells dammmn nigggar.. nairaland can be annoying and fun at the same time
grin
vastolord4:
You did well.. how about the weed and skay smokers that grab the lighter after commenting on a post and yells dammmn nigggar.. nairaland can be annoying and fun at the same time
lol. Very true. Kinda like 'em tho
Jobs/VacanciesLooking For A Job Around Abuja That Covers Accomodation by echomanji(op): 5:50pm On Apr 06, 2022
Can a secondarian get a job in Abuja that covers Accomodation? Pls help a brother....
PhonesRe: SIM-NIN: Deactivated Subscribers Storm Telecom Outlets, Queues Mount by echomanji: 5:43pm On Apr 06, 2022
Kingpele:
Wow and covid19 just disappeared from the world, what is the essence of carrying out this kind of action, when we are suppose to be in the middle of a pandemic, this government loves to put citizens into hardship but on a lighter note if only they were able to ban bandits, boko harem, kidnappers lines then I will be happy..but I know that is just wishful thinking, thank God my lines are still intact
the Bandits don't normaly use their own phones to make calls. They use their victims phones.
PoliticsRe: Terrorists Invasion: Buhari Told To Remove El-Rufai, Declare State Of Emergency by echomanji: 2:51pm On Apr 05, 2022
GooodHardDick:
The North is safe. grin

Whatever happens in the north stays in the north. E no concern us!
GooodHardDick:
The North is safe. grin

Whatever happens in the north stays in the north. E no concern us!
GooodHardDick:
The North is safe. grin

Whatever happens in the north stays in the north. E no concern us!
wanted to reply you but then i saw your name. And it explained errthin
PoliticsRe: CAN Reject El-Rufai's Suggestion Of Inviting Foreign Mechenaries by echomanji: 5:48am On Apr 04, 2022
samunaka:
Why not? Anything that can bring that madness in Kaduna to an end is welcome, why is CAN afraid of foreign mercenaries if I may ask
it may end it but after that? Then wat? Use the Mercenaries to cause more mayHem
PoliticsRe: CAN Reject El-Rufai's Suggestion Of Inviting Foreign Mechenaries by echomanji: 5:44am On Apr 04, 2022
kingthreat:
Every sane mind should support this. At least it should eliminate the issues of incompetency and terrorist moles in the military.
As far as I am concerned, let the foreign mercenaries handle military surveillance and intelligence, while our army handles the interventions.
if he can Hire them to combat the Bandits, wat makes you think he wont later use them for his Shady deals. Nigeria is one big JOKE.
PoliticsRe: Buhari Used As An Example Of A Bad Leader During Lectures In Scotland University by echomanji: 5:27am On Apr 04, 2022
Gengen
CelebritiesRe: Ned Nwoko: Regina Daniels Virgin, All My Wives Were Virgins When I Married Them by echomanji: 5:12pm On Jul 12, 2020
bigtt76:
This one doesn't see anything wrong chasing small small girls old enough to be his daughter eh? angry
Is it your follow?
Leave the man make him enjoy abeg

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