DispatcherLagos:

Ladies and gentlemen....we need to be remembering this our brother in prayers.


They don finish am patapata

ok jokes apart, I pulled that out of my assx.
Even when I re-read am, the tin shock me

then dont leave and leave us alone with your problem

echomanji:
its hard. I love her.

Enwhen:



You need to show her love , she has lo e trust in you , what u need to do , go very close to her , take her out , introduce her to anybody .....flex with her , give her enough water melon to burst her sex drive , take her to dubai...pls show her love to quench the bitterness in her.

all these for a mere female she took from the street??, someone thats not even related to him by blood??

Do you know if the man was in the womans shoe the woman wouldn't have done any dime you wrote up there??.

Why do you all simp for this p*ssy creatures..

What of the mans said parents, is it not better sending someone that trained you to dubai than a strange woman you saw somewhere.
Think with your brain not d!ck

Imbecilicsamuel:


You haven't defined your relationship well. Perhaps you don't even know.

Ask her.

Lol..... probably they never serve you "Breakfast" when they do and luckily you survive it, you will know the difference between "capital B and ukwu efi".

Naija babes no be your mate o.... better turn gangster with them else you will contemplate visiting third mainland bridge one day

kayperry:




Lets not decieve ourselves, therapy is not for the race cos most of us are raised in a ghetto way. recommending a therapy to a black man is like asking a white man to go see a pastor

Counselling nko?

Too bad ,many men are In a cage

tonididdy:

ok jokes apart, I pulled that out of my assx.
Even when I re-read am, the tin shock me

Ah ah...u shock me o.

I Sha know say people wey get that kin mentality for this country no pass 5.....I come dey wonder where the remaining 4 dey

Thank God Na joke you dey o

echomanji:
I have a wife and a 3Yr old baby. My wife is my issue tho.

1) she has low sex drive of which i've learnt to live wit without cheating on her.

2) she is overjealous to the extent of calling any of my friends that demands too much of my attention to backoff, most especially the female friends.

3) gets angry so easily and when she does, she doesnt even talk to me for days, nt even greeting. Even when she is at fault. I'll be the one begging. She only asks me for money to cook and that is all.

I'm tired of this to be honest and i'm considering calling it quits. I love her with all my heart bt this marriage is torment 4 me. I'm getting fed up wit the whole thing. I've tried severally to talk sense into her all to no avail.

Need advice pls.....

Sir ,has her low sex drive always been there. Demands of work and home might be putting a damper on her drive. An exhausted woman has extremely low sex drive. You need to pull your weight around the house. Help her out to lift some burden off her and see if there are changes. Love is sacrifice.

Pack her loads and throw them out. I swear she will go on her two knees crying and begging

echomanji:
I have a wife and a 3Yr old baby. My wife is my issue tho.

1) she has low sex drive of which i've learnt to live wit without cheating on her.

2) she is overjealous to the extent of calling any of my friends that demands too much of my attention to backoff, most especially the female friends.

3) gets angry so easily and when she does, she doesnt even talk to me for days, nt even greeting. Even when she is at fault. I'll be the one begging. She only asks me for money to cook and that is all.

I'm tired of this to be honest and i'm considering calling it quits. I love her with all my heart bt this marriage is torment 4 me. I'm getting fed up wit the whole thing. I've tried severally to talk sense into her all to no avail.

Need advice pls.....

DispatcherLagos:


[s]Lol..... probably they never serve you "Breakfast" when they do and luckily you survive it, you will know the difference between "capital B and ukwu efi".

Naija babes no be your mate o.... better turn gangster with them else you will contemplate visiting third mainland bridge one day[/s]

Take your own advice cause you need it.

That's not your girlfriend but your fvck mate. On top of that, you are burning cash on her which clearly tells us she is the one doing you a favour.

Na you be the thirsty simp. Sorry.

DispatcherLagos:
To think I had wanted to put the engagement ring on my girlfriend's finger this Easter before I started seeing various threads against marriage......Omo Na postpone till further notice. I can't come and kill my happiness

Marriage na by force? All these women wey jus dey use una change marital status only put guys in psychological dramas in the course of the marriage.

Marriage isn't sweet anymore....

Ladies only use it to change marital status while the rest is arguments, misunderstandings, cheating, mental health issues, and atimes death.

Choose life, brothers

Romanoff:


Counselling nko?

Counselling sounds more like it, in as much it is from family elders or religious leaders with pedegree.

Imbecilicsamuel:


Take your own advice cause you need it.

That's not your girlfriend but your fvck mate. On top of that, you are burning cash on her which clearly tells us she is the one doing you a favour.

Na you be the thirsty simp. Sorry.

Alright...EOD.
You won.
Happy now?

You're free to live any kind of life you deem fit, just like I am.
Meantime go and check the meaning of the word "simp" cos you are using it inappropriately.

placeofallure:

Give me her number.

for?

I really do sympathize with you. Nothing worse than a woman have those traits in her goodybag.
I had a girlfriend who had those traits. I left her. Gave her a second chance. She did worse the second time, so I moved on.
If you can dare, I will say you should sit this out. But if you can't, then maybe you should come to term with them andd see them as your fetish.

DispatcherLagos:

Alright...EOD.
You won.
Happy now?

You're free to live any kind of life you deem fit, just like I am.
[s]Meantime go and check the meaning of the word "simp" cos you are using it inappropriately[/s].

I am well acquainted with the word 'simp' to know that red pillers are a perfect represention.

Give me here Phone number

Couple like proper communication. Tell her simply how you feel about her behaviour say it without smile and a strong face. Tell her everything. And how you have grown tired of it. And if she doesn't make changes then she should expect one from you.

Tell her couples are bound to err each other. If you are at fault you will apologise if she is at fault she should that you don't want to repeat this discussion again

tonididdy:

Unku if your wife can't stand for you, then you married yourself.
It's not written anywhere that bills are made for the husband only
PS: I'm not sweet talking marriage but let the good times outweigh the complains

shalom!

Acidosis:



#3 is your main problem. That aspect of begging her all the time, pleading with her to talk to you or even love you, is your problem. Fix it.

Take the mantle of leadership in your home and put her in her rightful place -- a wife.

What is the rightful place of a wife?

Nyascobar1414:


D£ath to all simps

Straight death to all of dem

DispatcherLagos:
To think I had wanted to put the engagement ring on my girlfriend's finger this Easter before I started seeing various threads against marriage......Omo Na postpone till further notice. I can't come and kill my happiness

I hope she meets a better person who won't waste her time, and fast too.

Franzinni:
Abobi nah everywhere ... woman with smartphone nah legion o

can u explain better

Mama!!! Ur head dey gidigba... You be confam mama for this street

MadamVanessa:









Her low sex drive and her inability to apologized when she's at fault can be seen as issue here, but her being over jealous is not an issue, every loving wife will do the same including me.

If she will agree to take Spanish fly so to improve her sex life, I advise you get her the drugs but make sure that your dick is good enough to withstand whatever will be coming and also look carefully if her clit is still intact or it was cut off.

she doesnt have low sex drive she just doesnt wanna shag u. leave her

PreetyAngel4U:


What is the rightful place of a wife?

kitchen and bedroom

gasparpisciotta:
Echomanji, create regular romantic times between you and your wife, no be only when you won gbensh you go dey do lovey lovey!

The issue of anger can be handled by you, giving up is not an option, except you wan make another man raise your daughter.

Her jealousy could be as a result of the way you dey relate with her when you wan go hangout.
Tell her where you dey go and who you dey with, e no dey hurt.

But no be everything about your dealings you go tell your wife to avoid see finish.

Lastly, if she no get job, find her one.

Peace

Your advice is coated in gold abeg! Make I stop to dey read all further comments from here, Gbam! cool

"What people calls "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage." Rick Sanchez

echomanji:
its hard. I love her.

then, remain there until you develop HBP

You cannot be feeling yourselves everytime. You want to taste something new abi, don’t confuse that feeling with leaving your wife.