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Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Flossq: 2:34am On Apr 19, 2022
echomanji:
I have a wife and a 3Yr old baby. My wife is my issue tho.

1) she has low sex drive of which i've learnt to live wit without cheating on her.

2) she is overjealous to the extent of calling any of my friends that demands too much of my attention to backoff, most especially the female friends.

3) gets angry so easily and when she does, she doesnt even talk to me for days, nt even greeting. Even when she is at fault. I'll be the one begging. She only asks me for money to cook and that is all.

I'm tired of this to be honest and i'm considering calling it quits. I love her with all my heart bt this marriage is torment 4 me. I'm getting fed up wit the whole thing. I've tried severally to talk sense into her all to no avail.

Need advice pls.....

You are a fool. A simp a will smith and a weak idiot
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by candygebsslim: 2:37am On Apr 19, 2022
Omo this Spanish fly have u tried it before, and what is the side effect....



MadamVanessa:
shocked








Her low sex drive and her inability to apologized when she's at fault can be seen as issue here, but her being over jealous is not an issue, every loving wife will do the same including me.

If she will agree to take Spanish fly so to improve her sex life, I advise you get her the drugs but make sure that your dick is good enough to withstand whatever will be coming and also look carefully if her clit is still intact or it was cut off.



Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by tlmonex: 2:40am On Apr 19, 2022
echomanji:
I have a wife and a 3Yr old baby. My wife is my issue tho.

1) she has low sex drive of which i've learnt to live wit without cheating on her.

2) she is overjealous to the extent of calling any of my friends that demands too much of my attention to backoff, most especially the female friends.

VERILY VERILY I SAY UNTO YOU

Unless a weak man becomes a real man
He will continue to suffer in the hands of a wicked woman.


3) gets angry so easily and when she does, she doesnt even talk to me for days, nt even greeting. Even when she is at fault. I'll be the one begging. She only asks me for money to cook and that is all.

I'm tired of this to be honest and i'm considering calling it quits. I love her with all my heart bt this marriage is torment 4 me. I'm getting fed up wit the whole thing. I've tried severally to talk sense into her all to no avail.

Need advice pls.....
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by ifyebere(m): 4:24am On Apr 19, 2022
If you're CEO, you will be very rude and terrible person to your staffs.
Dealing with such women, will mentally drain you off.
You think its easy to handle such women abi, or you want him to become violent?
For the fact he's voicing out here and reading peoples comment, his mental health is in check and relaxed, and marital stress in the home reduced.

Honestly you're stupid for writing in this manner.
Cutehector:
you getting tired of your marriage, you run and come to post on social media... You were asked to leave, yet you said you still love your wife...

How confused can you be! If you love her then why the fvck are you even creating a thread in the first place? Telling the whole world how bad she is.

Someone who claims to love his wife wont be coming to social media to preach about leaving the marriage..

Get the fvck out abeg
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by placeofallure(f): 4:31am On Apr 19, 2022
echomanji:
for?

Counseling. I'm a woman.
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Olaniyi021(m): 4:43am On Apr 19, 2022
echomanji:
I have a wife and a 3Yr old baby. My wife is my issue tho.

1) she has low sex drive of which i've learnt to live wit without cheating on her.

2) she is overjealous to the extent of calling any of my friends that demands too much of my attention to backoff, most especially the female friends.

3) gets angry so easily and when she does, she doesnt even talk to me for days, nt even greeting. Even when she is at fault. I'll be the one begging. She only asks me for money to cook and that is all.

I'm tired of this to be honest and i'm considering calling it quits. I love her with all my heart bt this marriage is torment 4 me. I'm getting fed up wit the whole thing. I've tried severally to talk sense into her all to no avail.

Need advice pls.....

My friend, only God can make us happy, this is exactly what I'm passing through in my marriage. I'm super tired �����
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Emeskhalifa(m): 5:44am On Apr 19, 2022
Acidosis:



#3 is your main problem. That aspect of begging her all the time, pleading with her to talk to you or even love you, is your problem. Fix it.

Take the mantle of leadership in your home and put her in her rightful place -- a wife.

How does he do that?

I am in such situation currently and it's not funny at all

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Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Oyiboman69: 5:50am On Apr 19, 2022
echomanji:
its hard. I love her.
I thought you guys can marry up to 4 women up north?....
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Munzy14(m): 6:01am On Apr 19, 2022
echomanji:
I have a wife and a 3Yr old baby. My wife is my issue tho.

1) she has low sex drive of which i've learnt to live wit without cheating on her.

2) she is overjealous to the extent of calling any of my friends that demands too much of my attention to backoff, most especially the female friends.

3) gets angry so easily and when she does, she doesnt even talk to me for days, nt even greeting. Even when she is at fault. I'll be the one begging. She only asks me for money to cook and that is all.

I'm tired of this to be honest and i'm considering calling it quits. I love her with all my heart bt this marriage is torment 4 me. I'm getting fed up wit the whole thing. I've tried severally to talk sense into her all to no avail.

Need advice pls.....
This is where dating for long becomes helpful..It gives room to see eachother finish, which is normal...As long as you both are in it, then problems of marriage is half solved..

Before the marriage..

You come to know eachother's strength and weakness..And how to respect and understand eachother.

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Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Obynolee(f): 6:06am On Apr 19, 2022
echomanji:
I have a wife and a 3Yr old baby. My wife is my issue tho.

1) she has low sex drive of which i've learnt to live wit without cheating on her.

2) she is overjealous to the extent of calling any of my friends that demands too much of my attention to backoff, most especially the female friends.

3) gets angry so easily and when she does, she doesnt even talk to me for days, nt even greeting. Even when she is at fault. I'll be the one begging. She only asks me for money to cook and that is all.

I'm tired of this to be honest and i'm considering calling it quits. I love her with all my heart bt this marriage is torment 4 me. I'm getting fed up wit the whole thing. I've tried severally to talk sense into her all to no avail.

Need advice pls.....


Never you start what you can't finish in a relationship with a Nigerian lady,that i have learnt in a hard way,your greatest undoing is saying "sorry" when you're not at fault, it will be very difficult to stop now(I am talking from experience,I was in that shit before,the fight was so fierce, but I was determined, at the end,it stopped).

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Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Unbreakable007: 6:30am On Apr 19, 2022
Somebody suggested you see a pastor... Pls don't try that. Imagine Osibanjo as the pastor? You are doom for earth and hell because you will not make heaven for taking your problems there.

Good luck!

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Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Enwhen(m): 6:45am On Apr 19, 2022
Nyascobar1414:


all these for a mere female she took from the street??, someone thats not even related to him by blood??

Do you know if the man was in the womans shoe the woman wouldn't have done any dime you wrote up there??.

Why do you all simp for this p*ssy creatures..

What of the mans said parents, is it not better sending someone that trained you to dubai than a strange woman you saw somewhere.
Think with your brain not d!ck

He loves her ....we are talking about his wife, not baby mama....
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Judybash93(m): 7:15am On Apr 19, 2022
Omo! Sounds like you're married to a child but let's hear her own part sha
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Judybash93(m): 7:16am On Apr 19, 2022
Emeskhalifa:


How does he do that?

I am in such situation currently and it's not funny at all

Leave the flipping house for her
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Judybash93(m): 7:17am On Apr 19, 2022
Olaniyi021:


My friend, only God can make us happy, this is exactly what I'm passing through in my marriage. I'm super tired �����
You too? Haaaa... Ole koko o

Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Judybash93(m): 7:18am On Apr 19, 2022
Flossq:


You are a fool. A simp a will smith and a weak idiot

Have you provided a solution? No? Bros shift

Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Daniluv1(m): 7:40am On Apr 19, 2022
Slynation:
This man doesn't even know what God has done for you... It's better for a woman to have low libido because my brother if it's high na you go run even if you are married, imagine coming back tired from work and somebody is already dragging off your boxers...

I thought I like sex until I met Jennifer...That girl nearly send me back to my ancestors because of constant sex, haba Jenny...!! Sex na food ni...!!

She's over jealous means she's only protecting her territory and she loves you, not talking to you means there is something you are not doing right, every man is supposed to know her woman's soft spot that will be used against her in times like this before getting married, perhaps, you both were in a very SERIOUS relationship...grin

I'm sure when you were dating her you saw that anger as love, find a way to love it and stop making her angry...grin

I won't advise you leave your marriage because the problem holds no water here, just little counselling and you both will be fine...

Can I have Jennifer's number?

One Man's food is another man poison
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by echomanji: 7:50am On Apr 19, 2022
Oyiboman69:
I thought you guys can marry up to 4 women up north?....
just cos i live in the north doesn't make me a Muslim. I'm a christian
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by SheCeo(f): 8:08am On Apr 19, 2022
Slynation:
This man doesn't even know what God has done for you... It's better for a woman to have low libido because my brother if it's high na you go run even if you are married, imagine coming back tired from work and somebody is already dragging off your boxers...

I thought I like sex until I met Jennifer...That girl nearly send me back to my ancestors because of constant sex, haba Jenny...!! Sex na food ni...!!

She's over jealous means she's only protecting her territory and she loves you, not talking to you means there is something you are not doing right, every man is supposed to know her woman's soft spot that will be used against her in times like this before getting married, perhaps, you both were in a very SERIOUS relationship...grin

I'm sure when you were dating her you saw that anger as love, find a way to love it and stop making her angry...grin

I won't advise you leave your marriage because the problem holds no water here, just little counselling and you both will be fine...

Hahahaha �
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Buffalo2(m): 8:09am On Apr 19, 2022
echomanji:
I have a wife and a 3Yr old baby. My wife is my issue tho.

1) she has low sex drive of which i've learnt to live wit without cheating on her.

2) she is overjealous to the extent of calling any of my friends that demands too much of my attention to backoff, most especially the female friends.

3) gets angry so easily and when she does, she doesnt even talk to me for days, nt even greeting. Even when she is at fault. I'll be the one begging. She only asks me for money to cook and that is all.

I'm tired of this to be honest and i'm considering calling it quits. I love her with all my heart bt this marriage is torment 4 me. I'm getting fed up wit the whole thing. I've tried severally to talk sense into her all to no avail.

Need advice pls.....
go ahead, you can't afford to be denied and tormented for life. On top wetin
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Nyascobar1414: 8:12am On Apr 19, 2022
Enwhen:

He loves her ....we are talking about his wife, not baby mama....
love doesnt esixt between man and woman.. All this shiit are all conditional, so automatically it isn't love
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Slynation(m): 8:34am On Apr 19, 2022
Daniluv1:


Can I have Jennifer's number?

One Man's food is another man poison
well...Jenny left for Germany around November last year, so her number will be useless to you at this point
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by SultanYoung: 9:10am On Apr 19, 2022
MadamVanessa:
shocked








Her low sex drive and her inability to apologized when she's at fault can be seen as issue here, but her being over jealous is not an issue, every loving wife will do the same including me.

If she will agree to take Spanish fly so to improve her sex life, I advise you get her the drugs but make sure that your dick is good enough to withstand whatever will be coming and also look carefully if her clit is still intact or it was cut off.




You are an escort (Ashewo) so I don't think you will ever find a husband 431 body count with all those stretch marks.

Spit.

Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by 2braithe: 10:13am On Apr 19, 2022
theamazonguru:


I am a married man with 11 years experience.
What you need is to maintain your sanity you don't need to leave her provided she is not abusive as in abusing you physically.

To maintain your sanity, I will recommend, if you can afford it,get somewhere to go cool off when she starts her one minute madness.
Return home to sleep once you get back.

If you have access to a free room somewhere,a place you can always go and seek refuge for a week once you notice that ah moment has set in.

Do you know why I recommend this, how are you sure the next wife you would get won't be worse than her.

Anyways this is just a measure to try and see if you can manage the situation. But if you feel so strongly about calling it quit, then by all means go for it.

Your sanity is very very important.
What is life when you are not happy.
Your happiness is key.

Peace bro.

For how long will I be leaving my house for my wife?My own house!
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by 2braithe: 10:23am On Apr 19, 2022
Parizz:
i would like to suck your pussy

Simp!

You cannot say you'll like to receive blowjób from her?

SimParizz

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Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by ABANGWABOI(m): 10:26am On Apr 19, 2022
echomanji:
its hard. I love her.

Pls don't leave.. when she annoys you go out and buy her flowers and ice cream..
Make sure you wash her undies regularly too and hey.. start cooking for her regularly..
It is your duty to make sure she is happy..
That is want makes you a Real man.. do all these and more and don't complain..
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by 2braithe: 10:30am On Apr 19, 2022
placeofallure:


Give me her number.

Do you think she'll regard you?
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by WiszyFraud: 11:46am On Apr 19, 2022
Pascopele:
Good questionany do number 3



smiley

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Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by theamazonguru(m): 12:17pm On Apr 19, 2022
2braithe:


For how long will I be leaving my house for my wife?My own house!


Hahahaha
If only you know what happens in different families.

I think I took home from your post is you mentioned you love her.
If indeed you do, then you will leave for as long as it takes to have her checked.

See, leaving in a way gets to her, your own way of responding howbeit mildly.
Ensure you make provisions for your child.
If you like drop for her else, you know what to do.
If it was me, I won't drop 1 Kobo for her
You can't be fighting with me and expect me to pamper you.
That's my way of making a statement.

And if you say this might push her out, all well and good. At least,you now have a concrete reason to take that bold step you are contemplating. Isn't that what's on your mind?

It's important you understand Her as a person.
Know her physch.
There must be something that must get to her without you raising a finger

For my wife.
If I can give her the cold treatment for 1 week. I don't eat her food. I do as if she doesn't exist. More like abandoning her.
You will see her trying to form sober
Trying to seek my attention.

But if like you, I quickly give in and start begging, her head go dey swell.
She go dey do shakara.

What am I saying, you know her better.
Serve her breakfast small.
You don't go begging every time.

Imagine my wife wants to bring her dad without informing me.
She and all of her siblings already concluded without even seeking my consent. As if they pay the rent for me.
Meanwhile her younger brother already stays with me. This is someone no one wants to keep close.
But I played the good guy,took him in.

So this guys were ready to take me for a ride.

I called my wife
Gave her the scolding she never experienced from this quiet and gentle guy.
One she never believes will say NO to the plan.

She got back to them.
The following week I got a call from MIL, greeting me like I have not been around since forever. I deduced my wife already told them I didn't take the idea lightly.

Bros, you need to man up.
Give her some mildly weird treatment.
Treat the fvck up.

You need not touch any body.
You might not need to leave your house too.
But look for that one thing you will do that will get to her.
You can't keep pampering that nonsense behavior.
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by echomanji: 12:35pm On Apr 19, 2022
Thanks so much for the advice sir. Amongst all, i like yours the most
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by babaalagbo11(m): 12:37pm On Apr 19, 2022
How will you be the one begging your wife Everytime...nawa oo

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