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NoToPile:
Money is not this mans issue so why would he get upset that his mum in law brought food stuffs. A lot of mothers bring/ send foodstuffs it doesn't really matter if shes the wife or husbands mum, Its not strange for the mothers to do so.

I will find it strange if a wifes mum sends village garri, yams every every and the husband gets upset and calling it disrespectful getting to a level of leave my house.


Just try to avoid getting into arguments with him and let him be when he's ready he ll come back home

Spot on! Just keep your calm and avoid any form of confrontation or argument. That's the best you can do for now.

Also never you leave your home for your parent's as you both own it. Thank God he is not the physically abusive type. Focus on your well being and that of your baby. He will definitely come back to his senses.

LadySarah:
The right thing to have done is to open a thread teaching men about love.The way Jesus really loves

This sounds funny to me... lol

madridguy:
Bro forget age and let stop calling members of this house kids. We sees issue differently and so the advise we offer.

If i may ask you, would you consider a man sending his wife packing over mere issue a matured man? To me age is just a number.

A man sending his wife packing over slight issues is not mature. That's very childish. I am not in support of the man's action (if true).

What I am against really is people giving advices that can further break down the couple's marriage.

midnighter:
Yeah but at the same time every relationship has a rough patch

I agree with you, she hadn't really said what actually his problem is

She said in her first post that they both work and are very comfortable, then she said again that she contribute financially to their home

For me I think it's a pride issue. She might come from a well-to-do home and he's trying to cut her down to size. Did you see the part where he felt bad when her mother sent them foodstuffs? He can't feel bad unless he felt that her family pities or looks down on him

If he's feeling financially uncomfortable then he shouldn't feel somehow if his in-laws help him out

He's probably not financially comfortable at the moment and feels insecure/embarrassed with the foodstuffs sent. Young men and ego. I see reasons with you on this.

I would advise the wife to be calm and should never consider seeking attention outside. That's a NO NO.

midnighter:
She said she suspects that he is... anyway enduring a hardship is not necessarily bad... it depends on the end to which you do it. There are fruitful hardships that help people progress and there are unnecessary ones that just break one down

No one wants her to endure hardships in marraige all her life.

But she needs to find the root cause of her hubby's anger and be willing to make compromises. I want to believe the guy wasn't this cruel during their dating years.

Like I said in my first submission, money issues and lack of substantial financial support from our wives makes most men aggressive. Is she really supporting her hubby?

Mstick:
Madam you wouldn't get any reasonable advice on here , they will ask you to endure because most of them saw there fathers doing same to their mothers and she endured and they do same to their wives.They will see nothing wrong with your husband cheating rather they will bash and insult you.


Think about yourself and what do YOU want.

She never said her husband is cheating on her neither did anyone support such.

You make sense Op.

So many kids on this forum dishing out senseless advises. Reason why i visit Quora more often these days.

I pray for peace in her home.

From your writeup, it seems your husband has anger issues and you have ego issues as well.

Your marriage is a young one and you guys can still make things work. Do not listen to rubbish advises online. Some are home wreckers while some are frustrated singles. I do not in anyway support emotional abuse in any form though.

I believe some men react this way when they don't get sufficient financial support from their equally working partners. He might be overburdened financially. How well are you supporting him financially?

Everybody na actress these days.

Nice dress BTW

What of those earning N50,001?























Foolish gal

NwaAmaikpe:




You'd never stop waking up to love and happiness as long as you learn from Efe and utilize your money well.

Chaii... Guy, you wicked oo

Richdad50:
A gradual walk into oblivion. So lost in the circus of your retarrd mind you could barely notice your free fall. Son, go home and don't fight too hard. Reflect and just maybe you could have a comeback.
Richdad

Why are you obsessed with the guy? He's a mad fella no doubt but maintaining your lane won't cost you your life. You get serious problem oo.

Why not arrest and detain him? This country is fuckd! You can't protect your citizens abroad yet you still kill them like chickens at home.

To meet S.A. President in October? Na waoh. September just got started. We don enter one chance truly.

Even if they advertise the vacant positions, applying there is a total waste time and resources. This country is messed up guys.

starbuck:
After reading this, Dangote decided to credit my account balance

Dry

Brother Dakolo.... Hmmm

Lol

Ghen ghen

Las las.. This Naija na scam. Major scam.

Agbaya... Lol

That look on Aj's face speaks volume . We've been scammed!

rtdCivilservant:
I thought he would have blamed Buhari.

You are sick

Wetin we wan believe?

Anyway,
Like for Saraki,
Share for Lai Mohammed and Otoge crooners

Emmy3:
I used this exact text to ask for help but now you're using it and people will think I'm same as you and I'm doing it to siphon them of their hard earned money.

Easy boys. Don't fight.. lol

Decryptor:
If the data and call network of Glo is like their tv commercials, it would have been the best network to use in Africa. But unfortunately, their network is crappy!

Even their TV commercials are all crappy.

Airtel na king for that area.

Yayaadu:
Please do they employ bald guys? I see most bankers have perfect hairlines. I rather not waste my time if we don’t stand a chance.

Hahahaha.... Can't stop laughing.

Congratulations

Bullshit.

Job that is transient. Please find a way to better your life outside it.

NwaAmaikpe:



The reverse is usually the norm.
So I'm kinda surprised.

I had a similar problem with my then toddler. He always crawled into the kitchen to sleep. Even at night.
Sometimes he'd wake up in the middle of the night, then crawl to the kitchen and lie there.

It was then we realized it was actually in the kitchen we made love to conceive him.

I'm thinking you guys never did it on the ground but always on the bed. So he still identifies the bed as his foundation.

But there's nothing to be worried about.
If he can gain balance on the bed, he won't have a problem on the ground.
It could also be that the softness of the bed reassures him that he won't be falling on a hard surface.
He will definitely outgrow that fear.

Babies change.

Lmao