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TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by ecstacy29: 9:59am On Jun 26, 2019
[quote author=Lexusgs430 post=79670925]Good day good people.

Please, I am looking to renew my naija passport and I need directions. Oga Lexus, you posted a link sometime ago Buh I don find am I no see sad

I sent @aphrodite a PM cos I think I remember she mentioned using enhanced service (man know man, I stand to be corrected), which I don't mind using cos me I no go fit break high commission cars but I go fit cry 'high commission cry', make person no go use flight, train, bus,tram (and even keke, lol), com still dey hear say Pport neva ready.

@Aphrodite no vex say I send u email before I com here..
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by ecstacy29: 3:57pm On Feb 17, 2019
Shawtykel:
Happy Valentine to this wonderful family..

Please I have an issue that's bothering me and I'll need an advice whether to go ahead or not.
My husband is in UK on a tier 4 visa, we have three kids.
Can I apply alone and come back to pick my kids after we've been able to save up hopefully in three months?
Are there implications to this of not taking my kids @ the moment?
Any case like mine ever? Just wondering

P.S my kids are 4years and 2years old twins
In response to some of your questions, I really do not know much concerning a Tier 4 visa, but I do know you can very well apply alone and come back for your children later. Except changes have been made to the application process, I did not see where a question was asked about why you wouldn't be traveling with your child/ren.
And yes there are loads of instances like yours.
All the best

I would not support leaving children behind in the first instance, irrespective of their ages but having been in such position myself, I can tell you that it is not an easy task, especially when there are many variables to factor in. Is it a pleasant thing to do, absolutely not... But I know it will be worth it for me!!!

People are entitled to their opinions but I would rather allow individual parents to be the decision makers in their family.

No mother would want to leave her child/ren behind but then it happens. undecided undecided
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by ecstacy29: 11:28am On Feb 08, 2019
Mamatukwas:
So After 2 fails I’ve sha finally passed my Practical Driving Test. Grateful to God.
. grin, don’t worry; You’re not alone and you will definitely still pass. kiss
Congratulations and thanks for sharing.... This is just the boost I needed! cool cool
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by ecstacy29: 11:26am On Feb 08, 2019
perfectme:
Hello house,

I've followed this thread from the beginning and I was earnestly hoping that someday I too will be able to share my experience of living in the UK.
And finally I got the break I was hoping for, got to UK late last year on a tier 2 visa
P.S
I made my own UK survival guide from all the information I got here.
Welcome to the UK sir/ma. May the land favour you.
I must really confess that there's loads of valuable info on this thread. In fact, I had to start reading the thread all over.

Hanty Fati, we cannor taink Yu enoff kiss kiss
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by ecstacy29: 2:45pm On Dec 27, 2018
fatima04:
Petition: Scrap NHS surcharge for non EU living in UK who already pay N.I contributions
https://petition.parliament.uk/petitions/224781
Signed. Let's see how it goes.....
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by ecstacy29: 1:40pm On Dec 19, 2018
Lexusgs430:
Now feel free to relax, if natural relaxation methods fails, try a bit of ecstacy tablets....... cheesy
angry grin grin grin
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by ecstacy29: 1:40pm On Dec 19, 2018
EngrSaks:
They are more interested in countries you need a visa to enter...
Thank you
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by ecstacy29: 10:39am On Dec 19, 2018
Lexusgs430:
Has he submitted the application? Ghanaian travel history is probably not on a shared database....... Nothing to worry about......
Yes he has submitted and a biometric appointment date is just 2weeks away.
The last last sentence made me heave a sigh of relief!
Thanks for your prompt response!!! Gracias smiley smiley smiley
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by ecstacy29: 10:04am On Dec 19, 2018
[quote author=Lexusgs430 post=73975847]Boss, let's divert from the housing topic a wee bit.

DH is applying to join me here.
Thing is, he made an error he only realized after submission of application. He answered 'NO'to 'Have you travelled to other countries sorta questions. He's travelled to Ghana where he spent less than 48hours.
After he found and told me, I felt an affidavit to that effect (omitting travel history) would suffice but I have to seek counsel. What's our take on this? Better still, what's the way forward (I'm just praying it won't be starting all over with a fresh application)
@justwise
@lexusgs430 and the veterans, please help she'd more light, thank you
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by ecstacy29: 7:18pm On Dec 10, 2018
sutelk:
Abeg who knows when the new fees for the IHS surcharge becomes effective.
Lemme kukuma ask now. I'm trying to apply for family to join me. Do I create a new account for them or use mine?
If I'm using mine, I guess I'll be using my visa type and subclass (which is what I'm doing(using my visa type =tier2 general but the visa sub type is not coming up). Anyone who has done this should please help?
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by ecstacy29: 6:29pm On Dec 10, 2018
DisGuy:
Considering the heavy duty load you might be travelling with your best option would be a cab

If you really really want to... there are coaches from stanstead to Liverpool street station then get the Purple line direct to Uxbridge
There's really no heavy duty oooo, just a cabin luggage. I'll use the coach and purple line(shey purple line na bus or train?) ,the only thing Wey go pain me Na if I arrive at the same cost at the end of the day. Thanks a lot.

As for Oga Lexus, no be say I like pieces oooo, Na £ dey decide.
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by ecstacy29: 9:12am On Dec 10, 2018
sutelk:
God make the thing remain draft until my family land. May the spirit of Saraki and Dogora and Melaye possess them in this matter only until my family land, making the bill to go back for amendment and amendment and amendment until my family touch down at Heathrow.
Can I hear an Amen from somebody.
I say a big AMEN cos the prayer Na for me too!!!
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by ecstacy29: 9:10am On Dec 10, 2018
Lexusgs430:
Oga Madam, just take an Uber. From the M11 - A406 - A40 (you get to your destination in peace, if you prefer pieces, take alternative).......

If you are high on ecstacy tablets, you might not mind using public transport............
This my Oga, I'm watching you in 4D(since you wan let ecstasy rest! cheesy cheesy)

Thanks for your responses though!
@davide470
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by ecstacy29: 11:12pm On Dec 09, 2018
[D[/quote]I need directions on how to get to Uxbridge from Stansted Airport possibly by bus\train. (I don't intend to go the taxi lane unless it's a last resort)
I could not get a cost effective flight to Heathrow hence Stansted. Pls help!!!
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by ecstacy29: 8:55am On Nov 27, 2018
Hunnybee:
Wow..... Congratulations. How long after getting to UK did you take OSCE? If you do not mind, what agency did you use? And how long did the whole process take?
Approximately 8weeks after I got here.
The whole process depends on how fast you meet the requirements, 3-6months should do.
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by ecstacy29: 12:42am On Nov 27, 2018
Lexusgs430:
Haunty........ In summarization......
I hope with this few points of mine, both concepts are now slightly clearer?
It is indeed! God help me in this land where you have to read and reread huh
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by ecstacy29: 11:24pm On Nov 26, 2018
Inkredible:
Lights up.

How e dey be for una side?

TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by ecstacy29: 11:21pm On Nov 26, 2018
fatima04:
Welcome to the land.

All the best in your career and stay. Come give us pictures btw to brighten this thread na
Lights up in our wee town grin cool grin cheesy

TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by ecstacy29: 11:14pm On Nov 26, 2018
Yinkzy03:
Madam you are welcome o, exactly my thought @fatima04, you alone in up North in this weather, the Lord is your strength o....let me come and be going��‍♂️��‍♂️��‍♂️
.
Thank you oiioi, just like someone said, the Lord is my muscle
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by ecstacy29: 11:12pm On Nov 26, 2018
Lexusgs430:
Those contemplating buying a property in the UK. 2 keywords for you to run, the moment you hear.....


- Leasehold
- Interest only mortgage

Run like fire is burning your ass...........
Huncle please expansiation yourself
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by ecstacy29: 11:11pm On Nov 26, 2018
[quote author=Inkredible post=73330670]Ecstasy29

If you dey Coleraine, I fit show you around if you want Sha. Welcome to The North..
[/quote

Thanks brother
I gats hook up ooooo, I need all the showing around I can get mbok! How we go do am
BTW, I got my OSCE results today and I Passed smiley smiley
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by ecstacy29: 10:15am On Nov 25, 2018
Lexusgs430:
Make i go snuff small ecstacy.......
If Na my moniker Dey cause temptation, make I go change am abeg cheesy cheesy grin
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by ecstacy29: 10:11am On Nov 25, 2018
fatima04:
My bad oo, u alone up north in this winter of a thing. Sorry my sister. It will all end in praise soonest.**hugs
Nagode mamana
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by ecstacy29: 10:07am On Nov 25, 2018
Lexusgs430:
Come back and read the rest slowly, when you understand the UK system.......... tongue
I'll do as you say cos I no wan offend my Oga at the top, make them for no leave my hand! ��
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by ecstacy29: 5:32pm On Nov 24, 2018
[quote author=dustydee post=73263014].[/quote
Thanks
I'm actually in Northern Ireland and it seems everyone is far from each other.
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by ecstacy29: 5:28pm On Nov 24, 2018
Lexusgs430:
One thing you should avoid is an illegal high called ecstasy............ grin

Mortgage vs Renting? By renting, you are paying your landlords mortgage (aka dead money)

By paying your own mortgage, you are indirectly saving for your pension and building financial equity. Applying for a mortgage has its own complexities (deposits etc etc), but worth it on the long run.....

Credit Card - - - - That dreaded debt card, view it has a system of the banking sector giving you e money, while you pay back with real money...... It's not free money and can become very expensive money, if spent carelessly.... PayPal credit card offers a credit card facility without the card, offering 0% on purchases (a good start up credit history building tool).......

NHS covers your visit to the GP, hospital admissions etc etc..... Although you would have to pay a prescription fee, to collect medications at the pharmacy. Dentist and opticians visits are payable (unless you are on benefits)... But kids go completely free on all ratios (drugs, dentists, pharmacy) etc etc etc. If you kids require braces, best to dump it on the NHS, before they turn 18 (all for free) etc etc etc

To send money home, download this apps (WorldRemit & Azimo). Compare rates and use the one that tickles your fancy. Money gets paid directly into recipients account...

With regards bringing up kids, a lot to learn...... To avoid safeguarding issues and social services on your head.... It's a tight rope to cross.... You would cross that bridge, when you get to it or navigate the waters accordingly.....

And if you buy a brand new television at the shops, the retailer sends your details directly to TV licensing.... If you don't have a TV licence, just buy your TV from ebay or gumtree jejely........ And avoid opening your door indiscriminatly, to avoid TV licence wahala...... grin kiss


Allow me go get high on ecstacy........ cheesy
Ha! Oga boss, I don't even know what you mean wink, I'm innocent like that!
About mortgage, apart from having to save up for initial deposit, how long before I qualify for a mortgage?
I'll have to ask my bank again for the credit card be that! �
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by ecstacy29: 5:20pm On Nov 24, 2018
fatima04:
Staying alone in this country isn't easy especially when your kids and wife are back home, just try and quickly have them over as soon as possible to quickly adjust and settle down as well but in all you will be fine. It's all a matter of time.

All the best in your career and stay. Come give us pictures btw to brighten this thread na
Thanks Fati. I'll keep the credit history thingy in mind.
BTW, it's hubby and kids back home cool
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by ecstacy29: 1:12pm On Nov 24, 2018
[quote author=fatima04 post=62102073]This thread is about Life in the UK for Immigrants

Sooooooo, I have landed, all Glory to God Almighty

* Your visa application experience /adjustment status experience
:application was straightforward, I applied for me alone, just filled my details. Coy did payment and submission.

* Picking up your BRP (disadvantage of not travelling within the 1month vignette and protocols to follow in picking it up)
:I don't know the disadvantage cos I picked my BRP on the same day I landed.

* Travelling experience (airlines and airport to use)
Emirates came through for me(tho,coy booked the ✈) great in-flight entertainment, food was okay

* What are the immigration rules to follow?
As stated on the visa- no public funds!

* Visa renewals and what you are entitled to after 5yrs. I'm sure this has been dealt with on this thread and other UK ones. Hoping to get the ILR and Citizenship thereafter�

* Can you open a bank account while still in Nigeria and what bank has the best customer service and plan) I settled for HSBC on getting here cos of less hassle and few documentation. Did not even booked an appointment, just walked in tendered passport and letter from employer, that was it. In about an hour, I had my account opened! My card and pin were promised to be sent in 5 and 7 days respectively with a promise of paying me £10 for every promise not met. Some how, my card and pin did not come as at the promised days, I called them up to remind them of not keeping up with their promise and I was paid the £20! Hmmmmmmm, I'm still scared sha, cause where I'm coming from, nothing goes for nothing undecided

* Which State/suburb did you settle in and why? Up North! Omo wase orise something

* Public Transportation Vs Driving in the UK
For now, Na public transport win am ooooo. Even back home, Lagos driving Dey fear me talk more of this right hand thingy. Driving is a necessity though, but I'll stay on public lane first

* Driving in UK? How long can you use your Naija driving license before you get a license? Naija license can be used for a year

* Where you live and why you like it or don't like it? Tips on choosing the right neighborhood.(Internet plans, electricity company to use, setting up a house)I love where I live for now, as desire changes, I might consider moving

*Renting Vs Mortgage (pitfalls to avoid when choosing mortgage)Still gathering info on this

* Using a credit card (things to avoid)Hmmmnnmnmm. My bank offered me and I declined cause I'm yet to fully understand this CC gist. Abeg, I need someone to lecture me in an a-b-c manner on this! Oga just wise and lexusgs430, your input is highly solicited.

* Childcare for kids below 5 (cost and how do you go about choosing a minder)
Didn't come with my kids for now cuz of the high childcare cost as previously mentioned

* Business Tips you can do both over there and abroad
No idea

* How do you send money home (without much loss)Not started yet, still finding my feet!

* What does the NHS fully cover? Every other thing except eyeglasses and dental surgery and stuff, not very certain

* Tips on raising kids in a western environment as an African. I just know I'll cross that bridge when I get there(when my kids come over)

* What culture shock have you experienced?
Their accent up north is different from the average one we see on TV shocked. I would have had more shocks, but you guys already prepared me for that�

* Tips on how to cloth and cope with the cold weather
The wrapping up no get part 2 oooooo. My hot water bottle is my baby for now

* Nigerian restaurants and market in your location
Nigerian restaurant will be a luxury where I am ooooo. We are not up to 10 blacks in the whole of my community (I am d second naija person at the moment)

* How much does your family survive on in a month? I survive on about 1k a month. Ill soon copy @imnotconfused and draw up a budget plan

* Developing Nigeria from Abroad (How to go about it) Farfar.......... Shey me I Don develop finish ni?

* Nigeria community in Glasgow (my locality) The few Nigerians here are really good with helping each other. Soon, a concrete community will emerge

* Fun things to do: going to the gym, beaches, shopping etc. First two will be after winter though

*It's not been easy, but it's worth it! For those that came alone, how did you manage without your family? If not for the fact that it's been a long journey to get here, homesickness woulda sent me back. Anyway, lemme not bore the house with my tales.
Keep up the good work, y'all.
@fati
@justwise
@lexusgsomething
How can I forget our designerz pelsin @ralphlauren
And VIP @wonlasewonimi(you made Starling bank stick in my head
And all the others unmentioned, you are all wonderful!
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by ecstacy29: 11:43am On Jun 28, 2018
sutelk:
I don come. Thank God for a safe trip. Straight to business no time to count bridge.
But shebi una say na summer be this, Omo I want to freeze oh. How winter go come be.
This is to thank you all that guided me in one way or the other through your post in reply to my many "learner questions" and your replies to the questions of others. Counting on your guidance as I begin this new phase of my live.
God save the Queen, abi na bless the queen, all join.
Make I go find that winter jacket.
Welcome to the land of milk and honey.....
TravelRe: Nigerian Nurses And Midwives With The Dream Of Working Abroad Let's Meet Here. by ecstacy29: 5:44pm On May 11, 2018
Tunjinodaysoff:
Dear people...keep pushing...do not relent. The light is surely at the end of the tunnel...

Just wanted to say our documents have been reviewed by NVC and now we are awaiting embassy interview date.

Your journeys shall never be in vain. Amen
Congratulations bro
TravelRe: Nigerian Nurses And Midwives With The Dream Of Working Abroad Let's Meet Here. by ecstacy29: 8:16pm On May 09, 2018
Update.. Update!!!!


By God's grace I passed my Osce exams in the UK. Journey officially ended.

UK dream achieved in 10 months.. My God of One Trial is an awesome God.

I can't keep calm meeeen..




Congratulations man, I am truly happy for you.
How was d OSCE like?, pls pardon my curiosity..
TravelRe: Nigerian Nurses And Midwives With The Dream Of Working Abroad Let's Meet Here. by ecstacy29: 8:10am On Apr 04, 2018
Gracefav:
Have everyone left naija...
Sup bae, how's it going with you?
Don't know about others oooo, buh I'm still here, guess people are busy with different preparations. grin Cheers

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