We are usually scared of rejection that's why we don't ask a guy out, but just give him green light and if he likes you he will do the toasting

everythingtall3:
Maybe we can graduate into something better with time or we can just leave it as friends with benefit. I want someone that will stick to me or atleast have only one partner aside me. I don't want hockup girls or runs girl. You must at least have something you are doing no matter how small it is. I am financially okay and i will take care of your basic needs.

Please contact me on everythingtall376@gmail.com

hmmmm

Minsk24:

She got admission and entered university

ok

Minsk24:
Had another one with a girl in one of the apartments i lived in, i was on good terms with her parents and they rated me highly, this girl around 19 years, sweet, very curious and intelligent, always coming to me for intelligent conversations... i was falling, she was in love as well.... but i calculated the risks to reward, it wasn't worth it, i could not risk my dignity because of feelings, what would happen if the entire neighbors find out? All my integrity will be erased...
I cried sometimes, the feelings engulfed me, i prayed, i meditated, it was so difficult...
Impossible Love is such an experience

what did you do at the end

jeromestarks:

I will slap you.

😃😜😜😜😜

Seunpapa65:

God supposed give u your own clay make u mould your dream man

these are not so much to ask for, normal human beings suppose get them, maybe you need to read it again this time slowly 🥴

jeromestarks:

He should be all these while you fvck your ex?
You must be high on cheap drugs.

you speak as if you know me personally😃😃😃 if your ex cheated on you with her ex sorry about that bro, but that doesn't mean everyone is like that. Heal in Jesus name😃😃😃

Igbo, hausa, Yoruba.... Infact anywhere just be a good man, have Sense, be honest, responsible,kind, intelligent and God fearing

achimendy:



Some might know what the husband does for a living but will still go ahead and marry just to run away from societal pressures then later on start showing their dirty, hungry and animalistic character.

you get my point

Caaz:

I blamed the man....
I m a lady,but truth be told,I strongly kick against a woman not doing anything,not bringing anything to the table.

I wonder how most women feels comfortable being idle and jobless.

There's this joy I get when making my money....I really do not know how to depend on anybody.

exactly my point....

Dyfynezz12:

Give that young man money and watch 80% of his marial issues get solved

everyone needs money, doesn't mean we should treat people badly.... She knew what she was getting into, abi did he force her to marry him

Dyfynezz12:

Sapa brings out the worst in humans esp women, if u dnt have money for the basic stay away from them.
Ordinary girlfriend self dey show broke guy shege let alone wifey

even rich people too get bad character, even with all the money they stil get divorce, with or without money there are people with very terrible characters that you can't live with

Dyfynezz12:

What is bringing the insult is finance,if he didn't have enough he should av avoided the insult by not marrying her or look for someonelse that is working

you can't know the true character of a person until you live with them under the same roof

immortalcrown:
Hear from her first. You might be right, you might be wrong, hear her own side of the story first.

ok.. unless he's not giving the full story sha... Me I don't support nonsense what is bad is bad, even if she's my sister I will tell her her wrongs... Ireoooo.

She must have known what he does for a living before marrying him, so because he's not a millionaire yet he shouldn't get married.... Or he should go and steal for her sake, instead make she go find wetin to do to use support her husband hmmmmm

immortalcrown:
Have you asked him how he got her engaged? Have you tried to know what he told her when proposing to her?

even at that, things change, make she too go find work...

immortalcrown:
Romantic headache is what I see here.

Endure the insult.

why should he if I may ask? is that what he signed up for? Marriage is meant to be enjoyed not endured, if it was the other way round now, the whole world would have heard about it, men too deserves love and respect, even though I no dey pity them at times, cause na wetin fit some of them bedat..

Men always look before you leap.... She's not working yet she's making demands and not being considerate, you guys really need to sit down and have a heart to heart talk that's if she will listen, or you can report her to her parents to talk some sense into her, after that she should start looking for a job.... Hmmmmm, those with caps usually don't have head🥴

May his Soul Rest in Peace

gr8cany:
Hello,
suggest Relaxation places to spend good time in lagos. especially places with natural ambience. thank you for helping

island or mainland?

PastorOlokonla:


Its no more fun for me I swear. I cant remember when last I dressed in my good clothes or wear any of my shoes. Boredom wan kill me. I need to get an office and hire all those god-fearing ladies with short micro-miniskirts ASAP!

😃😄

PastorOlokonla:
I am sick and tired of working from home. My social life is dying. I never get to drive my car or wear my new clother. Which kain whala be this.

I don miss social life and office romance tire.

I can relate.... Same wahala am having, It was fun at first but now it's giving lonely vibe😩😩😩

concho:
can you write me on WhatsApp??

ok

Not really...

concho:
Do you have any food market on the island ?

yes.... Alot of them

concho:
Which area are you in ??

I stay on the island

When I find the right one... Them no dey catch late comer

concho:
I recently came to Your state (Lagos) from Kano for a three months training. I’m physically busy twice a week here and I have the rest of the days for anything else I want to do

I went to a market here in Mainland to buy egusi(melon) , beans and other food stuffs , only for me to figure out that the prices are extremely high .

I was disappointed with everything I bought after comparing them with what I used to buy in Kano town , not even the villages .

I think I should create a side hustle around this niche and also use the avenue to subsidize the price as much as I can .

I have the money for these venture as my only concern right now is the market to explore and the means of selling out cheaply as I’m new here in Lagos

What’s your thought please

if you need helping hands I'm in, can also help you advertise it around my area

You too stay faithful to your wife...

OverlyFavored:
I am looking for a good single lady and my specifications are as follows:

a practicing Christian, easy-going, good person, presentable/beautiful, intelligent, a degree holder, hardworking, at least 5ft7in tall, 25-34 preferred, not big, a teetotaller, a nonsmoker, a virgin, willing and able to relocate (locally and internationally), and ready to settle down.

Kindly send a PM if you meet these requirements or know someone who does.

Thank you.

.

NaBanga:


Once again, something is terribly wrong if you cannot find a woman or a WIFE in Canada. The problem is the op's mindset. If he wants a woman who will act like a woman from Nigeria, that is the first problem. You cannot expect someone to live in the Western World and behave as if they are living in an underdeveloped country. It does not work because the 2 societies are different. If he is waiting for a woman who makes as much as he is to be submissive, he should realize that cannot work. Most women are not dependents in the West, because the cost of living is too high. Most Nigerian couples I know here in the US have had to make big adjustments to their expectations to remain married. Unfortunately many end up in divorce, because they cannot adjust. A slave cannot earn as much as the master and remain a slave.

you spoke facts