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Intrepid01:
Op, nothing is wrong with you.

You are not scared of Va.gi.na you've only got conscience that keeps telling you accessing this thing when you are not married is wrong.

You see all those people who are having sex without being married and feel nothing close to guilt have got no conscience. Or maybe its dead.

Well I think they once had,buh continuous indulging in an act kills of the conscience until it's practically dead completely

unapapadeycraze:
it's not a silly thread, I asked for an advice.


I don't just know. Does your own look scary?

I don't think you meant to say SCARED,IMO I think u meant IRRITATED,talking from experience,will share mine,I use to dislike the sight of it wen I was way younger,first was the hairs,growing up so smooth at the pubic region till many years after puberty made me have a funny mindset àbt the human body,even uptill 21 I barely had pubic hairs,my friends wld joke àbt it,8yrs later now,it barely grows,I shave dere once a year,so I got so used to my body and expected most people to be smooth (psychological trap),I cld manage the sight of few hairs,so seeing hairs on à girl's pubic region was a complete turn off,I can have u almost unclad buh she must not pull of her pants for wat so ever reason else am gone home or she leaves my place, miñd u I wasn't scared, I cldnt just stand the sight,hairs or not,it wasn't smooth as mine,so cased closed,and dat was my natural weapon to abstain from sex and remain a celibate,@21 I gained admission to study human anatomy, and trust me we see so many things in medical school or profession dat only a legendary pervert wld outdo us in the seeing department, from black roasted looking kitten to wat have u,real diseased Ones dat not only look irritating buh are actually irritating, buh seeing these sights often began to change my mind and made me more relax,cos I had to study or fail, I began to accept dem all in my head,,cos I saw alot,and gradually I adapted(though no offense I still prefer those of light skinned women or Caucasians, cos of its redness or pinkish looks wen blood flows through it),to the sight,my fears reduced and my nerves cooled,so op,it's always strange from the beginning, for different folks, until u break into one in a proper sexual act,,u will always see it that way,dis is wat to do if u cànt wait till marriage, try forcing ursef to the sight, play with it with ur fingers,full eyes open and fixed on it,open it wide and look at it for minutes while doing so, gradually u will adjust psychologically trust me,, if not still okay, PM me.

And you think being pushed around makes you more submissive and prettier? Anyway it's not my business.

Now this part got me hooked,u claim it's not ur business, buh dropped an epistle of things that ain't practically ur business, Epic irony!

KIDpretty:
a jeep would not

People rarely ride jeeps lately,,haven't seen one in the wild the past 3yrs

Strahovski1:
Attention: Seun

To whom it may concern,

I would like to use this medium to report the happenings on this forum section to the management of nairaland.com. 1stly, the mods here are not doing a good job! That's one.

Also, people here especially do not respect the opinions of others and right to free speech. A person creates a thread, saying something he or she wish to say. Because what the person is saying is not in good terms with yo does not give right to insult the person, his family or anything about him directly or indirectly.

Today, a woman posted a thread about her view concerning marriage and finance, you look through that thread you see people insulting this woman instead of expressing their own reasonable opinion as to why they disagree. Instead they were busy referencing her father and mother insulting her race calling her names. Seun this has to stop on this forum! If you are against a person comment differ it by sharing ur view not insulting or being rude to the person.

Yesterday, a possible guy(no gender on profile) posted a thread with with a picture expressing his support and love for white women. I SUPPORTED the op on that thread for my own personal reason and instead everyone leave the op and majority start to insult me! Call me rapist. Some call me bantu and paki. Why? Because I support the op view? When I retaliate in my own way they will call me racist that I am rude to Nigeria on Nigeria forum. The op himself or herself on that thread was also rudely addressed like no man's business.

Nara land should not be a place for animals to dwell. The mods ignore all this! The other day, I said +1 on a thread that is pro-feminist all the guys started calling me names. For what reason?

Seun please address this issue. There should be a legislation on addressing users and rights to opinion.

To rest of Nairaland, respect the views of others without insulting their family or themselves or their race or religion.

Good morning.

Dude,u must either have a damaged cerebrum,cerebellum, or medulla, go and maintain your iñdian post or forums,werent you the one with your cohorts (vinshu and green66,etc) just degrading blacks yesterday with so much shitty words,even going as far às telling Evegran point black dat she is completely worthless as a black girl compared to white girls,first I had to visit your profile to see wat race u belong to,only to discover you ain't even white,so wats the fuss now KARMA,,,if u had tried that stunt on an American or European forum,u can't imagine what ur sorry ass might have gotten into (asides being banned),maybe seun shd visit that thread first before drawing a conclusion...... Bigot..

evegran:
Well said. .

Don't mind those rip offs, they want to form attack squad,mentally deprived folks, starting an uncalled racial discrimination to satisfy dia boring bigoted miserable life,am expecting a reply from them,don't know why it's delayed!

Vinshu:
All this stories for some dude? FYI Caucasians don't consider Indians as blacks! We call them Punjab or Paki.

Blacks are very different from Indians. Bantu Negroid not Indian. Indian not bantu.

You are attacking the Indian because he is in support of the op? I don't get it. Why are you against him?

I like picking my fights carefully, so let me know who am up against,if that's ur real picture on ur profile then you don't deserve a life at all,,you look like some malnourished malanin depleted lady!

evegran:
I realise he meant no harm. Did I harm him?

You don't tell me what to do okay?

The fact that you even said "next time, play along " like you're controlling me is offensive. Okay?
My mentions, my responses, my reactions. Respect that Mr Akwa Ibom.


*catwalks away*

I sed he meant no harm,never said u did either, dat was one sided from me because u dint attack him directly buh ur comment allowed the other lady to rant a bit,den secondly I saod nxt time, "SUGGESTIONS not CONTROL",. wld have been considered control if I had said next time YOU SHOULD,,,spot the difference in the diction my lady!

anigbajumo:
It is obviously dat u lack ability to reason, I dnt blame u but da guy dat create nonsense thread coz of PM.Av been on this forum almost 5yrs,av never PM any lady.
You cnt generalized coz of OP's behavior it is highly barbaric.

U used the word majority and few which clearly shown that u are referring to all male Nairalander.If u are beautiful I will only click like on yer pic,I will never send any useless PM or expecting a ghost to PM me.

More Ladies in my hood dan to be sending PM and looking for ladies on faceless forum.

Pls enhance yer IQ of it has completely dismantled.

Brother am even surprised u even got time for some faceless BIMBO, who doesn't recognize simple fallacy of generalization, sounds like a complete illiterate to me!

evegran:

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no offense, dis is coming from a fellow akwa ibom dude to u miss,,he meant no harm,and trust me he wasn't even serious with the post,its just teases,and its fun once in a while if done nicely and politely like he just did,sha ur comments weren't harsh,buh nxt time just play along except he begins to read meanings into it or bug u,,,akwa ibom ado ok( proudly eyen ITU and half IKONO).

Strahovski1:
If you are beautiful then my dog must be very very hot! Infact my dog should win miss world if you are beautiful.

Nothing offensive in op post. White women are awesome. White people find good things.

Dude usually I don't often comment on forums, buh let me begin by stating this, I prefer mixed raced (colored girls),like I said PREFER,,wch means personal preference, not a rule,,to white or black girls,dats just because my sister and 80% of the cousins I grew up with are Caucasian looking, so I naturally got used to it and liked it better, if I wàna Marry I wld marry for love and compatibility not color,now to face your comment,, u shd stop this ñonsense rant on a ñaija forum, Indians are not even classified properly,, ur neither whites nor Caucasians, ur considered in many caucuses as BLACKS,,so I don't get wat ur defense is àbt,if u wàna continue attacking that beautiful young lady(evagran),be my guests, it's me u will face now,,for any more foul remark to any beautiful Nigerian or black woman on this site or globe, medically the black skin is a gift against all forms of medical conditions, e.g inflammation and other dermatological conditions, pray to marry one so ur children wld be saved from sun burns and the likes,,awaiting your reply

well op,nothing is wrong with you,we all once fantasized as teenagers, u will outgrow it someday,wen I was younger, I like thick girls(thick n chubby from head to toe),I love the flesh they got so I cld grab something in bed and the likes,buh now I just want and wil marry slim or close to average looking ladies only,no bad mouthing,, just changed preference, I still admire chubby cheeks as amigos,buh wat I dislike àbt ur post is wat most landers do laterly,cos I hadly open or comment in a thread,,prefer to read and leave since 2007,is the case were most of us attach controversy just to make or drive a point harder,,it debases the lesson, message or opinion,this is ur line "i often subconsciously associate them with
higher intelligence",, avoid statements like this, u might be honestly speaking ur miñd,and I dñt know ur level of education, buh the statement sparks division and fallacy even if it is innocent,just make ur statement and preference and open the thread for others to comment,, u cld along the line after series of posts,add anything else u like,,the intent wld be different. hope u understand me though,, not a must or rule,,an advice!

babyfaceafrica:
you just displayed a down-side to been an ambivert....criticizing...just let it slide...she made her point and Op made his...must you make her look bad just to butress your point?

idiot with poor comprehension skills,,, AMBIVERTs are equally very extroverted at will,,,and extroverts criticize

babyfaceafrica:
you just displayed a down-side to been an ambivert....criticizing...just let it slide...she made her point and Op made his...must you make her look bad just to butress your point?

àss lickers tryna impress who?

hector:
heheh...o boy nawao...nice to meet u on nairaland. Msc dey for wia I keep am. how far u na? wat are u still doing in calabar?

just came around to get my service documents

hector:
o boy if I be gay make I die. relax jor nobody dey force u. But appreciate good things wen u see it

,,,Hector,,,here I am in calabar thinking your MSc program was that hectic,,, seems those guys at Choba have a very flexible syllabus.

Booyakasha:
I disagree with the Introvert part.. I'm dating an introverted guy.. Apart from the fact that introverts can be extreme loners, practical people with inability to express theirselves and they get the phobia of kissing and hugging or even holding hands in public, here are some reasons to be with an introvert guy.. they're amazing!!

Great listeners. My boyfriend helps me a lot by just listening to me. You know when you want some one to just hear you out and only advice when asked for, Introverts are ever ready for that.
Very Intelligent. Very clichéd sentence but trust me they are intelligent. My Man solves the rubiks cube in under 2 mins. That's crazy.

No nonsense. They are the ones you can have the most meaningful conversations with, not garbage talks.
They guide you very well. Some how they see you just the way you are, and yet love you because it's beyond looks for them. They don't get blinded by love, and yet For them love means everything and they give it their all.

Not Fake. They do not pretend to like you. They either just like you or don't and will tell you straight

Love Ain't A Game . They don't fall in love easily, but They fall hard. For them love isn't a game, their Hearts are at Stake. If they tell you they love you, you better not break their heart.

Calm by nature. Would women want to be with a man who gets violent, abuses, puts her down, yells at her or with A Man who treats her like a princess, will be faithful and treat her with respect all her life. I'm sure you will choose the latter i.e The Introverted man. They can never get violent it's just not in their nature to fight, and usually are respectful towards everyone in general.

Give you space. Space is must in a relationship and introverts know how to give you that.

Hot in Bed. They are good love makers (I can only speak on the behalf of my bf). Boy they are passionate!!

Stand by you. Is anything in this world worth more than some one actually standing by you through the toughest times? Introverts who are in love with you, won't back down when your in trouble, or back off because some one else says so. They fight hard to protect their loved ones.

Won't “use" you. Introverted men never woo women as a game. They are genuinely attracted to her and want to get to know her on deeper level. Yes sex is on their mind too but they will never cross their boundaries with you. Introverted women find it hard to fall for some one and when they do it's usually for life.

Honesty. Yes they are brutally honest, they will criticize you, not to hurt you but, because they really care about you . Yet they will be the first ones to come Cheer you up, Motivate you when you feel down and like a total failure.

Best friends. They are the bestest friends you can ever find. Trust me.

Loyalty. Being faithful comes to them naturally. Since they are introverted, they do not have many friends or easily make new connections. This means they do not find it hard to stay loyal and committed when in a serious relationship.

thanks for using the opportunity to advertise ur boyfriend and relationship,,the OP simply stated that introverts find it difficult to woo a girl, he didn't say they don't or some aren't successful with it,buh even the successful ones know what they went through, so he didn't generalize, dis is how people fail exams,they don't pay attention to details buh rush to attack the topic or conclude,am an AMBIVERT I.e both introverted and extroverted, and concur to what the OP said, and paying keen attention to details is one of our greatest gift.

refiner:
....na una sabi sha!

Hope u no dey guilty.,,,,, just a friendly question

refiner:
....wat if she was damn serious

And wat if she was,,she cld put a call on behalf of her friend to oñe or two family members, so dey wld know wats going on,,,dats the smartest thing to do,instead she used her data plan to call a guy she has never chatted with before in 3yrs to make a request, besides it was just mid day in the united States by then,she çld do a bank transfer if she really wanted to help

samted:
LMAo.... realest nigga! spotted the scam before it started.. lmao

asin ehh,,,,a dullard in 2016 will remain a dullard for life

pinceprinz:
Fabulous one Edd! Think I would start screen grabbing my chats too.. Many so sweet to share

pls do,,waiting to read more end time convos,,as some of us here tag it

Cutehector:
Lol laugh Don begin to dey catch me already

have u seen the entire thread?,,,

Burnnotice:
lol.... funny though.... the die, diein, dead part got me pissing on my hommie

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so sorry bout that bro,,,buh I swear for worse if I posted the entire conversation,, I had to put the funniest and dumbest part

Was so funny,,,I didn't even know if I should trust her,,but she started raining abuses and blocked me,,,,don't know what you guys make of this conversation,, somehow it looked like a male scammer!

More pictures coming,,, it was so funny,first thing is i inboxed her last since 2013,,,and that was our supposed very first conversation,,, I didn't get a reply,,,only for me to see a missed call from Facebook messenger this evening,, I called back to ascertain wat was wrong and why the mistake,,, she den requested that we chat,,i obliged

I have been reading numerous similar lines on nairaland for weeks now about how some girsl would go to any length to obtain recharge cards from guys,, buh my turn came tonight,as astonishing as this might sound,the said girs is yanky based according to her Facebook profile, at first it was annoying buh then my roommates told me to play along,so I did,this is how it went.,.,.,.

I beg to differ on question number three,some people might not agree with me,buh some girls I chat with are either stupid or smart enough to answer that correctly, for example, I cld be with my phone while watching a movie,reading my textbooks,eating,or listening to music while cleaning the house, I could even be idle and just chat mainly, so u can simply say I'M CHATTING, simple as some girls wld rightly point it out to you or be dumb as the op and say stupid things like ITS OBVIOUS,I mean what's obvious, its not like am seeing you face to face,...don't wàna debate the other questions,,, some are meant as teases and cld be a first point of beginning a conversation,, problem is some people are just too dogmatic and rigid,, no flexibility at all,,all chats has to have a specific kinda beginning to them else it stupid. I rest my case!

Don't know if this has happened to any of u guys,just one of the casual things I remember about my growing up till now that I dare not to fall for again,you meet a girl who has a poor I.Q or average at best (sometimes very shy or timid,due to lack of self esteem)you try to brush her up,first you tech her how to dress I.e both what to wear to bring out her curves and beauty to how to combine clothes with the proper color choosing,then it proceeds to how she shd sit,smile,chat and how to begin and end conversations, and what not,how to be bold and confident, get a dictionary for her and teach her how to use concords properly and be fluent,next thing Internet things follow,school stuffs and general basic social activities and topics and gist,,den suddenly ur guys begin to admire all ur efforts and input, even though they scolded me initially about it, they begin to allow the said low swagg chick into our gatherings at my persistent request, accepted and cherished, and now she believes she is an A-list girl like others who are dat way by their own makings,,talks to you (me) anyhow,attitudes sets in,no regards for me anymore, even goes around my back to hook up with my guys(note dis is not àbt sex,was just helping out,) sometimes some of my guys(male/female) wld retort to hook up with her except I am dere cos dey don't fully see her as equal even after many months,this funny memories just crossed my mind,do guys do dis to girls too after a girl builds him up,,,u know the movie LOVE DON'T COST A THING?,,,and guys share ur experience too

@tpiaobsession,aby ooo,,,asif him don touch or see one before,,I just felt like helping to kill his anxiety and fears,,,if I went further than dat e for turn lectures,,, him no go comprehend the technical aspects at all,,except medical professionals..

op,, I am a Human Anatomist,,, not a doctor nor gynaecologist,,, so from my proper knowledge based on human anatomy and physiology,,, a human being can survive solely on a single organ or structure wch occurs in doubles in us,,e.g ears,eyes,kidneys,testis,fallopian tubes,ovaries,hands,legs etc with slight modifications or safety habits,,,fertilization occurs at the fallopian tubes(she has one),,pregnancy is located in the uterus (she has one),ovum is formed in the ovary(she has one),she has a virginal and fully functioning single womb,fallopian tube and ovary,,dat is enough to have at least 3kids from my Anatomist stance,,u don't require two for it to bear a child,,,wld have been a different things if she has no womb or any ovaries at all,,so don't be afraid,, all is well,,with love and prayers,, buh medically she is 60% perfect,,not because she is not 100% capable of having a child,, I sed 60% cos she doesn't have the two tubes,,,simple maths dere,,buh if ur still scared,,, visit the clinic for family planning,, bye

op said they are in different countries,,, so maybe the time zone is becoming an issue,, he possibly was sacrificing to call you before,,,prolly wen its night over dere and its daytime here,,and he now feels he shd just call u wen its day time over dere whereas its ñight over here,,,if ur story is true.

well she began the whole thing by stating she is bored,,boredom causes unproductivity,,,,I.e wasting time and efforts posting less trivial things online, or maybe she has esteem or complexity issues,,,or just wants d Instagram/Facebook like of things here,,wch is wrong,,,cos this is a forum for discussion and not social network for ,,,u know already