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@wislet,nice. Have got a realistic consideration of being a good girl & being treated right, and 4 sure won't be beggn anybody to accept me, she has to fulfil some certain criteria b4 we could actually start dating. Am matured and quite experinced enough dn to make only feelings d reason for enterin any romantic relationship, she's only got a good edge cos of d attraction I felt 2wards her but her personality or character would be determining factor if anythn would happen or not, last or not. Am simply just willn to give smetime to see.how things go.havnt cald since then buh she cald yesterday 2 apologise & her apology was like I asked 4 1, which is totally unacceptable, didn't say nuffn other than ok & takia wen she calld, and won't be calln or creatn any form of chance 4 a discussion till she convinces me she's really sorry and remorseful 4 her actions. Then we can have a serious heart 2 heart talk.

@izukwu, I dnt mind if she's older, if we eventually have a relatnship & it works out, wnt mind settln down with her, 4 me d age is not a problem not even a thing to consider if she's a good girl and knws how to treat her man right.

She's older, 5yrs older, didn't want to start a relatnshp based on deceit cos i want smetn very serious, wen I askd her to guess she didn't even come close she initially tot I was bout d same age. Well she cald yesterday 9te(fri ) to apologise.

@iice ofcourse i am, yeah on wednesday.

@boboyekini am not dilly-dallyn. After telln her my age things changed, unlike b4 wen she sees missed calls she returns. buh now might have to ring her 2wice b4 she picks, wen she picks up, she's like i will call u back, and she wouldn't(dts annoyn), and i wont bother calln, maybe till d next day or so(all dis was the follown week after d date).

She really did enjoyed d 9te out, she was all so excited, proposn places we should try out makn +ve comments about me, said so much about herself dt i was even thinkn, was a bit inappropriate buh i was cool, 80% of d conversation was her talkn, i was just listening findn her amusin, makn comment, like u're a complete gentleman.

We talked after i got home, i called her and my credit finished and she calld back, sayn dt Lanre we will be gettn d pizza we missed, buh pls dnt keep me waiting ds time, and i was like i wouldnt do dt again.

@Lord_reed, a short spelln for Phone

@ronkebp dnt think i would want to continue d chasn, buh d problem is i really do like her and have been wantn to create a relationship based on ds type of feeln i have 4 her, datn because of superficial reasons or feelns dnt last long with me i get bored real soon, and am really lookn 4 smetn serious.

@iice the not pickn calls and slammn of doors clearly shows she's not creatn a revenue for discussion,i broke my rule to have called and GONE to her place without being invited over, with d intention of just clearn d age thing.

My first time posting, ok i met a girl @ a frnds place and was kinda attracted to her told my friend to ring me up wen she gets back 4rm work cos they both live in d same estate, i do see her occasionally & d likeness for her kinda grew.  i  saw her outside chattn to my frnds gf, dn i beckoned to my frnds babe, told her i am interested in her frnd and wuld like a moment alone with her, ofcourse if she dosent mind, she was like she does, cos they were in d middle of a serious conver, i was like ok some other time den, was about several steps away frm them when my frnds girl cald me & told me d girl wouldnt mind seeing me.

Then we got talkn, told her am attracted/kinda liked her and would like to discover more about her, she was like ok, introduced herself properly. she just got back frm warri so i offered to help her with her luggage she was like thanks, all sweet and stuffs, showed me to her apartment and she even let me in, she was a lil chatty so i had to excuse myself, we just met  and there is not much to talk about, but did so in a very polite manner, dt i have an appointment with sme1, and gave her my word dt i would be n touch real soon.

I called her frm my workplace n d aftenoon on tuesday and ask her out for dinner later in d evening, she said she would be closing 4rm work by 8:00pm or b4 and ask me to call her by 5 or thereabout to confirm the date, called her by 6:30pm she said its ok we're still on dt i shuld a place, i chose debonair's cos its nearby, got there 30mins after her, she was angry(ova d 4ne) and she left, i saw her drive off.

Calld her later n d evening, & was like are u cool now she was like yeah dn i apologized for keepn her waitn dn she was like i shouldnt worry we would fix anoda date we had a lil 9ce chat over d 4ne.

We kept n touch dn we met on a sunday, we went out had a swell 9te out, she sweet outspoken and made me really liked her more, I loved her innerself d 1 she she showed me she put her arms nto mine, i felt d connection lol,   she said a whole lot about her self. She said couple of places she would like to go and dt we should do ds more often, she said d nxt date would be on her. She asked for my age i asked her to take a guess she did buh was wrong on couple of guesses & it was quite amusing, when i eventually told her she couldn't hide d dissapointment she tried though, she asked if i was n a relationship, i said no she asked what happened, i said ladies happened, she laffed,

Long short i noticed a deterioration on flow of our 4ne conversation i kept my distance 4 couple of days no call & txt dn called her on fri and asked her out she said i shuld her back by 7:00pm i calld by 8 was @ my frnds place but she didnt pick up wen she evntually did she said she was still @ work dt she would call me, i said ok went back home den went out with my cuz and bro didnt call her until yesterday, i went to her place but, called 2wice her b4 knockn @ her door wen she opened she slammed d door on my face, sayn she just got back frm work, she's tired and y shuld i knock like dt.

I wouldnt have called her at all not to talk of payn her visit, but i really liked the her, and felt maybe she needed a lil chase, if i really do like her i shuld go after maybe she's confused bout the age gap, but her actions were sooo rude.

What do u girls and fellas think?

kkk, why do we guys smetimes find it hard to walk over to a girl and woo her   have been there b4 sha  . just tell her bearing 3 tins in mind. she may 1.say yes or 2.no, or 3.insult u worse case scenario(usually neva happens) whichever it is, it worth tryn, bleve me. even if u lose what u have in mind to say, just talk, u might blab stutter,bsides u guys are frnds shuldnt be hard. make sure u say it to her, dnt leave sumtn dt complicated bottled up.

if u were ma friend, and i think highly of u enough to allowing u whateva responsibility in my wedding, and i latter get to know what u're hiding, and i know u know. I will HATE U more dn d lady in question. U have proof to back up ur talk and u are here still looking for advice

Mobo i like reading ur post its always FUNNY and stuffs. The only tin i dont like about ur posts, is that u generalize. STOP SAYING ALL NIGERIAN GIRLS or BLACK SISTAS be more of percentage or ratio, e.g 40% of nigerian females or black sistas in ur specified location or 3 out of 10 are whateva negative reason u want to give. Some people tend to blieve what dy hear, dont give dm bad ideas of our females, though what u say is about 60% true. The exaggerated truth is where the humor mostly is, but do so without tarnishing or females image.

@poster dont go ahead with him 5years is just way too young. u're just 38 afterall life begins at 40.
@validator leave the young damsel alone ooo.

Why haven't dy banned this dude.

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