Cork, I am 41 and proud to not have been desperate enough to marry a prick like you. . . . . .I got my own money so don't need yours dude. I would rather be a nun than be with you!

bollyfolly:

Whole House, Thanks so much,

I so much appreciate all your candid advises, suggestion and insults,
@Afrobaby & Others: thanks so much for the advises.

@ Phillip0906 & Validator: Thanks also for all the insults, I think this forum is for well behaved matured people and not for unreasonable pple like you.

Its so sad that pple like you are in this forum, I think you should keep mute when you have nothing reasonable to contribute, You need to wise up and learn how to relate with people in a decent manner, I dont blame you guys, you such an unserious element.

And somebody was busy wondering why she hadn't married

@poster dont go ahead with him 5years is just way too young. u're just 38 afterall life begins at 40.
@validator leave the young damsel alone ooo.

VALIDATOR:

@poster,
you are just one insatiable bbitch. No wonder you are 38 and single. Now a dude wants to "pity" your old cobweb infested ppussy and you still come here on NL to say you are considering quitting the relationship?Whether the guy is doing it to just make some bucks from you or any other reason,why not just go ahead or don't you need "it" right now.But as insatiable as you are,you may still throw this opportunity away.

VALIDATOR:

Believe me.I meet people like this once in a while and they all have the same characteristic.
1 A strong competitive nature.This chases men away.They like you as a professional but NEVER as a wife
2 Religion.Yeah, your sweet talking pastor keeps telling you to wait for God's time yet he marries a young,sweet babe._{use your brain sister}.Ever wonder why the brothers in your church are not looking your way?

Not knowing the value what you have _{(age and beauty)} until you loose it is characteristic of people who are 38 and still single. Now she has a rare opportunity once more and she wants to yakubu it.

All those of you offering your pity are not helping her at all.Be hard on her and let her know how silly it is to still imagine that yakubuing is an option.

You surely are retarded.

You need some tablets to balance the imbalances in your cretinous head!

Kinda like older chicks, reminds me of vintage wine, abi no b so

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To me the age difference is kinda much, especially in this part of the world, but again love surpasses everything, at least you said everything was going well till you guys got to know about the age stuff, u could as well pretend u don't know his age. The primary factor in a relationship is love, and if u guys have it, just go on and enjoy yourselves. Every other thing could be deceptive, but the heart never lies, follow your heart. If truely the love is reciprocal, you guys will definitely live happily ever after. Good luck

If possible look for an older man even if he is divorced or widowed.
I mean you could even opt for second wife it might end up being less painfull for you.
Cindrella, I know she has gone through pains but belive you me so have married women.
It is not easy being married either. You have to sacrifice too when you get married.

madam sorri oo, na public dey make choice for you now, dat time wey you young u dey chase all the brodaz dey follow pot belle men wey you know say dem nor go ever marry u, now wey you manage see guy to marry u still dey ask question, my advice for you is to wait till you are 50 so you can find the right man, u don forget say who go market for evening nor dey see better meat buy. all dem Black sisterz wey still dey waka like tolotolo make una learn from da momma.

Come to think of this, this poster is supposed to tell the younger black sisters here the mistake she made while at her 20s instead she needs advice from most of them, so sad

mutter:

If possible look for an older man even if he is divorced or widowed.
I mean you could even opt for second wife it might end up being less painfull for you.
Cindrella, I know she has gone through pains but belive you me so have married women.
It is not easy being married either. You have to sacrifice too when you get married.

All that trouble just to avoid being with a guy that is 5 years younger than him, I can never get the way some of you think sometimes, you let stuff cloud your thinking and you just follow the leader into the sea. . . . .SCARY!

wow 41 and still playing hard to get.
she still neva realise say her clock don tick finish.

In the last days a man will cling to 7 women and desire that they bear his name.
in this day and age where a lot of men are not getting married on time, there a re a lot of single ladies out there,infact too many to count.

Godess do you realise that some women at your age are already Grandmothers?
You want her to start a family with a young man.
How does it look with kids? Even if all works well, she needs about 4 year for two kids, will she have hit menopause b then?
A woman needs a man who is mature and can maintain her.
This young man will just use her, and dump her or keep her by the side as the cow to milk.
Use her money on younger girls

mutter:

Godess do you realise that some women at your age are already Grandmothers?
You want her to start a family with a young man.
How does it look with kids? Even if all works well, she needs about 4 year for two kids, will she have hit menopause b then?
A woman needs a man who is mature and can maintain her.
This young man will just use her, and dump her or keep her by the side as the cow to milk.
Use her money on younger girls

You don't even know how old I am and yet you speak with authority on my age, GTFOH you little piece of shyt.,  NXA!  It's ignorant people like you who let others dictate how you should your life and now you want to do the same to OP, I wonder if you even have a brain of your own to begin with, NXA!

The 40 old lady rather die lonely and of menopause.
she should at least just get a young dude who would help her out of her misery

From your nairaland user name: mr cork, you dont have respect yourself, what do you think she would do, if she found out you have been on nairaland talking about her

Guy get a life
and tell it to your mistress or your lady you are pursuing.

9jawear, brother. Your village just called. They're missing an idiot

its no biggie, i have two friends who are married to older women, its ok IF he knows and accepts it

Sagamite:

You surely are retarded.

You need some tablets to balance the imbalances in your cretinous head!

You Sagamite?If you are trying very hard to sell a product that is just about to expire,won't you try to at least be soft on any prospective buyer?Will you still be placing too much price on it?Especially when it has been tampered with since some other customers have tried it on and later lost interest in it?It's pure common sense that she didn't have since when she clocked 28. Now 10 years after she still doesn't seem to have it.

On a more serious note,we all need tablets at one time on the other.

And lastly, Men do not quit playing because they grow old; they grow old because they quit playing. (words of wisdom: 2010)

mutter:

Godess do you realise that some women at your age are already Grandmothers?
You want her to start a family with a young man.
How does it look with kids? Even if all works well, she needs about 4 year for two kids, will she have hit menopause b then?
A woman needs a man who is mature and can maintain her.
This young man will just use her, and dump her or keep her by the side as the cow to milk.
Use her money on younger girls

You always think above the average black lady, Mutter you the kind of lady men fall in love with, you are so smart.

VALIDATOR:

You Sagamite?If you are trying very hard to sell a product that is just about to expire,won't you try to at least be soft on any prospective buyer?Will you still be placing too much price on it?Especially when it has been tampered with since some other customers have tried it on and later lost interest in it?It's pure common sense that she didn't have since when she clocked 28. Now 10 years after she still doesn't seem to have it.

On a more serious note,we all need tablets at one time on the other.

Classless.

old women get uneasy when dry bones are mentioned

There must be something true about this proverb.
No I think one should change it to:

old women get abusive when dr bones are mentioned

There are certainly too many classless, brainless idiots roaming NL, you are certainly one of them!

^^^SA Goddess no need to use such language, you have been on Nairaland long enough and matured enough, pleae apologise to those you insulted,please you a black lady i admire for her intellect, dont lose my respect.