₦airaland Forum

of course mil's are doing the right thing, women of nowadays are calamity that if it befalls a man, that man regrets even been born, lots of past relationships,lots of dirty pasts and secrets that could explode with time and devastate the marriage if not discovered..you dont blame these mothers they were not so lethal,during their own time, so they are trying to put their son on the safe side. who wants her son to end up with a snake in human form...

sherap you girls, needs to be checked, so much secrets and issues with your dirty pasts relationships, dirty lifestyles, liees, deceits, who want his son to fall into the pit of despair you terrible nowadays girls dug and hid. if you have nothing to hide,then let her check,the truth always prevails..

bukatyne:
@OP:


It depends on If you are desperate or not.

Or your MIL to be inspects you and your father inspects yourguy.

I don't understand Some MILs sha.

If you think no woman is Good enough for your son, please marry him yourself.

All these irritating stories

hei female lawyers too proud die,argument nahh their food, they aint submissive at all, and they will never like to be won or subdued, they like to be on top of every situation...well everything counts on character, as for marrying female lawyer, generaly be ready for argument and logics in ur home...

yeah they rock, with legal lies...

cutemaria:
I'm proud of the legal world. Lawyers rock.

continue deceiving ur self my brother, what made u think it is heaven on earth marrying a female doc? what made them the magic bullet in marriage? just because they are doctors by proffession? my brother just tell us u like female doctors, nothing makes them any better than other women in marriage...

mentorandfriend:
Nice points. But nothing compares to dating/marrying a female doctor. Its a heaven on earth experience. Your status and life will experience peace, pure love, happiness and affluence. See eight reasons why you must marry a female doctor
https://www.nairaland.com/2150947/top-eight-reasons-why-should

stop deceiving ur selfs, female doctors are the proudest things i have ever seen, they see themselves as too unique,special,educated more than the rest, female doctors dont have time to date and give you fun, they are always occupied by studies, due to their very demanding proffesion, they dont have much time required for their husbands, kids..

sundoj08:
Judging by those ive seen, female docs are super nice, very understanding(less likely to pickup a fight) and they rarely nag. Rare Qualities you definitely wanna watch out for in a wife...

all this u have listed is not even near enough to stop the inevitable change that is near, it is better he is an illiterate than a deeply corrupt, weak, clueless,insensitve leader. eeeh abeg point of correction jona na ur own guardian angel and not mine..

RebelChip:
Ok na..... But All I can tell him is that there is no vacancy in Aso Rock till 2019... He has contested three times and failed woefully. Please Nigerians, help me and tell this senile old man surrounded by Criminals that he must not stay in Aso Rock! If he must stay in a rock, Zuma rock is available!

Let me use this opportunity and remind APC apologists that huge crowd does not translate to vote. Most of the people here are Keke riders and touts who will always go where they are sharing money. Majority of them dont have PVC. If you doubt me, ask Chris Ngige how far in Anambra 2014!

Finally, a poster here said this and I was really touched.... https://www.nairaland.com/2212751/south-east-finally-decided-today

So today, Buhari came to Owerri peacefully and went without any hitch. When he left, nobody used water to wash the road. He was respected as an official contender for the post of the presidency. Rewind back to last week. President Jonathan was in Daura, Kastina state and when he left, the youths and elders were washing the road as if an evil came to visit them. They spited the office of the presidency! All these while, I have always been skeptical of voting Jonathan again because he was too "gentle" for me. But I also know that Buhari is not a better option for Nigeria. My reasons are these;

#1 He is retarrded
#2 He is a Muslim and an extremist for that one
#3 He is too old to rule Nigeria in the 21st century... All these his packagings are hogwash by those who want to hijack Nigeria
#4 He said that the full meaning of APC is All Progressive Confident shocked shocked shocked
#5 He has no certificate (Proven)... How can he rule Nigeria with so many professors around?
#6 He called INEC the Independent Nigeria Electoral Commission sad sad sad
#7 He is surrounded by crooks who wants nothing but their own selfish gains e.g Rochas Okorocha, Tinubu and Co, Amaechi
#8 He said that the name of his VP is Yemi Osunbade undecided undecided undecided
#9 He said that he will stabilise oil prices in the world lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed ( Confirm Madness)
#10 He just said today that he will make the naira equal to dollars embarassed embarassed embarassed Who does this man take us for? Magas?

Because of the above listed reasons and because Jonathan didn't perform as I expected, I decided to void my vote. But today in the evning as I was discussing with a Mallam that came to repair my shoe, guess what this man told me? That Allah has decreed that Buhari will win. He said that Jonathan won the 2011 elections because the Nothern people sinned against Allah and that Allah said in the Qur'an that anytime they sin, foreigners will rule them! I was like the Fucckk? He said that this was what has been preached to them all these while in their mosques sad sad sad.
The one that annoyed me most was that he told me that the Northerners don't need any education in order to hold any political post because they have a divine mandate to rule the world.

At this point, I wanted to go inside my house, boil hot oil and barbecue this illiterate fool... But the love of God made me not to.

So finally, I have decided to go and dust up my PVC again and VOTE DR GOODLUCK EBELE JONATHAN! This man is an Angel.... Believe me when I tell you so.... You need to listen to a Northerner and believe me.

Lakayanah:
If truly he is a man of God he has nothing to fear. Daniel was put in the lion's den but came out stronger than before. Fake Nigerian men of God. Fear fear.

come nahh lets them put you into the lions nahh..mbaka no be human, na iron..

egift:
Jonathan should better be praying that nothing happens to Fr. Mbaka at all. The blood of Nigerians who have died under Jonathan is alarming.

that man na correct bad luck i never see.

jacksparrow1207:
His god should protect him

of course his God have and always will protect his son and also ur demon will always put you to misery and torment you..

deflover:
why him dey fear na.....let APC give am the same security wey house of rep leader dey use na.......nonsense....ojukwu go vomit for him grave say dem let dis one papa waste sperm to make an igbo man who doesnt know his history

the devil will vomit dammnation on ur own grave for being so blind to seeing the truth that there is so much evil,death and devastating corruption in jonathans goverment, God will vomit blessings on that mans grave,he is a true man of God..pray for ur lost souls,cos the terrible faith of eternal suffering awaits many,that refuse to change..

viczing:
A man of God scared to die? But you were ordained by God, what of the version that says touch not my anointed and do my prophet no harm, what of when the lord says we shall thread on serpent and scorpions and by no means shall they hurt us, doesn't it apply to you? Thought the message was given to you from God and your scared? But jesus wasn't scared when he died for us, mbaka your a nuisance you lose your worth now for this, #nonsense

Gej till 2019

jesus is God and human, mbaka is noo God but just a human servant of God, it is in human nature to fear death and run for survival, he said the truth about the evil that is eaten deep in our society and is destroying the future of me and you blind fool, in this life and next you cant and will never attain the height,respect, charisma,blessings,success mbaka have enjoyed..monkey like you, if there is a threat to ur life ,wont you run? Mbaka should not run because he is not made of flesh and blood,but of wood. You ignorant people should be carefull how u talk,before ur mouth brings curses and dammnation to your soul..be warned

macpetrus:
.. Fr Mabaka start the drama without knowing how to end the drama.. It is a pity
Why involve yourself in a political talk to the level of insulting the President office, that is bad.. I don't think Mr president is after your life but your people are!!!

yes you are right ma brother,but the inevitable fact remains that he said the truth..

eleojo23:
If his claims are true, then all those who have been strong critics of GEJ would have been killed by now.

Also, if the threat is real, he should have made a report to the police.

He is most likely experiencing self-inflicted paranoia that comes from talking too much.

dont joke with the annointed man of God, he always says the truth as God demands..those kabals chasing him dont know that they are dammned to the pits of hell starting from earth here...

nigerian women very wicked and inhumane, after they tell you they want to marry,that's why men run from them, lots of disguised witches..

babyosisi:
Drop out of school to marry
Never never never do that
Marriage is not the zenith of life but the beginning of a new phase.Going in without the ability to provide is not advised.This message is particularly relevant to the ones marrying men overseas,I have seen that happen,the papers come through and you abandon your education to go to Obodo Oyibo.It is a foolish thing to do,many have regretted it.A bird in hand is worth two in the bush.

Bad mouth your family to your fiancé/husband
If you have already done so,don't beat yourself up.Learn from it,marriage sometimes can be like a law court,whatever you say can be used against you when you least expect it.Apply wisdom.even if your parents hate your husband or fiancé with a passion,don't reveal the extent or relay their words verbatim.You may eventually marry him but the man will never forget how they felt about him and the painful things they said.

Share secrets of your friends with your man
There is a code of friendship that cannot be broken.If a friend for instance has confided in you with certain deep secrets that will show her in a bad light,please keep it to yourself,including certain utterances that are unwholesome,don't share.there are some things you must take to your grave.I learned this the hard way.I had a friend that was fond of talking ill of Nigerian men and I shared those stories years ago,my husband remembers it till this day and doesn't like her much for that.

Compare your situation with that of others even in light hearted humor
When you compare your household with that of others,you are basically telling the man he is not man enough.Be content with what you have and strive together towards doing better.Many young marriages go through strain especially financial strains.Be patient and hope and pray for a better tomorrow,the earnings usually increase as the years go by.

Tell your family details of your marital challenges
Very common with young marriages especially for people from a close knit family.Unless your life is in danger,shut your mouth.If you must unburden your heart,find a trusted friend,your pastor's wife,a deaconess in church, a wise auntie,anyone but your mom and siblings.They will never forget the stories you told them and will always view your husband through those prisms long after the issues have been resolved.A third party non relative is preferred.

Go sourcing monetary help for the family
Allow the man to do it.you put yourself in vulnerable positions as a female by going out to beg or borrow money for the family if such need arises.Don't take on the role of a rescuer in the marriage.There are some things you should allow the man take the lead in and this is one of them.


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so many crooked rules,and hidden acts that women alwaxs beleive it will work for them, no sincererity or honesty, thats why marriages fail rapidly nowadays, becos it is built on lies and cunny ways.

the man warned him, but the scent of a woman would not allow him to smell that his own gruesome and untimely death is also smelling, he was killed by the girl, if he had stopped visiting, he would have not dance with the devil dad,cos when you dance with the devil he always wins.. women destroying and cutting men's life short since sampson and delilah...r.i.p poor boy..a dreaded curse now follows and haunts the wicked dad to misery in this life and next..

girls are confused creations, they want a built guy today, a tall guy tommorow,a caring one next week, a rich dude next month, hahahaha those species are not even sure of what they really want,and that is the worst problem...

MzNelly:
Whatchu say?

If a girl doesn't want you, she don't want you.
All these one is story

but something more powerful than you girls, makes you to reject good looking males,and choose monkeys....money..

igbo girls kwenu, umunwanyi igbo wey dy here, una don see how una fellow woman, pregnant for that matter take up challenge to drive keke,a strictly and rough work for men, fending for herself and family,upon that his husband is still alive and active, make una dy learn ooo, not always depending and pestering men, money 4 shoes,recharge card, hair,clothing, nail,eyelash, handbag,food,t-fare, and other endless demands wey don run igbo men down like battery...

black race is a race with naturaly endowed problems which cannot be solved in this life, we turn everything introduced to us up side down, education we no sabi use am,christianity meant to salvage the poor,dying and needy, we turn am to a very lucrative buisness venture, democracy, we turn am into a mass looting opportunity and free madness..chai black man weting happen to us wey make our heart black and very wicked as we do, na devil create us'? abby no be God.? cos everything we do resemble devil work, no good thinking ever comes from us,only crooked and cunny cunny thinking, thats why God kept us under constant,poverty and suffering..na weting just fit us.

hahahaha which pastors, these are very greedy,diplomatic and refined buisnessmen with the disguise as men of God...

Badgers14:
Churches this days tire me o, I heard Christ Embassy charges gate fee N1,000 for their service on 31st December? Pastors go knack $5000 suit for body, wear better shoe, prayer warrior belt go go round him waist ten times, him shoe don bend one side, members dey suffer suffer.

Am not saying that these pastors should share money to every members, but for the ones in need they could start training for them, like handy work, bakery, sewing clothes, welding , carpentry, give scholarships to people who are in school and help train people who are more interested in handy work.

And yes, they have the resources to do that , their are also affluent members of the church who are willing to contribute for the cause. But for pastors, no no no they want all those money in their pocket so they could make Forbes list .. Very sad. This No be wetin Jesus talk for bible ooo

just like Jesus collected the few fishes and blessed it, fed thousands that's what I am talking about.

Anyways , I am just observing these churches from on top of a speeding Molué

shut up, blind man that cant see the truth, what do you mean tarnishing christianity, u cant see the truth other are seeing here, that this pastors are rogues and extorters under disguise as God's servant, these very diplomatic,greedy buisness men have made the poor much poorer...

tolexy007:
Seriously, I don't no y some plpp always like to write someting dat will tarnish Christianity? diz is bcomin too much on everypost. And majority always derived pleasure it....

donKonji:
She probably is still in love with the sugarman. Seriously, if I were the fiance, I would have an in-depth heart2heart with my lady to determine why she feels extending an invite to her ex 'aristo' is required under this circumstances.
My fellow nairalanders, if u love someone it isn't so easy discarding the person just because of such silly request. Consider the brighter side, at least she was honest enough to seek his permission. What if she went ahead to invite all men from her previous relationships without his knowledge. And then on the d-day they all appear splashing cash on the couple while the groom ignorantly dances his life away believing his wife is honest.
Not that I endorse her move to solicit her fiance's consent. No not at all. But at times we should step aside and attempt assessing a situation unbiasedly while providing non-sentimental counsel.
OP please convey this to your friend.

donkonji that woman na very spoilt and shameless woman, she still has the impunity to invite her aristo to their wedding for what? She is not ready for wedding..maybe he should give her more time to flirt..

Billyonaire:
Steering design is BAD. This can cause accidents.

hahaha brother,oyibo too much, i no say u never this type before,that steering is just for track racing...

chillykelly86:
That looks cool. How much does it cost please?
I just wan know oo.

#powerHQ

just want to know? 1.4 million usd, that is 490 million naira...

super cars just designed for track racing...

mikron:
There are alot of cars like this, nothing new

brother na lie oo, this car no be beans, na super track cars,they cost millions of usd.

banjicom:
This car looks Cheap, how much can I get One

1500 naira only..

Bonapart:
Godfatherism and influence behind employment in Nigeria since 14Ad

shut up ,talkative, he is too brilliant and intelligent to fly a plane at 20, he is too talented to be overlooked, you can you drive keke well, talkless of flying a plane...

Dyt:
Also, he wants to try all styles of sex with me which I strongly disagree.


U sef na only mummy n daddy u dey do in
Give him monkey style jare

the woman is not satisfying the man at all, as she said,person dy give am the man wella.