₦airaland Forum

Amuga:
Never say a man is faithful untill he has a means of transportation, money to pay for chalet and money in his pocket.
We still got faithful ones though

and never say a woman is faithful, until she dies..

April07:
Okay this is funny..

She should gerout of that marriage and take every damn dime the man has.

heii shut up girl,u think is so easy to do as u say it, your own time lets see the type of man u will marry..

Dimples192:
" Is it true that you can't understand the sexual fantasy and satisfaction of man until he is comfortable and rich "

In this case yes.

He wasn't a cheat when he couldn't afford it. Now his wealth is the excuse for his infidelity. She was very smart not to sleep with him. Life is sweet. It's a shame he wasted 20 yrs of her life those were her best years.
Karma will deal with him.

sheerap rude and very silly girl like you, that talk anyhow,what do you know about life and its uncertainty, why say it is a shame for spending 20yrs of her life with her husband, do you know the type of person you will end up with? Nobody predicts the future, so were did the shame come in from, they maintained their marriage for 20 long years before issues came, you do you know wether you will even get married,talkless of maintaning it for a year, you think marriage is childs play..

owu,owu, dey too much,poverty tooo much in the south east, that's why they migrate to all corners of the country for greener pastures, igbos too poor,greeedy and too proud to even accept they are poor, everybody wants to be rich by fire by force in igbo land, which is not possible., forget all the empty swaggs,cars and cloths you see, they are just cover ups, underneath the poverty is grinding...as for the vulcanizer he is a wretched man and also has a black heart..

i tell you brother, the poverty level is very high, forget all these swaggs and puffing up,they are just used as cover ups..

ribbit:
Poverty in South East is over the roof.. That's why they run to South West for green pasture

no evil spirit here brother, fustration, hardship, hunger, can cause anymosity which leads to ill temperament...

slap1:
It's unfortunate that people don't believe in evil spirits, but I don't see how a normal person would do something like this.

hardship,hardship,fustration, hunger, extreme stress to survive daily, it is badly affecting our mental well being...

Lailerh:
Chai! Just because of N100 What's happening to Nigeria?

all these long talks and ideas, the main reason is that the society as a whole has badly detirioriated...values are dead, good behaviour is seen as weakness,materialism is the other of the day, life of pretence, liees,dishonesty, wickedness is practiced with commitment and joy, greeed, fake lifestyle, ego and pride, the law of karma spares no one, it pays payback in full without sentiments..

nowdays women are disaster..

CaptainAmerica1:
Our women nowadays are manner less They are too materialistic!

Gone are the days when women were respectful. During the time of our mothers.

I don't want to say more

duperola:
what i feel is dt ds days.pple get married 4 wrong reasons:age,money,beauty etc.till after marriage b4 eyes clear.then wahala comes.may God help us

yees it is true ma guy..

Vickybee:

1. Men are Sexists and Chauvinistic in nature
Most men are sexists and chauvinistic in nature therefore making them selfish and loathe independent women. They make denigrating remarks about women and you don't expect a serious, logical and virtuous woman to remain with such a rètarded being.
Women in other hand, are peace loving and cool but their anti-feminism husband keeps antagonising them and they don't have an option but divorce him.





Thunder fire each and every guy that quoted me on this thread.
Y'all didn't see that the first point raised by dude above me is anti-feminism/woman but choose to attack me for airing mine.

Bunch of hypocrites.

you see the what we are just talking about, how women of nowadays are so untaimed and very impossible to be..look at the kind of abuse and provocative word that an untaimed wild animal like you use openely on social media, and thus you are a potential future wife for some man, if u abuse him this way in his home,kassallah never start for the marriage?the high rate of divorce is mainly caused by this generation of disaster women..

kay29000:
I have noticed that, in recent times, most marriages break up within 5 years. I have been the best man at two weddings in the last 4 years, and those couples are no longer together. Even some of my family members that got married in the last 10 years are no longer together.

Why is the case of divorce and separation so high these days. And if it is not divorce or separation, you read on Nairaland every day how one wife burnt the husband or cut off his manhood, or how a husband beat his wife to death.

Why is this so rampant these days?

is very simple, we planted the seeds of lies,dishonesty,mistrust,cheating,joking with each others feelings, and we practices wickedness with joy and commitment, what u sow u reap, we are reaping of harvest brother.

hahahaha, to date and keep just an undergraduate good looking girl is like try to taim a wild dog in the vast streets, talkless of a star with fame and money and also pretty, with big properties bought and registered in her name solely is almost impossible, is like trying to taim a wild lion in the forest...

naija bad condition na im the chicken dey suffer from..we need change badly..sai gmb

double wahala for dead body and the owner of dead body...

EggovinMma:
Lover ke?
Please suffer and love are like water and oil.
Love isn't everything. It's not rosy to live in povepoverty.its painful and unbearable. THE ONLY WAY I CAN DO THAT IS IF WE ARE LIVING IN VILLAGE WHERE THE STANDARD OF LIVING IS QUITE LOW.

If he earns this amount in some part of core North, deep in the states of south west, that's understandable. One can manage, but if na Lagos, Abuja, PH, abeg the guy no try at all to buy ring for my hand.

shut up witch, who wan buy ring put for ur hand, that man they mad,abby im wan paint im future black,poor women like you are men's worst nightmare, how much do yourself earn a year, and how much do ur father earn, you woman with spirit of wretchedness, i cast and bind you out of men's life,in jesus name amen..

remsonik:
Yes I can marry him, so far he's focused!
I know people who started earning that low amount now they are CEOs too.........
Its not about money, some live even more comfortably than those who earn higher.

God bless you my sister with this kind of understanding and heart you will soon end up with a good man as ur husband..

EggovinMma:
My brother, that was during our mother's time.Where I come from, as an igbo gurl, my father made sure he slaved to give me the best, despite the fact he is not a graduate. I CAN NOT MARRY A MAN THATS LESS THAT MY FATHER. I CAN NOT EAT THERE SQUARE MEALS IN MY FATHERS HOUSE, ONLY TO EAT ONCE A DAY IN MY HUSBAND S HOUSE.THATS ILL LUCK.I should be the one earning that kind of amount to support my husband, and not him.Its not a sin o, but it's way below what I grew up with despite we weren't rich.BROS, ONCE AGAIN HOLY GHOST FIREEEEE! !

poor girl,you girls go around with the spirit of poverty you reject, holyghost fireee you to shreds.cos you are poverty herself and any man you encounter will naturaly go poor,you disaster ladies..

sokotoburundi:
do u tink d pple dat are earning 50k dont like to earn better? Or they dont know GOD? Sometimes its jst a test frm GOD or nature, to test ur strength, ur toughness n ur willingness 4 a better life no guy on earth prays to earn 50k a month every body wants to make it but it boils down to if u really want to by show of ur character towards it.
If u like tell me ur father or u gr8 grandfather is rich b4 they met their wives, one of the line of the generatn of ur father must have started frm d bottom. Is jst like saying u must marry a guy earning 10m a month riding rollsroyce b4 u marry him. While ur mother married ur father dat doesnt even have keke napep then.

dont mind that foolish and very poor girl..she is the spirit of poverty herself, anyman that marries such a woman is dammned to chronic poverty and misery..

EggovinMma:
God forbid!
50k salary inside marriage. Na before ooo.But now, I REJECT EVERY SPIRIT OF POVERTY IN MY LIFE.My bible tells me to seek and I shall find, and whatever I bind here on earth shall be bind in heaven. I stand upon the rock of St Peter and I am binding every spirit of poverty in the life of my future husband, every spirit of meagre salary. I lose your hold on that poor future husband of mine.IT SHALL NOT BE MY POTION.50K SALARY KE? Which kind rough play be that?

you are that spirit of poverty you are binding, sorry for any man that will hook up with you as wife, cos once you invade his house with ur chronic poverty spirit, his finances will start to dwindle fast, and eventually he will end up bankrupt and miserable and he will start regreting why he married a human bad luck like you..how much do ur father earn before marrying ur mum, was it up to 50k? And you poor rif raf how much do you make a month? U are here casting and binding urself..

chimkaire:
Why is there so much ado on what ''he'' earns? What does ''she'' earn Abi man be donkey nii
Some ladies who aint working will soon invade this thread with funny replies now. If he earns 50k now doesn't mean it won't increase as time goes on and if it's not okay by your lady, by all means, take a hike

hungry and poor naija girls always nosing around to know how much a man earns, how much do their fathers earn?

eh hee big catch,not kidnapping ordinary citizens that worked out their body to make money, brother to a very corrupt minister of petroleum that syphon billions of naira of our oil wealth and lavish them anyhow she likes, is a good target, those people just hit jackpot..their demands will surely run into hundreds of millions of naira..

cycline404:
Wait o
Was I the only one that noticed it;
The rate of rape. Husband stabbing wife. Wife chopping off joysticks. ..All those information are so high this days. .

What is going on??

retaliation everywhere, due to lies and deceit to each other,betrayal of trust,wickedness, dishonesty,insincererity, heartbreaks,carelessness,joking with peoples feelings anyhow,heartbreaking dissapointments, women dumping men anytime they feel after all the guys sweat,and investments,money,feelings,time and hardwork.men cheating on their wives with anything in skirt..

pretydiva:
I think we all need total deliverance in dis country. Cos m sick n tired of hearing dis kinda news everyday

i tell you man,deliverance cant even solve the problem..

gombe state university is the best enviroment,very clean university in the whole country..

nairalanders una no get eye and judgement, see waiting woman do to fellow woman, because she dey gossip with am, abby chioma never gossip with somebody before, and that chioma na pure animal na why her husband leave am run relocate to abia state, chai see animals,wolfs in human shape, bitting and holding someone lips until it is forcefully severed with lots of blood gushing out which she also tested, men,devil don totally incarnate enter women body, they just walk around in human form,but a demon in disguise,men run for ur dare lives, things have got out of hand,women have gone insane and we cant handle it anymore, this woman no be vampire.

Bonapart:
People are just demonic..... that woman deserve to torture.
Women should learn to stay away from matters that is their concerns.....
Now look wat you did to you.... sorry!

and this is the best thing to do ur fellow women, that chioma na beast..

zinachidi:
some ladies are really fierce,

chai i dy tell you fierce more than wolf..

pretydiva:
Wat is happening 2 our women? Abi antichrist don cm inform of women n we nor no? Dis is getting out of hand..no were is safe. God pls save us frm every evil of life

i dey tell you wahala dy, no be small

owerri imo state is one wicked land, you see all sorts of evil people there, the cannibal otokoto,that killed and maimed thousands of people, storing human parts fresh in refrigerators,carmouflaging with big hotels. He sold human parts and also ate some, child theives, ritual killers , red eye teenage prostitiutes, 12year olds into serious runs girls buisness,fraudsters every where, 419niners,killer prostitiutes, rings that deal in manhood part, and finally very wicked and heartless populace..chai may God have mercy on that evil land where evil is always welcomed..

blackman black heart, devil children, stripping a woman unclad and beating her to death instantly, shows the concentrated wickedness that lives with the people, they think they are better than that child thiefe?noo they are not, they are so wicked and heartless,handing this woman over to the police was the best thing to do., that's why many suffer endlessly and end up miserably in africa, due to wicked heart,then nature rewards us with endless misery and misery and fustration and poverty, and it is a curse on africans till the end of time..blackdevils..

ditossyn:
"Jungle justice" as you call it isn't right but our Police are also funny you know. If d lady had bin handed to the police, I wouldn't be surprised if days latter d kidnapper is seen on d street again... This time around, she'll b back Bold and better!..... I guess some people deserve this "Jungle Justice"

black man na devil