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love has no age barrier, i mingle with 17, 15 and 13year olds,am 30years,but i have my limits with them,but when disscussing with them, i saw that you can still learn a lot from these called youngies,they are easier to talk with, they are more open minded,not yet complicated, they still know what is going on around them very well, and i get lots of secrets about grown up girls from them,and behold at that age they have many wooers on them, they are much more enjoyable to stay with but dont initiate any erotic moves,they are not up to that age.,just catch the happiness they give.older girls are so busy with complications, confusion, messing around with married men,thinking how to play along with multiple boyfriends and men, doing secret and quick abortions, taking birth controll pills, manupulating feelings of different men, so they are wahala to deal with...

SkinnyDude:
i noticed that some guys are now going after under age girls. they have thrown away shame, and no longer hide it.
you see some guys who are above 20, wooing a girl of 15, 16. for what?
guys, where are our pride?
cant they go after their mate?
they keep corrupting these girls, messing with their lives.
and these little girls no longer have respect for elders. you see them shouting at you, talking back at you. why? because some guys have thrown away their self worth.

if you are a guy, and you go after an under age girl. below 18. you are one of the problems we have in this country. and God almighty will visit you with his wrath.

you are very wrong my brother, is not baad for guys over 20 to wooo 15year or 16year olds, but dont go into sex with them,some of them are so well behaved, less complicated and they can give you happiness more than,the grown up girls that have spread their nets to trap money from men near and far,they are so complicated that you just cant deal with them, the only slogan they understand is money and materialism, so many guys in her life that she cant focus on one person,these girls have proven to be very difficult,unstable and hard to stay with, without spending..so dont blame guys..the older a girl gets the more complicated her life gets.

mirexxx:
I really dunno

of course you should know nahh.

MayorNaija:
Fellow Nairalanders,a problem shared they say is a problem half solved,on that faithful morning,my friend left for work in a hurry cuz he was already late,after about thirty minutes he discovered that he was not with his tablet"phone",he had no choice but to go back home to get his phone,on getting home the first thing he discovered was that the door was locked which is unusual at that time of the day as his wife was supposed to be busy preparing the children for school before going to her shop,he rang the door bell but it took sometime for his wife to get the door,even when she did she wasn't her usual self and that raised his suspicion because of what neighbors have been telling him about his wife but he chosed not to believe.
He told his wife that he came back because he forgot his phone,his wife offered to fetch the handset but he followed her inside,the children who ought to hv taken their bath were still sleeping,since it was a room and parlor the guy entered the bedroom and behold the intruder was hiding beside their wardrobe.
without making any trouble he asked the guy to leave his house which he did.
My friend left for work but have not returned to his house till date,my friend always complained of his wife starving him of sex,he also told me that for the five yrs of his marriage his wife has never for once initiated sex,anytime he makes the move she always have one excuse or the other.their marriage is blessed with two kids,a boy and a girl,he has been sending money for the children's upkeep but now his mum and family members are sueing for peace,he said he left his house for the woman because of his children whom he said ll be better taken care of by their mother since they are still very young,he has also vowed never to marry again but now his mother is mounting pressure on him to forgive his wife and go back home,what should he do?go back to his wife or go ahead and get another apartment for himself?the woman in question said it was the devil that pushed her into it but have not shown deep remorse for her action,each time she calls my friend its always about the money for the children's wellfair.
Nairalanders the ball is now in your court,pls matured advice if needed.

of course he should take his kids and start a new home,for his own safety..

nigerian girls suck die, dating a nigerian girl nowadays looks like a very bad thing to do, cos most times at the end,you must regret it,either they bankrupt you or they cheat on you,lie on ur feelings, deceive you, use u as an advantage, or at worst you loose ur life. these girls have lost all values of living,they now live like animals without principles, an average nigerian girl is a home prostititute, they have sworn to the devil never to be able to date one guy at a time, they always double date, sneak around like night snakes from one guys house to the other, what went wrong with naija girls brain and behaviour,this is very disturbing. Look at how this young snake girl have caused untimely and tragic death to this man and has brought misery upon the other,due to her life of cheating and double dating,liees and deceit,which is a terrible curse from the devil onto naija girls. well her hands are stained with blood and blood is so thick that it cant be washed away...she must suffer for it..tufiakwa naija girls are collosal dissapointment to women world wide...

EroticAngelina:
gosh so sad. rip.
quit being jealous, jealousy never brings good things, just sadness.
but what I dnt understand is why the girl will invite a stranger who mistakenly called her into her house??

shut up what is jealousy, when you disaster girls of nowadays have turned into home prostitiutes, you girls have vowed not to be able to date one guy at a time,but always sneaking around like rats with different guys..look at what ur fellow woman cheat have done to these men, she has brought untimely death to one and life of misery to the other..who said women are not devils,then that person is yet inexperienced in this life, her hands are soaked with blood of this young man and blood is so thick that it dosent get washed away..

the problem is tougher beyond the listed facts, women are so stubborn and prone to flaws that, in most cases you spend lots and lots of energy trying to get one simple correction into her rock hard brains, most girls are just incourigible, they just cant change their bad habits, and the more you try to correct them, they get stubborn and some resort to argument,the truth is that u cant change a woman's karacter, so thats why men look for an ok girl with nice qualities..cos women has lots of negeative vices...

Midehi:
guy you nailed it....but why open fowl yansh na.

but also remember guys are not left out from shameful habits too that will make ladies dump them.

on the other hand, if a guy finds out all these habits from his girl, i dont think dumping is the option especially when he truely love the girl, i think he can mould her into good habits...that is a girl who knows what she want in life & adhere to the corrections.

and thats the biggest problem with you girls, u people dont take correction, so thats the worse wahala, were we men go start then?

very good looking,very technical,intelligent, humble,creative, but has a very hard heart, lies a lot, not good in bed, pretends a lot,a serial cheater, and silently wicked..

Princeojua:
Hi Nairalanders. I am a confirm elite of this great forum. I go by the name Sammy.

Last year I packed into a Self-Contained apartment near my school. Opposite me is a wonderful family with two daughters and two sons, with a strict and disciplinarian. father.

I was seating right in my veranda reading because I suppose that's my purpose of being there, when, a young girl of 17years old and in SS3 approached me with an exercise book supposing to be a Maths assignment. I didn't hide the fact that I know nothing about maths. I boldly refused doing the assignment, so she left.

Two days after, she resurfaced with English assignment,and I quickly did justice to it. after the assignment. I didn't know when I said "you're beautiful and I Love you."

She quickly reciprocate in strong affirmation I LOVE YOU TOO. So last week, she came to my house 6days after her menstruation and I had an unprotected sex with her.

Ever since then, my conscience has been disturbing me that the sex may result to pregnancy. Her Dad is a brutal and uncompromising man.

Please what should I do in case anything go wrong? Because I am already giving up on her due to her Dad. she told me today that she feel guilty ever since the day I deflowered her.

Help me out please. I think my Dad will not support me either because he's more brutal than her Dad. God, help me.

you should then be ready to take responsibility of your actions, you disvirgined a young girl, you have damaged the seal God gave her and you have polluted her innocence, you have given her the licence to sin,introduced her into the world,and you have opened a door to many negetative possibilities in her life,your punishment awaits you brother, the best thing to do is to start preparing her as your future wife, that will minimize the punishment a bit, but to dump her for who? And look for another small girl to destroy, your own go worse,heed ma advice..

Krystalxxx:
I'm turning 23 this August, oya....guys kill yourselves and start running after nineteen year olds, mstcheww

The guys on this thread are condemners of women. Even if they see a woman that is saying the truth they won't believe her because they've painted all women blank. Can't kill myself trying to say 'don't generalize' . Have fun with your mindsets

I love kachisbarbie. No ho........no that's, no lez

yes we dont beleive anything again, cos you girls have painted the world red with fierce lies, even God himself dosent trust anything that comes out from you girls deceitful mouth anymore, so dont blame guys...

danielmichael:
I jus reconciled wid ma babe jst yesterday

Now dis same dude will kall her in ma own presence for mre than 5 times and she will b telling me nothing much thay we re friends.
Ok if yu guys re frends,why shud he folow yu up mre than necessary..

God punish all feminine,excluding ma mum..idi0ts

hahahaha, ur girl is a player, she is a chamealeon, the more u look the less u see.. Run in time, before she ruins your life with high voltage liees...

mirexxx:
why would i lie about my age??
dem dey use age collect money for bank
some girls do it sha

liar.

EggovinMma:
Even if you say the truth, some still feels insecure!

and they told you girls that lies will solve the problem?

women immediately after creation choose to blend with satan in eden to badly pollute their spirit, the world is in mishaps, suffering today, for the devastating lies woman told adam and God, which made God so angry that he kept the world under punishment till today..so women are living lies you see walking around, their lies are so smooth and well constructed that it looks like the truth cos it is blended with deceit,these are the qualities inherited from satan, thats why the lie of woman, shatters hearts, devastates the mind, ruin homes and entire families and ends lives..and that is the reason why majority of women ends up in hell...

lagmostkuit:
OP, so u expect us 2 tell u guys everything abi?

yeess the truth shall set you free, have all the liees u girls have fired, made life better for you...

Kachisbarbie:
I don't lie about my age.
Very proud of my age and how far I have come.

Why shall I lie?
Why should he even ask gaan?

Instead of lying, I have a habit of saying "that's classified" or jokingly ask "e concern youuu?"

the lies are just being told to nairalanders, when the claimer say she dosent lie..this girl is what we call a serial liar, meaning that she lies on top of lies..chai girls una bad no be small..

showafrica:
Another lie is...they never had money.

that lie is common with igbo girls, even if they have a million, they swear they dont even have one naira...

MzzTega:
Even guys tell those lies.

nooo, we guys lie carelessly u can easily see clues, but you women lies are perfect and life damaging, your lies are not normal human lies,but they are satan influenced..

EroticAngelina:
some aren't true lala!
everyone tells lies, so we must surely lie.
men lie too, more than women. their lies can even kill.
no offense.

shut up, men lie but with no comparison to women's own, women get intuition to lie from the devil himself, wich makes their lie seems like truth, and blends with deceit.. Satan blends perfectly with the body of a woman thats why women behave satanic...

demons at work, people should be very careful where they go for charms,u step inside very demonic infested shrines,u do the rituals,you have just opened a door way for them to take good positions in ur body..look at how they condemed this young man...

only the gifted eyes like us see, this woman is a witch, that have been trying to seduce this young man,but seeing that her husband is a big barrier to achieve her goals,she quietly eliminated this man,and immediately gave way to the ignorant and very unsuspecting young man to fell into her very deadly trap of untimely death, am afraid the young man is in a big trouble, he has made a convenant with this witch, and she will torment this man's life to misery..

SporaD8:
The guys life is also in danger until someone prove it wrong that the widow is not responsible for her husband's death.

i like ur intelligence brother, you are sharp.this young man just ignorantly fell into the deadly domain of a witch,that silenced his husband, he is in big wahala, he should run to God in time,before his life is completely...

Osyxcel:
In as much as the deed is bad in itself, I don't think there is any implication on that aside that of guilty conscience which has already started disturbing your friend and might last for a while to come

hahahaha u re a carnal man, you dont have eyes, only the ones with the gifted eyes can see that this man just fell into the deadly grips of a witch...

nerodenero:
Something tells me the woman might be responsible for the death of her husband!

of course she is a witch,a very bad one,she is 95% responsible for the man's death.to make way for this stupid and ignorant young man to fall inside the trap of untimely death, and am afraid this guy is in, and she will torment hell out of his life...

omotoyiwa:
They should both confess,three days is just too soon cos am sure they wouldn't av completed d dead husband's burial rites.at least they should av waited til after d burial rites and the mourning period. God can't b happy with dem

you people are not getting the clue here, the woman in question is a very dangerous woman, she is probably a witch, she eliminated her husband just to make way for this senseless guy, he has fallen into the trap, the convenant have been sealed, watch how she will torment this guy's life to misery...

softapple:
TO summarise it, "this woman has been trying to seduce my friend before the death of her husband, eventually when her husband died my friend went to console her three days after but the unthinkable happen, he was seduce by the woman in her room and he had sex with her, mind you it was rainy and people that came to console her have all left except the woman's younger sister who was sleeping in her room based on the heavy downpour. "are there any implications to a guy that had sex with a woman three days after her husband's death or does he need any spiritual cleansing? he is scared for his life but the widow in question is not a little bit scared at all, though she is still young and withouth a child, pls what should my friend do?

chai men dont have self control,he could not decipher that the woman is a witch, and possibly she killed her husband just to get rid of the obstacle, and live her life.the guy of course have had a share in the punishment that will come...

ronald4lif:
What a condition.

She should dump his sorry ass and pursue her career/masters.

Relationship and men/women can wait but career-pursuit waits for no one. Earlier the better.

Should she succeed tomorrow drones of guys will be wrestling to win her love.

Who love don help

shut up a kid like you, what do you know about love...

dre11:
http://www.tribune.com.ng/quicklinkss/converse-with-yemisi/item/33111-i-m-torn-between-him-and-masters-degree

u re 27years and have finished ur university, and u luckily got a guy that is working a good job and is ready to marry you, and why are you so obsessed with masters degree, when you are getting old, you women of nowadays are visionless and have been deillussioned by education and western life, in the fact that you people have lost the values of knowing ur roles as women in this society, dont go and get married stay and do masters degree, after masters degree then u will go and create ur own man to marry, then as for ur mum she has made her own home so listen to her fake and unreal prophecies that he is not ur man, she should then go and create ur man for you, you women are ur own worst enemies, go and futher ur masters degree..after then you marry ur masters degree certificate...

Blackett:
[color=#150000]Are you jealous of my relationship? [/color]

who is jealous of ur relationship? Do you think you are really into one?

Yomieluv:
Fiance has habit of not allowing me to sleep,except she's ready to sleep..she will be blowing air to my ears to disturb me..

She also like clinging to TV remote,so I won't change channels,that made me bought TV to the bedroom,but at times,I prefer staying at the sitting room..

Aside that,she's a lovely person to be with,she doesn't hold grudge with me at all..just a simple "sorry",she's back to her normal self..I love her so so much.

i feel you bro..

Rexnegro:
Mine is she no sabi ride n suck my dicck , and she talk too much .

shut up your very dirty vulgar mouth, riding and sucking ur dick is ur problem, what about if ur sister does it to another man, that is not her husbant, will u be happy?you are one rotten and senseless guy without home training...idiot