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ronald4lif:


Depending on the income of her job and if she intends resuming her studies in the next 0-3years, in which time she'll be required to nurse a baby. That's if she isn't a graduate already though.

You're unemployed, with uncertainties on when you could secure a job. I really don't know the exact circumstance you are and your plans in the next few years, especially the plans of your girlfriend. However, if the odds are strongly against keeping the pregnancy and with difficulties of putting up with the outcome of it, I will advise you consider the D&C option. But this is me, follow your convictions.

Karlman:
I need some sound advice from sound minds. My girlfriend is three weeks pregnant as I am typing to you. From the depth of my heart and soul I want to keep the pregnancy but I am unemployed and really broke. And when I think of my financial status and what would be required to nurse and deliver a babe, I am tempted to think of doing the unthinkable. But I am so drawn to this pregnancy and the baby in it. The way it came to me and the time it came to me and how I can already feel its presence even when its only a three week old cluster of blood, left me in perpetual amazement. This is not the first time a girlfriend would be pregnant for me, but never at any of the times have I felt as connected with them as I feel with this particular one. In the past cases I have always done the otherwise and moved on without blinking an eye but now I can't even lift a finger against this child. But how will I weather the storm of unemployment+pregnant babe+baby on the way? Already I can't sleep no more, staying up all night and day thinking on how to get all the miles covered.

Thanks for your time!

EggovinMma:
The economy is bad.I think nigerian guys wants to settle, just that the economy is really not pleasant.

StealthIdeals:
Pride and 21st century syndrome.

walexGodson:
Girls self too like shakara

dovelike:
I think the main reason is that most of the men are in prison.

Enegod:
That's because men are scarce
Polygamy can solve the problem

nzeaji:
The problem is, marriage is not for everyone.

Our culture just makes it seem that way.

The same bible that says multiply and be fruitful (in genesis) also says in 1 Corinthians 7:9 "if they cannot contain, let them marry....."
This means marriage is optional. If you can "contain", why worry about marriage?

lolaxavier:
Let me check myself first...sorry i don forget say i no be woman...

tiamiyukunle69:
Insightful

countsparrow:
Yukkkkkk!!!

Dis topic just fkuced up my meal...


FTC se sweet me like mad #dancing to Falila Ketan

naijainfogalery:
educative but mehn how am i going to eat this evening now without thinking of red flag

naijainfogalery:
educative but mehn how am i going to eat this evening now without thinking of red flag

LordEmperoris1:
kk

KINGTELLER:
God really took time to create Man..I just imagine how women cope... It is well with the female folks

seedorfg:
too much of phuckong

Xb4Real:
Damn it! una no want make person chop dis night, abi?

Pinkiedearie:
That's what we beautiful babes face everyday..hehehe..how we go do na!..