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smsdigito:
You only saw a lady's pix you have started giving pass mark. The same fault you may have committed when starting the initial relationship which ended up that way is the same fault you have started with again. Your pass mark to the girl on facebook simply means you are looking for only outward appearance.

For peace of mind you need good character and trust must be inclusive when searching for a wife.
If i were you, i will not even give it a thought because you have said it that you dont trust that lady . For all i care she could be up to something fishy. Why not disconnect totally from her and anything that has to do with her for the sake of the peace of your life and that of your future family.
My opinion.

ivyghel:
I think you should get to know the lady in question, you might like her and you might not, your ex might not have any negative intentions, she might just be trying to make up to you for her infidel acts

tunmininu:
Hey guys,i don't really understand u, Are u talking about men 30s or big daddies of about 50 and above?
I think it all depends on what we want.For me,my boyfriend is 9 years older than i am and we are getting on well.A guy of my mate might not be able to pamper me and care for me the way he is doing.He drops me off at work everyday and he finds time to come and pick me off sometimes.He advises me on somethings that has to do with my future.He's always there to give a helping hand.
I doubt if a guy of my mate could reason in that direction.

oakestiara:
Well i need some advice. I am takling to an older man at the moment. He is a great guy and just sweet, funny caring, and so forth. We have so much in common to. From music to foods it is just a great thing to me. And as young and crazy as this sounds, when I am around him I feel natural I feel like myself. I feel on top of the world. He really makes me happy. This is our situation though. i am 21 years old and he is 41 years old. He has 3 children also and has been previously married. All those things I cast aside because that is his past and everyone has one. He is a teacher and a part time musician. I am a model and a student in college. People may judge us on the outside because I am young and attractive and he is older (but he is attractive too! ). But I am concerned. I know that I have asked him if he was okay anbd happy dating me, and he said yes. I beileve him too. I just wonder if it is worth it to continue to keep dating. I know he is 20 years my senior but I care about him and I think its worth it. I think he is worth it. Can i get some advice?>

glimpse33:
there is this girl named Anita that I was dating for two months, in may 2014. immediately she found out I was ibo, she said she hates my tribe with passion, that all we care about is money..money & said it was over. I begged her, that I 'm not like that, besides I was born in Edo state to Ibo parents. eventually she left

l began working hard, got employed at Hi tech construction company, worked there for six months and I finally hammered... got a new apartment, new car & I became the talk of the town.. *not proud*

One Saturday morning, I went to buy airtime, I saw Anita's parent crying and begging their landlord, I went closer , saw some boys throwing out their properties, I asked the landlord why, he said they can't pay their two years rent which was 160k, I rushed home signed a check gave it to the landlord, they returned back their loads and everybody was looking at me. since that day, Anita parents have been calling me their son, and Anita won't let me be. its either she's the one calling, knocking at the door begging me. I was like okay fine, I forgive you. But, she wants us to be together AGAIN...

All I want from you nairalanders is your Advice.. cos I am planning on getting married this year. I need the right woman. THANKS

esoboy875:
Sori oh........ because I must trust my incoming wife anytym, anywher nd anyday. Dere mayb a lot of women outsider dere bt dere is only one woman 4 me. So others may nd can disappoint bt she (my incoming wife) can't. Tnks

emusmith:
In this part of the world most especially, ladies are epitomized as "weaklings" and "fragile" and that is not totally true...

What a Guy can do, a Lady can do better is still in effect... You may not realize that but I know many a mighty men who have been brought down by some of these "weak" young ladies...Do you still call them weak?

I must confess, ladies are very crucial to us as young men .

Below are some reasons to validate my claim...



1. Ladies bring love to our world.

Ladies are better lovers than guys. This attitude in them began from childhood. Almost every lady have a love song in her phone. Without them, guys just don't really care... When a woman loves, she loves for real.



2. They help us share what we have.


You may be complaining that your girl is asking too much but if she goes...you'll miss her. Apart from your family, who else should you share your money with? Your girl! Every "broke guy" has someone he's asking "o baby, how you dey? You don chop? Make I send you airtime?"



3. The physique of a woman is unique- It attracts a man anytime


You would agree with me that there is just something attractive about the body of a woman. Many have been involved in ghastly accidents for sighting butts...It's funny but true ... Even the boobs sef... They both thrill men... Why? I dunno...Imagine life without those twins


4. Their emotional side complements a guy's logical side.


Men are too serious. Them too dey consider pros and cons...whereas, women are outgoing and pleasurable. They love romance and fun. This boring part of a guy OFTEN show up when he becomes responsible in marriage. He needs a lady to " Cool His Temper".



5. A lady's excessive talking makes the home lively.


You may nickname her "Nag" but in reality she is the reason you're never bored...She tells you everything that happened to her from 8AM to 5PM at your question, "How was your day?"- What other NEWS do you need? LoL...If you have a woman colleague as a friend, forget it, her husband knows all about you...She has told her...She loves him that's why...



6. Only a Lady can make an Old man feel like a young man once again.


How do they do it, I cannot tell. LoL...I've never been "old" but it's quite wonderful.



7. Ladies are perfect at multiplying what you give to them.


You show a lady Care, She gives her home address. You give her, "I love You", many give you at least a Kiss, some it's sex right away ... She could go an extra mile just to prove her love to you... IN A RIGHT ENVIRONMENT, a lady will passionately do so much more for the man she loves.

Is that not the definition of a goddess?


Ladies are very very crucial in the life of man. We can't do without 'em... They add taste to the world... "Variety is the spice of life"- this I believe is linked up with ladies.



Happy Ladies' Month

esoboy875:
I can't stay because my wife is my back bone. Stayin witout her is lik punishing myself witout ar present. I pray 4 God to help me wit an understdin woman.

pumacy:
Hey Folks

Pls i need your help. I got married few months ago and its really beautiful, i'm enjoying every minute of it. To be straight, my husband loves sex but he doesn't last long. He barely last 3 mins and it takes him another 2 hours to be fit again. I love making love with him too but usually i don't get satified because he doesn't last long. Cheating is not even an option, solving the present issue is priority. I'm in my late twenties while he is in his early thirties. I have been a guest for long but his issue made me create an account. Pls what do you think i should do to help him? Matured responses pls. Thanks in advance

elantraceey:
What's the essence of this revelation now?



Sympathy votes??