Jasperwhizz:

There is always room for improvement. Inspire her for her to improve.

ronald4lif:
Hmmm



As for a lady taking a broke guy as he is; tough tough one. Every one wants financial security, comfort and a better life. The over 7billion people worldwide are exploring ways to better their lives. So to expect someone, male or female, to consider a man who can't guarantee her at least the basic needs of life is not an easy one, especially when she knows she has the abilities to attract someone better.

Dewze:


Shouldn't a lady guarantee herself the basic needs of life? I mean, your parents should ve done all that until you are matured enough to do it yourself. You should not expect to be taken care of all your life.

emusmith:


...I love the way this lady put words together- touching different parts simultaneously with discretion.

Nice point @ the bolded.

ayogabriel:


Unaa hear? CHANGE, make una vote buhari ooo

queridasally:
I'm new to Naira land, and I'm really trying to grapple with all the technicalities seeing there is no beginners guide or Nairaland for dummies kind of thing ,but so far its been heartwarming seeing its a breeding ground for intellectuals...but it amazes me that there are people who still bring their negativity on here...reading through this post and comments I'm appalled that there are people replying negatively at the writer, but equally I'm thrilled at the positive responses too.

buygala:
Very funny... 'Take me as I am'

Do dudes look like Jesus Christ who is your Lord and Personal saviour?

Abi you be non-tested phone for Computer Village, wey person go just buy come go pray for Oluwa say make e work well?

Or do we look like your parents who have a moral duty to shower you with 'unconditonal love'? ( if there is anything like that)

Girls should just stop playing the victim, and morally blackmailing us into buying a totally worthless or even toxic commodity ... WORK ON YOURSELF TO MAKE YOURSELF WORTH THE MAN YOU DESIRE

MEN ARE NEITHER SCRAP DEALERS NOR SCAVENGERS

ronald4lif:
Hmmm

I think any lady that says such is trying to convey a certain message, that she might not be your first choice, but she's a great choice.

emusmith:
I happened to be "counselling" a junior colleague at my workplace, relationship wise. She had earlier complained to me how her mates not as "beautiful" as she is were getting married while no one was interested in having anything longterm with her.

We got to the part where she always keeps her face like an "angry bird"- frowning mode.

I was like, " You should smile often"- She quickly replied, " That's how my face is. If he is really my husband, he won't mind that- He will take me as I am". I hurriedly said, OK.

Then, it got me thinking deep.

Of course, I'm going to take "Her" for who she is but... I sincerely asked myself these questions

1. isn't there a room for improvement?

2. Could her maintaining a "too serious" attitude all the time be a reason she's still single?

3. How has the " I won't change for any guy" helped her these years? Instead, she is been seen as a "bleeping tool".



I truly want to know



What's Your Take?

Qiewz11:
Enu.smith and partner in crime, tosyne2much are ladies' albatross. What did they do to you guys? Na wa o

Anyway, back to matter. It means you should take her for her personality and not her character. Like if she frowns her face, you should take her for a soldier not as an angry person! Who would want to date a soldier? Enusmith, you?

ayogabriel:
Its people like the girl that think there problem is spiritual. Its just a simple thing, most guys are already half in love with a girl that smiles at them. its a pity most girls don't think and check themselves. About same reason why I broke up with my gf yesterday, they don't think, and they expect we guys to do that for them. Imagine a gf telling her bf, see there is nothing you can do to me that will surprise me, it can't be more than what all my ex did to me. We should always learn to choose our words when using them.