₦airaland Forum

OREMUSSANCTUS:
go club and died, well na God know where she go dhe by now. buh if i shld judge dem, i doubt if heaven sure, "thous must not judge". rest in peace. lesson of d day, live ya life as if ya will die d next minute so as not to be caught unaware

mixedgene:
This is serious and got me thinking lately, can a normal bloke with an active sexual life do without touching a wowan for atleast one full month and still maintain his sanity without distractions whatsoever? if yes, please what is the secret?

candid opinion is welcome

charijee:
Men started the cheating game.....ladies are only reciprocating

SeverusSnape:
It could only be punch or Sahara desert.
There is no looming darkness, We are securing the country for a more credible election.
We are moving forward
Shame to the propagandists!
We don't need negative change, we need positive transformation.

J12:
Cameroon is not far, or you can go to Liberia if you don't understand french. Because as e be so, it is GEJ till 2019 - hatred, frustration, poverty and sorrow may be bring your life to an abrupt end before then.

smsdigito:
You only saw a lady's pix you have started giving pass mark. The same fault you may have committed when starting the initial relationship which ended up that way is the same fault you have started with again. Your pass mark to the girl on facebook simply means you are looking for only outward appearance.

For peace of mind you need good character and trust must be inclusive when searching for a wife.
If i were you, i will not even give it a thought because you have said it that you dont trust that lady . For all i care she could be up to something fishy. Why not disconnect totally from her and anything that has to do with her for the sake of the peace of your life and that of your future family.
My opinion.

ivyghel:
I think you should get to know the lady in question, you might like her and you might not, your ex might not have any negative intentions, she might just be trying to make up to you for her infidel acts

tunmininu:
Hey guys,i don't really understand u, Are u talking about men 30s or big daddies of about 50 and above?
I think it all depends on what we want.For me,my boyfriend is 9 years older than i am and we are getting on well.A guy of my mate might not be able to pamper me and care for me the way he is doing.He drops me off at work everyday and he finds time to come and pick me off sometimes.He advises me on somethings that has to do with my future.He's always there to give a helping hand.
I doubt if a guy of my mate could reason in that direction.

oakestiara:
Well i need some advice. I am takling to an older man at the moment. He is a great guy and just sweet, funny caring, and so forth. We have so much in common to. From music to foods it is just a great thing to me. And as young and crazy as this sounds, when I am around him I feel natural I feel like myself. I feel on top of the world. He really makes me happy. This is our situation though. i am 21 years old and he is 41 years old. He has 3 children also and has been previously married. All those things I cast aside because that is his past and everyone has one. He is a teacher and a part time musician. I am a model and a student in college. People may judge us on the outside because I am young and attractive and he is older (but he is attractive too! ). But I am concerned. I know that I have asked him if he was okay anbd happy dating me, and he said yes. I beileve him too. I just wonder if it is worth it to continue to keep dating. I know he is 20 years my senior but I care about him and I think its worth it. I think he is worth it. Can i get some advice?>