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uniqueval: Were you crying while you were creating this thread? You gave me an extra time reading and trying to comprehend your text...BTW, If you don't have any long term/future plans for the chic, let her be! You made mention of compatibility. There obviously isn't any, since your reason for refusing to commit yourself is because of some of her shortcomings that you can not accommodate. So stop subscribing to her channel. Subscribe to one that interests you. #lifeIsShort
On a last note - statistically, female introverts make perfect wife when it comes to dealing with fidelity in marriage.

introverts makes perfect wife 4real? I think i've got 2 start working on her as regards dis...tnx. Bt if i may ask on a vry gud part:wat gav u stress in d write up 2 undrstnd?

y-fo:
is it cuz u haven't tasted her cheery yet and so u feel she's not your type...my guy, that is a wife material (unless she's hiding her kinky side )

or it might be that u an introvert also and u guys being together is kinda boring....@ the end of the day, the heart wants want the heart wants....listen to it.

accepted! she's a wife material but can u marry al d wives materials? I hear u say no! It's a particular wife dat u'll marry so dats y i'm taking my time bro.

broda i graduated 2010 n i'm working by God's she graduated n served 2012/2013 so b4 i talked abt marriage i'm of age. Jus give ur opinion tnx

sexytabhi: different strokes for different folks,it seems you aint ready for a relationship yet.

wat do u min bro.?

sexytabhi: Pls what do u mean by `shes not the outwaard type` @op
Exactly what kind of wwoman do you want?

i min she's an introvert n i luv an extrovert.as 4 d kind of woman i wnt,d type dat clicks wit most of my constitutn

25omega: poster

most of the time its good to marry the person you are friends with first. In your case, you should set the girl free because you have finally gotten some azz from her and now you have conquered the mountain and now you want off. just set her free and dont worry about hurting her feelings because if you string her along, you will be doing more harm to her than giving her a chance to find real love

sincerely broda i havnt slept wit dat lady though we hav had some smooching in d past bt nt of recent.she has alwz said dat 'dat guy dat disflowered her wud b d first n d last until she marries' u knw? We've bin for more than 2years now bt no sex has alwz bin her slogan even wen i wud try 2 initiate 1.

Okija_juju: Mr. Edwards

Why 'dont you love her to the point of marrying her', whatever that is?!

Is she ugly or what?

no! She's ok bt 1 of d things is dat she's nt dis outward type n over possessive too.

she was my classmate in high school by den we neva knew each other until we met in d university. We became best of frndz dat even her frndz used 2 tel her dat we were compartible n dat she shud go into an affair wit me...it turned out dat in her year 3 my departmental guy dis flowered her n shortly dia relatnshp crashed. I became her shoulder 2 cry on til we startd an affair due 2 our constant closeness n d topic we regularly discussed. She is a decent gal,God fearing,infact a 'virtuous woman'bt i jus dnt love her to d point of marriage. Her romantic style doesnt suit or click wit mine.even wen she asked me where we r heading 2, i had 2 tel her plainly dat we r jus frndz. because of how most ladies r i'm afraid if i might meet som1 lik her again if i let her go. Bt how can i luv her to d extent of marrying her? Pls advice

turl: poor guy..you probably get an erection when the wind blows.
The potential children you're talking about will always be there as long as you're capable of producing semen.

There's nothing wrong with beating your meat g, grab you some vaseline and knock yourself out.

dere is somthg wrng wit masturbatn my broda. Read Romans 1 to d end n u wil c where it stated dat because of dia continuous evil act, God left dem n dey became conscienceless(reprobate minds) n invent new ways of sinning(masturbation one of d new ways we sin).N/B:i jus paraphrased d verses in dat Roman.think abt dis man!

alutacontinua: Might be a psychological problem. Maybe a form of ANXIETY DISORDER. you might wanna consider seeing a psychologist.

thnk u broda. How can i meet 1 of dis professionals?

bellong: You have issues with self-esteem.. Work on it.. Read this webpage for more...

http://www.treatmentsolutions.org/Home/RisingAboveLowSelfEsteem/tabid/645/Default.aspx

Bellong tnx a million i visited ur site n it added some facts 2 my life. Thnk u

hapi new mnth 2 al
belove nairalanders. Pls
i hav dis problm of
being 2 nervous
(shy,timid,poor self
image) or wateva it is calld dat i begin 2 hate
myslf abt d whole mess.
My hrt is lik it wil burst
out wen i'm wit
ppl.Atimes i hav a
genuine thing 2 say infront of even my best
frndz or colleagues bt
dis ugly stuff keeps
staring at me. because
of my longing 4
perfection i tend 2 mak 2 many mistakes in d
way i act,d thngs i say
etc. Can u imagine me
calling d customer care
line n wen d man picked
i became too nervous. Am i sick? Wats wrong
wit me? Atimes i even
feel lik commiting
suicide...even in d
university days it
deprived me of so many opportunities.in my
relatnshps,career n
religon. d whole thng
hav limited me so
much! Pls pray 4me n
help me wit ur advices tro d
email:thewordisworking@gm
God bless u

hapi new mnth 2 al belove nairalanders. Pls i hav dis problm of being 2 nervous(shy,timid,poor self image) or wateva it is calld dat i begin 2 hate myslf abt d whole mess. My hrt is lik it wil burst out wen i'm wit ppl.Atimes i hav a genuine thing 2 say infront of even my best frndz or colleagues bt dis ugly stuff keeps staring at me. because of my longing 4 perfection i tend 2 mak 2 many mistakes in d way i act,d thngs i say etc. Can u imagine me calling d customer care line n wen d man picked i became too nervous. Am i sick? Wats wrong wit me? Atimes i even feel lik commiting suicide...even in d university days it deprived me of so many opportunities.in my relatnshps,career n religon. d whole thng hav limited me so much! Pls pray 4me n help me wit ur advices tro d email:thewordisworking@gmail.com. God bless u

chukkydee: It took me 3mnths(last Oct 4rm my June P.O.P).. Got a contract jab, stayed 4 6mths, left 4 anoda n still job hunting 4 d 'dream job'. @ All, jst start 4rm smwhr... Dis wan wey babes dey port na wa o. Hp my own wont try it as d dream jab neva land.. God dey!

dear bro.,any lady dat cant endure wit u now wud destroy u/family 2moro. just thnk God if she does.same wit ur buddies dat look down on u. God wil do it 4 al d 'Jabez' in d house

albacete: thank God for "ur" life. This is way better than saying "my friend", then "he" broke out from dat life. Like some Nlndrs would want us to believe.
Na baba God do am for u, no be by ur power.

yeah! I tried it myself in d past it didnt work until i invited God. Wit God al things r possible.

nelklyn: Truths be told mast**batn feels real good but I still feel it's immoral and one of the devil's 21st century tools and 95% of guys and ladies do it, you can pretend all you want. Don't judge yet, just read on.
I started mast**btng way too early like around 13. And by the time I was 17 I had up to 5 girlfriends if i count correctly and more gals still flocking around, Hey! What can I say, I mean i'm really handsome. Well all that didn't stop me from helping myself with authentic vaseline. Got to higher institution where I met this very beautiful girl that physically suits my requirements it still didn't stop me and plus the girl enjoyed self-servicing too more of like a "we did it together thing", dated more girls that still didn't change a thing. Then at a point I tried restraining myself several times but after like say 2 or 3 weeks I always wound up on the same top notch.
Well all that said and done, I've been clean for 4 months but mehn! It feels so difficult restraining especially since i've not had s*x for 6 months now. I'm always trying so hard to keep my eyes off beautiful girls so that I don't even start thinking of having s*x let alone start thinking of self-servicing and believe me these girls are making it so difficult for me.
I had to put this details here because some guy claimed he hasn't done it, which is hard to believe because it's a legend for most guys, then another said slow love making(i've had it all, slow and passionate, fast, rough and hard put it anyway you want it) and someone said getting married is the solution that's a totally wrong advice...marriage doesn't change anything and marriage isn't just about s*x. Another guy put up "Gen.38:9-10" Onan wasn't mast**btng he actually went in to his brother's wife and spilled it on the ground, so that doesn't justify that the Bible said anything about mast**batn. It's still not even in the ten commandments, which is one of the good reasons why I think the devil is advancing with technology.
Mast**btn might be good health-wise, reducing stress just as s*x does, being in your fantasy world with the most gorgeous lady that you can't have, not spending money and time wooing a lady and all that. But wait Oh! (guys) DON'T WE SEE THE POTENTIAL CHILDREN WE KILL?
It really takes God's GRACE, serious discipline and being occupied to overpower it's cravings.
I believe it is immoral.
Emmm! Judges what got y'all to say?...lol

bro. Ur spot on! i did al wat u mentiond man. Som myopic 'boys' think in d box dat 1 cant brk out of masturbatn bcoz of dia idiosyncratic view. Bro u can b wat u wnt by God's grace.

Revolva: omo @op lets chec ya fone...if we wont see some goo hardcore mojo..shit..ol boy make person hear word...jare

bro.jus because many guys n ladies r porn fans doesnt min dat d rest does. Atimes ppl lik u mak me doubt if al humans hav brains.

coolebux: Still struggling with myself to stop masturbating but to no avail still need divine intervention though

mayb we shud kip in touch n c how God wud use me 2 change ur mindset bro. It's possible by his grace. U can send me mail tro:thewordisworking@gmail.com
N/B:anybody wit questns n enquiries shud send their msgs 2 dis email ID,God bless u real gud!

nanizle: I thought pastor chris said masturbation is not a sin??
Anyway congrats.

is a sin my brother! If som1 intruded ur room 2 meet u masturbating how wud u n d person feel?

@all sensible nairalanders:tnx 4 magnifying God wit me. 2u out dere stil addicting 2 1 sin or d other dere's a way out:study d word n pray 4 God's touch n it wil surprise u how free u'll b. Incase ur stil arguing abt masturbation being a sin or nt, jus read Romans 1 vs 1 to d end n u wil c how people wil invert new ways of sinning which masturbation is 1 of them. God bless u n i pray 4 every lost soul out dere dat God wil deliver dem 2c d light. Amen!

Alwaystrue: @edwardjr,
Praise the Lord who delivered you from that stronghold. Gradually as we grow more in Christ, we tend to drop such habits that do not reflect Christ in us and grow more and more in perfection. I really rejoice with you and respect your courage to testify even here. May you grow more and more in grace to say No to any other ungodliness in your lives.

Alwaystrue u r right on..! We al nid 2 grow in grace. Tnx man!

obi4eze: Thank God for u. Keep sharing the testimony to the glory of God and shame of the devil. I believe that God will use you to rescue others that are bound by this evil yoke. God bless you sir.

yes Obi bro.! I perceive God wnts me 2 do exploit in d areas of bad habits n by His grace i wil do just dat! Tnx a million

hakunajay: God be praised forever, for it is only Him that can deliver one from the shackles of the spirit of masturbation...

yeah brother! So many men n women r enslaved by porn n masturbation bt God is merciful to deliver al. Amen!

I started masturbating from my school(boarding) when i didn't even know what it was til i went for nysc.

I saw a student who was older than us bet that he could bring out sperm and i was very interested to see it atleast for the first time...The rest are stories but right from then i masturbated often even when i had girlfriends it didnt stop this mess.

I even vowed atimes,stopped for awhile yet went back to my vomit. At some point the devil whispered to me that masturbation is not a sin after all the word is not in d bible. I still prayed until i heard a pastor on the radio confessing that he has been struggling with this habit even as he is married and he needs help.

Then it dawned on me that the earlier i stopped,the better for me! Another pastor referred to Romans 1 and God used that book to renew my mind forever and by God's grace i broke out from that chain and i detest it with passion.

Glory 2 God!

russianmob27: hope she does not go back to pornography with her excess libido

we al at 1 time or d other had habits dat made us mad...bt d gud news is as we keep fighting in our minds God delivers. I hav bin there b4, it took me yrs 2 brk out 4rm masturbation. Glory 2 God!

solidbroda: Annual brainwashing

I'M SORRY?

Dear Nairalanders, why do higher instituitions hide students transcript even after dey might hav gotten their certificate? Why don't these schools giv transcripts directly to student? It's amusing to me! Ur tot pls.

Dear Nairalanders, i have been wondering why Unis. and Polys. Do hide academic transcripts of their students even after giving them their certificate. Pls ur views/opinions are welcome. Thank U!

God bless nairalanders,al ur contributions were helpful. I've bin asked 2 com 2 d police station again on tuesday,i'll wait 4 al their game 2b over b4 my next action. Thnk a zillion!

Reuben.Abati:
Damn!

Is he stable now?

yeah by God's grace he is ok now

God bless al wonderful nairalanders al ur contributions were very helpful. D police said i shud b bck on tuesday so, i'll wait 4 dem 2 finish al their game b4 i decide on d next action. Thank u all

pls Nairalanders

what would you do if police broke into your house by 1.20am to arrest you and your dad alone, because boy was be-headed last month and the body dumped in a primary sch.in your neighbourhood?

N/B:
1.they said they were petitioned and that the commissioner of police said they were not doing anything about the incident(murder case)

2.They said they were on mass arrest but 2 other tenants were not arrested in my compound apart from about 10 other innocent people living close.

3. We were taken into the cell directly without writing our statements and were kept in cell till 9am

4. the police collected 10,000 for our bail(me and my dad).

5. It was after all this that we were now asked to write our statements.

6. My dad was under medications,sick yet he was put into d cell without clothes to cover cold and it triggered his BP which was very high.

I want to sue!