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Re: How God Delivered Me From Self-service by Ezegozie(m): 10:20pm On Aug 11, 2013
why are most nigerians religion-maniacs and always live in guilt over nothing,

there is no authentic biblical or medical back-up to prove that masturbation is a sin.

Someone quotated Gen 38.9-10, but it shud be noted that the quotation isn't saying anything about masturbation. What Onan simply practised was COI.TUS INTERUPTUS and never masturbation. coitus interuptus is a situation whereby the man withdraws his penis frm the vagina just before he ejaculates to avoid getting her pregnant. So God killed Onan because he didn't want his brother's lineage to exist.
So save me the quotation and qouate something specific.

I also read where someone says if someone comes into the room where u are masturbating, wont u be ashamed?
Well there is what we call privacy. Sometimes we need privacy. ok let me ask U a question, making love with ur wife is not a sin but when somebody intrudes into ur room when u are having s.ex with ur wife, u will be ashamed. So we all needs privacy attimes.

Back 2 the OP, masturbation is good because it prevents U frm commiting fornication and adultery which are all sins. So i think U shud be giving testimony when u are delivered of the spirit of fornication and not when U are deliverd of masturbation.

Now let me ask U, if ur single and dont masturbate for about 2yrs, how will you resists the temptation of fornication when it comes?

for anyperson here who thinks those dat masturbate shud be hanged, who among you can vow never to have masturbated since he or she was born.

Even married couple masturbate. A wife can masturbate her husband vice versa.

So spare me the trash

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Re: How God Delivered Me From Self-service by Ezegozie(m): 10:26pm On Aug 11, 2013
must every post be moderated, seriously this is becoming too irritating for confort now tell me how anyperson can understand what i said. hYPOCRITES
Re: How God Delivered Me From Self-service by HezronLorraine(m): 10:37pm On Aug 11, 2013
ajf: You are gay nah. I'm not surprised, you know nada..........
daftamarian.please preach.I'm no atheist.very religious than your imaginations.I'll stand by the truth and try to correct every misconceptions.
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Re: How God Delivered Me From Self-service by kolamilan(m): 10:45pm On Aug 11, 2013
i thank God for your life.
Re: How God Delivered Me From Self-service by jerk: 10:48pm On Aug 11, 2013
nanizle: I thought pastor chris said masturbation is not a sin?? undecided undecided undecided undecided
Anyway congrats. grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: How God Delivered Me From Self-service by chrisja(m): 11:26pm On Aug 11, 2013
Sisi_Kill: The words SELF SERVICE just takes away the seriousness of the post.

Self Service. ..what is he, a gas station? cheesy cheesy
RofLol, was waitin for dis kind of response....lol
Re: How God Delivered Me From Self-service by lawizle(m): 11:42pm On Aug 11, 2013
olivegirl: My mind was on worshiping God at home, Pls call the real name next time. The act of doing it is self fish,. This act so wicked becos it will look at your wife face and said I can do without you. Very possessive . We are in charge of our self

Y won't it be selfish to you..so d@ use yur abuna to control yur husband abi... grin
olivegirl: My mind was on worshiping God at home, Pls call the real name next time. The act of doing it is self fish,. This act so wicked becos it will look at your wife face and said I can do without you. Very possessive . We are in charge of our self

Y won't it be selfish to you..so d@ use yur abuna to control yur husband abi...
Re: How God Delivered Me From Self-service by Nobody: 11:49pm On Aug 11, 2013
im masturbatting right now... undecided
Re: How God Delivered Me From Self-service by Virick(m): 12:15am On Aug 12, 2013
M**turbat**n!!! NL- Quit the Hypocrisy and stop changing the word.

Here is a question, if it is "bad" then why did 'God' "Create" it?

Also, how can something that feels so divinely 'good' be "sin"?

The 's*xu*l urge' is a God-endowed attribute that exists in all nature. It ranges from the mineral thru to the animal and human kingdoms of creative expression. It is thus divine - the feeling of s*xu*l arousal and subsequent voidance of s*xu*l strain.

It is my opinion that it is how we handle it that makes it an ordinary 3-second casual experience or a spiritually uplifting one, a coffee or a lovingly made multivitamin. Unto those who may laugh at the concept of M**turbat**n, remember that there are very few people in this world who understand a thing about true love-making. Most else is just 'mutual M**turbat**n' between partners - bang, bang, bang!!!

OP, if u feel like u are obsessed with M**turbat**n, consider it is ur perception of its 'sinfulness' which pushes u back to it again and again. It is human nature to gravitate towards things which it perceives to be a taboo. Perhaps it is better to stop fighting it and see how it can be used positively. Don't ask me how. wink

Also, consider that u may need to learn the art of true 'love making' with a partner of the same octave or 'frequency'. I am tempted to conjecture that ur s*xu*l experiences with partners are mechanical and bang-bang-ish! if i am right, i would say, take it slow, take it eaaasy...

Learn to accept and make s*x a divine instrument of unity and oneness with an 'equal mate' of yours and not just an casual means to relief thru an explosively quick climax! A slow steady eruption with self or together with your partner keeps tensions voided for much longer periods. It uplifts u spiritually as 'God', who most of u claim calls it SIN, is there at the very point of Climax. Did u know that?

My 2 cents.


edwardjr: I started masturbating from my school(boarding) when i didn't even know what it was til i went for nysc.

I saw a student who was older than us bet that he could bring out sperm and i was very interested to see it atleast for the first time...The rest are stories but right from then i masturbated often even when i had girlfriends it didnt stop this mess.

I even vowed atimes,stopped for awhile yet went back to my vomit. At some point the devil whispered to me that masturbation is not a sin after all the word is not in d bible. I still prayed until i heard a pastor on the radio confessing that he has been struggling with this habit even as he is married and he needs help.

Then it dawned on me that the earlier i stopped,the better for me! Another pastor referred to Romans 1 and God used that book to renew my mind forever and by God's grace i broke out from that chain and i detest it with passion.

Glory 2 God!
Re: How God Delivered Me From Self-service by Kairoseki77: 12:25am On Aug 12, 2013
LMAO!
Re: How God Delivered Me From Self-service by slap1(m): 12:47am On Aug 12, 2013
Self service makes you independent and self-employed, which is the way forward in Nigeria. (Unless it means another thing)

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Re: How God Delivered Me From Self-service by slap1(m): 12:49am On Aug 12, 2013
SwTonia: Na wan aboki 4 ma area surprise me, he cums 2 ma backyard nd do d self service tin til dat akamu go comot.i watch d whole show sha bt e no funny oh.
Stingy Viewer.
Re: How God Delivered Me From Self-service by slap1(m): 12:52am On Aug 12, 2013
slap1: Stingy Viewer.
I didn't write Viewer, I wrote v0yeur. Even goal.com and dailymail writes it without sensoring. Don't limit people's vocabulary, Nairaland.
Re: How God Delivered Me From Self-service by laprince(m): 7:32am On Aug 12, 2013
[quote author=scientology]it will surely come back....the solution is for you to get married .[/qiuote

It wil not surely come back IJN. marriage is never d solution.
Re: How God Delivered Me From Self-service by miky(m): 7:46am On Aug 12, 2013
Is this a joke or am I being punked.. Don't tell me our people are this backward
Re: How God Delivered Me From Self-service by coolebux(m): 7:52am On Aug 12, 2013
Still struggling with myself to stop masturbating but to no avail still need divine intervention though
Re: How God Delivered Me From Self-service by helphelp: 8:29am On Aug 12, 2013
But Pastor Chris said it's not a sin now...

edwardjr: I started masturbating from my school(boarding) when i didn't even know what it was til i went for nysc.

I saw a student who was older than us bet that he could bring out sperm and i was very interested to see it atleast for the first time...The rest are stories but right from then i masturbated often even when i had girlfriends it didnt stop this mess.

I even vowed atimes,stopped for awhile yet went back to my vomit. At some point the devil whispered to me that masturbation is not a sin after all the word is not in d bible. I still prayed until i heard a pastor on the radio confessing that he has been struggling with this habit even as he is married and he needs help.

Then it dawned on me that the earlier i stopped,the better for me! Another pastor referred to Romans 1 and God used that book to renew my mind forever and by God's grace i broke out from that chain and i detest it with passion.

Glory 2 God!
Re: How God Delivered Me From Self-service by edwardjr: 9:41am On Aug 12, 2013
coolebux: Still struggling with myself to stop masturbating but to no avail still need divine intervention though
mayb we shud kip in touch n c how God wud use me 2 change ur mindset bro. It's possible by his grace. U can send me mail tro:thewordisworking@gmail.com
N/B:anybody wit questns n enquiries shud send their msgs 2 dis email ID,God bless u real gud!
Re: How God Delivered Me From Self-service by chrisja(m): 10:19am On Aug 12, 2013
Austeenxx: OP,


I'm so inspired.



I'm on my way to get a carton of vaseline. embarassed
lol, crazyyyyy
Re: How God Delivered Me From Self-service by slowshot: 11:19am On Aug 12, 2013
Am not in full advocate of self servicing but 95% includin boys and gals indulge in it , except from dose dat are nt really into porn or perhaps active in sex.many will claim holier dan thou cos we r nt real to ourselves..dats by d way, am of d opinion dat we shouldnt abuse it if at all we wanna indulge it. Except God intervenes cos it is nt easy.. Nobody holy pass

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Re: How God Delivered Me From Self-service by albacete(m): 11:47am On Aug 12, 2013
edwardjr: I started masturbating from my school(boarding) when i didn't even know what it was til i went for nysc.

I saw a student who was older than us bet that he could bring out sperm and i was very interested to see it atleast for the first time...The rest are stories but right from then i masturbated often even when i had girlfriends it didnt stop this mess.

I even vowed atimes,stopped for awhile yet went back to my vomit. At some point the devil whispered to me that masturbation is not a sin after all the word is not in d bible. I still prayed until i heard a pastor on the radio confessing that he has been struggling with this habit even as he is married and he needs help.

Then it dawned on me that the earlier i stopped,the better for me! Another pastor referred to Romans 1 and God used that book to renew my mind forever and by God's grace i broke out from that chain and i detest it with passion.

Glory 2 God!

thank God for "ur" life. This is way better than saying "my friend", then "he" broke out from dat life. Like some Nlndrs would want us to believe.
Na baba God do am for u, no be by ur power.
Re: How God Delivered Me From Self-service by INJESUSITRUST: 12:02pm On Aug 12, 2013
edwardjr: yeah brother! So many men n women r enslaved by porn n masturbation bt God is merciful to deliver al. Amen!
you mean! Woman are also in this mess?
Re: How God Delivered Me From Self-service by INJESUSITRUST: 12:03pm On Aug 12, 2013
edwardjr: yeah brother! So many men n women r enslaved by porn n masturbation bt God is merciful to deliver al. Amen!
Re: How God Delivered Me From Self-service by Twist4u: 12:16pm On Aug 12, 2013
am happy for you bro.stay off porns and devise strong selfconciousness n control u will sure be fine.cheers
Re: How God Delivered Me From Self-service by Ezegozie(m): 8:09pm On Aug 12, 2013
why are most nigerians religion-maniacs and always live in guilt over nothing,

there is no authentic biblical or medical back-up to prove that masturbation is a sin.

Someone quotated Gen 38.9-10, but it shud be noted that the quotation isn't saying anything about masturbation. What Onan simply practised was COITUS INTERUPTUS and never masturbation. coitus interuptus is a situation whereby the man withdraws his penis frm the vagina just before he ejaculates to avoid getting her pregnant. So God killed Onan because he didn't want his brother's lineage to exist.
So save me the quotation and qouate something specific.

I also read where someone says if someone comes into the room where u are masturbating, wont u be ashamed?
Well there is what we call privacy. Sometimes we need privacy. ok let me ask U a question, making love with ur wife is not a sin but when somebody intrudes into ur room when u are having s.ex with ur wife, u will be ashamed. So we all needs privacy attimes.

Back 2 the OP, masturbation is good because it prevents U frm commiting fornication and adultery which are all sins. So i think U shud be giving testimony when u are delivered of the spirit of fornication and not when U are deliverd of masturbation.

Now let me ask U, if ur single and dont masturbate for about 2yrs, how will you resists the temptation of fornication when it comes?

for anyperson here who thinks those dat masturbate shud be hanged, who among you can vow never to have masturbated since he or she was born.

Even married couple masturbate. A wife can masturbate her husband vice versa.

So spare me the trash
Re: How God Delivered Me From Self-service by nelklyn(m): 1:13am On Aug 13, 2013
Truths be told mast**batn feels real good but I still feel it's immoral and one of the devil's 21st century tools and 95% of guys and ladies do it, you can pretend all you want. Don't judge yet, just read on.
I started mast**btng way too early like around 13. And by the time I was 17 I had up to 5 girlfriends if i count correctly and more gals still flocking around, Hey! What can I say, I mean i'm really handsome. Well all that didn't stop me from helping myself with authentic vaseline. Got to higher institution where I met this very beautiful girl that physically suits my requirements it still didn't stop me and plus the girl enjoyed self-servicing too more of like a "we did it together thing", dated more girls that still didn't change a thing. Then at a point I tried restraining myself several times but after like say 2 or 3 weeks I always wound up on the same top notch.
Well all that said and done, I've been clean for 4 months but mehn! It feels so difficult restraining especially since i've not had s*x for 6 months now. I'm always trying so hard to keep my eyes off beautiful girls so that I don't even start thinking of having s*x let alone start thinking of self-servicing and believe me these girls are making it so difficult for me.
I had to put this details here because some guy claimed he hasn't done it, which is hard to believe because it's a legend for most guys, then another said slow love making(i've had it all, slow and passionate, fast, rough and hard put it anyway you want it) and someone said getting married is the solution that's a totally wrong advice...marriage doesn't change anything and marriage isn't just about s*x. Another guy put up "Gen.38:9-10" Onan wasn't mast**btng he actually went in to his brother's wife and spilled it on the ground, so that doesn't justify that the Bible said anything about mast**batn. It's still not even in the ten commandments, which is one of the good reasons why I think the devil is advancing with technology.
Mast**btn might be good health-wise, reducing stress just as s*x does, being in your fantasy world with the most gorgeous lady that you can't have, not spending money and time wooing a lady and all that. But wait Oh! (guys) DON'T WE SEE THE POTENTIAL CHILDREN WE KILL?
It really takes God's GRACE, serious discipline and being occupied to overpower it's cravings.
I believe it is immoral.
Emmm! Judges what got y'all to say?...lol
Re: How God Delivered Me From Self-service by Revolva(m): 8:23am On Aug 13, 2013
omo @op lets chec ya fone...if we wont see some goo hardcore mojo..shit..ol boy make person hear word...jare
Re: How God Delivered Me From Self-service by edwardjr: 10:17am On Aug 13, 2013
Revolva: omo @op lets chec ya fone...if we wont see some goo hardcore mojo..shit..ol boy make person hear word...jare
bro.jus because many guys n ladies r porn fans doesnt min dat d rest does. Atimes ppl lik u mak me doubt if al humans hav brains.
Re: How God Delivered Me From Self-service by edwardjr: 10:28am On Aug 13, 2013
nelklyn: Truths be told mast**batn feels real good but I still feel it's immoral and one of the devil's 21st century tools and 95% of guys and ladies do it, you can pretend all you want. Don't judge yet, just read on.
I started mast**btng way too early like around 13. And by the time I was 17 I had up to 5 girlfriends if i count correctly and more gals still flocking around, Hey! What can I say, I mean i'm really handsome. Well all that didn't stop me from helping myself with authentic vaseline. Got to higher institution where I met this very beautiful girl that physically suits my requirements it still didn't stop me and plus the girl enjoyed self-servicing too more of like a "we did it together thing", dated more girls that still didn't change a thing. Then at a point I tried restraining myself several times but after like say 2 or 3 weeks I always wound up on the same top notch.
Well all that said and done, I've been clean for 4 months but mehn! It feels so difficult restraining especially since i've not had s*x for 6 months now. I'm always trying so hard to keep my eyes off beautiful girls so that I don't even start thinking of having s*x let alone start thinking of self-servicing and believe me these girls are making it so difficult for me.
I had to put this details here because some guy claimed he hasn't done it, which is hard to believe because it's a legend for most guys, then another said slow love making(i've had it all, slow and passionate, fast, rough and hard put it anyway you want it) and someone said getting married is the solution that's a totally wrong advice...marriage doesn't change anything and marriage isn't just about s*x. Another guy put up "Gen.38:9-10" Onan wasn't mast**btng he actually went in to his brother's wife and spilled it on the ground, so that doesn't justify that the Bible said anything about mast**batn. It's still not even in the ten commandments, which is one of the good reasons why I think the devil is advancing with technology.
Mast**btn might be good health-wise, reducing stress just as s*x does, being in your fantasy world with the most gorgeous lady that you can't have, not spending money and time wooing a lady and all that. But wait Oh! (guys) DON'T WE SEE THE POTENTIAL CHILDREN WE KILL?
It really takes God's GRACE, serious discipline and being occupied to overpower it's cravings.
I believe it is immoral.
Emmm! Judges what got y'all to say?...lol
bro. Ur spot on! i did al wat u mentiond man. Som myopic 'boys' think in d box dat 1 cant brk out of masturbatn bcoz of dia idiosyncratic view. Bro u can b wat u wnt by God's grace.
Re: How God Delivered Me From Self-service by edwardjr: 10:33am On Aug 13, 2013
albacete:

thank God for "ur" life. This is way better than saying "my friend", then "he" broke out from dat life. Like some Nlndrs would want us to believe.
Na baba God do am for u, no be by ur power.
yeah! I tried it myself in d past it didnt work until i invited God. Wit God al things r possible.

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