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Norahsthought:
Hey guys, so a little background story. I'm 25, finished school quite early (schooled abroad), and got a good headstart. I am pretty comfortable, I have a good job with a great growth trajectory. So really, I'm focused on my career right now and not particularly interested in starting a family soon.

So here's the real story. I have two male friends who have shown interest in marrying me. They are both doing very well and from equally good backgrounds. I initially wasn't interested in marriage (at least for now) but you know friends and family. I am not in love with any of them or even with anyone at the moment (I am a woman of war lol) but they are both great guys.

So my challenge now that I have decided to be open to marriage is this, how do I choose? Should I even listen to the advice of friends and family to open up to getting married to one of these men or should I just wait till when I feel ready? I need advice and please be nice.

Best case scenario break up with both sons of Adam and marry me... I can make your life sweet.

Stacyomolola:
Its not me

I retrieve my wow

Stacyomolola:
Ride on sis, i gat u, tho they are still coming for u

If that's you on ur dp wow....

egopersonified:
Abeg where. I can supply premium packaged organic Nigerian men to any location of your choice.

So you they sell human being.

All I have to tell you is... Be guided. I no they like vex for morning.i still they recover from the money my best friend dupe me. No let me pour anger for this page

Dreyton36:
And them kill ram for this agbero naming ceremony o

I suspect native fowl bros

angelEmade:
I know a male friend who does not ejaculate even with about 40 mins into se3x.
You know he told me about it, feeling worried that he is not normal
(He wasn't trying to have se3x with me ooo i watched him do it with my friend who is his girlfriend to believe it myself)
He wanted an advice from his medical student friend****me
If you wanna know the end of the story I was gonna ask him to speak with an Endocrinologist or hormonal expert
my friend (his own girlfriend) shouted back at me! she loves it that way...
#mypoint men and their sex wahala. why not accept yourself exactly the way you are. While my friend loves it that way...i am someone that might climax early during s33x... sometimes back in high school a male classmate brushed his hands past my chest. Stupid me i was not Oon bra cux i developed boobs late. Being a guy i fancy, the thoughts alone...ringing through my head. I climaxed.
so if your gonna spend anything more than 15mins on top someone's daughter...you will do everything on a sex doll. I ONLY NEED YOUR SPERM FOR MY BABY BIKO

Lol u funny ghan... Someone's daughter o. We have that in common o

MelaninSkinGirl:
I wish there more men like you . At the end of the day the brain is still alert and intact but gravity will pull down the b--utt--s and b-o--o-bs.

Lol. Funny but true. And am sure there are men like me. They are just drooling over bum b m. That's why you see more relationship issues on this site. If they went for brains would have been a different story entirely

Acmepreneur:
Women like me are many, just try not to pick girls that fix nails or like wigs and big hair. Fall for a simple girl

Are you one?

MelaninSkinGirl:
None taken dear, this era of the Instagram Slay Queens/Instagram Baddies has destroyed the female confidence.

Well I find brains more attractive than a few pounds of flesh on the bum. I love my woman smart

MelaninSkinGirl:

No offense o

That's because 90% of nigerians women don't date. They go into contract while the male dates himself. The rate at which am disgusted by ladies with sense of entitlement is off the charts.

MelaninSkinGirl:
Gosh guys be honest is this the beauty standard now? Massive bre....asticles, Liposuctioned/tummy tucked bellies and Brazilian Butt lift Butts? What about some of us with humble humble bre......articles, naturally flat bellies and humble butts??

Please appreciate natural beauty so that our girls do not resort to prostitution to finance fake bodies.

Humble butt part got me

MelaninSkinGirl:
Uhmmmmm every man that claims to be good is a fraud. Lessons have been learnt!

I never said I was perfect. Are you perfect?

MelaninSkinGirl:
Oh really?

100%

MelaninSkinGirl:
After stretching her out to the maximum, you then complain that it is like a battered daffodil. Then you start running around chasing secondary school girls. Shame on you.

I am that man in the haystack you searched

She said we should say the lords Prayer before sex

XhosaNostra:
This one guy I was dating was a biter, which I really didn't like, so I'd fiercely object to being bitten because I bruise easily & needless to say, it's painful/weird. He was so into it, that he wouldn't be able to climax unless he bit me & since that was out of the question, he'd ask me to bite him instead. So every time we'd get to it, I'd have to ready my teeth for a salty bite. It made me to dislike salt & vinegar flavoured chips because that's what he tasted like

Wawu.. He must be related to suarez

Toks2008:
In other words, Your Psy is for sale.

96 percent of ladies are all dogs.. At this rate ii don't think I will get married.

Iyiataata92:
He ''masturbates for a living''?
As in he masturbates and people pay him?
What a noble profession!!!

Savage

The kind of things I see on internet. I wish electronic slap they work

patrickslim:
Neatly used iPhone 7plus 128gb for sale! Price is negotiable
Everything in good condition
Location: Ikotun Lagos

Price. Do you accept swap and cash

I need a woman woman to complete me

Seen this babe at admiralty up close. All i can say is the brick layer when do her foundation no try at all.. D yansh look like simple pendulum... I couldn't stop laughing mhen... Have seen so many plastic surgery but babes own the brick layer no just like am

Do you have s7 edge

Abfinest007:
if this is d most beautiful girl in b.y it means bayelsa girls are ugly.no disrespect

Very ugly bro but wit big nyansh... Na there God epp their career.

Ineedtoheal:
Hi Famlanders, Please I need your advice. I beg you all to save a sister. I have to bring this here coz I know it's where I will get wonderful contributions. Again, I am using this new account coz I have friends and customers here. I don't want to blow my cover. Please this is real and not fiction. This will be quite lengthy, please bear with me.

I met this guy in 2013 when I was in year one. It was not a steady relationship coz we barely call nor see so I didn't take him serious. And whenever we see, it was always at one friends house or another. I accused him of being married but he vehemently denied it. Later on I figured out he had accommodation issue after he lost his job. He later rented a house when he got another job with one of our prestigious federal universities here in Nigeria and that was when things became serious (kinda).

We became very serious around 2016 that is why I count it as 5 years instead of 7. But then during one of my visits, I was sleeping in the room when I overheard him talking to someone but the only thing that caught my attention was when he said "I don't even have a girlfriend". Though I didn't confront him, but I thought about it deeply.

Two nights ago, I had a dream where he was getting married to another lady. I was crying while he was still saying he loves me but can't marry me. I confronted him yesterday, he said I am pressurizing him to marry me that was after he first asked what will happen if we don't end up together. He hasn't told me where the relationship is leading to after 5 years. We have been living for the moment. Just for the moment!

Few info about the relationship
1) He will be 40 this November while I am 27.
2. He has always had numerous girlfriends that when he's with them, he doesn't pick my calls though he always apologizes and he's trying his best this year.

3. He always send pictures of other women to his friends to let them know they are the people he wish to marry but never has he sent mine. Though he claims he's not doing it again.

4. From the look of things he's still searching while he wants to have me all to himself. Maybe a second option since the others are not accepting him and I love him foolishly.

5. The relationship is 50 -50 .We spend on each other. He believes it's the woman's duty to do all the house chores but not the man's duty to take care of the woman.

6. On his Fathers burial last year, 3 of his girlfriends came (me inclusive) and we all wore the burial uniform. Together, we served his guests even when we realized we are dating same man. His neighbors were giggling and gossiping but we all decided to be matured and work together.

7. When my sister that raised me died, he didn't come for the burial. his reason was he had supervision that day in school,same person that calls his colleague to cover for him during exam supervision so he could do other things. He also didn't send me any money but he questioned me for not giving him any money for his Father's burial. Even when I paid him excess for the burial uniform. I know why I did that. Mind you, he has asked me before if he can give one of his ex 10k during her Father's burial which I agreed and he sent her the money.

8. I have rejected some suitors who were willing to marry me coz of him. Though he has never encouraged me to accept any of them. In fact he gets angry hearing that another man is coming close to me.

9. He doesn't call often, I do more of the calling though he always return my calls. He can stay for days without calling unless I call. I know I have been the one holding the relationship coz I thought he will change.

10. Sine 2017 till last year, all I did was forgive him coz I love him. He keeps bringing new / different ladies into the picture. I have gone through a lot of emotional stress. He keeps asking me to stay that he loves me but he's confused.

His good side: He's understanding, motivates me to do my best, he doesn't hit me, he is gentle.

Me on the other hand is sometimes stubborn though very faithful coz I love him to a fault. I easily get angry but forgives easily. When I'm angry I talk so much but I don't abuse him. He is simply the cause of all my anger. He always say I am very understanding, a good girl, drama free but yet he doesn't want to marry me and won't let me go too. I have never involved a third party in our relationship except my late sister who said she wish I will walk away from the relationship because I love the guy more, that it won't end well. All my friends thinks I have a perfect relationship because I don't discuss him with them.

Back to last night, I told him I won't call him again coz he said I am pressurizing him to marry me. The truth is I have seen the hand writing on the wall, not today but two years ago but I keep going back. Please I need advice on how not to go back again. The love he proclaims for me is not enough for him to marry. I have wasted enough time already. Maybe hearing the raw truth here will help.

So when is the break up ceremony? I am ready o and can handle you sharp mouth. I have a mute button in my head. Contact me if you wanna settle

Beckysexy:
JAMB question
Does a man bear Rebecca?

Lol. What a world