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Your husband has been sexually assaulting your own daughter. And you don't know what to do. The pig belongs in jail.

Here is a letter to my rapist.


http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/03/letter-to-my-rapist.html

One thing, i have come to appreciate about this girl is that she keeps on going, despite all the back lash from people who have failed to do anything meaningful with their own lives, she has stayed true to herself. i credit her for trying. Here are some things every youth should know about what the world expects from you and how to attain youth development.


http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/03/youth-development-things-you-should-know.html

The saddest part of this whole thing, is that the nobody is talking about what he has made, how he made, and other ideas in that same spectrum, every body here is either talking about the money or giving excuses why they don;t need to apply themselves and achieve their goals.

when this guy was making this app, he wasnt thinking about 30 million dollars, he was trying to solve a problem, he wasn;t blaming the economy or other trivial things, he went ahead and did something, and that is exactly what he said, yet no one is talking in that line.
Read
http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/02/rules-of-life-in-youth-development.html

R.apis.t are usually 70% of the time people that are well trusted and looked up to and close to the victim.There are certain things every girl needs to know about rapist and how to prevent being molested. Read this post


http://wwww.elijahforce..com/2013/03/how-to-prevent-rape.html

There is no reason for a man to hit a woman, only a coward goes to hit someone who is defenseless, if your wife was taewondo trained and a black belter for real and she can beat you up, would you be quick to hit her?

Here are the signs that you might be in an abusive relationship.

http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/02/signs-of-abusive-relationship.html

His life would still be celebrated, he is an icon, he lived for something, he made a mark, if all youths would live like him , making marks in their respective field of work, then we would not be a developing country. Things have not fallen apart, as a mater of fact , things have never been so aligned.




Here is a post on getting things done in your life to become an achiever.

http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/02/getting-things-done-execution-of-youth.html

R.ap.e. cases are becoming more rampant nowadays even in a country where casual sex and prostitution abounds. It's time for you to learn how to prevent your self from being molested.


http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/03/how-to-prevent-rape.html



P.S: I think the moderators should remove this word change on r.AP.E, it is not a swear word and it is an issue that affects all ages from kids to adults. Stop this word change to molestation on the word, let any one be aware of it.please.

An abuser doesn't care whether his victim is in labour or pregnant, and you would see the signs in a potential abuser right from day one, such as this above comment

Tpave: Women dey Bleep up sometimes, big time my dear.

Here are signs to look out for to know if you are in an abusive relationship.

http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/03/how-to-get-out-ofan-abusive-relationship.html

here is a letter to my rapist
http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/03/letter-to-my-rapist.html

MacDaddy01: All that matters is the contract the teacher signed. No premarital sex. Period.

It doesn't matter how foolish the codes of the college are, what matters is that she entered into a binding contract with the college. I find it to be silly and hypocritical of christian colleges to be asking such of employees but there you go.

However, the school might have to amend its policies if the only way for them to identify premarital sex is through pregnancy. That there is a lawsuit for gender discrimination.

that is the main bone of contention here, there is really no way of knowing that a man is engaging in premarital sex, except he is caught red handed with pictures to prove it.

do these politicians know , it is 2013

most people know that gossiping is a bad habit, but they just can't help, same with other bad habits, here is a guide to overcome bad habits.

http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/03/getting-over-bad-habits.html

A struggling mother is mostly likely your mother, while a career woman is your wife.


http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/02/the-common-differences-between-wives.html

Killing someone over infidelity would only land you in jail , here is how to handle infidelity in marriage.


http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/02/how-to-handle-infidelity-and-adultery.html

It is better to be single than to marry people who are not supposed to be married. Here are 8 men to never marry.

http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/01/8-men-you-should-never-marry.html

i believe this letter from a womanizer would answer your question.http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/03/letter-from-womanizer.html

Everything in the world today, tends to revolve around sex and it's so overated. Here are lies about sex.



http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/01/lies-about-sex.html

little meaningless things are often what lead to great damage when you are in a relationship with an abusive person. Here are signs that you are in an abusive relationship.
http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/02/signs-of-abusive-relationship.html

well , i guess you have a point but these ladies are not worth risking anything over.

http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/02/8-ladies-to-never-marry.html

please do not stay in an abusive relationship hoping things would get better, it may not, here are signs that you are in one.

http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/03/how-to-get-out-ofan-abusive-relationship.html

Here are the best in Ado-ekiti
1. House of Faith-(Although there is a lot of emphasis on giving, it is a new generation church that would help you in times like this)
2.MFM- The place lacks a little in good music, but very good mostly in spiritual affairs such as deliverance and fervent prayers.
3.AGAPE- This is a branch of the main church in Akure, it is also just like house of faith, strategically positioned for youth development and destiny fulfilment.
4.Redemmed( Life Gate parish at adehun)complete church, they have a little of everything, messages are basically bible study
5.chapel of his glory- Old school church, (faith of our fathers living still).Lacks motivational enlightenments but very christlike
6.deeper Life_ like every other one in the country, holiness is our watchword, that;s all
6b. global harvest church- youth church , motivational and forward moving.
7. winners chapel- everybody's church including politicians and commissioners, aristos and all yet there are still good christians there, what you go there to find is what you would get, giving is also an emphasis though
8.christ embassy- Party church, good motivation for destiny fulfillment, but falls behind in christian living and holiness, in other words you might get lost in the church, there is also a little bit of pastor worship but very good for destiny fulfillment and healing

These are the churches on our radar in ado-ekiti, Grace covenant is also there but dont know much about them. CAC too is good but i had to remove it when one of the branches had issues with their pastor, i don't know what state they are now, that was some years ago though.
at poster, there is nothing like church prostitution, as far as christianity and the bible is concerned, every ministry has a specific calling, only redeemed comes closest to a complete church, even though redeemed is still more for salvation etc. you have to look inward and determine with the guidance of God, exactly what you need and the ministry to provide it, you may have to attend 2 or 3 ministries constantly. It would also prevent you from pastor worship,stagnancy and religious activities as against faith and the fruit of the spirit.
God bless you.

Well, the first thing you should do is prepare on how to handle the whole situation if he is indeed cheating, here is how to handle it.


http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/02/how-to-handle-infidelity-and-adultery.html

Secondly don't act suspicious at all, and don't change your attitude because he may not be caught if he knows that you are suspicious, you must also not rule out the fact that you may just be paranoid.

The incidences of molestation and rap.e are on the rise now than ever before, here are things you need to know about rape, types of r.a.p.ist and how to prevent yourself from r.ape. or molestation.

http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/03/how-to-prevent-rape.html



P.S I don't think the word " R.ap.e should be automatically changed to molestation, it is not a swear word, and the effects are very traumatic, we should make people, especially girls of all ages aware of it. Let there be a reasonable limit to words hiding and word change.

please stop using the word severally wrongly, it means separately not several times.

I think you should advise him to go and pray hard and maybe go for deliverance. It is obvious those family members are up to something, 30 in the eastern part of the country is not too old for a man even ladies get to thirty. The family members are clearly out to ridicule him and divert his attention from being something in life. He needs to snap out of that unhappiness and pray hard for GOd's revelation. Something is wrong somewhere.

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P.S 8 ladies to never marry.

http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/02/8-ladies-to-never-marry.html

if you ask me i think sex in itself is so overhyped , that it has led a lot of people into the wrong relationships and made a lot of people make bad choices. Here are some lies about sex.

http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/01/lies-about-sex.html

i think you should read this post before making any decision. It is a letter from a womanizer.


http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/03/letter-from-womanizer.html

Your question is misleading, not all men treat their wives badly, only a few. The signs are always obvious right before marriage, but some ladies still go ahead and put themselves in such marriages because they are afraid of being alone. Here are 8 kinds of men who would most likely treat you badly in a relationship.


http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/01/8-men-you-should-never-marry.html

@niceprof,

sorry about your loss but you have to understand that your wife would never be your mother, so don't put yourself or her under that kind of pressure, you are a man , man up.

Here is how your wife may be different from your mother.

http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/02/the-common-differences-between-wives.html