@OP - If your not interested in the "ugly disgusting rejected women" then good for you. I believe that those men who are with them have the freedom of choice, so why are you so worried about it

That first photo, your man is hardly a catch!!!  

That's a ridiculous generalisation!!!!! I know LOTS of black men who are dating very pretty ladies outside of their race.

Ijogz K:

No wonder your hair doesn't smell its your body that am complaining about

If you met me you certainly wouldn't be complaining about a smell from my body. If you read my post you would see that I said I SHOWER twice daily!!!!

toyemz:



see una big big heads

meanwhile is it not a fact that most guys in UK only bathe once a week?

excuse : too cold to bath

true or not?

It's just as cold where I am & I shower & wash my hair first thing in the morning before I leave for work & last thing at night before I go to bed.

phlame:


You are sick!!!

How did you come to that conclusion?

rhymz:

I have noticed a trend here especially when it comes to relationship matters, a lot of black women here are so unneccessarily combative and insecure. Tpia and Ms Chima have got to be the most jobless and annoying women I have met on NL. Every topic that talks about black male, black female or interracial relationships has them there quarrelling and bandying words with the male folks and sometimes even their fellow femalefolks. Like it behoves on them to defend black women or sth, na wa o.
The poster is not asking for he says he wants non-nigerian women that have dated or are at present [/b]your opinions, women wh[b]dating nigerian men to come out and give their views(honest ones not unneccessary hot exchange like o are hurting) about Nigerian men in relationships. That is clear enough na, all these talk about the poster being insecure, blabla are not needed, simple!!

E-Engineer:

@eiriegirl, i didnt ask u or r u elmA , dont u know where u r needed, piss off

I am giving my opinion like everyone else here on this thread, so you PISS OFF!!!!!

Bonga60, get rid of this guy, SERIOUSLY!!!!! Take some time out for just yourself & your son. You will meet someone when the time's right who wants to do things for you & give you things instead of this man who wants things from you & you a single mother!!!!!! CUT HIM OFF!

I'm married & I HATE asking my husband for money. I work but we have kids & I'd rather spend all of my money on the kids if i have to rather than ask him. Obviously there are times when I just have to swallow my pride & ask him to help out but he knows I would rather borrow money from somewhere else than ask him!!!

Ogaga4Luv:

[size=13pt]<sup>What about love. . . huh

I didn't expect you'll chase the husband you need to marry because of money but no love. . .my dear , i understand and feel what u mean . I dunno know u before but i just feel like meeting u online may be great privilege i got to speak with u . below your post i read someones post screaming Money!!! and i believe that is one reason u post this kind of respond . O yeah , i didn't disagree about having money before marriage . But ,one thing should be put first and that is sincere love ! . About 40% of damsels and women around the World single or married chase after money instead of building a strong love mind that would attract every other wealth and riches of the world . I have know people who got married but dunno really have enough but later as sooner life was okay , because they both planned well and put heads together to reach that great goal .

My point is in most cases damsels or women should not just put their eyes on only Money. . . the right man maybe there for u but because u though he doesn't have what u need for that moment u refuse to accept em .</sup> [/size]

Was that directed at me

E-Engineer:

@elmA, which country r u from? Or shld i say where did this happen, and do naija's hv a bad rep in relationships over there?

I'm not in Nigeria but Nigerians here have a REALLY bad reputation and I've heard about their bad reputations on the other side of the world from where I am!!!

pleep:

Michelin is fuckable.


@ topic women like men who beat them

WTF

@Bonga60 - I know it's not easy to rear a child alone, but believe me the hard work will be worth it when you get over the heartache of your ex leaving & you're in a better place. Think of the effect that this madness will have on your baby too!!! Let me tell you, kids know A LOT more than we give them credit for! Get rid of him & sort yourself out. If he's doing this on his wife, he's gonna do the same thing to you when he gets what he wants from you.

Ijogz K:

There is a serious demand for blacks currently, and the demand had seriously exceeded supply, I don't know about anyone here suffering from low self esteem, But there is crazzzy demand for me sha

Basildon1:

OP, here's a solution. Calmly reach into your trousers with your left hand and check if you have any balls there. (If it's one or zero, then i can understand). If really and truly, you have two, make sure you never call her back till she calls you to apologise and not pull that again!

claremont:

There are much more important issues for the Nigerian senate to worry about than dictating to human beings who they should/should not sleep with. True development in a society is measured by the way and manner it treats its minorities such as g-ays and/or l-esbians, and from the comments by supposedly highly educated persons on this thread, Nigeria has got a long way to go indeed!

MRbrownJAY:

this man has been using ONE woman to get what he wanted, and now that he has no need for her any longer, he is just trying to use another (you) to achieve other plans he has in mind. if you are hurt about how your baby daddy left you, then you best read the warning signs RIGHT NOW, because this DISHONEST man will drop you like a bad rash the minute he has gotten what he wants from you.

you are in a stage in your life where you are vulnerable, he knows it and clearly takes every advantage of that! this man will drop ALL HIS PROBLEMS on your head, the minute you guys are living together.

I totally agree. Something just doesn't sound right about all of this. I've been where you are now, left with a baby & it's not easy. You will find someone else, but when the time is right & you are ready!!! I think you need to take some time out of this madness & just concentrate on yourself & your baby boy.

Mrs, Chima:

The one that deported him.

E-Engineer:

i have noticed a particular trend in nairaland, many threads are popping up on how nigerian men are playing women of different races, this might be true but all threads like that paint a general negative image of all nigerian men

you see this so called non nigerian women lamenting about how they met this nice nigerian man and loved him for who he is bla bla bla, and after sometime they start noticing a character change in him and suddenly he leaves them all alone for his so called naija gf

some of these posters might even go to d extent of creating a new profile to contribute another pathetic untrue story to the thread, they even claim that naija men are even ugly but they still chose to love them,

in one such thread more than 20 different women gave their half baked misleading testimonies of their experience wit naija men

so pls i want to urge the truly beautiful non nigerian women[b][ because i kno those creeps are fat and gross] [/b]who still hv a healthy relationship wit a naija man to come here and debunk all this false generalizations and for once fill our minds wit positive things about naija men which is so hard to hear these days, u wld be surprised that these women migt be more numerous than the so called naija men victims

Who is the bolded referring to?