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you sound surprised to hear that men nag.dont be because she is very correct,some men can nag as hell

though i know its not easy for one to quit smoking that does not mean its impossible.by the way you sounded,i can tell that you really love your wife but that is not going to help matters.so what you have to do as some had advised,quit smoking so that you can assist her to do same.at this point, dont think of yourselves other than your unborn babies

mrs are you sure you are okay?i dont see why you should seek advice on NL when you have already given up hope on yourself.i can see you dont value your life not to talk of that of your child.if you do,no matter what your husband has done to break your spirit,you would have fought had to come out of it for i tell you,your husband does not deserve you dead or alive.so snap out of your stupor and see the bright future ahead of you.

pls my people do not take most of this story for granted.i once stayed with a married aunt but thee husband has two children from a previous marriage.can you believe that the mam had been having sex with his eldest daughter even before he got married to my aunt and they continued till the daughter had the boldness to stop?he did not take this lightly and threatened her.so she decided to get pregnant for another guy cos she was scared that maybe she had aborted all the babies in her worm which the father was responsible for.it was such a messy situation.
so i tell you,strange things happens

its very possible to hide a pregnancy till delivery without the madam knowing about it.my sister:s hose help got pregnant for a driver and my sis did not know untill it was seven month,and she got to know about it when some clothes were found in her school bag which she wanted to were at school to go for an abortion.thank GOD the baby is save and well.i wonder who fathered the child

you guys are giving me laugh here well as far as the married woman did not look at you seductively,i dont think you need to bother your head about what she is wearing.after all,she came out dressed from the house so if the husband thought the dressing or the sleevless is not good for his wife to put on,i think he would have told her to change up.so you dont go looking at what a married woman is wearing. better still,mind your own business.

its not that i dont get the monthly pay to stock up the house with food stuff,just that i feel i should be getting my own personal allawance

Pls my people, is it proper for a housewife to ask her husband for a monthly allowance since she is not working yet? All my married sisters in the house, I need your advice.

my dear dont starte what you can not finish because you want to please your wife.you just got marr
ied and i dont think your mother inlaw should move in permanently.and besides,a good mother cant move in with a married daughter or son to live with them.i dont think its wise my brother

i know it can be painful when you are being discriminated by a fellow human being just because of colour difference,but i still think if the man actually loves his wife,why hurt her feeling so much?if she is not like her folks and she cares about him,then he should accept things the way they are and hope that one day,it will get better.why should she go to her parents for financial assistance,what if he was married to a nigerian woman,will he want her to go and get financial help from her parents?so is it because she is from a rich home?in all, i just think she does not deserve all his bad mouth.

first of all your husband does not have the right to insult your parents because if he says he loves you and you have bore him children,why should he insult them?after allthey gave birth to you!!.any way, dont leave him due to that and i think you should let him know that he is hurting you deeply after all if he was married to a nigerian woman she would have insulted his own parent for him to know what it feels like.i hope with time your father will change his mind towards him.dont forget to let him know how you feel and hopefully things will work out well

my parents especially my mom did not give us any chance to mess around witout recieving a good beating with what every is close at hand

you should let him know that you dont agree with the date later next year.why dont you assit him with what ever he may need money for so that you and yur girl can get married now that you are ready to

i believe in spanknig a child when he or she is being naughty as far as the spanking was for a right reason.

udode you are very correct cos i tell you, there is nothing like do me i do you in marriage especially extramarital affair.a man can do it and get away with it,but that of a woman wont be taken lightly when everything is out in the open

you dont have to give up hope just yet without actually knowing whatz up.so i still think you should hear what he has to say before you take any decision or, maybe your suspicion is due to language barrier that is why you are suspecting him.

am so sorry that you have to go through all the pains.but you should know that when you are dealing with a nigerian man,you have to be very careful and scutinize what he says if its true or false.this does not mean that there are not sincere nigerian men oh!!! wha i want to know is,how did you find out about the truth?who ever told you was probably helping you to see the man you are dealing with clearly.try and really get to know the truthf rom him then you can make the decision yourself if you still want to remain a fool or become a wise woman before you hurt more than you have already.

i agree with you my sister

so girl you really need to sweet mouth, cajole,beg as well as cry for them to agree.they definately do not hate you and they are not your enermies.so i assure you that it will work out for you

i will never advice anyone to goe married without the parents consent because it is very dangeriouse to do so.i can remember when my husband proposed to me and i told my sisters about it, none of them agreed to it cos they thought i was too young and that his place was not okay with them.but with all the problems on their side it was my mom blessing that mattered and the marriage took place without any cause for alarm.that is to say one needs the blessings of parents.just cant help it girl!!!

this interesting cos my kids have been sleeping with me till now.but there is need to seperate kids when they are of age before they start showing their whay mummy and daddy have been doing.GOD abeg!!!!

and you have to stop taking her to the fast food joint cos you are making her to think she can have her way at all times.its time to put your foot down

have you really taken time to to with her?if you have tried all thing and it is still the same,then you need a marriage councel and pls, dont try to protect the kids from there mom cos she is going to need all the love and support to pull out of the predicament.

sparta, at times the dad are cool headed with the kids but you know how it is,the mom;s relationship is more important to children

wow!!! what ever the case may be,your friend should let the past go and allow his brother to be happy.i think the lady was not his to be,that is why it did not work out between him and her.at tis point he should not be selfish by thinking about himself alone because of what he went through,but realize that what ever decision he takes will affect others.after all,its possible that he might tell the brother and he will still go ahead with the wedding

anytime i get to hear such story about babies being murdered by their own parents it breaks my heart because if a child is killed by the people they should trust the most,i wonder what others will do.its so sad.

hi emilyone, what would you really advice this sister to do in this situation