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FamilyRe: Pregnant Woman Poses For Maternity Photos With Co-Wife And Husband (Pictures) by Ekrenji: 3:26pm On Jan 03, 2025
Nice one, if the love is genuine!
IslamRe: What You Should Know About The Sacred Month Of Rajab? by Ekrenji: 1:07pm On Jan 03, 2025
Okay
CrimeRe: Bishop Shina Olaribigbe Stabbed To Death During Couple’s Fight In Osun by Ekrenji: 10:34am On Jan 03, 2025
Too bad. A clergyman should not visit someone of opposite sex alone, the Bishop should have gone with his wife for the visitation.
IslamRe: Can We Do Nikaah With Pregnancy? by Ekrenji: 3:35pm On Dec 14, 2024
doffman:
Give us evidence that you can marry someone you impregnated ? Simple as abc

You think you are wise 😀😀😀
Now you have agreed that the Quran and the Hadith never said that you can’t marry someone you impregnated, your scholars were just fabricating things. Thank you
IslamRe: Can We Do Nikaah With Pregnancy? by Ekrenji: 2:08pm On Dec 14, 2024
doffman:
Give us evidence we should impregnate a woman before marrying her ?
Give us evidence that you can’t marry someone you impregnated

😀Muslims used both Quran and Hadith . Know that and have peace nah .

Hadiths is like an explanation of Quran in details
Then give us the evidence from the Quran and Hadith that u can’t marry someone you got pregnant
IslamRe: Can We Do Nikaah With Pregnancy? by Ekrenji:
doffman:
You people are worst than devil himself 😀

He has already told you in the follow up post :

The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “No man should be alone with a woman unless there is a mahram with them.” Narrated by al-Bukhaari (1862) and Muslim (1341). And he (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “No man is alone with a woman but the Shaytaan is the third one present.” Narrated by al-Tirmidhi (1171) and classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi.

Allah says (interpretation of the meaning):
And come not near to unlawful sex. Verily, it is a Fahishah (i.e. anything that transgresses its limits: a great sin, and an evil way that leads one to hell unless Allah Forgives him).” [al-Isra 17:32]

And the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “No adulterer is a believer at the time when he is committing adultery” Narrated by al-Bukhari (2475) and Muslim (57).

See the bolded,

When you impregnated a woman before marriage , Definitely you are not her mahram.

And when your do that , you have done unlawful sex .

Now , give us verse that say we should do the opposite ?
You have refused to provide either the Quran verses or Hadith that forbid someone from marrying whom he impregnated’

Where did your scholars get that idea from?
IslamRe: Can We Do Nikaah With Pregnancy? by Ekrenji: 12:58pm On Dec 14, 2024
doffman:
Go back to what op wrote and open your eyes very well.

It is not a new thing that God did not permit fornication in the pretext of marriage . If you want to marry , try and marry nah; must you taste every woman before you marry her ?

Islam forbids it and what is your own problem with it ?

Do you want to impregnate a woman before you will marry her officially ni?
Why don’t you show us where allah said in the Quran that you can’t marry a woman you impregnated or the hadith where Mohammed said the same and not the opinion of your scholars?
IslamRe: Can We Do Nikaah With Pregnancy? by Ekrenji: 8:07am On Dec 14, 2024
doffman:
😀 What is this one saying ?
Pronouncement of what ?
Let me get your point clearly before I will give you your own size.
All the above rulings on not doing nikkah while pregnant, were they given by Mohammed or by your scholars who came many years after Mohammed had died?

Did they also receive inspiration from Jibril or Mohammed appeared to them in the dream to give the the new rulings?
IslamRe: Can We Do Nikaah With Pregnancy? by Ekrenji: 6:58pm On Dec 13, 2024
doffman:
Who take a fool serious !

😀😀 you know , you are a pagan .

Muslims do not value your ignorant ideas and we do not care . Stay with your man made religion without direction .

Let it pain you more , we are Muslims and we are happy .
He asked an honest question and you are insulting him. Did your prophet give that pronouncement or were they given by your religious scholars who never met Mohammed?
PoliticsRe: How Afe Babalola Made Dele Farotomi Global: Man Explains (photos& Video) by Ekrenji: 1:06pm On Dec 06, 2024
Glimpsetv:
A man has taken to social media to explain how Afe Babalola inadvertently made Dele Farotomi a global sensation by arresting him.

According to the man, while Afe Babalola may have had a legal case against Dele Farotomi, the way he handled the situation backfired. Instead of silencing Farotomi, it brought global attention to the very issues Babalola was trying to suppress.

The man explained that Farotomi's book about Afe Babalola, which led to his arrest, has now gained worldwide recognition. Interest in the book has skyrocketed, making it a bestseller globally. Originally priced at $4, the book is now selling for as much as $17 on Amazon.

He warned Babalola to tread carefully, emphasizing that this generation is vastly different and more outspoken than previous ones.

Watch and listen.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5VrY-SARAxg?si=7tD4o4f1p-1o52VG
He may end up using all the money to pay Afe Babalola for defamation
PoliticsRe: Electricity Subsidy To Hit ₦‎2.4 Trillion By Year-End – FG by Ekrenji: 1:00pm On Dec 06, 2024
When they start giving you this kind of information, prepare for subsidy removal be that
IslamRe: Some Cultural Practices Islam Frowns At In Yorubaland! by Ekrenji: 12:59pm On Dec 06, 2024
Bubu4Sea:
Why should yorubas put Islam above their culture?

There is no place in the quoran that God spoke to mohammed, so how do we know who spoke to him?

In fact since he didn't hear from God, what makes him a prophet
Allah did not speak to Muhammed, Jibril did. Muslims can’t ask why
IslamRe: Some Cultural Practices Islam Frowns At In Yorubaland! by Ekrenji: 10:44am On Dec 06, 2024
So Islam forbids children from honoring their parents by prostrating and kneeling to greet them because that would imply that they are worshiping their parents? That is ridiculous. So your god doesn’t read your mind to know your intent that honoring your parents is different from worshiping them?

The Arabs never valued their parents, at any slight opportunity, they talk about sacrificing their parents including Mohammed

Sahih al-Bukhari 4055
Narrated Sa`d bin Abi Waqqas:
The Prophet (ﷺ) took out a quiver (of arrows) for me on the day of Uhud and said, "Throw (arrows); let my father and mother be sacrificed for you."
IslamRe: Rights Of A Wife Over The Husband In Islam! by Ekrenji: 10:32am On Dec 06, 2024
What evidence do we have that Prophet Muhammad spent on his wives? They complained that they didn’t have clothes to wear even during their monthly flow, they did not have another garment to change to, they were using saliva to remove blood spots from their clothes.

Sahih al-Bukhari 312
Narrated `Aisha:
None of us had more than a single garment and we used to have our menses while wearing it. Whenever it got soiled with blood of menses we used to apply saliva to the blood spot and rub off the blood with our nails.
IslamRe: A Disgraceful Practice Among Couples by Ekrenji: 4:42pm On Nov 29, 2024
asaajuomo1:
In the hadith you quote, did the Prophet (SAW) discussed woman anatomy?
Did he tell his companions that he had sex or not? So anytime you have sex with your wife, it is okay to go and blow the trumpet to your friends?
PoliticsRe: FG Cancels Foreign Trainings For Nigerian Scholars by Ekrenji: 12:26pm On Nov 29, 2024
Nawa o
AutosRe: Man Summons Car Dealer To Devil Shrine For Scamming Him (Photos) by Ekrenji: 4:09pm On Nov 27, 2024
Wonders shall never cease
RomanceRe: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by Ekrenji: 9:00pm On Nov 23, 2024
TheBillyonaire:
Ownership of kids are to the father except they answer the mother's name. As long as the title is legally the male, then children belong to the father by law. It is not supposed to be so.
If the child truly belongs solely to the father according to the law, then there won’t be need for contesting who should have custody of under 18 children after the divorce of their parents, the law would have given the right of custody to the father straight away
RomanceRe: Nigerian Man Cancels Wedding Over N3.5m Bride Price List (photos) by Ekrenji: 5:24pm On Nov 23, 2024
TheBillyonaire:
Are you honest? I want to assume that you nairalanders are either too removed from reality or just kids. How much is the price of a used car?

You hardly see a good used car at less than 15m naira. Are you saying a woman that will love you and give birth to your kids that are raised by their parents in this bad economy will be given out to you at cheap cos it is supposed to be free?

When you all raise, train and educate your little girls, you can give them to men who are not worth shit. If a man does not know the value of a woman, he can as well be gay.
How are children the kids of men only and not their kids (both the man and the woman)

When it comes to enjoying benefits of the children, you won’t say that the children belong to only the man but when it comes to things like this you will say women give birth to children for men!
IslamRe: Forcing A Christian Wife To Become Muslim & Why You Should Not Marry A Kitaabi? by Ekrenji: 3:38pm On Nov 22, 2024
egunna:
hello sir, you are foreign body in that section.ppl in that section are already conversant with certain practices and teaching.thats the assumption.in the event that there is anything you don't understand, you can ask nicely and you most likely get an answer.no b everything be ya ya ya ya.
The post is in the front page and not “in that section”
IslamRe: Forcing A Christian Wife To Become Muslim & Why You Should Not Marry A Kitaabi? by Ekrenji: 2:07pm On Nov 22, 2024
ILoveNG:
One religion forbids one gender from marrying nonbelievers
One religion forbids both gender from marrying nonbelievers

Which religion is more radical? 😂
Ask your conscience that question. To whom brain is given, sense is expected 😂

One religion says don’t take from them and don’t let them take from you

The other one said take from them but don’t let them take from you.


You can apply sense to answer it now
IslamRe: Forcing A Christian Wife To Become Muslim & Why You Should Not Marry A Kitaabi? by Ekrenji: 2:06pm On Nov 22, 2024
rapheal5:
It’s self explanatory, is just that ur quick approach to fight back against the quoted post won’t let you copy the verse that shows the reason behind the one you quoted to fight back…. I will help you in full..
You must not intermarry with them. Do not let your daughters and sons marry their sons and daughters, for they will lead your children away from me to worship other gods. Then the anger of the Lord will burn against you, and he will quickly destroy you.” I’m sure you know what other gods means, they are idol worshippers.
IslamRe: Forcing A Christian Wife To Become Muslim & Why You Should Not Marry A Kitaabi? by Ekrenji: 12:46pm On Nov 22, 2024
rapheal5:
How is an hypocrite defined?

Deuteronomy 7:1-4
When the LORD your God brings you into the land that you are entering to possess, and He drives out before you many nations—the Hittites, Girgashites,
Amorites, Canaanites, Perizzites, Hivites, and Jebusites, seven nations larger and stronger than you— and when the LORD your God has delivered them over to you to defeat them, then you must devote them to complete destruction. Make no treaty with them and show them no mercy. Do not intermarry with them. Do not give your daughters to their sons or take their daughters for your sons, because they will turn your sons away from following Me to serve other gods. Then the anger of the LORD will burn against you, and He will swiftly destroy you.
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Many Christians are hypocrites!

You know Islam also recognized Torah, if you say no then you are wrong. You are wrong because Islam rated Musa and Ibrahim ahead of any prophet before Mohammed….The first 6 books was Torah given to Musa most ever respected prophet by Mohammed….Deuteronomy you quoted is one of the books given to him by God a long time ago before Christianity…Deuteronomy wasn’t written by any Christian or Jesus disciples, It has been given to Musa/ in existence before the birth of Jesus and before Christianity came to existence, that’s why I laugh when Muslims claimed all the prophet before mohammed practice Islam meanwhile it was 600 years after bible was written before the birth of Islam and existence of mohammed…Get your fact right before you quote me evidence plenty…..
Did you miss this part in your own post?
“ Do not intermarry with them. Do not give your daughters to their sons or take their daughters for your sons,” ?

But Islam said marry their daughters but don’t marry off your own daughters to them.

Islam sees Jews and Christians as the people of the book which means that they see them as their predecessors in worship of God and not as idol worshippers, so why would you want to marry their daughters and not allow your own daughters marry them?
IslamRe: Forcing A Christian Wife To Become Muslim & Why You Should Not Marry A Kitaabi? by Ekrenji: 12:42pm On Nov 22, 2024
ILoveNG:
Nah 1 - 1 😂

All of you nah hypocrites
Did you miss the part where it said don’t give your daughters to them and don’t marry theirs too? That is balanced

But Islam said marry their daughters but don’t marry off your own daughters to them.

Islam sees Jews and Christians as the people of the book which means that they see them as their predecessors in worship of God and not as idol worshippers, so why would you want to marry their daughters and not allow your own daughters marry them?
IslamRe: Forcing A Christian Wife To Become Muslim & Why You Should Not Marry A Kitaabi? by Ekrenji: 10:57am On Nov 22, 2024
egunna:
if you want to know y, just ask
Do we need to ask before the op puts out his explanation?
IslamRe: Forcing A Christian Wife To Become Muslim & Why You Should Not Marry A Kitaabi? by Ekrenji: 10:56am On Nov 22, 2024
egunna:
you come into the section reserved for Muslims and lie your way in.you go ahead and twist what someone has posted and calling them useless. What do we call your actions?
What did I twist?
IslamRe: Forcing A Christian Wife To Become Muslim & Why You Should Not Marry A Kitaabi? by Ekrenji: 10:55am On Nov 22, 2024
AntiChristian:
But when Yahweh says something similar then you use another yardstick to measure Yahweh!

How is an hypocrite defined?

Deuteronomy 7:1-4
When the LORD your God brings you into the land that you are entering to possess, and He drives out before you many nations—the Hittites, Girgashites, Amorites, Canaanites, Perizzites, Hivites, and Jebusites, seven nations larger and stronger than you— and when the LORD your God has delivered them over to you to defeat them, then you must devote them to complete destruction. Make no treaty with them and show them no mercy. Do not intermarry with them. Do not give your daughters to their sons or take their daughters for your sons, because they will turn your sons away from following Me to serve other gods. Then the anger of the LORD will burn against you, and He will swiftly destroy you.


Many Christians are hypocrites!
Are those people in the verses above also people of the book? Why will you refer to people as the people of the book, same book you deceive yourselves that you also believe in and at the same time you hate same set of people?
IslamRe: Forcing A Christian Wife To Become Muslim & Why You Should Not Marry A Kitaabi? by Ekrenji: 10:14am On Nov 22, 2024
AntiChristian:
Marrying a Christian is not even feasible for a Muslim.

She will do her worship and you must not help her in it. You can't take her to church if you have a ride! You can't help her in anything regarding her religion! And your kids are to be prevented from Christianity!

She may want to eat pork or drink alcohol or other haram things which are forbidden!

She may want copulation during menses!

She may want to hang crosses or Christian souvenir around the house which is against how an islamic home should be!

And the kids can't be kept from their mother especially at the infancy stage. So she'll take them to church!

And it is forbidden to force her to Islam.
This post is full of hate, why do you guys lie that Islam is the religion of peace for God’s sake? Kai!

The summary of the useless thing you wrote up there is that Muslims should hate Christians for being Christians. May God heal you of hatred!
IslamRe: Forcing A Christian Wife To Become Muslim & Why You Should Not Marry A Kitaabi? by Ekrenji: 10:12am On Nov 22, 2024
Mightymanna:
You can't pray for her when passed away too.
What is the purpose of such prayers? To undo all the bad things she djd while alive?
IslamRe: Forcing A Christian Wife To Become Muslim & Why You Should Not Marry A Kitaabi? by Ekrenji: 10:11am On Nov 22, 2024
Rashduct4luv:
It is not permissible for you to force your Christian wife – if you do marry her as a Christian – to become Muslim.

Allah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“There is no compulsion in religion. Verily, the Right Path has become distinct from the wrong path. Whoever disbelieves in Taghut [falsehood, false gods] and believes in Allah, then he has grasped the most trustworthy handhold that will never break. And Allah is All-Hearer, All-Knower.” [Al-Baqarah 2:256]

Ibn Kathir said:
“Allah says: “There is no compulsion in religion ” meaning: do not force anyone to enter Islam, for it is obvious and clear, and its proof and evidence are apparent. There is no need to force anyone to enter it, rather whomever Allah guides to Islam and opens his heart to it and illuminates his insight will enter it with conviction; but whoever Allah makes blind in his heart and seals his hearing and insight will not benefit from being compelled to enter the religion by force. They said that the reason for the revelation of this verse was concerning some people among the Ansar, even though this ruling is general.” (Tasfieer Ibn Kathir, 1/311)


Why a Muslim man should not marry a Kitaabi lady?
Although we say that it is permissible for a Muslim male to marry a chaste Jewish or Christian lady, and we do not doubt that there is a clear text concerning that, nevertheless we do not think that a Muslim should marry a kitaabi woman (a woman of the people of the Book), for several reasons:

1 – One of the conditions of marriage to a kitaabi woman is that she should be chaste, but there are very few chaste women to be found in those environments.

2 – One of the conditions of marriage to a kitaabi woman is that the Muslim man should be in charge of the family. But what happens nowadays in that those who marry women from kaafir countries marry them under their laws, and there is a great deal of injustice in their systems. They do not recognize a Muslim’s authority over his wife and children, and if the wife gets angry with her husband she will destroy his household and take the children away, with the support of the laws of her land and with the help of their embassies in most countries. It is no secret that the Muslim countries have no power to resist the pressure of those countries and their embassies.

3 – The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) encouraged us to look for Muslim wives who are religiously committed. If a woman is Muslim but is not religiously committed and of good character, then the Muslim is not encouraged to marry her, because marriage is not simply the matter of physical enjoyment only, rather it is the matter of Allah’s rights and the spouse’s rights, and preserving his household, his honour and his wealth, and bringing up his children. How can a man who marries a kitaabi woman be certain that his sons and daughters will be raised according to Islam when he is leaving them in the hands of this mother who does not believe in Allah and associates others with Him?

Hence even though we say that it is permissible to marry a kitaabi woman, it is not encouraged and we do not advise it, because of the negative consequences that result from that. The wise Muslim should choose the best woman to bear his children and think in the long term about his children and their religious upbringing. He should not let his desire or worldly interests or transient outward beauty blind him to reality; true beauty is the beauty of religious commitment and good morals.

He should realize that if he forsakes these type of women for the sake of that which is better for his religious commitment and that of his children, Allah will compensate him with something better, because “Whoever gives up something for the sake of Allah, Allah will compensate him with something better than that, as the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) told us, the one who speaks the truth and does not speak of his own whims and desires. Allah is the source of strength and the One Who guides to the Straight Path.

Note that a Muslim female is forbidden to marry a non-Muslim!
And Allah knows best.
The last sentence got me rolling on the floor. A Muslim female shouldn’t marry a non-Muslim but a Muslim man can marry a non-Muslim from the Christians and Jews and convert her but not with force!
You guys are experts at dishing out what you can’t take. Hahaha
IslamRe: Forcing A Christian Wife To Become Muslim & Why You Should Not Marry A Kitaabi? by Ekrenji: 10:07am On Nov 22, 2024
It’s another Friday. TGIF

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